So I'm an 28yr old aquarius and he is a 28yr old saggitarius. We met in high school and we both had a crush on each other. We rarely talked bc we were not in the same social group. 11yrs later we find each other on facebook. We start talking and a few months went by. We both have been hurt deeply from our past relationships but we decide to go on a date. He didn't do a lot of talking but he was a fine gentlemen. Next couple dates consisted of us staying at his place watching movies and drinking. We had sex on our third encounter. I'm a bit more full of craving sexual attention than he is. Well a few days later he calls me up fustrated that his ex just came by to grab her stuff. I was so confused he told me in the begining that its been 2 yr since hes been a relationship at that he hasn't had sex this year. The house he moved in he's only been at for 10mo. So I start asking question and the truth starts pouring out, that he was dating someone and she just moved out a few months ago. I forgave his lie and we decided to continue our relationship. He wanted to meet my 6yr old son so we went out for pizza. The waitress was flirting with him and he called her darling and it made me upset. So I told him not to leave a tip. I tried to speak with him after that I did not appreciate him calling other women darling and such. He got upset and dropped my son and I off at home. He said he was most upset that I behaved like that in front of my son on the day that he was first meeting him. I have shoved in his face a couple times about his ex and how I'm having a hard time trusting him. He did not like this and got upset. The other day we went to red box and he chose both movies. I was like you picked both movies with out me why? He told me he can put one back I told him it was fine and walked to his truck. He got in a threw the movies on the dash board. I tried to talk to him and he yelled at me and told me to go home. I was shocked to see him have such a temper. I got him to calm down when he then explained he was afraid he ruined the night so he just of rather ended it. The next we were on the phone and I voiced my concern about his temper he said he will control it. So I asked him is there something I should work on. Than he started sharing examples of me and the pizza lady and bringing up his ex and how I have an attitude problem and the more he talked the angry he got. I tried to calm him down but than he went into that he drinks to much to be around my son and my family will just see him as an alcoholic.. I was again shocked. He told me he needed space and to calk him back in 15min which I did but no answer and he texted me he didn't want to talk. Two days later of him not responding to my text or calls he finally responds to my last text to him but what he says im not sure how to feel about it he wrote "I still believe in is, porn doesn't even get me off anymore only you do. I miss you." I think he might be drunk but still wtf, how unromantic was that!? I don't know what to do anymore. Any suggestions?
