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Posted by bluemoon9043834
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I've seen Aries female knife both Leo and sag females.

There's something about Aries women and their extreme jealousy coupled with the need to be number one in everything.. You figure it out and you understand why they do what they do



yeah the aries in question is super competitive. yeah now that i think about some things, shes even in competition with our virgo friend. lol, but virgos doesnt even know it.




I am curious to hear from your Saggie "wisdom/philosophical smarts". What am I competing for and why?

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i have no idea. this thread wasnt about you.
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Posted by DMV
Posted by bluemoon9043834
I am curious to hear from your Saggie "wisdom/philosophical smarts". What am I competing for and why?



i have no idea. this thread wasnt about you.
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Exactly!
Yet she chose to try and make it so. Bitterness and resentment are self-destructive powers. Best to ignore it and not get caught in its nasty vortex of negativity.


Now back to the point of this thread.....

DMV, it's good that you've distanced yourself from the friendship to think about the situation before making a decision. At the end of the day, if a friend can't grant you the courtesy of respect, they are not deserving of your friendship. As difficult as it can be, sometimes it's necessary to let go of people.
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Posted by DazedScorp
It's prob because a lot of saggys can be hard headed and don't listen to the information you put in from of them.

It's their way or the highway. Never at fault.

The only way to get through is by repeating yourself until they hear you.

And if they still don't listen, you scare the fuck out of them until they cry.



Are you talking about your roommate?

Maybe you should get an aries one?

I've heard they are better than sags
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Posted by DazedScorp
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Are you talking about your roommate?

Maybe you should get an aries one?

I've heard they are better than sags



Yes, I'm referring to my roommate.

And my last roommate was an Aries. He was also very childish also and we had money issues...

But we are still friends and we still hang out.

The ex was also an Aries.

I enjoy Aries very much, but I have seen what DMV is taking about and it's very frustrating.

At least Aries can shut the fuck up and listen to your half of the argurment without butting in or screaming over you, even when their arguement has nothing to do with the situation.

Once again...prime example = Beccy

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Well remember as the saying goes we all aren't the same 🙂
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Also, your little facade of how "intelligent" you want people to think you are...I'm not buying it.
Half the shit you say doesn't even make sense.

You're a lap dog.
Run along now, blue probably has a milkbone for you...I gots nothing for your ass


I guess his dick is too small^^
what a sad boy.
no one is buying this shit.
fucking no one.
he is not intelligent. he is just hilarious 🙂
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You'r infatuated to tiny dicks? Daddy complex i presume ?Do i take you seriously nope .Go back playing with your daddy's underwear stupid bitch
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The batman isn't a fan of us either ^



I hate flaky ,flighty ones.Sorry i dont suffer idiots like dmv .I like mebs,littlearcher ,kits etc .i dont hate sags in general ,but i dont like them either 🙂



I see
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I meant i dont like sags like DMV (so its not taken out of context),but dont hate her either
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Ew. Isn't Bluemoon that beastly looking gay chick who hits on all the women on the Scorpio board like a creep??

I thought she was an astro buff, but any points I thought she might have had totally went out the window. How you can be that into astro and be so biased, to the point of bitter ugliness? smh lol


Anyway, DMV. Clearly you love her and she serves a purpose in your life. You have to either accept her for what she does serve, and ignore the rest, or decide that her 'bad' doesn't outweigh the good.

Honestly, think about the crap you've put up with from boyfriends? Sometimes we're MUCH harder on our girlfriends, but will take endless betrayal from a bf. Just food for thought..

For me, that shit would never go down. My friends don't get down like that, but for you, she already is a friend. Like I said, weigh it out. Expecting her to change that part of her is futile.
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Posted by MsPisces.
Ew. Isn't Bluemoon that beastly looking gay chick who hits on all the women on the Scorpio board like a creep??

I thought she was an astro buff, but any points I thought she might have had totally went out the window. How you can be that into astro and be so biased, to the point of bitter ugliness? smh lol


Anyway, DMV. Clearly you love her and she serves a purpose in your life. You have to either accept her for what she does serve, and ignore the rest, or decide that her 'bad' doesn't outweigh the good.

Honestly, think about the crap you've put up with from boyfriends? Sometimes we're MUCH harder on our girlfriends, but will take endless betrayal from a bf. Just food for thought..

For me, that shit would never go down. My friends don't get down like that, but for you, she already is a friend. Like I said, weigh it out. Expecting her to change that part of her is futile.



That's exactly what I was saying and I agree 100% with everything you said here
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Posted by MsPisces.
Ew. Isn't Bluemoon that beastly looking gay chick who hits on all the women on the Scorpio board like a creep??

I thought she was an astro buff, but any points I thought she might have had totally went out the window. How you can be that into astro and be so biased, to the point of bitter ugliness? smh lol


Anyway, DMV. Clearly you love her and she serves a purpose in your life. You have to either accept her for what she does serve, and ignore the rest, or decide that her 'bad' doesn't outweigh the good.

Honestly, think about the crap you've put up with from boyfriends? Sometimes we're MUCH harder on our girlfriends, but will take endless betrayal from a bf. Just food for thought..

For me, that shit would never go down. My friends don't get down like that, but for you, she already is a friend. Like I said, weigh it out. Expecting her to change that part of her is futile.



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Even if one of my besties did sleep with an ex or whatever, depending on the circumstances, I could not see me totally deading her over that. We have carnal desires that are sometimes hard to ignore. While I would def be pissed as hell, I couldn't see me ending a friendship that has served me SO well for MANY years, over something so inconsequential (in the grand scheme of things)

IDK, perhaps I'm just talkin out my ass lol But seriously, my friends mean too much to me to let dick get in between. Hey, sometimes your friend just might be better for that ex of yours lol
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Posted by MsPisces.
Ew. Isn't Bluemoon that beastly looking gay chick who hits on all the women on the Scorpio board like a creep??

I thought she was an astro buff, but any points I thought she might have had totally went out the window. How you can be that into astro and be so biased, to the point of bitter ugliness? smh lol


Yeah, Ms Cleo wannabe...lol...hit her up if you want your aspects googled and regurgitated. 🙂

Posted by MsPisces.

Anyway, DMV. Clearly you love her and she serves a purpose in your life. You have to either accept her for what she does serve, and ignore the rest, or decide that her 'bad' doesn't outweigh the good.

Honestly, think about the crap you've put up with from boyfriends? Sometimes we're MUCH harder on our girlfriends, but will take endless betrayal from a bf. Just food for thought..

For me, that shit would never go down. My friends don't get down like that, but for you, she already is a friend. Like I said, weigh it out. Expecting her to change that part of her is futile.
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Posted by MsPisces.
Thoughts?


Is our ego at the root? Or does it really mean that person is a horrible friend? Like what if you can count on her for anything in the world, besides that one flaw of hers? Is that flaw indicative of a horrible character, thus ruining any potential for a 'real' friendship? Or are egos regarding sexual conquests more important than anythng else?

lol IDK...

Its the GF code,, no fucking around with boyfriends and ex's.


+1

Its that simple..
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I agree as well. There's millions of dudes out there. No need to go after a friend's ex
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Posted by MsPisces.
Well I know its GF code, but why is that one rule SO imortant and trumps all others? Actually, there are no other rules in the GF code handbook lol


Anyway, I get it. Just in a fake deep mode 😛



Lol I don't think it's the worse offense in the world...but it's up there.
I think it's more like the final straw type of incident.

If she does it once, but the rest of our friendship has been meaningful I wouldn't cut her off over just that.
But if she's a self-centered asshole and does inconsiderate shit all the time...yeah she's dead me for a while.
& regardless if I make peace and get over it...she'll never be allowed to hold that same place of importance in my life again.
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Posted by MsPisces.
Thoughts?


Is our ego at the root? Or does it really mean that person is a horrible friend? Like what if you can count on her for anything in the world, besides that one flaw of hers? Is that flaw indicative of a horrible character, thus ruining any potential for a 'real' friendship? Or are egos regarding sexual conquests more important than anythng else?

lol IDK...



u know when it comes to men, shyt gets real 😉

but what youve said is why its hard just to write her off 100% . bitch met my sisters and almost my parents. NO ONE has gotten that far. its be a shame to throw it all away for her booty shaking with my ninja. BUT these are repeated offenses. its one thing to dance with him. its another thing to get intimate with him and touch his forehead as if to caress his scalp. it is seriously another thing to give him a soft porn lap dance.

ive told her of the guys ive messed with in our circle. so she has her pick. but no, she goes after the one who i cant shut up about. deep down, she knows hes the prize. to get HIM would be like winning a medal, solidifying her place.

im not saying that i dont hold him accountable. he did get up so he could get her off of him. but men are men and theres only so much they can block b4 the skys and planets are aligned and BAM! theyve done the unthinkable.

so who should i be upset with? her.