SagittariusXO
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Sag Mom with Virgo Son - Simplify my love.
I'm interested in this answer too.
My suggestion (and I'm not sure if it's right):
Call him out and then leave him alone. He needs time to think about things himself, and judge whether or not it's true. Be logical and tell him he's being emotional. Hopefully he will think about it on his own.
When a Virgo gets hypercritical towards you, it's usually because he's unhappy with something else that you did. They aren't great at direct communication!
Have you denied him something? If so, explain ad nauseam, why.
Redirect his attention on something else. Organize the house, the car. Clean everything. Don't talk too much, just start doing something.
My suggestion (and I'm not sure if it's right):
Call him out and then leave him alone. He needs time to think about things himself, and judge whether or not it's true. Be logical and tell him he's being emotional. Hopefully he will think about it on his own.
When a Virgo gets hypercritical towards you, it's usually because he's unhappy with something else that you did. They aren't great at direct communication!
Have you denied him something? If so, explain ad nauseam, why.
Redirect his attention on something else. Organize the house, the car. Clean everything. Don't talk too much, just start doing something.
Posted by SunMoonStarsthank you for your reply
I'm interested in this answer too.
"When a Virgo gets hypercritical towards you, it's usually because he's unhappy with something else that you did. They aren't great at direct communication! Have you denied him something? If so, explain ad nauseam, why. "
- yes. i can say i deny him of things often, something are respectable denials and some i could probably been a little bit open-minded about. he can be very mean to me - i guess this is that time i should calmly ask him whats wrong and if ive done something wrong... i worry about being too sensitive with kid these days when entitlement is such a issue for so many problems in young adults.
Redirect his attention on something else. Organize the house, the car. Clean everything. Don't talk too much, just start doing something.
- very good. i look forward to getting more info about this.
I'm a Sag and my Mom is a Virgo/Libra cusp. No real advice, I just thought it was a little interesting that we're the opposite of you and your son 😛 lol
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struggle i have:
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how can a sag help? and should a sag not do?