Sag techniques for missing someone

so i really admire my sag friends for their ability to bounce back from bad situations or hurt feelings. Here's my question to you guys: how do you handle missing someone but you know that the situation doesn't warrant you missing them?

How do you put those feelings aside and still make 100% of your life aka not wallow in the misery?

I have a horrible side where I just sometimes want to spiral down emotionally and really sink into it but I'm trying to learn better ways.

Well, I see the positive side of life and any situation.

I can turn anything into a joke. Which can be a bad or a good thing.

I get some hobbies under me, I get someone else under me, and I set some goals

Posted by OneKnight
^ Whatever she said, but in reverse.

Truth

As Annie says " Tomorrow is only a day away "

We're all human...some things are gonna suck, and some things are gonna be kickass...ya gotta take em as they come!

I can see a positive to most things and if I can't, I can make a joke and turn a misery upside down.

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Posted by OneKnight
^ Whatever she said, but in reverse.

Truth click to expand

He wanted to say that we first find someone new then do everything else...by this referring to the wife Sag who left him for another guy...
So nope, not true lol just his wife... click to expand

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First of all,

I said what I said

force yourself to stay busy - plan a exercise routine, or a hiking trip, take a planning class, set of happy hour plans with friends. anything that is going to force you to be out of your head and into the present moment.

if this is a about a guy, I say try to find a rebound. obviously you don't have to so anything that makes you uncomfortable to find a distraction with some good conversation. whenever I have been heart broken over someone I always went on the dating apps ( tinder, bumble) and I would just exchange numbers with people and start conversations, be the girl you want to be in the texts. I know those apps are full of pervs thinking they are more entitled and luckier then they deserve so take those douchebags on and let them have your straight forward sarcasm.

and lastly, remove all reminders. no point to have them present in your universe at the moment. you can always add them back when you are in a place where it no longer affects you and your able to create healthy boundaries is need without negative emotions.

good luck xo

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3
There’s always gonna be hurt Underneath the surface but time heal all wounds. Keeping distance and eliminating everything attached to that person is how I handle it. And it’s true you will never know cause sags are happy go lucky and we don’t like negativity lol

I thought you were a Scorpio?? Are you talking about your moon or are you Sag dominant?

I just went through something a couple of days ago and am currently missing someone and am hurt but I try and push it to the back of my mind and not concentrate on it. I almost compartmentalize it so I don’t have to deal with it all at once.

I choose to be happy instead of sad. I prefer that emotion, so it’s easy not to dwell on sadness. So I actively look for ways to bring myself out of that state. It’s hard but eventually it will happen.

But meeting someone new that seems better then the last person is always a nice alternative. I’m still waiting for that person. Until then I will have to put up with my sadness and try and kick it’s ass.

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3
There’s always gonna be hurt Underneath the surface but time heal all wounds. Keeping distance and eliminating everything attached to that person is how I handle it. And it’s true you will never know cause sags are happy go lucky and we don’t like negativity lol

I thought you were a Scorpio?? Are you talking about your moon or are you Sag dominant? click to expand

Im Aries dominant lol click to expand

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But you said " And it’s true you will never know cause sags are happy go lucky and we don’t like negativity lol"

It is true, but were you saying "we" from your Sag moon standpoint? You have me all confused now! 😛 I thought I knew you! 😄

I dive into to work, etc to distract myself and I always know deep down I will get over or move past what it is. I dont show Im hurting.

Basically what Sagittarie said.