Sag trying to catch a scorpio

So like, Im It's my senior year and I've been talking to this girl Tina for what feels like A bajillion years but its literally been a month. She's just so....ＳＬＯＷ！I don't know what Im expecting from her but Im just expecting Something to happen because the routine Talking/occasional flirting got old years ago. I don't wanna make her feel uncomfortable by Pressing the Relationship forward too fast but all I can think about is how much progress I haven't made, and it doesn't help that she's literally swarmed with way better options than myself. Is chasing her even realistic? Am I being obnoxious? Don't get me wrong there's tons of feelings here but I just don't know what to do with em, Especially since Im just a 'friend' but still get "I love you" and omg Im bantering.

Just don't do it

Posted by Dandy
So like, Im It's my senior year and I've been talking to this girl Tina for what feels like A bajillion years but its literally been a month. She's just so....ＳＬＯＷ！I don't know what Im expecting from her but Im just expecting Something to happen because the routine Talking/occasional flirting got old years ago. I don't wanna make her feel uncomfortable by Pressing the Relationship forward too fast but all I can think about is how much progress I haven't made, and it doesn't help that she's literally swarmed with way better options than myself. Is chasing her even realistic? Am I being obnoxious? Don't get me wrong there's tons of feelings here but I just don't know what to do with em, Especially since Im just a 'friend' but still get "I love you" and omg Im bantering.

1. Are you in a relationship, or have you just been checking for her for the last 30 days? The difference will speak to the slowness. Sags jump head first, seize the day. Scorps need certainty before moving forward. No certainty, no movement. If you lack the patience you have two options: provide some certainty or move on.

2. Never chase. Just be transparent, upfront (all Sag traits) and consistent (not so much a Sag trait).

3. If she's saying she loves you, but you're just friends this comes off as confusing....idk what to make of that. So what is exactly is missing? Sex? Getting physical? Sounds like she's not very sure about you and this "friendship".

Good luck.

Posted by Dandy
So like, Im It's my senior year and I've been talking to this girl Tina for what feels like A bajillion years but its literally been a month. She's just so....ＳＬＯＷ！I don't know what Im expecting from her but Im just expecting Something to happen because the routine Talking/occasional flirting got old years ago. I don't wanna make her feel uncomfortable by Pressing the Relationship forward too fast but all I can think about is how much progress I haven't made, and it doesn't help that she's literally swarmed with way better options than myself. Is chasing her even realistic? Am I being obnoxious? Don't get me wrong there's tons of feelings here but I just don't know what to do with em, Especially since Im just a 'friend' but still get "I love you" and omg Im bantering.

You're friendzoned. Just because talks to you/flirts occasionally, doesn't mean you're in a relationship.

Dazed!!!😛🐣🐣

I think your hormones are raging out of control - better use Plan B - and then you can chill and get to know your girl ...

I was with a scorp for almost 3 years. As long as you can deal with their moodiness it’s pretty easy. You just have to be consistent with them.

Good luck! Scorps send tons of mixed signals. It took me almost a year to figure mine out and about 6 months of absolute confusion and chasing. I remember the day when he actually changed and let his walls down and was immediately softer with me. Now that we are done, he is still sweet and nice but its over so it kind of doesn't matter.