Sagittarius gf

My girlfriend and I have been going through it and it's been super toxic. She is super nonchalant and can be underwhelming. I feel like sometimes she ain't enough but then she reminds me how much I actually give a fuck and love her. She hasn't given up on me and I tend to wanna run. I'm trying to be patient because there's this magnetic hold we have on one another. Tell me sag women, what kind of gesture would be good enough for her to let her know I wanna stay so that she doesn't feel like im gonna just leave her?

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What is your question here? You said you "tend to wanna run" then asked how to tell her you wanna stay and not going to lewve her? Wtf that even means? She hasn't given up on me means what?

It means I fucking suck at relationships however I am trying to be better at being with her. It's hard because we are complete opposites and I handle things more responsibly. However I am trying to be more open minded with how I handle some other things to avoid disappointment and hurt.

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What is your question here? You said you "tend to wanna run" then asked how to tell her you wanna stay and not going to lewve her? Wtf that even means? She hasn't given up on me means what?

It means I fucking suck at relationships however I am trying to be better at being with her. It's hard because we are complete opposites and I handle things more responsibly. However I am trying to be more open minded with how I handle some other things to avoid disappointment and hurt.

What is your sign? Did you try talking that to her with understanding, what you lkke and what not? I suggest saying both things cause you know, one can feel attacked if you're just naming the bad sides of them and no mention of good ones. If you have equal interest in each other you should be able to work on improving things for one another. We all adjust to each new relationship as we learn more about each other and open up more to one another

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I am a GEMINIIIII lmao... yeah we talk all the time. We are complete opposites yet we both have similar views on relationships and love. Shes someone that doesn't usually get attached however shes super possessive with me and this ain't our first time being together. We were together when we were younger she was 22 I was 19. I feel like I grew up in where it matters and she still has some growing to do. Shes more good with her emotions than I am. we both are learning from each other. I just want to do something that's not my way. I wanna do something for her that's more her.

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My girlfriend and I have been going through it and it's been super toxic. She is super nonchalant and can be underwhelming. I feel like sometimes she ain't enough but then she reminds me how much I actually give a fuck and love her. She hasn't given up on me and I tend to wanna run. I'm trying to be patient because there's this magnetic hold we have on one another. Tell me sag women, what kind of gesture would be good enough for her to let her know I wanna stay so that she doesn't feel like im gonna just leave her?

Monogamy. Hearing about how you got a girls number at the club isn't gonna make her want to invest more deeply in you. js

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My girlfriend and I have been going through it and it's been super toxic. She is super nonchalant and can be underwhelming. I feel like sometimes she ain't enough but then she reminds me how much I actually give a fuck and love her. She hasn't given up on me and I tend to wanna run. I'm trying to be patient because there's this magnetic hold we have on one another. Tell me sag women, what kind of gesture would be good enough for her to let her know I wanna stay so that she doesn't feel like im gonna just leave her?

Monogamy. Hearing about how you got a girls number at the club isn't gonna make her want to invest more deeply in you. js

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we're in an open relationship that shes completely content with because she herself enjoys the company of other men. so our honesty is always our saving grace. She appreciates the fact that I approached her with the idea because I understand her need of novelty and i'm the same. I don't ever wanna get bored and our relationship allows the room for choosing happiness always. whatever makes us happy.

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My girlfriend and I have been going through it and it's been super toxic. She is super nonchalant and can be underwhelming. I feel like sometimes she ain't enough but then she reminds me how much I actually give a fuck and love her. She hasn't given up on me and I tend to wanna run. I'm trying to be patient because there's this magnetic hold we have on one another. Tell me sag women, what kind of gesture would be good enough for her to let her know I wanna stay so that she doesn't feel like im gonna just leave her?

Monogamy. Hearing about how you got a girls number at the club isn't gonna make her want to invest more deeply in you. js

we're in an open relationship that shes completely content with because she herself enjoys the company of other men. so our honesty is always our saving grace. She appreciates the fact that I approached her with the idea because I understand her need of novelty and i'm the same. I don't ever wanna get bored and our relationship allows the room for choosing happiness always. whatever makes us happy.

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She suggested the open relationship? Or you did...

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My girlfriend and I have been going through it and it's been super toxic. She is super nonchalant and can be underwhelming. I feel like sometimes she ain't enough but then she reminds me how much I actually give a fuck and love her. She hasn't given up on me and I tend to wanna run. I'm trying to be patient because there's this magnetic hold we have on one another. Tell me sag women, what kind of gesture would be good enough for her to let her know I wanna stay so that she doesn't feel like im gonna just leave her?

Monogamy. Hearing about how you got a girls number at the club isn't gonna make her want to invest more deeply in you. js

we're in an open relationship that shes completely content with because she herself enjoys the company of other men. so our honesty is always our saving grace. She appreciates the fact that I approached her with the idea because I understand her need of novelty and i'm the same. I don't ever wanna get bored and our relationship allows the room for choosing happiness always. whatever makes us happy.

She suggested the open relationship? Or you did...

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I did she was seeing someone when we started hanging out again and we both ended up falling in love. I knew for her that she needed the space to be herself and although sometimes it could be overwhelming I would need that space for myself down the line because I require new energy. So I was dealing with her when she was taken and felt completely content with not having that obligation as someone whose her primary partner. She never told the guy she was with about me and ended up breaking up with him. 2 weeks later we end up exclusive.

You've posted this like 6 times.

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What is your question here? You said you "tend to wanna run" then asked how to tell her you wanna stay and not going to lewve her? Wtf that even means? She hasn't given up on me means what?

It means I fucking suck at relationships however I am trying to be better at being with her. It's hard because we are complete opposites and I handle things more responsibly. However I am trying to be more open minded with how I handle some other things to avoid disappointment and hurt.

What is your sign? Did you try talking that to her with understanding, what you lkke and what not? I suggest saying both things cause you know, one can feel attacked if you're just naming the bad sides of them and no mention of good ones. If you have equal interest in each other you should be able to work on improving things for one another. We all adjust to each new relationship as we learn more about each other and open up more to one another

I am a GEMINIIIII lmao... yeah we talk all the time. We are complete opposites yet we both have similar views on relationships and love. Shes someone that doesn't usually get attached however shes super possessive with me and this ain't our first time being together. We were together when we were younger she was 22 I was 19. I feel like I grew up in where it matters and she still has some growing to do. Shes more good with her emotions than I am. we both are learning from each other. I just want to do something that's not my way. I wanna do something for her that's more her.

My bff's brother is a Gemini martied to 5 years older Sag woman...they got married when he was 22 and quite honestly was more mature than her. Opposites are always difficult match cause they are opposite for a reason but somehow Sag and Gem opposition seems to be the most on the same page of all. But difficulties you exeperience together are still there so innorder to deal with them you both need tonput some efforts and compromising. You do some things that she likes and ask from her things that you like more. I have just as difficult match with my bf, square...so that's how we deal with things. It took some time to learn abput each other and adjust but it's amazing and strong connection once you get past initial differences

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yeah our connection is strong. We love each other so much and sometimes its too much for me and makes me want to run because I'm extreme with my emotions. I feel a lot of shit and she is sooooo the opposite where she thinks i'm tripping over every little thing. I feel like there are things we can control, like we have rules for our open relationship. like a time we should be in by. One night she was riding with other people and they ended up getting her home after the time we both agreed on. To avoid that she could've just took her own car and left when she needed to. She just prefers to do what she wants which has been the reason why its been so toxic. I own my part in introducing the open relationship and condoning some things that were wrong however instead of taking advantage of someone who understands you, be considerate enough to follow the rules that are not at all difficult to follow.

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You've posted this like 6 times.

i'll post it 7 if you'd like :-)

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My girlfriend and I have been going through it and it's been super toxic. She is super nonchalant and can be underwhelming. I feel like sometimes she ain't enough but then she reminds me how much I actually give a fuck and love her. She hasn't given up on me and I tend to wanna run. I'm trying to be patient because there's this magnetic hold we have on one another. Tell me sag women, what kind of gesture would be good enough for her to let her know I wanna stay so that she doesn't feel like im gonna just leave her?

Monogamy. Hearing about how you got a girls number at the club isn't gonna make her want to invest more deeply in you. js

we're in an open relationship that shes completely content with because she herself enjoys the company of other men. so our honesty is always our saving grace. She appreciates the fact that I approached her with the idea because I understand her need of novelty and i'm the same. I don't ever wanna get bored and our relationship allows the room for choosing happiness always. whatever makes us happy.

She suggested the open relationship? Or you did...

I did she was seeing someone when we started hanging out again and we both ended up falling in love. I knew for her that she needed the space to be herself and although sometimes it could be overwhelming I would need that space for myself down the line because I require new energy. So I was dealing with her when she was taken and felt completely content with not having that obligation as someone whose her primary partner. She never told the guy she was with about me and ended up breaking up with him. 2 weeks later we end up exclusive.

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Wow thats tough. You suggested it and since you were basically the side dick she might have felt like she had no choice about it. Or maybe she loves the open relationship...idk. Talk to her.

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My girlfriend and I have been going through it and it's been super toxic. She is super nonchalant and can be underwhelming. I feel like sometimes she ain't enough but then she reminds me how much I actually give a fuck and love her. She hasn't given up on me and I tend to wanna run. I'm trying to be patient because there's this magnetic hold we have on one another. Tell me sag women, what kind of gesture would be good enough for her to let her know I wanna stay so that she doesn't feel like im gonna just leave her?

for me. if im going through things and im being negative I probably just need someone to push me to stay positive. I know for me personally I put allot of pressure on myself because I deal with everything I go thru in private. thus why people think im so strong, but there are so many time I feel defeated and alone.

I think its import to uplift your sag if she is seeming defeated to maybe turn her funk around. I also think its important you tell her that her vibes are rubbing off on you and you need to work out a plan on how to change that because its the beginning of what I call the drift " when people drift apart"

if you even want to work thru the hump.



also if she needs to change her attitude space is also helpful.

for me I always need space, I cant be clinged to someone while im going thru shit because I cant expect anyone to help me figure myself out better then me and I cant do it while im focusing on others. its selfish but its needed

Posted by RooSagicorn

How do you expect her to believe your staying when you’re not even sure you are?

I express myself enough to let her know it's not that I wanna leave. It's just easier not feeling so intensely

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How do you expect her to believe your staying when you’re not even sure you are?

I express myself enough to let her know it's not that I wanna leave. It's just easier not feeling so intensely

Okay but it’s still possible and you tell her that, so it is valid to expect you’re not staying.

It is unreasonable to expect her to just believe you. Now for whether it should continue, that is a decision you must make ( wanting to stay or not). Sometimes there are bigger reasons to leave than the love that begs you to stay. Being in a toxic space is not a good thing for either of you. Those intense feelings are a sign. And certainly this needs to be dealt with one way or another.

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We actually are working it out. Couples Therapy is next. We had a major disconnect that we need to connect once again. I mean a lot of my issues come from facing my own self. She's doing the same as me and I'm struggling with it lol. We have a strong bond just needs work and time to figure out.

Can you please just pay half the rent and stop trying to have a relationship with your roommate?

good roommates are hard to find.

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My girlfriend and I have been going through it and it's been super toxic. She is super nonchalant and can be underwhelming. I feel like sometimes she ain't enough but then she reminds me how much I actually give a fuck and love her. She hasn't given up on me and I tend to wanna run. I'm trying to be patient because there's this magnetic hold we have on one another. Tell me sag women, what kind of gesture would be good enough for her to let her know I wanna stay so that she doesn't feel like im gonna just leave her?

I was in a relationship where the guy went above and beyond for me

He woke up made me breakfast took lunch to my job, when I got home my house was clean I had fresh flowers weekly and when I got home he spend time with me I felt at ease because he was my best friend and my other set of hands he was my prince who helped so much



I knew we were in for the long haul.

Well we’re not together anymore I’m Sagittarius

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Yeah y'all don't look for the prince. My girl doesn't have a type but that type she'll walk all over. Y'all need the challenge to keep up with

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What is your question here? You said you "tend to wanna run" then asked how to tell her you wanna stay and not going to lewve her? Wtf that even means? She hasn't given up on me means what?

It means I fucking suck at relationships however I am trying to be better at being with her. It's hard because we are complete opposites and I handle things more responsibly. However I am trying to be more open minded with how I handle some other things to avoid disappointment and hurt.

What is your sign? Did you try talking that to her with understanding, what you lkke and what not? I suggest saying both things cause you know, one can feel attacked if you're just naming the bad sides of them and no mention of good ones. If you have equal interest in each other you should be able to work on improving things for one another. We all adjust to each new relationship as we learn more about each other and open up more to one another

I am a GEMINIIIII lmao... yeah we talk all the time. We are complete opposites yet we both have similar views on relationships and love. Shes someone that doesn't usually get attached however shes super possessive with me and this ain't our first time being together. We were together when we were younger she was 22 I was 19. I feel like I grew up in where it matters and she still has some growing to do. Shes more good with her emotions than I am. we both are learning from each other. I just want to do something that's not my way. I wanna do something for her that's more her.

My bff's brother is a Gemini martied to 5 years older Sag woman...they got married when he was 22 and quite honestly was more mature than her. Opposites are always difficult match cause they are opposite for a reason but somehow Sag and Gem opposition seems to be the most on the same page of all. But difficulties you exeperience together are still there so innorder to deal with them you both need tonput some efforts and compromising. You do some things that she likes and ask from her things that you like more. I have just as difficult match with my bf, square...so that's how we deal with things. It took some time to learn abput each other and adjust but it's amazing and strong connection once you get past initial differences

yeah our connection is strong. We love each other so much and sometimes its too much for me and makes me want to run because I'm extreme with my emotions. I feel a lot of shit and she is sooooo the opposite where she thinks i'm tripping over every little thing. I feel like there are things we can control, like we have rules for our open relationship. like a time we should be in by. One night she was riding with other people and they ended up getting her home after the time we both agreed on. To avoid that she could've just took her own car and left when she needed to. She just prefers to do what she wants which has been the reason why its been so toxic. I own my part in introducing the open relationship and condoning some things that were wrong however instead of taking advantage of someone who understands you, be considerate enough to follow the rules that are not at all difficult to follow.

Well the thing is Sag likes to make his own rulez and pretty much do what you said-what we want to do. There's literally nothing that can stop that. So basically it's the more you try to frame them and make them not tondo something they will. But I know from experience you Gems are just like that if not even worse lol mostbof my friends are Gems, they ask for advice on something then go and do exact opposite of what you told them they should do...and then come to say "you were right" lol but Sags don't like admitting to other people they were right so instead we just try to make it slide like it never happened lol it's 2 people thinking very much alike but behaving different ways. And a lot of arguing might happen cause both signs are vocal and expressive and love mind stimulation so even that arguing can be stimulating. So instead of having it as disadvatage usebit in your advantage and vocalize whatever issues may come accross but be direct and don't play mind games. I see usually Gem&Sag pairings are easier when men is a Gem and woman is a Sag than the other way around

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yes u hit that sht right on the head. I don't tell her no and she loves it. I don't hold her back because I don't wanna be held back. However I damn sure won't let her walk over me. Shes told me I keep her on her toes and she likes it. I tried to keep the crazy side tucked but that went out the window when she started acting like shes single lmao..Its been a month of hell and finally came to a place of understanding on my part. Her part shes working on somethings. But I can't wait to go to therapy so the dr can tear into her and help her be more open. Shes guarded and Its hard to trust someone like that.

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My girlfriend and I have been going through it and it's been super toxic. She is super nonchalant and can be underwhelming. I feel like sometimes she ain't enough but then she reminds me how much I actually give a fuck and love her. She hasn't given up on me and I tend to wanna run. I'm trying to be patient because there's this magnetic hold we have on one another. Tell me sag women, what kind of gesture would be good enough for her to let her know I wanna stay so that she doesn't feel like im gonna just leave her?

I was in a relationship where the guy went above and beyond for me

He woke up made me breakfast took lunch to my job, when I got home my house was clean I had fresh flowers weekly and when I got home he spend time with me I felt at ease because he was my best friend and my other set of hands he was my prince who helped so much



I knew we were in for the long haul.

Well we’re not together anymore I’m Sagittarius

Yeah y'all don't look for the prince. My girl doesn't have a type but that type she'll walk all over. Y'all need the challenge to keep up with

Wanna know the secret ...

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of course I do lol

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How do you expect her to believe your staying when you’re not even sure you are?

I express myself enough to let her know it's not that I wanna leave. It's just easier not feeling so intensely

Okay but it’s still possible and you tell her that, so it is valid to expect you’re not staying.

It is unreasonable to expect her to just believe you. Now for whether it should continue, that is a decision you must make ( wanting to stay or not). Sometimes there are bigger reasons to leave than the love that begs you to stay. Being in a toxic space is not a good thing for either of you. Those intense feelings are a sign. And certainly this needs to be dealt with one way or another.

We actually are working it out. Couples Therapy is next. We had a major disconnect that we need to connect once again. I mean a lot of my issues come from facing my own self. She's doing the same as me and I'm struggling with it lol. We have a strong bond just needs work and time to figure out.

Sounds typical for relationships not about the signs. Growing together and in therapy is a good thing 🙂 wish my Aries ex had been willing to do that. It’s a struggle facing yourself but completely worth it.

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yeah I love therapy by myself. I'm really excited for this to help us grow closer. Shes in love with me which I recognized before she did lmao. She had the stars in her eyes. and she still looks at me like that.

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My girlfriend and I have been going through it and it's been super toxic. She is super nonchalant and can be underwhelming. I feel like sometimes she ain't enough but then she reminds me how much I actually give a fuck and love her. She hasn't given up on me and I tend to wanna run. I'm trying to be patient because there's this magnetic hold we have on one another. Tell me sag women, what kind of gesture would be good enough for her to let her know I wanna stay so that she doesn't feel like im gonna just leave her?

I was in a relationship where the guy went above and beyond for me

He woke up made me breakfast took lunch to my job, when I got home my house was clean I had fresh flowers weekly and when I got home he spend time with me I felt at ease because he was my best friend and my other set of hands he was my prince who helped so much



I knew we were in for the long haul.

Well we’re not together anymore I’m Sagittarius

Yeah y'all don't look for the prince. My girl doesn't have a type but that type she'll walk all over. Y'all need the challenge to keep up with

Wanna know the secret ...

of course I do lol

Sagittarius women are like men, we like a challenge which you know that already. We like to be treated like princesses by the man we’re madly in love with, but when he takes away the attention we panic. We take for granted any guy who is constantly there eating from the palm of our hand. We find men irresistible when they are clean, smell fantastic, look fantastica and have brains. An intelligent man goes a long way. We want women to be envious of our man. We want to show off that we finally got him after some work... it feels like an accomplishment. But don’t make her work too hard, because someone else will catch her eye.

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Well working hard takes thought for her and she doesn't do much of that. I tried break it off with her because she knows I'm good with or without her. Which it took me some time to feel that way. But if I don't check her she will take advantage. It's not like I ain't getting any play. She already expressed she couldn't handle if I was deeply involved with anyone else. I knew she was into me because we got matching tattoos, she bought me 2 rings because the first one I broke by accident. And then she surprised me with the second.

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My girlfriend and I have been going through it and it's been super toxic. She is super nonchalant and can be underwhelming. I feel like sometimes she ain't enough but then she reminds me how much I actually give a fuck and love her. She hasn't given up on me and I tend to wanna run. I'm trying to be patient because there's this magnetic hold we have on one another. Tell me sag women, what kind of gesture would be good enough for her to let her know I wanna stay so that she doesn't feel like im gonna just leave her?

I was in a relationship where the guy went above and beyond for me

He woke up made me breakfast took lunch to my job, when I got home my house was clean I had fresh flowers weekly and when I got home he spend time with me I felt at ease because he was my best friend and my other set of hands he was my prince who helped so much



I knew we were in for the long haul.

Well we’re not together anymore I’m Sagittarius

Yeah y'all don't look for the prince. My girl doesn't have a type but that type she'll walk all over. Y'all need the challenge to keep up with

Wanna know the secret ...

of course I do lol

Sagittarius women are like men, we like a challenge which you know that already. We like to be treated like princesses by the man we’re madly in love with, but when he takes away the attention we panic. We take for granted any guy who is constantly there eating from the palm of our hand. We find men irresistible when they are clean, smell fantastic, look fantastica and have brains. An intelligent man goes a long way. We want women to be envious of our man. We want to show off that we finally got him after some work... it feels like an accomplishment. But don’t make her work too hard, because someone else will catch her eye.

Well working hard takes thought for her and she doesn't do much of that. I tried break it off with her because she knows I'm good with or without her. Which it took me some time to feel that way. But if I don't check her she will take advantage. It's not like I ain't getting any play. She already expressed she couldn't handle if I was deeply involved with anyone else. I knew she was into me because we got matching tattoos, she bought me 2 rings because the first one I broke by accident. And then she surprised me with the second.

You have to put your foot down with her. She admired that you stand up for yourself.

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Damn right. I won't let her fuck me over she already know. She came back to me.

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My girlfriend and I have been going through it and it's been super toxic. She is super nonchalant and can be underwhelming. I feel like sometimes she ain't enough but then she reminds me how much I actually give a fuck and love her. She hasn't given up on me and I tend to wanna run. I'm trying to be patient because there's this magnetic hold we have on one another. Tell me sag women, what kind of gesture would be good enough for her to let her know I wanna stay so that she doesn't feel like im gonna just leave her?

Monogamy. Hearing about how you got a girls number at the club isn't gonna make her want to invest more deeply in you. js

we're in an open relationship that shes completely content with because she herself enjoys the company of other men. so our honesty is always our saving grace. She appreciates the fact that I approached her with the idea because I understand her need of novelty and i'm the same. I don't ever wanna get bored and our relationship allows the room for choosing happiness always. whatever makes us happy.

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"we're in an open relationship that shes completely content with because she herself enjoys the company of other men. so our honesty is always our saving grace. She appreciates the fact that I approached her with the idea because I understand her need of novelty and i'm the same. I don't ever wanna get bored and our relationship allows the room for choosing happiness always. whatever makes us happy"



so thats what makes you happy? thats how you two are choosing happiness always? yet you are talking about toxic and couples therapy? maybe this open relationship BS is making it toxic? you two dont seem to love each other really, but you live together (are you roommates?) and you have history so that is something a bit more permanent and makes it seemingly more serious... but with both of your attitudes it is not...

the woes of some mutables, lol

I suggest to move out both of you and find another accommodation so you can date like normal people... this living-together-roommates-open relationship happiness-toxic-couples therapy nonsense will not end miraculously

what are yours and hers other placements?

I think there are only a few people-couples who can handle open relationships..... you two dont seem to be one of them

PS. roommates having sex, living together may give a false intimacy, while both are on the hunt for other people but are jealous if the other is doing it and are constantly reminded of this fact, on a daily basis, because they are roommates..... what a mess

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My girlfriend and I have been going through it and it's been super toxic. She is super nonchalant and can be underwhelming. I feel like sometimes she ain't enough but then she reminds me how much I actually give a fuck and love her. She hasn't given up on me and I tend to wanna run. I'm trying to be patient because there's this magnetic hold we have on one another. Tell me sag women, what kind of gesture would be good enough for her to let her know I wanna stay so that she doesn't feel like im gonna just leave her?

Monogamy. Hearing about how you got a girls number at the club isn't gonna make her want to invest more deeply in you. js

we're in an open relationship that shes completely content with because she herself enjoys the company of other men. so our honesty is always our saving grace. She appreciates the fact that I approached her with the idea because I understand her need of novelty and i'm the same. I don't ever wanna get bored and our relationship allows the room for choosing happiness always. whatever makes us happy.

"we're in an open relationship that shes completely content with because she herself enjoys the company of other men. so our honesty is always our saving grace. She appreciates the fact that I approached her with the idea because I understand her need of novelty and i'm the same. I don't ever wanna get bored and our relationship allows the room for choosing happiness always. whatever makes us happy"



so thats what makes you happy? thats how you two are choosing happiness always? yet you are talking about toxic and couples therapy? maybe this open relationship BS is making it toxic? you two dont seem to love each other really, but you live together (are you roommates?) and you have history so that is something a bit more permanent and makes it seemingly more serious... but with both of your attitudes it is not...

the woes of some mutables, lol

I suggest to move out both of you and find another accommodation so you can date like normal people... this living-together-roommates-open relationship happiness-toxic-couples therapy nonsense will not end miraculously

what are yours and hers other placements?

I think there are only a few people-couples who can handle open relationships..... you two dont seem to be one of them

PS. roommates having sex, living together may give a false intimacy, while both are on the hunt for other people but are jealous if the other is doing it and are constantly reminded of this fact, on a daily basis, because they are roommates..... what a mess

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Firstly what we doing ain't fake or whatever u wanna call it. We are in love and that's something that we both agree on. We also agree in choosing what makes us happy. Open relationships aren't for everyone and for those who wanna have one will have to work hard to make it work like any monogamous relationship. just because there's a struggle doesn't mean it can't work. Yes we live together and no we aren't just roommates. Anymore judgemental comments u have in ur small brain?

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My girlfriend and I have been going through it and it's been super toxic. She is super nonchalant and can be underwhelming. I feel like sometimes she ain't enough but then she reminds me how much I actually give a fuck and love her. She hasn't given up on me and I tend to wanna run. I'm trying to be patient because there's this magnetic hold we have on one another. Tell me sag women, what kind of gesture would be good enough for her to let her know I wanna stay so that she doesn't feel like im gonna just leave her?

Monogamy. Hearing about how you got a girls number at the club isn't gonna make her want to invest more deeply in you. js

we're in an open relationship that shes completely content with because she herself enjoys the company of other men. so our honesty is always our saving grace. She appreciates the fact that I approached her with the idea because I understand her need of novelty and i'm the same. I don't ever wanna get bored and our relationship allows the room for choosing happiness always. whatever makes us happy.

"we're in an open relationship that shes completely content with because she herself enjoys the company of other men. so our honesty is always our saving grace. She appreciates the fact that I approached her with the idea because I understand her need of novelty and i'm the same. I don't ever wanna get bored and our relationship allows the room for choosing happiness always. whatever makes us happy"



so thats what makes you happy? thats how you two are choosing happiness always? yet you are talking about toxic and couples therapy? maybe this open relationship BS is making it toxic? you two dont seem to love each other really, but you live together (are you roommates?) and you have history so that is something a bit more permanent and makes it seemingly more serious... but with both of your attitudes it is not...

the woes of some mutables, lol

I suggest to move out both of you and find another accommodation so you can date like normal people... this living-together-roommates-open relationship happiness-toxic-couples therapy nonsense will not end miraculously

what are yours and hers other placements?

I think there are only a few people-couples who can handle open relationships..... you two dont seem to be one of them

PS. roommates having sex, living together may give a false intimacy, while both are on the hunt for other people but are jealous if the other is doing it and are constantly reminded of this fact, on a daily basis, because they are roommates..... what a mess

Firstly what we doing ain't fake or whatever u wanna call it. We are in love and that's something that we both agree on. We also agree in choosing what makes us happy. Open relationships aren't for everyone and for those who wanna have one will have to work hard to make it work like any monogamous relationship. just because there's a struggle doesn't mean it can't work. Yes we live together and no we aren't just roommates. Anymore judgemental comments u have in ur small brain?

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"Firstly what we doing ain't fake or whatever u wanna call it. We are in love and that's something that we both agree on. We also agree in choosing what makes us happy. Open relationships aren't for everyone and for those who wanna have one will have to work hard to make it work like any monogamous relationship. just because there's a struggle doesn't mean it can't work. Yes we live together and no we aren't just roommates. Anymore judgemental comments u have in ur small brain?"

I wouldnt be judgemental of any open relationship, if it works. It clearly doesnt work for you, hence the words "toxic"

if you dont change your rhetorics with her, you are maybe missing out..

you know, from your posts here in this thread its becoming obvious, why the situation is toxic... you offered her open relationship, just to get ahead of her to offering YOU an open relationship...

its not love yet, I am sorry to say.... and unless you are doing something to change that (not that idiotic therapy for couples! suggesting open relationship! omg, how doormat material are you?) its not going to change

you live with her, try to make things amicable and fun

she likes to have fun with others, you dont like it... so you suggest open relationship or whatever... then you go out to make the "open relationship" happen

no no no 🙂

be a man, try to sway her with your charisma, dont act offended and make offensive offers every time she is out late... its clear to her you are doing it in spite

I mean, you are not honest with each other, albeit you state you are and that is the " saving grace" of your relationship.... no, its not, because you are not honest to yourself first of all

she may love you, but not with that "everybody is free to have their fun, we are having an open relationship, we need a couples therapy because its toxic" mentality of yours, hm? Edit: I mean you love her but you dont feel she loves you, so you are doing "in spite" actions

get honest with yourself first

Edit: its not easy when the other party doesnt really love you (or you dont feel it), so you have to act like you are fine with it, but its not

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My girlfriend and I have been going through it and it's been super toxic. She is super nonchalant and can be underwhelming. I feel like sometimes she ain't enough but then she reminds me how much I actually give a fuck and love her. She hasn't given up on me and I tend to wanna run. I'm trying to be patient because there's this magnetic hold we have on one another. Tell me sag women, what kind of gesture would be good enough for her to let her know I wanna stay so that she doesn't feel like im gonna just leave her?

Monogamy. Hearing about how you got a girls number at the club isn't gonna make her want to invest more deeply in you. js

we're in an open relationship that shes completely content with because she herself enjoys the company of other men. so our honesty is always our saving grace. She appreciates the fact that I approached her with the idea because I understand her need of novelty and i'm the same. I don't ever wanna get bored and our relationship allows the room for choosing happiness always. whatever makes us happy.

"we're in an open relationship that shes completely content with because she herself enjoys the company of other men. so our honesty is always our saving grace. She appreciates the fact that I approached her with the idea because I understand her need of novelty and i'm the same. I don't ever wanna get bored and our relationship allows the room for choosing happiness always. whatever makes us happy"



so thats what makes you happy? thats how you two are choosing happiness always? yet you are talking about toxic and couples therapy? maybe this open relationship BS is making it toxic? you two dont seem to love each other really, but you live together (are you roommates?) and you have history so that is something a bit more permanent and makes it seemingly more serious... but with both of your attitudes it is not...

the woes of some mutables, lol

I suggest to move out both of you and find another accommodation so you can date like normal people... this living-together-roommates-open relationship happiness-toxic-couples therapy nonsense will not end miraculously

what are yours and hers other placements?

I think there are only a few people-couples who can handle open relationships..... you two dont seem to be one of them

PS. roommates having sex, living together may give a false intimacy, while both are on the hunt for other people but are jealous if the other is doing it and are constantly reminded of this fact, on a daily basis, because they are roommates..... what a mess

Firstly what we doing ain't fake or whatever u wanna call it. We are in love and that's something that we both agree on. We also agree in choosing what makes us happy. Open relationships aren't for everyone and for those who wanna have one will have to work hard to make it work like any monogamous relationship. just because there's a struggle doesn't mean it can't work. Yes we live together and no we aren't just roommates. Anymore judgemental comments u have in ur small brain?

"Firstly what we doing ain't fake or whatever u wanna call it. We are in love and that's something that we both agree on. We also agree in choosing what makes us happy. Open relationships aren't for everyone and for those who wanna have one will have to work hard to make it work like any monogamous relationship. just because there's a struggle doesn't mean it can't work. Yes we live together and no we aren't just roommates. Anymore judgemental comments u have in ur small brain?"

I wouldnt be judgemental of any open relationship, if it works. It clearly doesnt work for you, hence the words "toxic"

if you dont change your rhetorics with her, you are maybe missing out..

you know, from your posts here in this thread its becoming obvious, why the situation is toxic... you offered her open relationship, just to get ahead of her to offering YOU an open relationship...

its not love yet, I am sorry to say.... and unless you are doing something to change that (not that idiotic therapy for couples! suggesting open relationship! omg, how doormat material are you?) its not going to change

you live with her, try to make things amicable and fun

she likes to have fun with others, you dont like it... so you suggest open relationship or whatever... then you go out to make the "open relationship" happen

no no no 🙂

be a man, try to sway her with your charisma, dont act offended and make offensive offers every time she is out late... its clear to her you are doing it in spite

I mean, you are not honest with each other, albeit you state you are and that is the " saving grace" of your relationship.... no, its not, because you are not honest to yourself first of all

she may love you, but not with that "everybody is free to have their fun, we are having an open relationship, we need a couples therapy because its toxic" mentality of yours, hm? Edit: I mean you love her but you dont feel she loves you, so you are doing "in spite" actions

get honest with yourself first

Edit: its not easy when the other party doesnt really love you (or you dont feel it), so you have to act like you are fine with it, but its not

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Idk if you understand Sagittarius women but the more u let them go the more they wanna stay. They prefer the unattached type of relationship. They do what they want so you either get with it or they will leave u. I know my girl well enough to know that she's in love with me and I'm in love with her. It became toxic because the boundaries that we are setting as we go weren't in place yet. As for me I am surely in love and am someone who wants the option down the line where if I get bored I'll be able to explore others. No 2 relationships are the same thankfully. So ours being still new and us moving in together we have more to learn on a daily basis.

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My girlfriend and I have been going through it and it's been super toxic. She is super nonchalant and can be underwhelming. I feel like sometimes she ain't enough but then she reminds me how much I actually give a fuck and love her. She hasn't given up on me and I tend to wanna run. I'm trying to be patient because there's this magnetic hold we have on one another. Tell me sag women, what kind of gesture would be good enough for her to let her know I wanna stay so that she doesn't feel like im gonna just leave her?

Monogamy. Hearing about how you got a girls number at the club isn't gonna make her want to invest more deeply in you. js

we're in an open relationship that shes completely content with because she herself enjoys the company of other men. so our honesty is always our saving grace. She appreciates the fact that I approached her with the idea because I understand her need of novelty and i'm the same. I don't ever wanna get bored and our relationship allows the room for choosing happiness always. whatever makes us happy.

"we're in an open relationship that shes completely content with because she herself enjoys the company of other men. so our honesty is always our saving grace. She appreciates the fact that I approached her with the idea because I understand her need of novelty and i'm the same. I don't ever wanna get bored and our relationship allows the room for choosing happiness always. whatever makes us happy"



so thats what makes you happy? thats how you two are choosing happiness always? yet you are talking about toxic and couples therapy? maybe this open relationship BS is making it toxic? you two dont seem to love each other really, but you live together (are you roommates?) and you have history so that is something a bit more permanent and makes it seemingly more serious... but with both of your attitudes it is not...

the woes of some mutables, lol

I suggest to move out both of you and find another accommodation so you can date like normal people... this living-together-roommates-open relationship happiness-toxic-couples therapy nonsense will not end miraculously

what are yours and hers other placements?

I think there are only a few people-couples who can handle open relationships..... you two dont seem to be one of them

PS. roommates having sex, living together may give a false intimacy, while both are on the hunt for other people but are jealous if the other is doing it and are constantly reminded of this fact, on a daily basis, because they are roommates..... what a mess

Firstly what we doing ain't fake or whatever u wanna call it. We are in love and that's something that we both agree on. We also agree in choosing what makes us happy. Open relationships aren't for everyone and for those who wanna have one will have to work hard to make it work like any monogamous relationship. just because there's a struggle doesn't mean it can't work. Yes we live together and no we aren't just roommates. Anymore judgemental comments u have in ur small brain?

"Firstly what we doing ain't fake or whatever u wanna call it. We are in love and that's something that we both agree on. We also agree in choosing what makes us happy. Open relationships aren't for everyone and for those who wanna have one will have to work hard to make it work like any monogamous relationship. just because there's a struggle doesn't mean it can't work. Yes we live together and no we aren't just roommates. Anymore judgemental comments u have in ur small brain?"

I wouldnt be judgemental of any open relationship, if it works. It clearly doesnt work for you, hence the words "toxic"

if you dont change your rhetorics with her, you are maybe missing out..

you know, from your posts here in this thread its becoming obvious, why the situation is toxic... you offered her open relationship, just to get ahead of her to offering YOU an open relationship...

its not love yet, I am sorry to say.... and unless you are doing something to change that (not that idiotic therapy for couples! suggesting open relationship! omg, how doormat material are you?) its not going to change

you live with her, try to make things amicable and fun

she likes to have fun with others, you dont like it... so you suggest open relationship or whatever... then you go out to make the "open relationship" happen

no no no 🙂

be a man, try to sway her with your charisma, dont act offended and make offensive offers every time she is out late... its clear to her you are doing it in spite

I mean, you are not honest with each other, albeit you state you are and that is the " saving grace" of your relationship.... no, its not, because you are not honest to yourself first of all

she may love you, but not with that "everybody is free to have their fun, we are having an open relationship, we need a couples therapy because its toxic" mentality of yours, hm? Edit: I mean you love her but you dont feel she loves you, so you are doing "in spite" actions

get honest with yourself first

Edit: its not easy when the other party doesnt really love you (or you dont feel it), so you have to act like you are fine with it, but its not

Idk if you understand Sagittarius women but the more u let them go the more they wanna stay. They prefer the unattached type of relationship. They do what they want so you either get with it or they will leave u. I know my girl well enough to know that she's in love with me and I'm in love with her. It became toxic because the boundaries that we are setting as we go weren't in place yet. As for me I am surely in love and am someone who wants the option down the line where if I get bored I'll be able to explore others. No 2 relationships are the same thankfully. So ours being still new and us moving in together we have more to learn on a daily basis.

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Oi she prob knows just as much as you if not more. In general Sag women need freedom, we're not typically good with the clingy, controlling types. However a Sag lady in love and willing to commit does not want an unattached partner. You need to offer stability and just enough space.

Now if you're BOTH honestly wanting an open relationship that's fine but Sags are notorious for not following rules, as you've noticed. So it maybe that the specific open relationship you want is not compatible with hers.

But I hope the therapy helps, sincerely I do. At the very least it may stop this topic from being brought up so much...

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My girlfriend and I have been going through it and it's been super toxic. She is super nonchalant and can be underwhelming. I feel like sometimes she ain't enough but then she reminds me how much I actually give a fuck and love her. She hasn't given up on me and I tend to wanna run. I'm trying to be patient because there's this magnetic hold we have on one another. Tell me sag women, what kind of gesture would be good enough for her to let her know I wanna stay so that she doesn't feel like im gonna just leave her?

Monogamy. Hearing about how you got a girls number at the club isn't gonna make her want to invest more deeply in you. js

we're in an open relationship that shes completely content with because she herself enjoys the company of other men. so our honesty is always our saving grace. She appreciates the fact that I approached her with the idea because I understand her need of novelty and i'm the same. I don't ever wanna get bored and our relationship allows the room for choosing happiness always. whatever makes us happy.

"we're in an open relationship that shes completely content with because she herself enjoys the company of other men. so our honesty is always our saving grace. She appreciates the fact that I approached her with the idea because I understand her need of novelty and i'm the same. I don't ever wanna get bored and our relationship allows the room for choosing happiness always. whatever makes us happy"



so thats what makes you happy? thats how you two are choosing happiness always? yet you are talking about toxic and couples therapy? maybe this open relationship BS is making it toxic? you two dont seem to love each other really, but you live together (are you roommates?) and you have history so that is something a bit more permanent and makes it seemingly more serious... but with both of your attitudes it is not...

the woes of some mutables, lol

I suggest to move out both of you and find another accommodation so you can date like normal people... this living-together-roommates-open relationship happiness-toxic-couples therapy nonsense will not end miraculously

what are yours and hers other placements?

I think there are only a few people-couples who can handle open relationships..... you two dont seem to be one of them

PS. roommates having sex, living together may give a false intimacy, while both are on the hunt for other people but are jealous if the other is doing it and are constantly reminded of this fact, on a daily basis, because they are roommates..... what a mess

Firstly what we doing ain't fake or whatever u wanna call it. We are in love and that's something that we both agree on. We also agree in choosing what makes us happy. Open relationships aren't for everyone and for those who wanna have one will have to work hard to make it work like any monogamous relationship. just because there's a struggle doesn't mean it can't work. Yes we live together and no we aren't just roommates. Anymore judgemental comments u have in ur small brain?

"Firstly what we doing ain't fake or whatever u wanna call it. We are in love and that's something that we both agree on. We also agree in choosing what makes us happy. Open relationships aren't for everyone and for those who wanna have one will have to work hard to make it work like any monogamous relationship. just because there's a struggle doesn't mean it can't work. Yes we live together and no we aren't just roommates. Anymore judgemental comments u have in ur small brain?"

I wouldnt be judgemental of any open relationship, if it works. It clearly doesnt work for you, hence the words "toxic"

if you dont change your rhetorics with her, you are maybe missing out..

you know, from your posts here in this thread its becoming obvious, why the situation is toxic... you offered her open relationship, just to get ahead of her to offering YOU an open relationship...

its not love yet, I am sorry to say.... and unless you are doing something to change that (not that idiotic therapy for couples! suggesting open relationship! omg, how doormat material are you?) its not going to change

you live with her, try to make things amicable and fun

she likes to have fun with others, you dont like it... so you suggest open relationship or whatever... then you go out to make the "open relationship" happen

no no no 🙂

be a man, try to sway her with your charisma, dont act offended and make offensive offers every time she is out late... its clear to her you are doing it in spite

I mean, you are not honest with each other, albeit you state you are and that is the " saving grace" of your relationship.... no, its not, because you are not honest to yourself first of all

she may love you, but not with that "everybody is free to have their fun, we are having an open relationship, we need a couples therapy because its toxic" mentality of yours, hm? Edit: I mean you love her but you dont feel she loves you, so you are doing "in spite" actions

get honest with yourself first

Edit: its not easy when the other party doesnt really love you (or you dont feel it), so you have to act like you are fine with it, but its not

Idk if you understand Sagittarius women but the more u let them go the more they wanna stay. They prefer the unattached type of relationship. They do what they want so you either get with it or they will leave u. I know my girl well enough to know that she's in love with me and I'm in love with her. It became toxic because the boundaries that we are setting as we go weren't in place yet. As for me I am surely in love and am someone who wants the option down the line where if I get bored I'll be able to explore others. No 2 relationships are the same thankfully. So ours being still new and us moving in together we have more to learn on a daily basis.

Oi she prob knows just as much as you if not more. In general Sag women need freedom, we're not typically good with the clingy, controlling types. However a Sag lady in love and willing to commit does not want an unattached partner. You need to offer stability and just enough space.

Now if you're BOTH honestly wanting an open relationship that's fine but Sags are notorious for not following rules, as you've noticed. So it maybe that the specific open relationship you want is not compatible with hers.

But I hope the therapy helps, sincerely I do. At the very least it may stop this topic from being brought up so much...

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My girl made it very clear to me. She wants to be with and wants to be able to have the freedom to be an individual. My only issue is that she needs to more into us. I'm not expecting the world but I can keep her feeling secure but still have my fun on the side. She tends to suck at balancing. Therapy is really gonna determine a lot. If it's worth the time and effort. What we are willing to do or not do. How much we want from each other. She's said she has a guard up but wants to remain with me and for us to work all this out. She's only had the choice since day 1 to do what makes her happy. However my needs won't be on hold or not acknowledged while she get everything she wants.

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Can you please just pay half the rent and stop trying to have a relationship with your roommate?

good roommates are hard to find.

Ha