@Sola
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Am I?! Hopefully he'll know it's been a mistake..still, it's bad for my pride, damn!!!!
We're not friends on FB but still on the messenger list!
The first time it happened he questioned it..it's happened again today but luckily he hasn't said anything. I could die right now of mortification (no exaggeration)!
Guys, thanks for your feedback...the male perspective makes me feel less like an utter fool.
I did the first time..it led to chit chat but nothing more. But, I'm still phasing out from the whole thing so I like the messages to read over, some days more than others.
Haha! He's was my "one". My superpowers are clearly broken!
It's smoother to offer no explanation at all 😏 but yeah your way of doing it is more mature I guess
Yup, I'm a fan of denial 😃
I wouldn't ignore him..I'm crap at that 😢
My smile is masculine?!!!! Whaaaat—?!!! That's funny 🙂
Yeah, I was taken in by the dazzle of Love!
Wooaahhh!!!! I'll live with it 🙂
Screen shot the messages...so that way you can read them and go thru your process...then delete his ass from there. Problem solved and it was a mistake...shit happens...learn to laugh at the awkward.
pretend you're dead, organize a fake burial
Remove yourself as his friend. You can still read the messages if you want to..
Good idea
FB is the devil
pretend you're dead, organize a fake burial
I'm honestly tempted right now!
Amen! I'm blaming the astrology right now..I'm innocent in all this 😂
We didn't actually break up like retards, but that's not your business.
I read messages that are mine to read!
I’d also offer no explanation. Fuck it.
Yeah, he hasn't acknowledged it anyway...phew! 😆
I did the first time..it led to chit chat but nothing more. But, I'm still phasing out from the whole thing so I like the messages to read over, some days more than others.
If you explained it the first time then he will know what you were doing and will ignore it if he's still not interested. You should delete his messages though. Just take a screen shot of them, for rereading purposes,and then delete.
If you do this by "accident" too many times, it may just look like desperation to him.
Exactly, and that's just gross 😢 So I've deleted all the thread anyway. Might as well use these eclipses to their full potential and really let the whole month of July go..the break up included.
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Aarrgghh, by accident a couple of times I've opened a thread from my ex and accidently hit the thumbs up button 😢 I think it's happened twice now and I'm genuinely mortified! I've just been reading over the messages a few times to get clarity and sort my thoughts as I'm letting go...but now he'll be thinking that I'm a psycho. I don't want to delete the conversation because I'm not ready yet.