Fb messenger

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by Sola on Sunday, July 29, 2018 and has 22 replies.

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@Sola
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Aarrgghh, by accident a couple of times I've opened a thread from my ex and accidently hit the thumbs up button 😢 I think it's happened twice now and I'm genuinely mortified! I've just been reading over the messages a few times to get clarity and sort my thoughts as I'm letting go...but now he'll be thinking that I'm a psycho. I don't want to delete the conversation because I'm not ready yet.

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@Sola
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The first time it happened he questioned it..it's happened again today but luckily he hasn't said anything. I could die right now of mortification (no exaggeration)!

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@Sola
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I did the first time..it led to chit chat but nothing more. But, I'm still phasing out from the whole thing so I like the messages to read over, some days more than others.

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@LostinmyMind11
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Screen shot the messages...so that way you can read them and go thru your process...then delete his ass from there. Problem solved and it was a mistake...shit happens...learn to laugh at the awkward.

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@saggurl88
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Posted by Sola

I did the first time..it led to chit chat but nothing more. But, I'm still phasing out from the whole thing so I like the messages to read over, some days more than others.

If you explained it the first time then he will know what you were doing and will ignore it if he's still not interested. You should delete his messages though. Just take a screen shot of them, for rereading purposes,and then delete.

If you do this by "accident" too many times, it may just look like desperation to him.

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@Sola
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Exactly, and that's just gross 😢 So I've deleted all the thread anyway. Might as well use these eclipses to their full potential and really let the whole month of July go..the break up included.