Sags...

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Damnata
@Damnata
15 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

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Let me share some old Sag wisdom from my grandmother

"There will be a time in your life my dear when you will have lunch with your bf/husband and suddenly not like how he eats..maybe you'll suddenly feel he slurps too much or doesn't eat fast enough..you will know it. When that time comes, know that all love is out of the window and it would do you no good to prolong it"

She was dead on.

Do you agree with this? Yes/No and why?
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JustaSag
@JustaSag
13 Years

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I can relate to this. In every relationship that I ever ended (which was all but one) there was always this "aha" moment when I just realized that everything that person did was annoying and I couldn't stand it. It's not gradual, and it's not just a mild annoyance...it's a sudden realization that being around them drives you insane and you will literally have a mental breakdown if you have to spend more time around them. And it's not really their fault...it's just how they are. But that's when you know it won't work. Of course, you never tell them this. You try to be delicate about it. But that is definitely the turning point. I do feel that usually it's a case of you noticing these things one by one over time, and then all of a sudden one day they all hit you at once. Only one relationship I was in did this not happen at all. So I'm always very observant of someone's small habits and idiosyncrasies.