Seeking advice! Think we have a fighting chance?!

Hi

Looking feedback from sag males in this forum. I am a Leo woman dated a sag male for almost three years. I’be known him for 9 years. Almost three years we were both decided to give Love a try. He chased me prior several time. We start off Very connected and in love. We started a business together talked about moving in and marriage and started trying to have a child. Our families are very close. One month ago he told cold telling me he needs time to think if this is what he wants and he is not sure. Prior to this we both had to travel for work off and on for four months. I think this caused separation and he also brought up smaller arguements but typical stuff we got over. We have this strong chemistry in bed and both like magnets. It’s crazy! Very up and down experience. The other day he told me he wasn’t sure if he was in love with me now but weeks before he was in love and wanted to work it out. I don’t get it. Do you think we have any fighting chance? He is distant now some days we don’t speak just text. We never sat down and had a heart to heart convo as her. I thought Leo and Sagittarius were very compatible. Should I keep my distance? Would ignoring him make him see if he misses me and wants this or not?

I dated a Sag twice and my best friend is a Sag. Hmm, I think Sags have this sense of wanderlust or just living and experiencing life to the fullest that may turn into an itch if unaddressed. If your Sag is young (under 27-28) then I think they just haven't made their mind up as to what they want or if they've had their full in seeing the world. It could be their Saturn Return.

I don't think it's an issue of whether or not your Sag loves you (He does btw). The issue is whether of not your Sag wants this type of relationship and commitment as this moment in their life.

Maybe they're not ready or the timing is just not quite right. My sag best friend broke up with her bf of 8 years because she painfully realized she wasn't ready to settle down yet or move to NYC for him. Four Years later she looks back at it as a beautiful time she had with someone that she was not ready for. Dear Leo, I'm sad to say but I don't think you have a say in this matter. It's really up to him and whether or not you have the patience to let him figure out what he truly wants, if you're his end game. I do think you have a fighting chance but I think this sag may be a long-game (it's not something that quickly resolves itself).

My advice is to continue to be loving, to show support, and just be there for them.But before all that, have an honest conversation in person with your sag.

Thank you. That is very good advice!!