selfish?

any fellow sags have the people they love forget their birthday?

okay so my situation:

My bday was Dec 1, and my man's grandfather passed on 11/29.

I am trying so hard not to be selfish. But he forgot. I know he was obviously distraught. He is Leo. I know he needed me. It wasn't until the end of the night AFTER I had mentioned it being my bday (around 11 pm) that he said he was sorry he hadnt acknowledged the day...

I know, how selfish am I?

But my best friend also forgot.

Am I beinf selfish? It is tearing me up for days because I guess because my Daddy who died a few years ago always remembered. He was the one man, person, I could count on to remember that day.

Some people don't remember dates that well. So maybe I am being petty. But then again, don't I deserve to be remembered? Thought of? Or should I just stop blubbering and let it go?

Nope. Awhile back my so called friends forgot my bday so I forgot about them 100%

Ended many of friendships happily

Sorry to hear about your Dad, hugs n blessings

I'm not a Saggi but my own father forgot my birthday some years ago so yo not alone. Your man got a get out of jail free card cause his father died although I would be upset if my significant other or relative waited til a hour before the next day to remember my birthday. Your best friend forgot too though, that's even worse, somebody needs a stern talkin too.

P.S. Keep hope alive, you are somebody lol, tryin to lighten the mood with comedy.

Posted by InnovationQey
I'm not a Saggi but my own father forgot my birthday some years ago so yo not alone. Your man got a get out of jail free card cause his father died although I would be upset if my significant other or relative waited til a hour before the next day to remember my birthday. Your best friend forgot too though, that's even worse, somebody needs a stern talkin too.

P.S. Keep hope alive, you are somebody lol, tryin to lighten the mood with comedy.

Good to know I am not alone guys.

Thanks. I just felt like I meant more to them. And this shows me that I don't.

Actions speak louder and all.

DxP got yo back, happy birthday, many more on channel four, Scooby Doo on Channel two, Frankenstein on channel zero lol

I am torn. I can not deny it hurts. It hurts so much I am here. I only post when I can' t make sense of my emotions. It really hurts.

I feel so selfish that. it hurts. Like I am selfish and egotistical and self absorbed because of my pain. This is rediculous.

Posted by Atcrossroads
I am torn. I can not deny it hurts. It hurts so much I am here. I only post when I can' t make sense of my emotions. It really hurts.

I feel so selfish that. it hurts. Like I am selfish and egotistical and self absorbed because of my pain. This is rediculous.

It's not selfish to want people to acknowledge you and your birthday.

People have calendars, alerts, etc.

Shit, Facebook has alerts.

This isn't the time of calendar notebooks.

No excuses