She knows the cameras are on now...

Oddly, she told me that she has a ton of old hi-8 footage from a lot of her past relationships. so, we discover a secret thing we had in common all along ... secretly filming our partners; well, it's a new thing for me.

so we both know the camera is on, but I don't think it affected us any ... watching it seems like a typical bitchy weekend mornings we've had before:

i believe her. with all your scorpyness, you are BOSSY in relationships. sag mixed with all that scorp = Get down or lay down! believe me, you are subtly wanting to control the relatonship.


shit, is this what married life is like? walking around arguing in t shirts.

the dog is the best part of the video 🙂

Sun Sagittarius 26.23
Moon Virgo 3.06
Mercury Capricorn 14.04
Venus Scorpio 15.21
Mars Scorpio 7.39
Jupiter Scorpio 24.58
Saturn Taurus 16.30 R
Uranus Libra 13.07
Neptune Sagittarius 1.34
Pluto Virgo 29.40

venus, mars, jupiter all in the 8th house

Posted by Purr

Posted by DMV
Sun Sagittarius 26.23
Moon Virgo 3.06
Mercury Capricorn 14.04
Venus Scorpio 15.21
Mars Scorpio 7.39
Jupiter Scorpio 24.58
Saturn Taurus 16.30 R
Uranus Libra 13.07
Neptune Sagittarius 1.34
Pluto Virgo 29.40

venus, mars, jupiter all in the 8th house

Ohshit. :-O

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she's a goner. we're all watching the prelude to her demise.

lol, i think the next part is better than this ... just it makes more sense if you see how the day started. She's had a freakin' free ride for the last 6 months, and she's the type of person who will go to Ross and buy a new outfit before she will do a load of her own clothes.

I'm not trying to control her; i'm just sick of having to do everything.

Posted by Purr
She said you were an asshole to the dogs? Dude, what's your problem?

that's her perspective ... they're small, I worry about stepping on them ... so, when i'm buzzing about the kitchen, I sometimes stomp to scare 'em out of there. ...for their own safety you see.

but you secretly enjoy the control factor. if she were more independent and was doing more things youd be going out of your mind thinking about what she's doing. you think you follow her ass now, just you wait. after a while, youd manipulate her into quitting to give you peace of mind.

you gave her that freakin free ride. thats on you buddy.

she's the type of person who will go to Ross and buy a new outfit before she will do a load of her own clothes.
and what the hell is so wrong about that—?

"Take a fuckin chill pill"

Hahahaahah I've heard that a few times 😛

lol, DMV ... you and she would be best friends if y'all ever met!!!

thanks for feedback on having the dog in there, I'll be sure to have a gratuitus bitch scene in there from now on.

i do feel the love in the video.

ummm....ok ill say it.

She isn't even hot!

Posted by Sag89
ummm....ok ill say it.

She isn't even hot!

oh damn. not nice

Posted by capgirl75
You guys are so whiny. ugh. Do either of you ever speak in a normal tone of voice? I felt like jabbing a fork in my eye watching that.

lol, only when hi,

my name is jane

Posted by DMV
the dog is the best part of the video 🙂

i agree

Posted by DMV

Posted by Sag89
ummm....ok ill say it.

She isn't even hot!

oh damn. not nice

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What? If she was hot I would understand the fuss but seriously? We were all thinking it. No offense jr but i bet you could do better.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Ouch! So what's the plan with the cam now, jru?

I'm going out this weekend and probably next one too ... taking the camera in case I can manage to get into any trouble. But really, I'm not so good at getting into anything. I'll be prepared though. Haha, i'll start interviewing girls at bars, "would you consider dating a guy who still lives with his ex-girlfriend?" .... "Would it matter to you if they still share the same bedroom?"

Funny, last night she was hugging on me and asking about "...if we got back together, would you..."

Posted by jru2

Posted by capgirl75
You guys are so whiny. ugh. Do either of you ever speak in a normal tone of voice? I felt like jabbing a fork in my eye watching that.

lol, only when hi,

my name is jane

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Hi jane! lol

Time to get an account, I think 😛

"would you consider dating a guy who still lives with his ex-girlfriend?" .... "Would it matter to you if they still share the same bedroom?"

you'd be surprised at the desperation level of some women.

Posted by Sag89

Posted by DMV

Posted by Sag89
ummm....ok ill say it.

She isn't even hot!

oh damn. not nice

What? If she was hot I would understand the fuss but seriously? We were all thinking it. No offense jr but i bet you could do better.

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lmao. maybe he likes her humor or the way she walks around topless.

@ S89

you may not believe this, but she's really the hottest girl I've dated ... unless you count the aries, but i didn't really date her anyway.

... t-shirt, hangover, hair-up, no make-up ... not flattering, but I'm still more than attracted ... and eagerly done her if she wasn't cutting me off that morning!

She is right. You are a bit of a shit disturber. Not that she puts it that way.... but you appear cooperative but you do stir up the shit!

You look like you are playing games, jru.

OMG.. I'd be out of your house as fast asap. Sorry. That's my take. I'd be hurt and look for another guy soonest I can.

(I swear... I haven't read any of the comments)

Posted by Sag89
ummm....ok ill say it.

She isn't even hot!

Funny, I was thinking that too, about him

@FUM ... yeah, maybe I am just playing games at this point. Actually, what I told her was that I'm too attached to just break up with her. I told her that I have to do things that will create a cascade of events that will lead to it. She's been given fair warning. I'll miss her when she's gone, but I'm done.

@celticlioness ... what ever you do, don't watch the upcoming boxer shorts scenes ... I don't want you lookin' at my titties if you already think that! 😛

You can't squeeze more emotion out of an Aquarius girl. That's as far it will go, jru.

It's interesting to see how you guys tip-toe around each other trying to push boundaries. Perhaps it is a match bound to make you keep on keepin' on, because the lid will never fit the pot, no matter what direction you turn it. However it will keep you guessing and trying till the cows come home.

Posted by jru2
@FUM ... yeah, maybe I am just playing games at this point. Actually, what I told her was that I'm too attached to just break up with her. I told her that I have to do things that will create a cascade of events that will lead to it. She's been given fair warning. I'll miss her when she's gone, but I'm done.

In a sense, your story is giving me a good look at myself. When I think of a relationship I had that wasn't healthy, but even after 10 years, I kept thinking, 'One day I will get out of this once and for all'. Just when ready to break it all off, your partner opts some manipulation tactic by being extra cute. And that makes you think, OK... it's not so bad to leave immediately. I'll take my time until I'm financially in a position when I don't lose too much. AND -- afterall -- we do not hate each other... we can still be friends/support for each other.

So it ends to drag a relationship for another 5 years.

I found bliss in breaking up cold turkey, when I had someone else. That kinda gave me a good boost. But the new person has to love you enough to accept your current position. It's a risk the other person takes.

so you're amateur actors now—

Posted by ellessque
*horrified at the state of your kitchen*

Can I hear an AMEN on that! Exactly. See, that's a Sunday morning when my kids weren't there. I clean up everything myself when they come. She stayed out the Fri. night before, got to drunk to drive home, was too tired to do anything all day Sat. because she was hung over ... that's why i was so frustrated by Sunday. I've been picking up after her ass for last 6 mo. and that's got to change.

I can't wait to get home this weekend to see what condition it's in ... better be clean or there's gonna be another good video of me bitchin'!

Posted by brianafay
so you're amateur actors now—

we may act a little differently knowing the camera is there, but not much at all. It's like you just forget about it after a while. So, what you see is for real. God do I wish I filmed some of our fights ... what you've seen so far is just our small talk.

lol @ *horrified at the state of your kitchen*

Yeah I was trying to recognize some of the brands - I think I spotted

Silk Almond Milk
MiraLAX
Raid Mosquito spray
aaaaand.... *squints* ...a big ass bottle of Wild Turkey on top of the cabinet

Posted by jru2

Posted by brianafay
so you're amateur actors now—

we may act a little differently knowing the camera is there, but not much at all. It's like you just forget about it after a while. So, what you see is for real. God do I wish I filmed some of our fights ... what you've seen so far is just our small talk.

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I can't imagine your fights getting down and dirty tho - like screaming and throwing shit and breakage...well, I'm sure they did but now it just seems like there is no passion there anymore

Posted by jru2
@ S89

you may not believe this, but she's really the hottest girl I've dated ...

Your life sucks. lol

Posted by Sag89

Posted by jru2
@ S89

you may not believe this, but she's really the hottest girl I've dated ...

Your life sucks. lol

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lol, I am a nerd, and with child support, kinda poor ... but I'm a happy poor nerd. I have many things to look forward to is all.

@ wynter, yeah, the passion is def. gone. whew, it's probably for the best though. It's actually kind of a nice break. It was just way too intense on both sides for a while. My blood pressure was always high.

Posted by aurora
She knows that she is on DXP now? lol I could't read the whole thread

she knows of it, not specifically the site address. oh if she read all the shit i've been writing here, I might get stabbed in the middle of the night

Wasn't that her posting on page 2?

Posted by Wynter
Wasn't that her posting on page 2?

no that was an attempted joke for someone ... she has "Hi, my name is Nancy" under her profile pic ... lol, i messed up the name and said Jane ... i wanted to say high as in stoned but make it out like that wasn't what i was saying ... oh never mind, total joke failure that was 😉 ...but not my aqua

Wow, she's really losing it. Been talking to that guy again. Met him last week and finally told me, but I don't even care. I'm moving on. I just feel bad for aqua now ... it's like she's having a mid-life crises

Jru2- No DONT feel bad for her, feel bad for yourself...u r putting yourself through this. And let me tell me something about aquas, we normally dont feel bad about anything we do, be it wrong or right...we justify it to ourselves + its all that matters. We also are very oblivious to other people's feelings. If something doesnt hurt us, we assume it wont hurt the next person. We rarely get hurt by what others do, so she might be hurting u or whatever and not even know.

Regardless of what u say here, i sense you have deeper feelings for her otherwize why go to such extents. Here is an advice for u, if her ways are hurting u then say so...tell her that or she'll remain in the dark about your feelings. And by pretending that it doesnt hurt when in reality it does then ur doing yourself injustice, buddy. I really wish u all the best with this situation and good luck.

Btw, whats her chart like?

One last thing and a little secret about aquas...Connecting emotionally to others is our weak point, its impossible, so we relate to other through ourselves. We wont do to others what we wont tolerate ourselves. This obviously differs from one aqua to another. In your girlfriend's case its dating, she sees no problem dating other people while still in a relationship with u, which means she wont really care if u did the same...do u get what im trying to say? We are "fair" like that. She is dating, so dont sit around while she is having all the fun...go on and date yourself. An open relationship is not a big deal to most of us just as long as both partners are upfront about it and dont sneak around. Freedom to do whatever is very important to aquas and we WONT stand in the way of other's freedom either. Again, we are fair like that. Go on and live your life, my friend.

This is pathetic...are you not embarassed by displaying your garbage for THE WHOLE WORLD TO SEE! I know we, as humans have issues connecting back to ourselves, and that we experience heartache and pain, joy, and sorrow. But we also experience happiness, and joy. Glee and a higher spiritual power. Get yourself back to YOU and forget about all this nonsense. You most certainley feed off of the drama between her and yourself and from what I have been reading the last few months, you rather enjoy it. It will be a sad day "when she stabs you in the middle of the night." that is for sure!

Thanks WaterCup ... you are right in that she's fair, or at least "wants" to be. I'm working on having a date for over the holidays. Aqua wants me to go with her (because she doesn't even have enough money to drive home), but I'm staying behind ... worse case I get some work done around the house, best case I get to go on a date with what appears to be a very happy person. Ah, wouldn't that be nice!

oh, as far a her chart goes, she's been complaining about some big Saturn Transit thing

@Nikki ... Aqua really is stuck at my house, and I really don't know what to do with her. Maybe I'm not reading it right, but it's like she's about to implode, give up, and quit life. It has always seemed like if I could just get her on her feet, she'll be ok. But every time she starts to get there, she sabotages herself. I have a sister who is the same. I'm a little like that too ... trying to break through that barrier and believe that I deserve to be successful and have the relationships in my life that I really want. ...apologies for the display of garbage.