
Shaniajam
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Posted by DMVWell I do want a relationship in the beginning that's what I thought it was until he back tracked. Since then he's been saying he's not financially ready (just speaking in general not to me) but I've never asked for anything do I seem high maintenance? I have my own place and own everything. All I'm saying is if it's just fwb when I'm walking away why don't he let me walk since sex is the only issue? Finding someone to do that is easy nowadays. Something isn't right. However it's so early I don't want to bring it up and make him feel forced about relationships.... I just need insight into why he's still around. He tells me everything and even (farts) around me. Maybe in reading More than it is.
What does you want from him?





Posted by MoonbutterDefensive? I don't get it I asked if it read something else... Denial yes, defensive? Where?
Yeah you seem in denial and defensive.

Posted by DMVOk cool. I wanted to see what others saw so thanks. That's all.
Hes around because he likes you and enjoys the sex.




Posted by ShaniajamSo youve been living under a rock.
Why spend the night, why tell me
About your personal life and why distract me from other men then? Why care if my feelings get hurt? Fwb are just that... Do the dirt and go... The rest is confusing me.

Posted by PV&JellayI dated theae exact placements. Cancer moon instead of pisces moon.Posted by ShaniajamHmm. Best of luck. My advice, enjoy the sex and keep it moving.
Him:
Sun SAGGITARIUS
Moon Pisces
Venus SAGGITARIUS
Mars Scorpio
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Posted by DMVHe also has free will. I've told him just sex is not working for me which is why he up the anti and stays the night and we talk about more personal things. I have left, however I won't be mean... He will text and open up a little more then I just feel like I'm slow at relationships so I give another chance. You are correct I should open my mouth. Maybe I feel it's too soon. I will when the time is right. When I've had enough I don't have an issue walking away. This doesn't feel like fwb cause he's making an effort to please me when I have concerns instead of saying ok whatever bye so that was all I was trying to understand. Thanks for the insight.
Some of you women really irk me.
No man can make you do anything.
"Why doesn't he just let me go?"
"Why does he keep coming back?"
" why doesn't he let me walk away?"
This goes for both sexes. No one us putting a gun to your head making you do anything.
If you really wanted to walk away, youd do it and mean it.
A man will want to hold on to what makes him feel good.
He obviously likes u and is attracted to you. The sex is good and youre consistent. Mars in Scorpio and loves to bond sexually. Complete emotional intimacy makes every better for them.
Thats why he want you around.
So if you want to know where you stand, open up tour mouth.
If you wanna wait for him to say something, have at it.

Posted by DMVI've never done fwb I just thought it was do it and go so a rock.... Yes for me.Posted by ShaniajamSo youve been living under a rock.
Why spend the night, why tell me
About your personal life and why distract me from other men then? Why care if my feelings get hurt? Fwb are just that... Do the dirt and go... The rest is confusing me.
Fwb is much more than what it used to be.
Ppl have sex, go out to eat, talk about work, go on vacay.
2016 Fwb is the cop out of all cop outs.click to expand

Posted by DMVPosted by PV&JellayI dated theae exact placements. Cancer moon instead of pisces moon.Posted by ShaniajamHmm. Best of luck. My advice, enjoy the sex and keep it moving.
Him:
Sun SAGGITARIUS
Moon Pisces
Venus SAGGITARIUS
Mars Scorpio
8 years as FWB.
Amazing sex. He was a great friend, lover, etc.
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Posted by ShaniajamSeems like you and I are going through similar situations as Taurus with Sags. I feel the same way, why try to make things FEEL like a relationship or something deeper, if that's not what you want.Posted by DMVI've never done fwb I just thought it was do it and go so a rock.... Yes for me.Posted by ShaniajamSo youve been living under a rock.
Why spend the night, why tell me
About your personal life and why distract me from other men then? Why care if my feelings get hurt? Fwb are just that... Do the dirt and go... The rest is confusing me.
Fwb is much more than what it used to be.
Ppl have sex, go out to eat, talk about work, go on vacay.
2016 Fwb is the cop out of all cop outs.
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Posted by TaurusVenGemGurl bye.Posted by ShaniajamSeems like you and I are going through similar situations as Taurus with Sags. I feel the same way, why try to make things FEEL like a relationship or something deeper, if that's not what you want.Posted by DMVI've never done fwb I just thought it was do it and go so a rock.... Yes for me.Posted by ShaniajamSo youve been living under a rock.
Why spend the night, why tell me
About your personal life and why distract me from other men then? Why care if my feelings get hurt? Fwb are just that... Do the dirt and go... The rest is confusing me.
Fwb is much more than what it used to be.
Ppl have sex, go out to eat, talk about work, go on vacay.
2016 Fwb is the cop out of all cop outs.
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Posted by PV&JellayI just want women to be the queens i know they are.Posted by DMVWoo you are in rare form today. I think even P-Angel would stand up and applaud this.
Some of you women really irk me.
No man can make you do anything.
"Why doesn't he just let me go?"
"Why does he keep coming back?"
" why doesn't he let me walk away?"
This goes for both sexes. No one us putting a gun to your head making you do anything.
If you really wanted to walk away, youd do it and mean it.
A man will want to hold on to what makes him feel good.
He obviously likes u and is attracted to you. The sex is good and youre consistent. Mars in Scorpio and loves to bond sexually. Complete emotional intimacy makes every better for them.
Thats why he want you around.
So if you want to know where you stand, open up tour mouth.
If you wanna wait for him to say something, have at it.
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Posted by ShaniajamPosted by DMVI've never done fwb I just thought it was do it and go so a rock.... Yes for me.Posted by ShaniajamSo youve been living under a rock.
Why spend the night, why tell me
About your personal life and why distract me from other men then? Why care if my feelings get hurt? Fwb are just that... Do the dirt and go... The rest is confusing me.
Fwb is much more than what it used to be.
Ppl have sex, go out to eat, talk about work, go on vacay.
2016 Fwb is the cop out of all cop outs.
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Posted by PV&JellayWord Aries dont care.Posted by DMVPosted by PV&JellayI dated theae exact placements. Cancer moon instead of pisces moon.Posted by ShaniajamHmm. Best of luck. My advice, enjoy the sex and keep it moving.
Him:
Sun SAGGITARIUS
Moon Pisces
Venus SAGGITARIUS
Mars Scorpio
8 years as FWB.
Amazing sex. He was a great friend, lover, etc.
I date these exact placements all the time too. Some times its a cap mars instead of a scorp mars. They don't know what they want. They like untitled relationships. I was younger so I rode with it. I wouldn't bother now. They need to be led, abused, controlled. I leave them to the Aries.
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Posted by TaurusVenGemPosted by ShaniajamPosted by DMVPosted by Shaniajam
Why spend the night, why tell me
About your personal life and why distract me from other men then? Why care if my feelings get hurt? Fwb are just that... Do the dirt and go... The rest is confusing me.

Posted by PV&JellayPosted by DMVPosted by PV&JellayI dated theae exact placements. Cancer moon instead of pisces moon.Posted by ShaniajamHmm. Best of luck. My advice, enjoy the sex and keep it moving.
Him:
Sun SAGGITARIUS
Moon Pisces
Venus SAGGITARIUS
Mars Scorpio
8 years as FWB.
Amazing sex. He was a great friend, lover, etc.
I date these exact placements all the time too. Some times its a cap mars instead of a scorp mars. They don't know what they want. They like untitled relationships. I was younger so I rode with it. I wouldn't bother now. They need to be led, abused, controlled. I leave them to the Aries.
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Posted by Shaniajam
Why spend the night, why tell me
About your personal life and why distract me from other men then? Why care if my feelings get hurt? Fwb are just that... Do the dirt and go... The rest is confusing me.

Posted by ShaniajamOr maybe u are the one reading into more of what this isPosted by PV&JellayPosted by DMVPosted by PV&JellayI dated theae exact placements. Cancer moon instead of pisces moon.Posted by ShaniajamHmm. Best of luck. My advice, enjoy the sex and keep it moving.
Him:
Sun SAGGITARIUS
Moon Pisces
Venus SAGGITARIUS
Mars Scorpio
8 years as FWB.
Amazing sex. He was a great friend, lover, etc.
I date these exact placements all the time too. Some times its a cap mars instead of a scorp mars. They don't know what they want. They like untitled relationships. I was younger so I rode with it. I wouldn't bother now. They need to be led, abused, controlled. I leave them to the Aries.
That's exactly how it feels he went back and forth from relationship to fwb to now feeling in the middle of nothing.... Thanks for your rational debates everyone else that just had attitude to reply can save it. Not looking for approval I'm looking for a deeper meaning if there is one. Not everyone can read more into things. So thank you.
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Posted by SagiScorpI know we are.... It's a pity that it isn't going that route. I just need to take it as it is.Posted by ShaniajamNo, you're absolutely right. Pisces and Taurus attract each other like crazy. I wouldn't be surprised if the two of you were great matches.
I saw Pisces moon and thought it may have something to do with it. Ah well maybe not
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Posted by HarukkaPlease don't pity me.... What we like is security and money is abundant and brings me much of what I need. I don't need sex... I was celebate before him. Yet there is something there I'm sorry I know when to dip of idiots... This doesn't feel the same but it is what it is. I've ended it twice and he comes around saying why I can't just go with the flow and be friends and let whatever come comes. Doesn't say for that means more or not later. Yet I feel strongly he is NOT playing the field either. But honestly I'm very busy to notice only when I get a break like today it rides my mind. Tomorrow..... Back to normal. Which is why I'm never on here much.
Taurus people 😢 I feel sorry for u.





Posted by Shaniajam
I'm just thinking him: Pisces moon and my Taurus moon... Him scorp Mars and my scorp Mars... Him Venus sagg and my Venus Aries.... I've never had this happen with anyone I've "dated" I'm not crazy. However I must take it for what it is. People are human before astrology. So if that's what he says then that's what it is. When I mention we can still sleep around until I find someone he goes silent like he hurts... Then he blows hot. Also, he does all the contacting I never initiate .....I've also tried not answering.... He shows up. It's not just sex.... He has options. So do i. Yet I'm not ready for the question. However next time instead of coming here I'll ask a Friend or him. Some of you don't know how to just answer the question instead of "trying" to make someone seem dumb or under you lol. Don't work on tauruses though lol


Posted by ShaniajamYou knew we were over this the first time around.
Yes I'm back again with this fwb crap and before you roll your eyes hear me out.

Posted by DMVGet over it then dmv... I don't have to be. I came for advice and I will keep doing so at my will. I don't come with the same thing I gotPosted by ShaniajamYou knew we were over this the first time around.
Yes I'm back again with this fwb crap and before you roll your eyes hear me out.click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88Posted by ShaniajamWhat effort to please you? He is keeping YOUR SEX on tap for when he gets a dry spell.... Why do fools think they can turn an FWB into a relationship—? Text book... It won't happen!!!! Stop kidding yourself. Like a lot of men, he will tell you what he feels you need to hear to keep you sweet and sex flowing END OFF...Posted by DMVHe also has free will. I've told him just sex is not working for me which is why he up the anti and stays the night and we talk about more personal things. I have left, however I won't be mean... He will text and open up a little more then I just feel like I'm slow at relationships so I give another chance. You are correct I should open my mouth. Maybe I feel it's too soon. I will when the time is right. When I've had enough I don't have an issue walking away. This doesn't feel like fwb cause he's making an effort to please me when I have concerns instead of saying ok whatever bye so that was all I was trying to understand. Thanks for the insight.
Some of you women really irk me.
No man can make you do anything.
"Why doesn't he just let me go?"
"Why does he keep coming back?"
" why doesn't he let me walk away?"
This goes for both sexes. No one us putting a gun to your head making you do anything.
If you really wanted to walk away, youd do it and mean it.
A man will want to hold on to what makes him feel good.
He obviously likes u and is attracted to you. The sex is good and youre consistent. Mars in Scorpio and loves to bond sexually. Complete emotional intimacy makes every better for them.
Thats why he want you around.
So if you want to know where you stand, open up tour mouth.
If you wanna wait for him to say something, have at it.
There's never going to be a "right time"... EVER! That's not a "relationship" you are having!!! Its an FWB, so don't blur the lines...
If you don't want an fwb walk away NOW as that is all you will EVER be to this sag!!!click to expand

Posted by ShaniajamLol. But you just said that you'll start going to your friends.Posted by DMVGet over it then dmv... I don't have to be. I came for advice and I will keep doing so at my will. I don't come with the same thing I gotPosted by ShaniajamYou knew we were over this the first time around.
Yes I'm back again with this fwb crap and before you roll your eyes hear me out.
The year wrong first time so this is a true chart im asking on. Get a grip. I'll get my own grip when I'm readyclick to expand

Posted by ShaniajamI would be interested on the statistics of that actually 🙂Posted by busyeyes88Posted by ShaniajamWhat effort to please you? He is keeping YOUR SEX on tap for when he gets a dry spell.... Why do fools think they can turn an FWB into a relationship—? Text book... It won't happen!!!! Stop kidding yourself. Like a lot of men, he will tell you what he feels you need to hear to keep you sweet and sex flowing END OFF...Posted by DMVHe also has free will. I've told him just sex is not working for me which is why he up the anti and stays the night and we talk about more personal things. I have left, however I won't be mean... He will text and open up a little more then I just feel like I'm slow at relationships so I give another chance. You are correct I should open my mouth. Maybe I feel it's too soon. I will when the time is right. When I've had enough I don't have an issue walking away. This doesn't feel like fwb cause he's making an effort to please me when I have concerns instead of saying ok whatever bye so that was all I was trying to understand. Thanks for the insight.
Some of you women really irk me.
No man can make you do anything.
"Why doesn't he just let me go?"
"Why does he keep coming back?"
" why doesn't he let me walk away?"
This goes for both sexes. No one us putting a gun to your head making you do anything.
If you really wanted to walk away, youd do it and mean it.
A man will want to hold on to what makes him feel good.
He obviously likes u and is attracted to you. The sex is good and youre consistent. Mars in Scorpio and loves to bond sexually. Complete emotional intimacy makes every better for them.
Thats why he want you around.
So if you want to know where you stand, open up tour mouth.
If you wanna wait for him to say something, have at it.
There's never going to be a "right time"... EVER! That's not a "relationship" you are having!!! Its an FWB, so don't blur the lines...
If you don't want an fwb walk away NOW as that is all you will EVER be to this sag!!!
Actually fwb has turned into relationships and marriages and this didn't start out this way.. And you are a Taurus as well so to say people think we are stupid knowing we not is ask classifying you the same.
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Posted by Capri__unicornYou know what? Thank you for this. I have now gained clarity. Reasoning works with me... That other sarcastines is just rude. Thank you very much.
Just ask him. Don't try to make sense of it in your head. You will take every little gesture as something more when in reality it really is just fwb. I was a fwb to a Taurus for two years. Very similar interaction and it's as clear as day that he loves me, but love does not equal an automatic relationship. Some men just want the comfort of a good girl without the headache of a relationship. They will treat you with love, respect, be exclusive to you....but none of that constitutes more until both parties agree to it. We have recently settled back into our friendship and I honestly couldn't be happier. I'm not worrying myself like you are now. Sex complicates things. Either be just his friend and be at peace, ask if he is interested in a relationship or be a fwb and know that it doesn't mean anything more.

Posted by DMVI love honesty it's your approach that's daunting. I'm over it. And I go where I please. Good day (smiles)Posted by ShaniajamLol. But you just said that you'll start going to your friends.Posted by DMVGet over it then dmv... I don't have to be. I came for advice and I will keep doing so at my will. I don't come with the same thing I gotPosted by ShaniajamYou knew we were over this the first time around.
Yes I'm back again with this fwb crap and before you roll your eyes hear me out.
The year wrong first time so this is a true chart im asking on. Get a grip. I'll get my own grip when I'm ready
Sorry if my honesty was too much.
I just want you to do.better cause you know you can.
You're right tho, Taurus move on their on time.click to expand

Posted by WeedsThere's always drama here... Ask a question and see hahahaha.... It doesn't scare me away. I just weed out the rational ones.
Good to see drama bring some life to the shitty site

Posted by ShaniajamPosted by DMVI love honesty it's your approach that's daunting. I'm over it. And I go where I please. Good day (smiles)Posted by ShaniajamLol. But you just said that you'll start going to your friends.Posted by DMVGet over it then dmv... I don't have to be. I came for advice and I will keep doing so at my will. I don't come with the same thing I gotPosted by ShaniajamYou knew we were over this the first time around.
Yes I'm back again with this fwb crap and before you roll your eyes hear me out.
The year wrong first time so this is a true chart im asking on. Get a grip. I'll get my own grip when I'm ready
Sorry if my honesty was too much.
I just want you to do.better cause you know you can.
You're right tho, Taurus move on their on time.
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Posted by MoonbutterPosted by ShaniajamI would be interested on the statistics of that actually 🙂Posted by busyeyes88Posted by ShaniajamWhat effort to please you? He is keeping YOUR SEX on tap for when he gets a dry spell.... Why do fools think they can turn an FWB into a relationship—? Text book... It won't happen!!!! Stop kidding yourself. Like a lot of men, he will tell you what he feels you need to hear to keep you sweet and sex flowing END OFF...Posted by DMVHe also has free will. I've told him just sex is not working for me which is why he up the anti and stays the night and we talk about more personal things. I have left, however I won't be mean... He will text and open up a little more then I just feel like I'm slow at relationships so I give another chance. You are correct I should open my mouth. Maybe I feel it's too soon. I will when the time is right. When I've had enough I don't have an issue walking away. This doesn't feel like fwb cause he's making an effort to please me when I have concerns instead of saying ok whatever bye so that was all I was trying to understand. Thanks for the insight.
Some of you women really irk me.
No man can make you do anything.
"Why doesn't he just let me go?"
"Why does he keep coming back?"
" why doesn't he let me walk away?"
This goes for both sexes. No one us putting a gun to your head making you do anything.
If you really wanted to walk away, youd do it and mean it.
A man will want to hold on to what makes him feel good.
He obviously likes u and is attracted to you. The sex is good and youre consistent. Mars in Scorpio and loves to bond sexually. Complete emotional intimacy makes every better for them.
Thats why he want you around.
So if you want to know where you stand, open up tour mouth.
If you wanna wait for him to say something, have at it.
There's never going to be a "right time"... EVER! That's not a "relationship" you are having!!! Its an FWB, so don't blur the lines...
If you don't want an fwb walk away NOW as that is all you will EVER be to this sag!!!
Actually fwb has turned into relationships and marriages and this didn't start out this way.. And you are a Taurus as well so to say people think we are stupid knowing we not is ask classifying you the same.
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Posted by DMVYes once I checked the year and saw his Venus... And sun.... I felt that too. Which is why I felt the Pisces moon would suffice. Who am I kidding this is doomed and I've just ended. Hopefully I'm strong to take his "ok" which I'm almost sure he'll say.... And move forward.
Ok, real talk. I have never met a venus in sag male who was monogamous. Not one.
Whether they were single, married, relationship. They all had someone else on the side.

Posted by HarukkaI see. You got my senses going. I just ended it. Tired of wrestling with my emotions.Posted by ShaniajamPosted by HarukkaPlease don't pity me.... What we like is security and money is abundant and brings me much of what I need. I don't need sex... I was celebate before him. Yet there is something there I'm sorry I know when to dip of idiots... This doesn't feel the same but it is what it is. I've ended it twice and he comes around saying why I can't just go with the flow and be friends and let whatever come comes. Doesn't say for that means more or not later. Yet I feel strongly he is NOT playing the field either. But honestly I'm very busy to notice only when I get a break like today it rides my mind. Tomorrow..... Back to normal. Which is why I'm never on here much.
Taurus people 😢 I feel sorry for u.
I feel sorry because I know sometimes sags are players
And I think he just playing game with you..
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Him:
Sun SAGGITARIUS
Moon Pisces
Venus SAGGITARIUS
Mars Scorpio
Me: sun Taurus
Moon Taurus
Venus Aries
Mars Scorpio
After looking at our pairing I realized why I felt the magnetic bond. Always in the back of my head I was like Taurus and SAGGITARIUS will never work! I was already heading out the door. He pushed for a relationship the. Stepped back and asked to be fwb. But this isn't a fwb and I don't know what we are and I won't ask cause I know commitment scares him and honestly I'm busy too (we're both in the entertainment industry and busy a lot). Anyways when we have sex it now feels like he's making love to me as if he's trying to tell me when before it was like just for excitement. He also spends the night. He also shows me his phone when he's around and tells me what's been going on with him and keeps me in the loop about his family. But if you only want fwb why even go there? Also he has said on more occasions that I'm the only one he is sexually active with and I notice one the few times we've been in social settings he watches me and text me from across the room If I'm indulging too much in a guy. I give him majooooooor space. Yet there is a bond that I can't explain.... He kisses me so passionately and oh my god wow. Also he asked me to do a threesome (not with a girl but with another guy) I honestly feel it was a test can't be sure... But when I declined and said I had no idea he viewed me that way and that I wasn't that type of girl and now I see I'm not what he's looking for cause anyone that wanted a true mate wouldn't do that.... He instantly came over and said it bothered him that I felt that way and he doesn't look at me that way and he had to say it in person. That's when the love making felt more deep and intense (damn I said love making). Am I making this up? Yet I act like we're nothing. He rubs my back after sex and caresses me. It's so weird. I'm lost and I can't ask him these things yet. It's only been two months as well so in treading lightly on bringing up relationship titles. Thanks.