Understanding a sagg girl as an aries

Well, I met this sagg girl at a college party, I thougt she was cute, we had some chemestry, danced and got drunk, I kissed her and then she invited me to her place. I expected a one night stand but she was tired and not actually sexual and I was not interested in banging a chick with that kind of vibe. So I gave her a rubb, cuddled and fell asleep. To be honest I felt some affection for this girl, and a strange confussion in the morning so I decided to try taking care of her and give her some time to open up, because I still thought she was cute.

The next week she invited me to her place several times, we had a great time together but I got the same vibe in the sex topic. She seemed to enjoy the way I kissed her but never matched my intensity. She was just passively standing there, and she never gave me any clue of wheter she is enjoying it or not.. I slept at her place several times and she seem to enjoy to fell asleep in my arms and that's all.

I started to like a lot her personality... She was very chill, inteligent and drama-free. Also she was very independent and never made a big deal for the days I was to busy to talk or my low frequency of online comunication (I don't like texting).

I was starting to get more and more confused when after 3 weeks she hit me with the 'just friends' stuff. I was a little bit upset but tought that after all is ok, and I could live with it.

Then after a few days I came to her place to study together for an exam. It was a great day, we talked a lot and to fast forward it we smoked a blunt, I kissed her and later I engaged in some foreplay and she told me that she was ok with it but had the same passive vibe so I was not really into sex. She also told me that she doesn't value sexuality that much and that she liked me. In the morning I had to leave early because of something, but I left her a poem about her written while stoned. She later texted me about how great that poem was.

So that was a few days ago. Until now I just texted her casualy a few times in order to avoid an awkward silence.

I really don't know what to do, I'm confused and I don't know if she doesn't like me more than just a friend and let me do all this stuff because she feel like she owe me something or she is not used with recieving affection...

I like her, and at this point I'm ok with being just friends as long as we keep in touch too, but this is the first sagg girl I date and I have no clue on how to read her intentions.

Aries sun, aries moon, cancer rising here.

So have you had sex or not? I'm confused.

Hi there,

Well she already said she just wants to be friends.

You're doing all this extra stuff trying to WIN her over but the battle is over.

It was kinda over night 1.

Saggis like to get down 2 so if she didn't she just ain't feeling it.

Now, why is she not speaking up?

She already did.

You just didn't receive it. You heard it but you didn't receive it.

Now she feels mad awkward because she already said "no"

She's not trying to get stabbed or cursed out for you thinking that she's leading you on when she has said no.

You're not dating her. She just wants to be friends.

This sound me ironically familiar with the Martinez girl who got called out on the internet by her female friend.

I think she may be bored or more likely in love with somebody else, who doesnt want her.... so you are handy, when she is feeling alone

I'm just wondering why he hasn't taken it further, he seems to stop in the middle of everything. Are you two drinking while you have these make out sessions? It seems like some bored make out session to me too.

Why even do it. lol

The friends thing, I don't know cause I'm contradicting like that. If you keep making out with me and don't push forward and get to the real act, I would say something like that to see where your heads at.

There just isn't enough info here to judge.

Posted by Ganon
Lmao at non-Sag women explainig what the deal is while all Sag ladies are confused or need more info to understand the situation.

Amusing...🙂

Im a sag and understood

Posted by Ganon
Lmao at non-Sag women explainig what the deal is while all Sag ladies are confused or need more info to understand the situation.

Amusing...🙂

Okey, I am guilty or this, I have no sag in my chart 🙂 (just Jupiter, so I win in games - like poker or cards 🙂 )

there are at least 2 explanations for her behavior from a female perspective and my opinion:

1. she is in love with somebody else, so she doesnt want to sleep with him, but she is content to have him there

2. the OP Aries admitted, that he thought she is cute (!! how lame) and that he tought its a one night stand. She maybe felt this vibe from him, so she was not interested to act on it..... so now the Aries, who thought it will be a one night stand, is getting to know her and starting to liking her.... the chase (how boring it can be for Aries to always chase and never get satisfied in the end - not because of the other person is not good enough, but because the Aries)

I think there are other planets in play (the Aries wrote a poem and left it there - water in his chart? or some Leo?), the Sag girl not really getting into sex (aqua placements, or some earth - taking it slow?)

Aries man, who is put off to get into action by some "vibes" is not a typical Aries, so I need all the planets 🙂 Sag girl, who doesnt put it out right away, is not a typical Sag, so I need all the planets, again🙂

two untypical sun signs got together, that is my opinion (and maybe their other planets are the explanation.... or maybe one of them is not really interested)

Ok thats pretty close to me...i am a sag woman too and i am 20.

There may be many reasons for this.

Some sag girls value the connection before sex so that may be the case.

She may tests the waters and tries to she if you like her enough to wait or ask her for a relationship first

Or she is in her first steps in her sexuality and lets you do her foreplay for example to see how it feels but is not ready for sex yet.

I dont see a reason why she only sees you as a friend and let you do all that.

Maybe she is of the sags that is a bit into philosophy.You know us sags usually we read something new and interesting and go all the way with it.She may got impressed by some new belief about sexuality.

You know weird sag stuff , better ask her openly thats the best way to get your answer.