What would make a Sag woman try to bully a guy?

One of the girls I am seeing although we aren't exclusive has a friend in her group, we'll call her Taylor. Taylor is the outspoken friend for sure but she is cool with most people, including a past guy who used to casually hook up with the girl I am seeing. I've known her for almost 6 months now and every single time, it's like she is trying to bully me in some way.

It gets really bad when we drink as a group, like she will try to find me and then become rude and harsh. Whenever I would try to tell a story, she cuts me off in front of others and smirks about it. If she doesn't do that, she either imitates me or just says all of the stories are BS. If we are trying to get drinks, she shoves me out of the way to get drinks.

If I am ignoring her, she gets physical and shoves me saying "what are you doing? god you are so boring and plain, cannot believe my friend picked you, she's desperate sometimes you know". Like dude, wtf......If I look at my phone then she just says loudly "the porn can wait dude, just talk to people we're at a bar" as others in the bar start laughing.

It's all of this that makes me wonder what is up with her because she does it to me and no one else!!!!

Then at times when I am just minding my own business and the girl I am seeing is not around, Taylor starts to just attack me. She usually says things like "it's easy unless you are a p-ssy like TheLizWiz" when I have not even said anything to her. If it involves a situation to put me in jeopardy, she will just provoke me. Last week we were out, they asked who wants to be the guy who will take part in some game where you sit on a chair and if someone throws a ball on target you fall into the water. Taylor shouted saying "LizWiz will do it!", loudly.

She has tried to prank me, tripped me and laughed, and always just tried to get a snide remark in.

Why me?

😅 I’m dying

I mean I’m sorry you feel attacked, I’m not laughing at you…I just sort of related to this tbh.

I think she actually probably likes you.

If she didn’t she would literally ignore and avoid you. Often with fire energy teasing = affection.

She obviously wants your attention.

Have you been told you are an aloof person?

I feel like some people just give off this energy that makes you want to poke them/bust their balls. You might just have that energy. Idk 🤷🏼‍♀️

I am not every Sag, but I have noticed similarities amongst Sag people and I feel like when we really don’t care for someone we go out of our way to avoid them. We’re certainly not going to try to banter with them or tease them like she’s attempting to do with you. That’s more the type of weird shit water people do …

I am actually a Leo...the girl I am seeing is also a Leo but we never fight at all in public or anything. The Sag on the other hand, dude........

You are such a wuss.

Just tell her to fuck off.

Posted by Sagoxa

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I'm with @brianafay on this one. Teasing and roasting is our love language. That means she likes you and is comfortable with you lol. If you dont like it, just be direct and tell her non violently.

This part in particular has me rolling

“ If I look at my phone then she just says loudly "the porn can wait dude, just talk to people we're at a bar" as others in the bar start laughing. ”

Sounds like she is trying to hide a crush she has on you. Hilarious.

Posted by TheLizWiz

I am actually a Leo...the girl I am seeing is also a Leo but we never fight at all in public or anything. The Sag on the other hand, dude........

I'd bully a Leo man into the ground. loveeee maaaah

Posted by TheLizWiz



If I am ignoring her, she gets physical and shoves me saying "what are you doing? god you are so boring and plain, cannot believe my friend picked you, she's desperate sometimes you know".

Last week we were out, they asked who wants to be the guy who will take part in some game where you sit on a chair and if someone throws a ball on target you fall into the water. Taylor shouted saying "LizWiz will do it!", loudly.

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

Bish, I am on the floor!

Sagittarius women are amazing

Posted by TheLizWiz

I am actually a Leo...the girl I am seeing is also a Leo but we never fight at all in public or anything. The Sag on the other hand, dude........

You feel alive, don’t you

Posted by brianafay

I am not every Sag, but I have noticed similarities amongst Sag people and I feel like when we really don’t care for someone we go out of our way to avoid them. We’re certainly not going to try to banter with them or tease them like she’s attempting to do with you. That’s more the type of weird shit water people do …

This is very true.

Teasing = mating call

Posted by TheLizWiz

One of the girls I am seeing although we aren't exclusive has a friend in her group, we'll call her Taylor. Taylor is the outspoken friend for sure but she is cool with most people, including a past guy who used to casually hook up with the girl I am seeing. I've known her for almost 6 months now and every single time, it's like she is trying to bully me in some way.

It gets really bad when we drink as a group, like she will try to find me and then become rude and harsh. Whenever I would try to tell a story, she cuts me off in front of others and smirks about it. If she doesn't do that, she either imitates me or just says all of the stories are BS. If we are trying to get drinks, she shoves me out of the way to get drinks.

If I am ignoring her, she gets physical and shoves me saying "what are you doing? god you are so boring and plain, cannot believe my friend picked you, she's desperate sometimes you know". Like dude, wtf......If I look at my phone then she just says loudly "the porn can wait dude, just talk to people we're at a bar" as others in the bar start laughing.

It's all of this that makes me wonder what is up with her because she does it to me and no one else!!!!

Then at times when I am just minding my own business and the girl I am seeing is not around, Taylor starts to just attack me. She usually says things like "it's easy unless you are a p-ssy like TheLizWiz" when I have not even said anything to her. If it involves a situation to put me in jeopardy, she will just provoke me. Last week we were out, they asked who wants to be the guy who will take part in some game where you sit on a chair and if someone throws a ball on target you fall into the water. Taylor shouted saying "LizWiz will do it!", loudly.

She has tried to prank me, tripped me and laughed, and always just tried to get a snide remark in.

Why me?

I guess she likes you. That's how quite a few Sags show interest/affection. I'm not sure what dating manual they got that approach from...Doesn't work for some if done in an abrasive way, which appears to be the case in your scenario. Just tell her to f*ck off and stop giving her any attention, like go cold ice and it should stop.

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Posted by brianafay

I am not every Sag, but I have noticed similarities amongst Sag people and I feel like when we really don’t care for someone we go out of our way to avoid them. We’re certainly not going to try to banter with them or tease them like she’s attempting to do with you. That’s more the type of weird shit water people do …

This is very true.

Teasing = mating call

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It reminded me of one of my husband’s friends (Aries)

We have just mean and hateful to each other from day one. Idk what it is about fire on fire I just can’t help myself. Plus he started with me

He started calling me Princess Fiona and I call him “Andre the Giant looking ass” lmao

My husband doesn’t even like us interacting because he thinks we’re flirting 😅

You write like deck and decker. "All the stories are BS" I wonder if all Leos come across like this. I didn't realize leos could be walked over like this. I thought you guys were supposed to be prideful and strong, especially being a fire sign.

Are Leos really weak like this?

Posted by saggurl88

...I didn't realize leos could be walked over like this. I thought you guys were supposed to be prideful and strong, especially being a fire sign.

Are Leos really weak like this?

Definitely hasn't been my observation. Never met a Leo that didn't give as good as they received without blinking. I'm guessing he's flooded with Fish or Leeb bits.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by saggurl88

...I didn't realize leos could be walked over like this. I thought you guys were supposed to be prideful and strong, especially being a fire sign.

Are Leos really weak like this?

Definitely hasn't been my observation. Never met a Leo that didn't give as good as they received without blinking. I'm guessing he's flooded with Fish or Leeb bits.

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I find it hard to believe there are two weak men saying they are Leo's being punked by Sagittarius women on this site lol

None of the other Leo men on this site talk in this way at all. What are the odds 😆

But maybe I'm reading into it too much, I'm always skeptical when writing style s seem the same.

I know 3 Leo men in real life, ranging in age, that I talk with on regular basis and none of them act in this way, so I find it very hard to believe.

But you are right, the ones I know don't have and Pisces or Libra bits in them just Cancer and Aries bits. I guess charts really make a difference.

Let’s just say this, my Dad is the only Leo I can’t/won’t/don’t wanna punk out

Posted by DMV

Let’s just say this, my Dad is the only Leo I can’t/won’t/don’t wanna punk out

You were with a Leo for years, do Leos really act in this way?

I feel like I don't truly know them at all with some of the stuff I come across on the site written by supposed Leo men.

Posted by saggurl88

I find it hard to believe there are two weak men saying they are Leo's being punked by Sagittarius women on this site lol

None of the other Leo men on this site talk in this way at all. What are the odds 😆

But maybe I'm reading into it too much, I'm always skeptical when writing style s seem the same.

I know 3 Leo men in real life, ranging in age, that I talk with on regular basis and none of them act in this way, so I find it very hard to believe.

But you are right, the ones I know don't have and Pisces or Libra bits in them just Cancer and Aries bits. I guess charts really make a difference.

Right? Leo and Sags are pretty good at razing each other until they step away to do it all over again. My dad's a Leo, and you can't even look at him sideways before he has something to say. I read "I'm a Leo" and I was like:



I swear I thought he was a Leeb at first.

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Posted by DMV

Let’s just say this, my Dad is the only Leo I can’t/won’t/don’t wanna punk out

You were with a Leo for years, do Leos really act in this way?

I feel like I don't truly know them at all with some of the stuff I come across on the site written by supposed Leo men.

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“My” Leo also had a sag moon and cancer Mars

So he was very volatile towards the ending of our relationship

At the beginning, he was a sweetheart and like the young, dumb, mutable sign I was, I agreed with everything he wanted to do.

Things started to change when I started saying NO

I Would say that saggi women are good at disarming Leo men. As a fellow fire sign and the last fire sign were just more evolved but Leo’s as a fixed sign want it their way all the time

Either way OP, just tell her to quit. One of my dear friends, Sag male use to tease me mercilessly when we were in grade school. Always had something to say when were in class to get the other kids laughing. One day I just walked over to him I kicked his chair from underneath him, stood over him and told him to f*ck off (not suggesting the first part) and he stopped after that.

I'm the God mother to his son.

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Posted by DMV

Let’s just say this, my Dad is the only Leo I can’t/won’t/don’t wanna punk out

You were with a Leo for years, do Leos really act in this way?

I feel like I don't truly know them at all with some of the stuff I come across on the site written by supposed Leo men.

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I dated a Leo man and I recall him getting into a guy's face that tried to call him out in front of me. All he said was "why you talking to him when you can have a real man?". Leo wasn't having it. Very prideful folks.

He was always very gentle with me though and the females in his family. Very protective.

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Posted by DMV

Let’s just say this, my Dad is the only Leo I can’t/won’t/don’t wanna punk out

You were with a Leo for years, do Leos really act in this way?

I feel like I don't truly know them at all with some of the stuff I come across on the site written by supposed Leo men.

“My” Leo also had a sag moon and cancer Mars

So he was very volatile towards the ending of our relationship

At the beginning, he was a sweetheart and like the young, dumb, mutable sign I was, I agreed with everything he wanted to do.

Things started to change when I started saying NO

I Would say that saggi women are good at disarming Leo men. As a fellow fire sign and the last fire sign were just more evolved but Leo’s as a fixed sign want it their way all the time

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I can see wanting their way. I find it boring as hell, honestly.

But I was wondering more about how the OP and deck and decker talk, like they get punked all the time.

Oh a fire moon. Ugh. I really think masculine moons have no place in relationships with feminine moons.

You have a very feminine chart to deal with someone who is that harsh, I think you dodged a bullet and deserved better so you were lucky to escape that mess.

Being young and not growing as a couple sucks.

I find Cancer Mars to be very wishy washy when they are on an insecure Leo. And I can act just as wishy washy because of my Cancer moon, so it doesn't help 😆

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by DMV

Let’s just say this, my Dad is the only Leo I can’t/won’t/don’t wanna punk out

You were with a Leo for years, do Leos really act in this way?

I feel like I don't truly know them at all with some of the stuff I come across on the site written by supposed Leo men.

I dated a Leo man and I recall him getting into a guy's face that tried to call him out in front of me. All he said was "why you talking to him when you can have a real man?". Leo wasn't having it. Very prideful folks.

He was always very gentle with me though and the females in his family. Very protective.

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Exactly, This is what the Leo men I know are like. Someone is really trying to paint a "weak man" Leo picture lol

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by DMV

Let’s just say this, my Dad is the only Leo I can’t/won’t/don’t wanna punk out

You were with a Leo for years, do Leos really act in this way?

I feel like I don't truly know them at all with some of the stuff I come across on the site written by supposed Leo men.

I dated a Leo man and I recall him getting into a guy's face that tried to call him out in front of me. All he said was "why you talking to him when you can have a real man?". Leo wasn't having it. Very prideful folks.

He was always very gentle with me though and the females in his family. Very protective.

Exactly, This is what the Leo men I know are like. Someone is really trying to paint a "weak man" Leo picture lol

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You awful Sag bullies!

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Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by DMV

Let’s just say this, my Dad is the only Leo I can’t/won’t/don’t wanna punk out

You were with a Leo for years, do Leos really act in this way?

I feel like I don't truly know them at all with some of the stuff I come across on the site written by supposed Leo men.

I dated a Leo man and I recall him getting into a guy's face that tried to call him out in front of me. All he said was "why you talking to him when you can have a real man?". Leo wasn't having it. Very prideful folks.

He was always very gentle with me though and the females in his family. Very protective.

Exactly, This is what the Leo men I know are like. Someone is really trying to paint a "weak man" Leo picture lol

You awful Sag bullies!

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LMAO IKR—!!!

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Posted by PhoenixRising

You awful Sag bullies!

LMAO IKR—!!!

https://c.tenor.com/SNbVRiFSmysAAAAM/dragged-away-fight.gif

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LOL, I love your gifs.

If you told me that was a confirmed Sag woman dragging a Leo man I'd have another Sag crush.

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Posted by DMV

Let’s just say this, my Dad is the only Leo I can’t/won’t/don’t wanna punk out

You were with a Leo for years, do Leos really act in this way?

I feel like I don't truly know them at all with some of the stuff I come across on the site written by supposed Leo men.

“My” Leo also had a sag moon and cancer Mars

So he was very volatile towards the ending of our relationship

At the beginning, he was a sweetheart and like the young, dumb, mutable sign I was, I agreed with everything he wanted to do.

Things started to change when I started saying NO

I Would say that saggi women are good at disarming Leo men. As a fellow fire sign and the last fire sign were just more evolved but Leo’s as a fixed sign want it their way all the time

I can see wanting their way. I find it boring as hell, honestly.

But I was wondering more about how the OP and deck and decker talk, like they get punked all the time.

Oh a fire moon. Ugh. I really think masculine moons have no place in relationships with feminine moons.

You have a very feminine chart to deal with someone who is that harsh, I think you dodged a bullet and deserved better so you were lucky to escape that mess.

Being young and not growing as a couple sucks.

I find Cancer Mars to be very wishy washy when they are on an insecure Leo. And I can act just as wishy washy because of my Cancer moon, so it doesn't help 😆

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I agree with my chart

Maybe saggis intimidate leos

There was one user who posted about how he just met a sag woman and how she smacked him across the face, took his keys, and she kidnapped him on a road trip.

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Let’s just say this, my Dad is the only Leo I can’t/won’t/don’t wanna punk out

You were with a Leo for years, do Leos really act in this way?

I feel like I don't truly know them at all with some of the stuff I come across on the site written by supposed Leo men.

“My” Leo also had a sag moon and cancer Mars

So he was very volatile towards the ending of our relationship

At the beginning, he was a sweetheart and like the young, dumb, mutable sign I was, I agreed with everything he wanted to do.

Things started to change when I started saying NO

I Would say that saggi women are good at disarming Leo men. As a fellow fire sign and the last fire sign were just more evolved but Leo’s as a fixed sign want it their way all the time

I can see wanting their way. I find it boring as hell, honestly.

But I was wondering more about how the OP and deck and decker talk, like they get punked all the time.

Oh a fire moon. Ugh. I really think masculine moons have no place in relationships with feminine moons.

You have a very feminine chart to deal with someone who is that harsh, I think you dodged a bullet and deserved better so you were lucky to escape that mess.

Being young and not growing as a couple sucks.

I find Cancer Mars to be very wishy washy when they are on an insecure Leo. And I can act just as wishy washy because of my Cancer moon, so it doesn't help 😆

I agree with my chart

Maybe saggis intimidate leos

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They might be!

Leo Men trigger me very much in trying to cut them off, but they have staying power because they don't like being ignored.

I can't stand Cancer mars. The indirect baby ways is too conflicting with me being a brat.

I want someone to cater to me at all times 😆 I can't cater to a man who throws fits lol

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You awful Sag bullies!

LMAO IKR—!!!

LOL, I love your gifs.

If you told me that was a confirmed Sag woman dragging a Leo man I'd have another Sag crush.

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LMAO!!!

She likes you OP

update: I confronted her and we had a nice chat, she is really chill with me so far

Posted by TheLizWiz

update: I confronted her and we had a nice chat, she is really chill with me so far

So do you want her or the Leo?