It's because......
When She Says: "You Don't Listen!"
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sail_(song)
Background on song
http://www.songfacts.com/detail.php?id=23875
Notes:
What Is A.D.D.?
Attention Deficit Disorder
Living With A.D.D.
http://www.everydayhealth.com/columns/jeff-emmerson-living-with-adult-adhd/from-suicide-attempt-to-clarity-my-adult-adhd-diagnosis/
A.D.D. and Suicide
http://totallyadd.com/tag/suicide-2/
ADD/ADHD could be one contributing factor.
If she doesn't understand what ADD/ADHD is, she's going to think it's something else.
As a man, if your life is loaded down, having many complex issues to sort out, it
may not be so easy to listen the way she wants you to.
Can a white man understand what it is to be a black man? Probably not.
Can a black man understand what it is to be a white man? Probably not.
Same holds true with women and men. Ask the same question:
Can a woman understand what it is to be a man? No.
Can a man understand what it is to be a woman? No.
Can a man, who is deaf, understand what it is to hear everything? No.
Can a man, who can hear everything, understand what it is like to hear nothing? No.
Obviously there are some common grounds, but those things that make us
distinctly different, foreign and alien, to us, often goes misunderstood by others, and sometimes,
even ourselves.
In an effort to find common ground, some people will try to understand those
differences. Others will not.
I am reminded of the separation of the sheep from the goats.
These to the right and those to the left.
If she doesn't understand what ADD/ADHD is, she's going to think it's something else.
As a man, if your life is loaded down, having many complex issues to sort out, it
may not be so easy to listen the way she wants you to.
Can a white man understand what it is to be a black man? Probably not.
Can a black man understand what it is to be a white man? Probably not.
Same holds true with women and men. Ask the same question:
Can a woman understand what it is to be a man? No.
Can a man understand what it is to be a woman? No.
Can a man, who is deaf, understand what it is to hear everything? No.
Can a man, who can hear everything, understand what it is like to hear nothing? No.
Obviously there are some common grounds, but those things that make us
distinctly different, foreign and alien, to us, often goes misunderstood by others, and sometimes,
even ourselves.
In an effort to find common ground, some people will try to understand those
differences. Others will not.
I am reminded of the separation of the sheep from the goats.
These to the right and those to the left.
What's another problem that can impede communications and put a strain on relationships?
Poor communications skills development
Socially Maladjusted
>>>>>CHILD ABUSE
Poor communications skills development
Socially Maladjusted
>>>>>CHILD ABUSE
The effects of child physical abuse may last a lifetime and can include brain damage and hearing and vision loss, resulting in disability. Even less severe injuries can lead to the abused child developing severe emotional, behavioral, or learning problems. Injuries to a child's growing brain can result in cognitive delays and severe emotional issues – problems that could adversely affect his or her quality of life forever.
Some effects of child physical abuse may manifest in high-risk behaviors, such as excessive promiscuity. Children who develop depression and anxiety due to their abusive past often turn to smoking, alcohol and illicit drug use and other unhealthy, dangerous behaviors to cope with their emotional and psychological scars. Of course, long-term, things like smoking, excessive alcohol consumption, and promiscuity can lead to cancer, liver damage, and infection from sexually transmitted diseases. This is why it's so important to recognize the signs of child physical abuse and take immediate action by reporting the abuse to the proper authorities.
Primary Effects of Child Physical Abuse
The primary, or first, effects of child physical abuse occur during and immediately after the abuse. The child will suffer pain and medical problems from physical injury and, in severe cases, even death. The physical pain from cuts, bruises, burns, whipping, kicking, punching, strangling, binding, etc., will eventually pass, but the emotional pain will last long after the visible wounds have healed.
The age at which the abuse occurs, influences the way the injuries -- or any permanent damage -- affect the child. Infant victims of physical abuse have the greatest risk of suffering long-term physical problems, such as neurological damage that manifests as tremors, irritability, lethargy, and vomiting. In more serious cases, the effects of child physical abuse can include seizures, permanent blindness or deafness, paralysis, mental and developmental delays and, of course, death. The longer the abuse continues, the greater the impact on the child, regardless of age.
Some effects of child physical abuse may manifest in high-risk behaviors, such as excessive promiscuity. Children who develop depression and anxiety due to their abusive past often turn to smoking, alcohol and illicit drug use and other unhealthy, dangerous behaviors to cope with their emotional and psychological scars. Of course, long-term, things like smoking, excessive alcohol consumption, and promiscuity can lead to cancer, liver damage, and infection from sexually transmitted diseases. This is why it's so important to recognize the signs of child physical abuse and take immediate action by reporting the abuse to the proper authorities.
Primary Effects of Child Physical Abuse
The primary, or first, effects of child physical abuse occur during and immediately after the abuse. The child will suffer pain and medical problems from physical injury and, in severe cases, even death. The physical pain from cuts, bruises, burns, whipping, kicking, punching, strangling, binding, etc., will eventually pass, but the emotional pain will last long after the visible wounds have healed.
The age at which the abuse occurs, influences the way the injuries -- or any permanent damage -- affect the child. Infant victims of physical abuse have the greatest risk of suffering long-term physical problems, such as neurological damage that manifests as tremors, irritability, lethargy, and vomiting. In more serious cases, the effects of child physical abuse can include seizures, permanent blindness or deafness, paralysis, mental and developmental delays and, of course, death. The longer the abuse continues, the greater the impact on the child, regardless of age.
Emotional Effects of Child Physical Abuse
The emotional effects of child physical abuse continue well after any physical wounds have healed. Numerous research studies conducted with abused children as subjects have concluded that a considerable number of psychological problems develop as a result of child physical abuse. These children experienced significantly more problems in their home lives, at school, and in dealing with peers than children from non-abusive environments.
Some psychological and emotional effects of child physical abuse include:
Eating disorders
Inability to concentrate (including ADHD)
Excessive hostility towards others, even friends and family members
Depression
Apathy and lethargy
Sleep issues – insomnia, excessive sleepiness, sleep apnea
Physically abused children are predisposed to develop numerous psychological disturbances. They're more likely to have low self-esteem, deal with excessive fear and anxiety, and act out aggressively toward their siblings and peers.
Social Effects of Child Physical Abuse
The adverse social effects of child physical abuse represent still another facet of the child's life influenced by the abuse. Many abused children find it difficult to form lasting and appropriate friendships. They lack the ability to trust others in the most basic of ways. Children who have suffered long-term abuse lack basic social skills and cannot communicate naturally as other children can.
These children may also exhibit a tendency to over-comply with authority figures and to use aggression for solving interpersonal issues. The social effects of child physical abuse continue to negatively influence the adult life of the abused child. They're more likely to divorce, develop drug and alcohol addictions, and to physically abuse their own children.
Adults, who were physically abused as children, suffer from physical, emotional and social effects of the abuse throughout their lives. Experts report that victims of physical child abuse are at greater risk of developing a mental illness, becoming homeless, engaging in criminal activity, and unemployment. These create a financial burden on the community and on society in general because authorities must allocate funds from taxes and other resources for social welfare programs and the foster care system.
The emotional effects of child physical abuse continue well after any physical wounds have healed. Numerous research studies conducted with abused children as subjects have concluded that a considerable number of psychological problems develop as a result of child physical abuse. These children experienced significantly more problems in their home lives, at school, and in dealing with peers than children from non-abusive environments.
Some psychological and emotional effects of child physical abuse include:
Eating disorders
Inability to concentrate (including ADHD)
Excessive hostility towards others, even friends and family members
Depression
Apathy and lethargy
Sleep issues – insomnia, excessive sleepiness, sleep apnea
Physically abused children are predisposed to develop numerous psychological disturbances. They're more likely to have low self-esteem, deal with excessive fear and anxiety, and act out aggressively toward their siblings and peers.
Social Effects of Child Physical Abuse
The adverse social effects of child physical abuse represent still another facet of the child's life influenced by the abuse. Many abused children find it difficult to form lasting and appropriate friendships. They lack the ability to trust others in the most basic of ways. Children who have suffered long-term abuse lack basic social skills and cannot communicate naturally as other children can.
These children may also exhibit a tendency to over-comply with authority figures and to use aggression for solving interpersonal issues. The social effects of child physical abuse continue to negatively influence the adult life of the abused child. They're more likely to divorce, develop drug and alcohol addictions, and to physically abuse their own children.
Adults, who were physically abused as children, suffer from physical, emotional and social effects of the abuse throughout their lives. Experts report that victims of physical child abuse are at greater risk of developing a mental illness, becoming homeless, engaging in criminal activity, and unemployment. These create a financial burden on the community and on society in general because authorities must allocate funds from taxes and other resources for social welfare programs and the foster care system.
On the other hand...
Sometimes, a woman will say things that are just plain nuts. Utter Foolishness.
These are those kinds of statements that a woman makes that make you say...
"It's crazy! You know it, I know it and the whole world knows it"
She wants what she wants and when she doesn't get it what she wants,
she throws a temper tantrum and hates you with all her being.
Woman! I've listened 'til the cows came home. But you wouldn't believe
what I'd heard.
Sometimes, a woman will say things that are just plain nuts. Utter Foolishness.
These are those kinds of statements that a woman makes that make you say...
"It's crazy! You know it, I know it and the whole world knows it"
She wants what she wants and when she doesn't get it what she wants,
she throws a temper tantrum and hates you with all her being.
Woman! I've listened 'til the cows came home. But you wouldn't believe
what I'd heard.
He's really not ok
Posted by brianafay
He's really not ok
Oklahoma is OK.
The rest of them are not OK.
See how that works?
I'm quite OK.
🙂
here, this woman said:
Posted by SagmoonlyfeAnd.....
Why do men always take take take but find it hard to give.
A man to me is a protector and a provider.
A pole. A strength to lean on.
A fortress.
He doesn't have to belligerent in order to show he's got pep to defend his Family.
He doesn't have to be repressive/oppressive in order to show he has strength.
What is wrong with men today?
Why do they misdirect their masculine energies in way that creates strife and oppression instead of balance and love.
Instead of order but chaos.
Are they just big babies that constantly needs to be soothed with emotional frailty of a little child... While they snob to reciprocate it and constantly demand their way?
Something ain't right with 'straight' men.
How long has this error happened?
What is going on?
Posted by Sagmoonlyfe
I think qualities all men should have
Is the desire to protect
Natural born courage
Since most are so needy to copulate with a woman they should naturally want to provide and protect her who also the future bearer of his offspring
Why are they so flippant about this?
Yet so demanding about what they want.
Have we spoilt men or were they always this way?
Consciously selfish, domineering and hypocritical.
Where is your vote?
Posted by Sagmoonlyfe
Can it be fixed?
Will it ever fixed?
Did it improve since time?Posted by Sagmoonlyfe
They say men are simple I beg to disagree.
Women are simple.
Men are always on some childish shit.
If they come before us like bible claims they why are we more wise than them. Why do our spirit know more than them?click to expand
IF the woman, having opinions like those, above, were so wise, how then, was she deceived by that
old serpent, who is Satan and the Devil?
IF she truly was a know-it-all, how is it? That she can say their spirit knows more than them"—?
Such women, the world over, are still being deceived. Going about to deceive the man, so
that Satan, through her, can destroy him. She has the hatefully rebellious spirit of Jezebel, which
spirit, is influenced by Satan, himself, who hates man because 1) God kicked him out of Heaven and
2) God made man in His OWN image. After His OWN likeness. And.... because God created
man and loved His creation, Satan and his hosts of loyal demons, resent and hate God
and seeks to hurt God through separating God's Creation, Man, from God.
To get to him, who he hates, one tactic, among many, is to go through the woman.
He deceives the woman into thinking that she is lower than dirt, beneath the man.
He convinces the woman of many things that are false to incite pride, jealousy, fear,
anger, and hate toward the man, to deceive and drive his spirit into the ground, that
he may become hopelessly Anti-Christ, however overtly or covertly.
Not only he, but she, also. Both, hatefully behaving thus, are at serious risk of the
eternal punishment set aside for Satan and his legions.
Because they would not repent and turn away from their sins, they continued descending
into darkness. Many of whom stumbling upon one, another, when Jesus, the Light of Salvation
was shown into the darkness, the darkness, comprehended it not.
http://www.living-for-jesus-alone.org/why-does-satan-hates-humanity-so-much.html
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/religion/the-spirit-of-jezabel-7257610/?checkpg=1
To him that believes:
When she says, you're not listening, it may well be because you are
listening to God's Word, by the Holy Spirit. Her words are stripped naked
and you see the truth and are NOT deceived.
And if she hates you for it, count it as joy.
And remember that if she forsakes you, because you choose Christ,
count it as joy.
For it is better to be alone in the desolate wilderness, than to be in a great
house with a contentious woman.
No man, having any measure of self-respect, whether he be a believer or not,
is going to put up with the hateful nature of a contentious woman. Especially
one who is filled to the brim with that wicked rebellious spirit of Jezebel.
Remember the fate of that woman, who would not repent, how she was cast
down and how the dogs, less her skull, feet and hands, ate her up and pooped
her fecal remains, as dog dung, in the valley of Jezreel.
Posted by PeanutButterandEllyAhhh... but the OP is not asking "why it is someone told them they don't listen".
Hm, person asks why it is someone told them they don't listen, then talks to themselves in a thread post after post.
The title the OP posted for this thread is:
When She Says: "You Don't Listen!"
(with)
It's because.....
Which implies information, not... a question.
So... now... explain why you answered the wrong thread—
Posted by Seraphlight
Are you ok? You need some nice cute horse pics?
Listen ...i have heard some of the things you have said about women. They are quite frankly OFF THE FUCKING WALL.
But I am going to remember no matter how wrong i think you are ..that you are a person..and obviously having a ranty day....
So I am trying to understand.
I HOPE you will appreciate people TRYING to understand. And trying to care.
Perhaps what she wants is you to understand....and yes it's hard for men to understand women...not impossible though...
I believe in you. I believe you can BE UNDERSTOOD and that you can understand too.
Peace :-)
Understand?
The only way anyone can truly understand another is to walk in their shoes.
Experience their life exactly how it happened. Having no knowledge of their own life.
You would have to be me to fully appreciate who I am, what I am and why I am.
Posted by PeanutButterandEllyHyperventilation ^^^Posted by MrFirebirdSo you feel the need to throw out sexually degrading insults at a random woman on the internet as a way to feel better about your lack of personal control over your ex wife and daughter? If that's what you consider funny though, it's probably in everyone's best interest you stay away from them.Posted by PeanutButterandEllyPosted by MrFirebirdI didn't really want to answer it I just wanted to be snarky lol.Posted by PeanutButterandEllyAhhh... but the OP is not asking "why it is someone told them they don't listen".
Hm, person asks why it is someone told them they don't listen, then talks to themselves in a thread post after post.
The title the OP posted for this thread is:
When She Says: "You Don't Listen!"
(with)
It's because.....
Which implies information, not... a question.
So... now... explain why you answered the wrong thread—
I didn't really want to answer it (translation: But... I have no control over myself, so I answered, anyway)
I just wanted to be snarky (translation: Because I don't respect myself. I'm a disgusting little tramp who needs to be slapped silly. I charge a buck ninety-five per facial, but for you? I'll do it for free. That's how sick I am)
lol (I think what I said was funny)
Yes, I bet you do.
The only one shamed and embarrassed here is you. Which is obvious from the constant lack of response you receive from the Sagittarius people here, despite thread after thread of paranoia and neurosis.click to expand
Posted by Seraphlightits a bad sign when seraphlight is concerned about your well being
Are you ok? You need some nice cute horse pics?
Listen ...i have heard some of the things you have said about women. They are quite frankly OFF THE FUCKING WALL.
But I am going to remember no matter how wrong i think you are ..that you are a person..and obviously having a ranty day....
So I am trying to understand.
I HOPE you will appreciate people TRYING to understand. And trying to care.
Perhaps what she wants is you to understand....and yes it's hard for men to understand women...not impossible though...
I believe in you. I believe you can BE UNDERSTOOD and that you can understand too.
Peace :-)
It's because u don't listen duh
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