Why do I ALWAYS attract Cancer men?

I recently noticed a trend in which nearly all the men that I attract are Cancers. They are very obsessive, clingy and won't take the hint that I'm not attracted to them. They are also super persistent.

I don't know if it has something to do with my personality. I am strong, independent, insensitive, emotionless, ambitious, career-orientated and very blunt. I consider myself an alpha female. I can never commit to one guy and I prefer to date multiple as opposed to Cancer men that constantly seek commitment. I also love my freedom and value space. I always put my career (pilot in training) above relationships and family, hence I left my family and the place that I was born all behind. I don't care about hurting people, as I tend to be honest and blunt without any sugar coating.

If I was to settle down one day, I want somebody that is similar minded to me, maybe Aries or Sagittarius men. If they are looking for nurturing, care and affection (I am bad at expressing my emotions) Cancer men should look elsewhere. I have no idea why they are so attached and obsessive towards me, it is getting annoying.

What's your ascendant sign?

I'm a Capricorn ascendant

Cancer falls into your 7th house, right?

That's probably why you attract them. Also, inconjunct signs are often attracted to eachother.

I've been seeing a trend of Cancers pursuing signs they really can't handle, it confuses me too.

I only have one Cancer in my whole chart of houses, etc. My main chart has no Cancer at all. This is mine:
Sun Sagittarius 9.15
Moon Leo 17.06
Mercury Sagittarius 25.02
Venus Scorpio 10.02
Mars Virgo 16.33
Jupiter Capricorn 18.23
Saturn Aries 0.37 R
Uranus Aquarius 1.46
Neptune Capricorn 25.50
Pluto Sagittarius 3.16
Lilith Leo 17.53
Asc node Libra 5.50

I also do not show any Cancerian traits. I don't care about how others feel and any critcism I take account into. I also don't take into account of what others say about me. I value space and freedom a lot. I hate whiny people that want commitment as soon as possible. As I said, I am insensitive and far from nurturing.

Posted by vegansagittarius
I only have one Cancer in my whole chart of houses, etc. My main chart has no Cancer at all. This is mine:
Sun Sagittarius 9.15
Moon Leo 17.06
Mercury Sagittarius 25.02
Venus Scorpio 10.02
Mars Virgo 16.33
Jupiter Capricorn 18.23
Saturn Aries 0.37 R
Uranus Aquarius 1.46
Neptune Capricorn 25.50
Pluto Sagittarius 3.16
Lilith Leo 17.53
Asc node Libra 5.50

I also do not show any Cancerian traits. I don't care about how others feel and any critcism I take account into. I also don't take into account of what others say about me. I value space and freedom a lot. I hate whiny people that want commitment as soon as possible. As I said, I am insensitive and far from nurturing.

What size is your penis?

30 inches lol

Posted by vegansagittarius... I value space and freedom a lot. I hate whiny people that want commitment as soon as possible. As I said, I am insensitive and far from nurturing.

The answer may be this:

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Cancer falls into your 7th house, right? ... inconjunct signs are often attracted to eachother.

or this:

Posted by depressedarian
I've been seeing a trend of Cancers pursuing signs they really can't handle, it confuses me too.

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Or because Capricorn and Cancer both value home, stability and money. They are both slow to let people in. Or maybe because you are simply hot (Sag-Leo-Scorpio-Virgo-Aries)

Generally it's too early to judge. You have 1-2-3 decades to attract all other signs too.

In case of Cancers better the Cancer guy has a trine to your Saturn in Aries at 0?? (rather than a square). Something like Cancer at 27?? for example.

I don't value stability. I like change and unpredictability, that is why I am training to be an airline pilot. In this case, opposites attract? Why can't they fall for the same sign or other water signs?

And by hot, you mean attractiveness? I think I am pretty attractive. A lot if people say that I am and I get looks a lot out in the shops or streets. But I thought that would attract Libras? I don't like attracting signs I am not competible with . I think I am almost a red flag for Cancer men.

But the guy I am seeing is a Cancer moon. Will it work out, and does the moon dictate what personality you are on the inside? If he is a Sag sun, will he act more like a Cancer or?

Im a cancer rising but i dont attract capricorn type people.

@vegan, sag sun, cancer moon is sweet to me. like my best friend.

@DMV: Aw really? But does that mean he can commit or not? I can't play around any more. I need to concentrate on my career then play

Posted by vegansagittarius... I can't play around any more. I need to concentrate on my career then play

I never played around. I was always concentrated on my career. And dating too. And permanently broke hearts. Because of high expectations.

Although I'm too out of bounds, it's a Sag thing to search for the perfect partner and be thus a heart breaker.

But when we look at DontGetMeWrong, we see a little bit of Taurus (like Cap, Cancer, Scorpio, Libra, Leo) can help. She was married (until husband cheated).

I learn to not be too attached to people, and the game becomes easier to play and fall out of. But damn, those whiny Cancers can't get enough of me. Again, another Cancer is after me =.=

I want an Alpha male as well. Don't want a Beta. With a Beta, Cancer males are often this, I feel like I'm the man in the relationship and they are the woman who is obsessive and chasing after me.

Believe me; you are not the only one they are chasing. 😆
Cancer men like attractive women who they have to win.
They probably see you as a challenge to win over and have a fantasy about what you are really like.

I am attracted to carefree and independent men, but is that what I need in a long term partner, maybe not.

LOL

So true I cannot commit, LOL. man, I've attracted another crab without bait 😢 Oh well! My friend joked how we can sell and eat them, haha! Why can't I attract Aquarius, Aries or more Sag guys?

I am not sure. All the Cancer guys I've met are sensitive, love rom coms, VERY clingy or obsessive. Cancer men don't chase you. They cling to you, won't let you go and nip you when you try to pry them off!!!

I'm a cancer and I met a sag last summer. We argue a lot, but can't leave each other alone. He used to date other women and I dated other men because I'm not going to sit around and wait for him. We finally agreed to stop seeing other people, but he won't say I'm his girlfriend. I love a challenge and he's definitely a puzzle. Maybe we're both a mystery to each other. Maybe that's why these cancer men are attracted to you...