your thoughts on gem women??

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have never dated one but then I recently started speaking to one..we both are a bit of nerd lol read mangas comics etc. going to meet the guy this sunday..he's very assertive, chasing me lots..and I find it quite hot ( I myself don't mind being a hunter, pursuer, I have done that before 🙂 but this time the change is new, thus nice ..who said gem loves changes?? :p)
he's very cute with sweet dimples, tall, a year younger than me..creative sort..makes lots of stuff himself..he's a bit blunt I must say though (lol as far as I remember sags are quite honest -sometimes too honest..to the point of being blunt? :p- beings?!) but then also it means that it's easy to read him..there's no head games, crazy mind fuckeries or whatsoever..he's just what I see there and I like the transparency there..easy to communicate .. I rarely have hard time in communication though being a gem sun -gem/canc cusp to be exact- with gem merc..but there was only one guy who I struggled with in the communication department..a cancer man -they do live up to their reputation for being a taciturn sort don't they lol.. but now we communicate better..I guess or I hope lol..he gets overwhelmed when I speak too much (in his opinion that is..I speak the usual as I to everyone else..and they're all fine..but then most my friends are either air or fire signs..so maybe that's why..) ..I let him be and he seems pleased with it(=the silence)..which is a conundrum for me..as I thrive on on going, never ending conversations.. but each to their own I guess and now we're on good terms ..for now maybe..hehe lol the cancer is there when I'm having a hard time, listening to me..and I appreciate it..his silence drives me mad at times but then well, I guess my never shut mouth drives him mad too lol .. fair enough :p

so back to the sag (why I always digress?? 😭).. the conversation is quite flowing (not as much as those I have had with my aqua ex..and another aqua man..ah aquas..the best conversation partners..) .. I like that this sag is very straight forward, honest but then I can imagine this honesty of him could bite me in the ass on the other hand..?? like, when it's good it's really good, but when it gets bad, you don't really want it there sort..? :s

has anyone been with a gem (woman)? how was/is it? are gems supposed to be a good match for you guys??