@Chessmess
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Should I worry?
Interpreting a Scorpio's Mixed Signals
It's common for Scorpios to be intense and unpredictable. His disappearing acts may reflect emotional complexity rather than concern for your safety. Pay attention to his overall behavior and communication patterns to understand his intentions better. Trust your intuition and give him space if needed.
Call him he will answer if you matter.
That’s so dramatic. And the song/message so cryptic.
Honestly it’s rather annoying that he put you in that position. Leading you to worry and then disappear - makes me think he is playing mind games.
Yeah, now I wonder if he suffers from depression.
I mean, if he wants me to disappear from his life, he doesn't have to message me and send me cryptic / dramatic songs - silence speaks louder than words.
No no no that’s how we communicate
I think hes letting you in through music
This song have special meaning to him? You should ask him he’s probably waiting for ur reply.
I did and he said he liked the second verse. He never replied after that.
“song is about living for the present moment and making the most out of your life instead of mourning over the past that you cannot change or worrying about what may come later. It´s about letting go off whatever holds you back, whether it´s a fear or a regret or sorrow. It´s about focusing on the imporant things, being grateful for what you have and actively pursuing what is meaningful to you, to live a meaningful life.”
Well if this meaning is dramatic yeah not many people get Scorpio’s depth n communication style .
Yes, I got what you are trying to explain because I feel it deep inside...sorta.
I'm just not into the drama and if he's saying goodbye, maybe he's right to do so. We can't communicate and that's the reason I tried to break it off many months ago - and I know he did the same.
I stopped contacting him many months ago when he stood me up 3 times. He tries to initiate contact every month but I make it short and polite - he did the same.
Then he contacts me out of the blue this month and asked me many questions and then he disappears with this grand finale - the song.
All I can say is that it looks like either he's depressed of he's just playing childish games.
Btw, thank you for your response.
“song is about living for the present moment and making the most out of your life instead of mourning over the past that you cannot change or worrying about what may come later. It´s about letting go off whatever holds you back, whether it´s a fear or a regret or sorrow. It´s about focusing on the imporant things, being grateful for what you have and actively pursuing what is meaningful to you, to live a meaningful life.”
Well if this meaning is dramatic yeah not many people get Scorpio’s depth n communication style .
I think the problem was that he left her in silence after he sent that song.... creating some type of worry. That’s not cool.
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I am worried if he's depressed ....if he needs someone to talk to.
“song is about living for the present moment and making the most out of your life instead of mourning over the past that you cannot change or worrying about what may come later. It´s about letting go off whatever holds you back, whether it´s a fear or a regret or sorrow. It´s about focusing on the imporant things, being grateful for what you have and actively pursuing what is meaningful to you, to live a meaningful life.”
Well if this meaning is dramatic yeah not many people get Scorpio’s depth n communication style .
I think the problem was that he left her in silence after he sent that song.... creating some type of worry. That’s not cool.
I am worried if he's depressed ....if he needs someone to talk to.
Yeah, I can imagine 😔. Hopefully he will reach out soon and when he does, see how he is doing.
There just isn’t much you can do if he is avoiding you for the time being. It’s annoying 😒
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You are right.
I'll just let him be. 😢
Thank you 🙂
I'm a bit confused with the same Scorpio dude that appears and disappears all the time and he's getting more dramatic...
He sent me a song the other day and then disappeared....no signs of life at all.
It's the M83 song "Wait".
Should I worry? Hopefully he's okay.
If you are worried, is there any other means of finding if he is doing okay, like social media? Or maybe just send a hi or something?
I'm a bit confused with the same Scorpio dude that appears and disappears all the time and he's getting more dramatic...
He sent me a song the other day and then disappeared....no signs of life at all.
It's the M83 song "Wait".
Should I worry? Hopefully he's okay.
If you are worried, is there any other means of finding if he is doing okay, like social media? Or maybe just send a hi or something?
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We don't have mutual friends but I checked a few social platforms that give time/date when someone is online....
He hasn't been online since his last message.
I sent him a message about Maradona but he never replied - I give up.
Bad news always travels fast....
I wouldn’t want to date a guy who disappears and makes me feel confused and not secure. That’s not a great relationship in my opinion.
I wouldn’t want to date a guy who disappears and makes me feel confused and not secure. That’s not a great relationship in my opinion.
I never dated him. I never went out to have a meal or a drink with him.
Everything was done in the "amicable" circle of friends / study group.
His "strange" behavior puzzles me because it makes me wonder if he's suffering from depression....? Or maybe not?
Trying to figure out his message.
As an Aries who was in a 10 year relationship with a Scorpio all I can tell You is please, please, please don't immerse Yourself in his feelings. Do not let him reel you in. They consume. Just be Yourself. But I would reccomend RUN because Aries-Libra especially is so bipolar ( Mars - Venus ) and we need someone that will make us be in peace. Fuck him and his feelings. You have Your own
You are right. Most of the time I ignore his childish tactics and he knows I don’t pay attention so tries a new tactic every month...I wonder what’s in store for December.
I wouldn’t want to date a guy who disappears and makes me feel confused and not secure. That’s not a great relationship in my opinion.
I never dated him. I never went out to have a meal or a drink with him.
Everything was done in the "amicable" circle of friends / study group.
His "strange" behavior puzzles me because it makes me wonder if he's suffering from depression....? Or maybe not?
Trying to figure out his message.
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A friend doing this means you should give him space. He doesn’t want to talk right now... let him be and stop worrying
I wouldn’t want to date a guy who disappears and makes me feel confused and not secure. That’s not a great relationship in my opinion.
I never dated him. I never went out to have a meal or a drink with him.
Everything was done in the "amicable" circle of friends / study group.
His "strange" behavior puzzles me because it makes me wonder if he's suffering from depression....? Or maybe not?
Trying to figure out his message.
A friend doing this means you should give him space. He doesn’t want to talk right now... let him be and stop worrying
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Then he should stop contacting me.
He comes and goes with really strange behavior. Any human being would worry.
That’s so dramatic. And the song/message so cryptic.
Honestly it’s rather annoying that he put you in that position. Leading you to worry and then disappear - makes me think he is playing mind games.
Same thoughts
Manipulative behaviour and head games
I wouldn’t want to date a guy who disappears and makes me feel confused and not secure. That’s not a great relationship in my opinion.
I never dated him. I never went out to have a meal or a drink with him.
Everything was done in the "amicable" circle of friends / study group.
His "strange" behavior puzzles me because it makes me wonder if he's suffering from depression....? Or maybe not?
Trying to figure out his message.
A friend doing this means you should give him space. He doesn’t want to talk right now... let him be and stop worrying
Then he should stop contacting me.
He comes and goes with really strange behavior. Any human being would worry.
Do you think he is insecure?
His very goal may be to confuse you to try and get you thinking about him like this
Maybe he thinks that if he tries interacting with you normally you won't like him enough?
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Good question. I never thought I would make him uncomfortable although I am friendly when he’s around and polite when he sends messages.
And he knows I like him very much - I’ve said it in the past.
It’s been going on for 3 years....
😩
“song is about living for the present moment and making the most out of your life instead of mourning over the past that you cannot change or worrying about what may come later. It´s about letting go off whatever holds you back, whether it´s a fear or a regret or sorrow. It´s about focusing on the imporant things, being grateful for what you have and actively pursuing what is meaningful to you, to live a meaningful life.”
Well if this meaning is dramatic yeah not many people get Scorpio’s depth n communication style .
Yes, I got what you are trying to explain because I feel it deep inside...sorta.
I'm just not into the drama and if he's saying goodbye, maybe he's right to do so. We can't communicate and that's the reason I tried to break it off many months ago - and I know he did the same.
I stopped contacting him many months ago when he stood me up 3 times. He tries to initiate contact every month but I make it short and polite - he did the same.
Then he contacts me out of the blue this month and asked me many questions and then he disappears with this grand finale - the song.
All I can say is that it looks like either he's depressed of he's just playing childish games.
Btw, thank you for your response.
Oh he stood you up!!! Yeah different story. I’d tell him his antics are inconsistent n you prefer your peace than this
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Yes. It’s what I am trying to do. I don’t contact him at all and I try to distance myself more and more but he senses that so he comes back with immature antics.
If you're not close to him, let it be. He's probably playing mind games with you.
It's best to ignore him until he grows a pair and is more direct with you.
Yes, you are right. I don’t contact him at all - ever. I don’t initiate contact.
Sad that he’s acting immature but interesting to watch his behavior.
“song is about living for the present moment and making the most out of your life instead of mourning over the past that you cannot change or worrying about what may come later. It´s about letting go off whatever holds you back, whether it´s a fear or a regret or sorrow. It´s about focusing on the imporant things, being grateful for what you have and actively pursuing what is meaningful to you, to live a meaningful life.”
Well if this meaning is dramatic yeah not many people get Scorpio’s depth n communication style .
Yes, I got what you are trying to explain because I feel it deep inside...sorta.
I'm just not into the drama and if he's saying goodbye, maybe he's right to do so. We can't communicate and that's the reason I tried to break it off many months ago - and I know he did the same.
I stopped contacting him many months ago when he stood me up 3 times. He tries to initiate contact every month but I make it short and polite - he did the same.
Then he contacts me out of the blue this month and asked me many questions and then he disappears with this grand finale - the song.
All I can say is that it looks like either he's depressed of he's just playing childish games.
Btw, thank you for your response.
Oh he stood you up!!! Yeah different story. I’d tell him his antics are inconsistent n you prefer your peace than this
Yes. It’s what I am trying to do. I don’t contact him at all and I try to distance myself more and more but he senses that so he comes back with immature antics.
Sometimes the lesson is to verbally set that boundaries
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Been thinking about that the past few days.
Should I disappear and ignore him for good or tell him to stop ?🛑 ✋
The easiest way is to disappear- I really don’t like confrontation but don’t know if it’s worth talking to him about it.
“song is about living for the present moment and making the most out of your life instead of mourning over the past that you cannot change or worrying about what may come later. It´s about letting go off whatever holds you back, whether it´s a fear or a regret or sorrow. It´s about focusing on the imporant things, being grateful for what you have and actively pursuing what is meaningful to you, to live a meaningful life.”
Well if this meaning is dramatic yeah not many people get Scorpio’s depth n communication style .
Yes, I got what you are trying to explain because I feel it deep inside...sorta.
I'm just not into the drama and if he's saying goodbye, maybe he's right to do so. We can't communicate and that's the reason I tried to break it off many months ago - and I know he did the same.
I stopped contacting him many months ago when he stood me up 3 times. He tries to initiate contact every month but I make it short and polite - he did the same.
Then he contacts me out of the blue this month and asked me many questions and then he disappears with this grand finale - the song.
All I can say is that it looks like either he's depressed of he's just playing childish games.
Btw, thank you for your response.
Oh he stood you up!!! Yeah different story. I’d tell him his antics are inconsistent n you prefer your peace than this
Yes. It’s what I am trying to do. I don’t contact him at all and I try to distance myself more and more but he senses that so he comes back with immature antics.
Sometimes the lesson is to verbally set that boundaries
Been thinking about that the past few days.
Should I disappear and ignore him for good or tell him to stop ?🛑 ✋
The easiest way is to disappear- I really don’t like confrontation but don’t know if it’s worth talking to him about it.
You been disappearing all this time,no ? It hasn’t worked why?
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Good point.
Maybe I should just say something but he will twist it around and he’s going to say I am overreacting or I’m reading him wrong. I already know his tactics...
Gaslighting
As an Aries who was in a 10 year relationship with a Scorpio all I can tell You is please, please, please don't immerse Yourself in his feelings. Do not let him reel you in. They consume. Just be Yourself. But I would reccomend RUN because Aries-Libra especially is so bipolar ( Mars - Venus ) and we need someone that will make us be in peace. Fuck him and his feelings. You have Your own
You are right. Most of the time I ignore his childish tactics and he knows I don’t pay attention so tries a new tactic every month...I wonder what’s in store for December.
only when you truly don't care will you have the power over him. Aries is too pure for Scorpio
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I’m slowly detaching myself from him...perhaps I must tell him to stop contacting me. I’m tired of the monthly or bimonthly immature texts.
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I'm a bit confused with the same Scorpio dude that appears and disappears all the time and he's getting more dramatic...
He sent me a song the other day and then disappeared....no signs of life at all.
It's the M83 song "Wait".
Should I worry? Hopefully he's okay.