Anihp
@Anihp
6 Years
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Posted by DMV
Hmm why are you talking to someone who makes you feel less confident?

Posted by AnihpPosted by DMV
Hmm why are you talking to someone who makes you feel less confident?
He's kind but when he's not there, I suspect and worry, and such behaviour is due to lacking confidence, no?click to expand
Posted by LibraSupreme
Waiting 1yr for 1 guy. Desperate isn't a good look.
Posted by DMVPosted by AnihpPosted by DMV
Hmm why are you talking to someone who makes you feel less confident?
He's kind but when he's not there, I suspect and worry, and such behaviour is due to lacking confidence, no?
Sounds like personal problems.
Maybe you have some unresolved issues that you need to work out alone.click to expand
Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by AnihpPosted by DMV
Hmm why are you talking to someone who makes you feel less confident?
He's kind but when he's not there, I suspect and worry, and such behaviour is due to lacking confidence, no?
Kindness doesn't equal a relationship. If you like someone who doesn't let you know where you stand, that breeds lack of confidence in the situation.click to expand
Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by AnihpPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by AnihpPosted by DMV
Hmm why are you talking to someone who makes you feel less confident?
He's kind but when he's not there, I suspect and worry, and such behaviour is due to lacking confidence, no?
Kindness doesn't equal a relationship. If you like someone who doesn't let you know where you stand, that breeds lack of confidence in the situation.
I see your point, but it's not a relationship, no?
So I can't give more, actually I've been thinking to draw a line, but I haven't figured it out yet...
All of your eggs are in this basket that is not a relationship. That's my point.click to expand

Posted by AnihpPosted by LibraSupreme
Waiting 1yr for 1 guy. Desperate isn't a good look.
Maybe, but I'm not interested in meeting ppl, I'd be fine if there's no one.click to expand
Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by AnihpPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by AnihpPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by AnihpPosted by DMV
Hmm why are you talking to someone who makes you feel less confident?
He's kind but when he's not there, I suspect and worry, and such behaviour is due to lacking confidence, no?
Kindness doesn't equal a relationship. If you like someone who doesn't let you know where you stand, that breeds lack of confidence in the situation.
I see your point, but it's not a relationship, no?
So I can't give more, actually I've been thinking to draw a line, but I haven't figured it out yet...
All of your eggs are in this basket that is not a relationship. That's my point.
I know...but I didn't want to have any egg before :/
That's fine if he has a similar dating style . If he's playing the field and you're one of many, it will probably continue to make you feel insecure because you'll be spending way more time thinking about him than he will you.click to expand
Posted by DMVPosted by AnihpPosted by LibraSupreme
Waiting 1yr for 1 guy. Desperate isn't a good look.
Maybe, but I'm not interested in meeting ppl, I'd be fine if there's no one.
So dump this zero.click to expand
Posted by NemDeuxPosted by Anihp
I get insecure, lose the not so much confidence, become emotionally sensitive; think about him very frequently, want to share,
BUT I still wait for him to initiate at the same time.
Will meet him again in Sept. after separating last Oct., everything looks uncertain even now. I know I shouldn't let him affect my mood, yet it's just hard to do so ;/
Do you come from a conservative/traditional culture?
You Sound also young.click to expand
Posted by sweetpea2977
Someone can't make you insecure. It was already there lying dormant. Whatever foolery this dude is dishin' reignited it. You don't ever want to attach your love/emotions to an individual who triggers insecurity. That's a RED flag. Work on yourself ❤️ Figure out WHERE this issue comes from and attract someone who brings out your joy, peace and self confidence ❤️
Posted by Alameda
Scorpio moons love to have control over their emotions, and caring about someone in a romantic way, shakes that control. Suddenly, your thoughts become less about keeping yourself together and more about wanting to merge with that person; this requires us to share and inquire, which brings up insecurities or doubts within ourselves that we don't pay much attention to otherwise. I don't think that you're acting much different from a lot of people when it comes to matters of the heart. We all have fears, we all have doubts, and especially so when it comes to emotional fears and doubts. Liking someone or loving someone can bring out our deepest demons, and it has nothing to do with that person not being worthy of our time or that person not making us feel good, it has every bit to do with us needing to acknowledge why these emotions are being provoked and how to navigate through them alone.
Yes, you like him and its bringing out a part of you that you're uncomfortable with, so take some time to self reflect and see where it takes you.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by LibraSupreme
Waiting 1yr for 1 guy. Desperate isn't a good look.
Sounds romantic to me.click to expand

Posted by AnihpPosted by alexscariesPosted by LibraSupreme
Waiting 1yr for 1 guy. Desperate isn't a good look.
Sounds romantic to me.
Well, if he wasn't in contact almost daily, I wouldn't careclick to expand
Posted by LibraSupremePosted by AnihpPosted by alexscariesPosted by LibraSupreme
Waiting 1yr for 1 guy. Desperate isn't a good look.
Sounds romantic to me.
Well, if he wasn't in contact almost daily, I wouldn't care
You allow him to waste that much of your time speaks volumes.click to expand
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BUT I still wait for him to initiate at the same time.
Will meet him again in Sept. after separating last Oct., everything looks uncertain even now. I know I shouldn't let him affect my mood, yet it's just hard to do so ;/