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I met my Scorpio in Wednesday,later that day he said that he was dying to see me and me in person. He said that he's looking for a serious,long-term relationship.

He said: " if this is about to be what my optimistic passionate mind thinks it will, i will be looking for every possible excuse to come and spend time with you, here or some place else"

So i had a sex with a Scorpio on the first date on Thursday

The next ALL day(Friday)we spent together and we were just cuddled. All day.

He said that he's never had it before,me either.

I said: "i know that tomorrow you'll leave and everything will be end,like yeah,it was fun but don't text me anymore" And he was like: "why are you thinking about me like that? I won't do this.i want to know you better".

After all that,he didn't text me

WTF?
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I remember when I met my scorpio at the first date that was only watch a movie after we had a drink. Then we were chilling in his place without sex (actually he wanted sex but being gentle), we cuddled together until next morning. Finally he keep text me for more dating. I think the best way to let scorpio man into you that is don't jump in the bed in the first date. Let him spend more time to get a woman.
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Posted by AnneS
I met my Scorpio in Wednesday,later that day he said that he was dying to see me and me in person. He said that he's looking for a serious,long-term relationship.

He said: " if this is about to be what my optimistic passionate mind thinks it will, i will be looking for every possible excuse to come and spend time with you, here or some place else"

So i had a sex with a Scorpio on the first date on Thursday

The next ALL day(Friday)we spent together and we were just cuddled. All day.

He said that he's never had it before,me either.

I said: "i know that tomorrow you'll leave and everything will be end,like yeah,it was fun but don't text me anymore" And he was like: "why are you thinking about me like that? I won't do this.i want to know you better".

After all that,he didn't text me

WTF?
I'm sorry. I'm not sure I understand. Didn't you say this -->>>> I said: "i know that tomorrow you'll leave and everything will be end,like yeah,it was fun but don't text me anymore"

Sounds to me, like he is following through with your request.
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Not to be judgmental, but I honestly have no idea how people go around and sleep with people within hours of meeting them. You are essentially sleeping with every person that person has slept with. To me, I have to trust you on some level to allow you into my body. And there is no way I can trust you in a few hours. lol


I agree......much too quick
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Posted by AnneS
I met my Scorpio in Wednesday,later that day he said that he was dying to see me and me in person. He said that he's looking for a serious,long-term relationship.

He said: " if this is about to be what my optimistic passionate mind thinks it will, i will be looking for every possible excuse to come and spend time with you, here or some place else"

So i had a sex with a Scorpio on the first date on Thursday

The next ALL day(Friday)we spent together and we were just cuddled. All day.

He said that he's never had it before,me either.

I said: "i know that tomorrow you'll leave and everything will be end,like yeah,it was fun but don't text me anymore" And he was like: "why are you thinking about me like that? I won't do this.i want to know you better".

After all that,he didn't text me

WTF?
Wtf? Text him and ask wtf —?

Scorpios dive right in but it's usually because they need to know a person sexually, right away, to form that deep bond they crave so much. Text him and ask what's up?

Also, all women must know that ejaculation creates an emptiness that makes us want to be alone....men should have sex without ejac. Pleasure and orgasm are separate from ejac anyway.
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Posted by AnneS
I met my Scorpio in Wednesday,later that day he said that he was dying to see me and me in person. He said that he's looking for a serious,long-term relationship.

He said: " if this is about to be what my optimistic passionate mind thinks it will, i will be looking for every possible excuse to come and spend time with you, here or some place else"

So i had a sex with a Scorpio on the first date on Thursday

The next ALL day(Friday)we spent together and we were just cuddled. All day.

He said that he's never had it before,me either.

I said: "i know that tomorrow you'll leave and everything will be end,like yeah,it was fun but don't text me anymore" And he was like: "why are you thinking about me like that? I won't do this.i want to know you better".

After all that,he didn't text me

WTF?
Wtf? Text him and ask wtf —?

Scorpios dive right in but it's usually because they need to know a person sexually, right away, to form that deep bond they crave so much. Text him and ask what's up?

Also, all women must know that ejaculation creates an emptiness that makes us want to be alone....men should have sex without ejac. Pleasure and orgasm are separate from ejac anyway.
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Ejaculation = job done

You are spot on Bricklemark

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Posted by AnneS
I met my Scorpio in Wednesday,later that day he said that he was dying to see me and me in person. He said that he's looking for a serious,long-term relationship.

He said: " if this is about to be what my optimistic passionate mind thinks it will, i will be looking for every possible excuse to come and spend time with you, here or some place else"

So i had a sex with a Scorpio on the first date on Thursday

The next ALL day(Friday)we spent together and we were just cuddled. All day.

He said that he's never had it before,me either.

I said: "i know that tomorrow you'll leave and everything will be end,like yeah,it was fun but don't text me anymore" And he was like: "why are you thinking about me like that? I won't do this.i want to know you better".

After all that,he didn't text me

WTF?
Wtf? Text him and ask wtf —?

Scorpios dive right in but it's usually because they need to know a person sexually, right away, to form that deep bond they crave so much. Text him and ask what's up?

Also, all women must know that ejaculation creates an emptiness that makes us want to be alone....men should have sex without ejac. Pleasure and orgasm are separate from ejac anyway.
Ejaculation = job done

You are spot on Bricklemark

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Yep, it's like death, l think Scorpio is about sex and desth for that reason. Taurus is sexual pleasure, no orgasm, just pleasure, and scorpio is orgasm, and therefore the death of sex.
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Posted by AnneS
I met my Scorpio in Wednesday,later that day he said that he was dying to see me and me in person. He said that he's looking for a serious,long-term relationship.

He said: " if this is about to be what my optimistic passionate mind thinks it will, i will be looking for every possible excuse to come and spend time with you, here or some place else"

So i had a sex with a Scorpio on the first date on Thursday

The next ALL day(Friday)we spent together and we were just cuddled. All day.

He said that he's never had it before,me either.

I said: "i know that tomorrow you'll leave and everything will be end,like yeah,it was fun but don't text me anymore" And he was like: "why are you thinking about me like that? I won't do this.i want to know you better".

After all that,he didn't text me

WTF?
Wtf? Text him and ask wtf —?

Scorpios dive right in but it's usually because they need to know a person sexually, right away, to form that deep bond they crave so much. Text him and ask what's up?

Also, all women must know that ejaculation creates an emptiness that makes us want to be alone....men should have sex without ejac. Pleasure and orgasm are separate from ejac anyway.
Ejaculation = job done

You are spot on Bricklemark



Yep, it's like death, l think Scorpio is about sex and desth for that reason. Taurus is sexual pleasure, no orgasm, just pleasure, and scorpio is orgasm, and therefore the death of sex.

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Wow I so relate to that.

At one time I used to feel I could die having sex.

Thankfully I healed that in me

Five planets in Scorpio
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Posted by Bottabing
You made it way to easy for that Scorpio ... They like the chase... Way to easy ... You fell for it
I have to agree... He's an ass for what he did to you but you made it easy.. He got what he wanted and there is no challenge anymore. We value serious relationships but me personally, I don't sleep with my interest on the first date. That's a "First Date Rule"... A BIG NO NO!!! Do not have sex on your first date... Yea he spit good game but uh.. it was obviously to get in your pants and you fell.. Sorry honey..



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Not all first dates are within a few hours of meeting. I'd known two six months prior to our first dates and one for about a month.

I don't attach a lot of emotional significance to sex and have crippling emotional intimacy issues though so I don't tend to need to trust someone emotionally to get my rocks off lol. I'd be waiting at least a year or more to have sex with a new partner if that were the case.
Are you a Gemini mars
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Not all first dates are within a few hours of meeting. I'd known two six months prior to our first dates and one for about a month.

I don't attach a lot of emotional significance to sex and have crippling emotional intimacy issues though so I don't tend to need to trust someone emotionally to get my rocks off lol. I'd be waiting at least a year or more to have sex with a new partner if that were the case.
could it be the Gemini mars?

and not so much your scorpio venus and cancer moon which could attach emotionally to the man?
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Not all first dates are within a few hours of meeting. I'd known two six months prior to our first dates and one for about a month.

I don't attach a lot of emotional significance to sex and have crippling emotional intimacy issues though so I don't tend to need to trust someone emotionally to get my rocks off lol. I'd be waiting at least a year or more to have sex with a new partner if that were the case.
Are you a Gemini mars
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lol oh I just saw this.

I remember she said she is.
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Posted by AnneS
I met my Scorpio in Wednesday,later that day he said that he was dying to see me and me in person. He said that he's looking for a serious,long-term relationship.

He said: " if this is about to be what my optimistic passionate mind thinks it will, i will be looking for every possible excuse to come and spend time with you, here or some place else"

So i had a sex with a Scorpio on the first date on Thursday

The next ALL day(Friday)we spent together and we were just cuddled. All day.

He said that he's never had it before,me either.

I said: "i know that tomorrow you'll leave and everything will be end,like yeah,it was fun but don't text me anymore" And he was like: "why are you thinking about me like that? I won't do this.i want to know you better".

After all that,he didn't text me

WTF?
um maybe he's busy? or something happened to his phone or his membership got cancelled?

does he have a way to get a hold of you besides the texting? maybe email or phone you at your home?

or maybe facebook, twitter?
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Posted by AnneS
I met my Scorpio in Wednesday,later that day he said that he was dying to see me and me in person. He said that he's looking for a serious,long-term relationship.

He said: " if this is about to be what my optimistic passionate mind thinks it will, i will be looking for every possible excuse to come and spend time with you, here or some place else"

So i had a sex with a Scorpio on the first date on Thursday

The next ALL day(Friday)we spent together and we were just cuddled. All day.

He said that he's never had it before,me either.

I said: "i know that tomorrow you'll leave and everything will be end,like yeah,it was fun but don't text me anymore" And he was like: "why are you thinking about me like that? I won't do this.i want to know you better".

After all that,he didn't text me

WTF?
um maybe he's busy? or something happened to his phone or his membership got cancelled?

does he have a way to get a hold of you besides the texting? maybe email or phone you at your home?

or maybe facebook, twitter?
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Not all first dates are within a few hours of meeting. I'd known two six months prior to our first dates and one for about a month.

I don't attach a lot of emotional significance to sex and have crippling emotional intimacy issues though so I don't tend to need to trust someone emotionally to get my rocks off lol. I'd be waiting at least a year or more to have sex with a new partner if that were the case.
Are you a Gemini mars
lol oh I just saw this.

I remember she said she is.
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Lol is she really! My knowledge of astrology is improving haha

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Cause he's a dick. Or immature. Or selfish.


What if he just decided he isn't interested? Is he obligated because they had sex?
No certainly not. And I can see how insecurity can be offputting.

But it's kinda shitty for someone to voice a concern about a guy disappearing, then he reassures her he won't but then does it anyways. He's breaking his own word.

He probably changed his mind but damn a text saying it wasn't gonna work woulda been nice at least. Albeit that's not really dating standard anymore.
She told him not to text her anymore.
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will that stop a man in love?
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I remember when I met my scorpio at the first date that was only watch a movie after we had a drink. Then we were chilling in his place without sex (actually he wanted sex but being gentle), we cuddled together until next morning. Finally he keep text me for more dating. I think the best way to let scorpio man into you that is don't jump in the bed in the first date. Let him spend more time to get a woman.
It doesn't matter on which say you have sex with any sign!

I am married to first day sex for 23 years!

And I had one heartbreak when o didn't that lasted for years (heartbreak I meam).

Why can't people understand that it's not sex - it's just how it is!

Some guys like that! Some girls like that!

And I say you don't tell Scorpio that he is not going to be back!

Now if you care for him you will sit tight and wait maybe sending occasional text I miss you.

He is punishing you now for being a stupid ass for telling him he is a duchebag!

I am pretty sure he will be back but few more stupid comments like that and you are single again!

Good luck!
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
OP NEVER have sex with a guy on a FIRST DATE.... Value your body. Don't let it be a revolving door for any dick..

Get to know the person FIRST.
Like when man want to see if he can get your ass he will not court you and dump you after months just because game is over!

That's theory makes women stupidely wait!

I rather to get him off my back asap IF that's what his intention is!
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OP NEVER have sex with a guy on a FIRST DATE.... Value your body. Don't let it be a revolving door for any dick..

Get to know the person FIRST.
Like when man want to see if he can get your ass he will not court you and dump you after months just because game is over!

That's theory makes women stupidely wait!

I rather to get him off my back asap IF that's what his intention is!
I think it better to get to know a person first... Then stupid comments like "blah blah blah" what the OP said would not occur!!
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No one can get to know person to be sure if they will dump you after sex on 21st date!

You just investing yourself and prolonging suffering by falling for them and THEN getting dumped anyway!

It's not dark ages anymore.

It IS but in a different way! Lol
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
OP NEVER have sex with a guy on a FIRST DATE.... Value your body. Don't let it be a revolving door for any dick..

Get to know the person FIRST.
Like when man want to see if he can get your ass he will not court you and dump you after months just because game is over!

That's theory makes women stupidely wait!

I rather to get him off my back asap IF that's what his intention is!
I think it better to get to know a person first... Then stupid comments like "blah blah blah" what the OP said would not occur!!
No one can get to know person to be sure if they will dump you after sex on 21st date!

You just investing yourself and prolonging suffering by falling for them and THEN getting dumped anyway!

It's not dark ages anymore.

It IS but in a different way! Lol
you've got a point and im fucking impressed!

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You've always been! Don't kid yourself...
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Oh girl stop.

How are women, still, thinking sex on the first date will lead to a relationship??

In some cases it does, in most cases it doesn't.

Even with all the pretty words and warm feelings, it's a crap shoot.

Either he wants to be your man or he doesn't.

End game.
Exactly! If he wants to be - nothing will matters! First date or 21st!

Unless he got raised in 1900.
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Cause he's a dick. Or immature. Or selfish.


What if he just decided he isn't interested? Is he obligated because they had sex?
No certainly not. And I can see how insecurity can be offputting.

But it's kinda shitty for someone to voice a concern about a guy disappearing, then he reassures her he won't but then does it anyways. He's breaking his own word.

He probably changed his mind but damn a text saying it wasn't gonna work woulda been nice at least. Albeit that's not really dating standard anymore.
She told him not to text her anymore.
will that stop a man in love?
The Scorp was not in love with her.

They only had a first date and no emotional attachment was formed... Just sex which was probably not good as he would have been back for more.

You can develop a relationship if the sex is good but not crap sex....
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Im reading your comments like Jeeshhhhh! LOL!

Harsh, but true.. Damn sometimes the truth hurts!
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Oh girl stop.

How are women, still, thinking sex on the first date will lead to a relationship??

In some cases it does, in most cases it doesn't.

Even with all the pretty words and warm feelings, it's a crap shoot.

Either he wants to be your man or he doesn't.

End game.
Exactly! If he wants to be - nothing will matters! First date or 21st!

Unless he got raised in 1900.





aren't you 1900's kid?

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Well I certainly fell like that in gym this morning!

I couldn't keep up with 70 y/old...
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What's wrong with getting to know each other while in the bedroom? Lol jk
I think this is a quickest way!

And doesn't cost much in case...you know!
lol it was just a joke no time to give advise today headaches lol
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When had you ever seen ME serious!

Lol

Btw get aspirin. Or sex! Whatever you can get quicker!

Wait! I remember one time taking aspirin led to a good sex so...run to the pharmacy now! Lol
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OP NEVER have sex with a guy on a FIRST DATE.... Value your body. Don't let it be a revolving door for any dick..

Get to know the person FIRST.
Like when man want to see if he can get your ass he will not court you and dump you after months just because game is over!

That's theory makes women stupidely wait!

I rather to get him off my back asap IF that's what his intention is!
If you are comfortable doing that on a first date good for you. But insecure people with hangup like the OP should get to know the person better then they wouldn't say stupid things...

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Insecure people will always say stupid things like ' he just texted me what should I do?'

New generation is just strange because of the Internet and stuff!

Media screwed them up to the core!

I can not imagine watching my man online talking to anyone because we don't have FB! Do you?
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
OP NEVER have sex with a guy on a FIRST DATE.... Value your body. Don't let it be a revolving door for any dick..

Get to know the person FIRST.
Like when man want to see if he can get your ass he will not court you and dump you after months just because game is over!

That's theory makes women stupidely wait!

I rather to get him off my back asap IF that's what his intention is!
I think it better to get to know a person first... Then stupid comments like "blah blah blah" what the OP said would not occur!!
No one can get to know person to be sure if they will dump you after sex on 21st date!

You just investing yourself and prolonging suffering by falling for them and THEN getting dumped anyway!

It's not dark ages anymore.

It IS but in a different way! Lol
Look, If you are "drive by" kit off sex on first date person good for you

But most people including the OP are not that comfortable and it depends on the individual. The OP should have got to know him better as she would not have fucked up by saying that insecure shit she said had she taken her time to get to know him as a person and a human being.



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Disagree! If he wanted just to have sex - he would get her later. And then dissapear! Game is over! He is out!

But if he felt good about her and she would be smart enough to keep quiet not insulting his feelings - he could just proceed and come back!

She just being stupid by not knowing what she is dealing with!

I am old enough to say you don't love me and he said ok I don't and I am just laughing my ass off!

She is too young to have that as lol!

It's drama! And it's should be!
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Not to be judgmental, but I honestly have no idea how people go around and sleep with people within hours of meeting them. You are essentially sleeping with every person that person has slept with. To me, I have to trust you on some level to allow you into my body. And there is no way I can trust you in a few hours. lol
No, you are just sleeping with that one person. You use protection.

Some people don't need any emotional connection for sex. Nothing wrong with that.
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Where did I say that sex needed emotional attachment? Don't put words in my mouth. What I said was, I have to trust you on some level. That does not equate emotional attachment with sex. Whether it is in a romantic sense, or a casual FWB sense, I still look at sex the exact way I stated, I am not going to sleep with just anyone for kicks and giggles.

Whether you use protection or not, nothing is bullet proof. A condom can still break. So again, my statement still stands.



Back at the subject at hand, 90% of people aren't going to end up in a long term relationship with someone whom they sleep with on the first date.
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He probably changed his mind but damn a text saying it wasn't gonna work woulda been nice at least. Albeit that's not really dating standard anymore.
That's what I was thinking....I guess at that point, once he knows he feels nothing, text or no text, its all sort of the same....It isn't going anywhere. I guess he could've been courteous but he was probably trying to avoid questions he didn't want to answer.
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He was going to look like or be an asshole in her eyes no matter, what. He had sex with her and no matter what he said she would think he was hitting and quitting it. It's really not that hard to figure out why people go ghost at times.

Meaning, she was going to be hurt no matter what.. At least that's probably how he looked at it.
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OP NEVER have sex with a guy on a FIRST DATE.... Value your body. Don't let it be a revolving door for any dick..

Get to know the person FIRST.
Like when man want to see if he can get your ass he will not court you and dump you after months just because game is over!

That's theory makes women stupidely wait!

I rather to get him off my back asap IF that's what his intention is!
I think it better to get to know a person first... Then stupid comments like "blah blah blah" what the OP said would not occur!!
No one can get to know person to be sure if they will dump you after sex on 21st date!

You just investing yourself and prolonging suffering by falling for them and THEN getting dumped anyway!

It's not dark ages anymore.

It IS but in a different way! Lol
you've got a point and im fucking impressed!

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lol - the 21st date - yep, it has happened to me!

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Posted by nikkistar
Not to be judgmental, but I honestly have no idea how people go around and sleep with people within hours of meeting them. You are essentially sleeping with every person that person has slept with. To me, I have to trust you on some level to allow you into my body. And there is no way I can trust you in a few hours. lol
No, you are just sleeping with that one person. You use protection.

Some people don't need any emotional connection for sex. Nothing wrong with that.
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And yet here we are with this thread asking where did he go.

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Posted by bricklemark
Posted by AnneS
I met my Scorpio in Wednesday,later that day he said that he was dying to see me and me in person. He said that he's looking for a serious,long-term relationship.

He said: " if this is about to be what my optimistic passionate mind thinks it will, i will be looking for every possible excuse to come and spend time with you, here or some place else"

So i had a sex with a Scorpio on the first date on Thursday

The next ALL day(Friday)we spent together and we were just cuddled. All day.

He said that he's never had it before,me either.

I said: "i know that tomorrow you'll leave and everything will be end,like yeah,it was fun but don't text me anymore" And he was like: "why are you thinking about me like that? I won't do this.i want to know you better".

After all that,he didn't text me

WTF?
Wtf? Text him and ask wtf —?

Scorpios dive right in but it's usually because they need to know a person sexually, right away, to form that deep bond they crave so much. Text him and ask what's up?

Also, all women must know that ejaculation creates an emptiness that makes us want to be alone....men should have sex without ejac. Pleasure and orgasm are separate from ejac anyway.
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Translation make him wait. If I am really into a guy and want him to get to know who I am, I don't throw pussy at him. I want him to see who I am.

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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Posted by AnneS
I met my Scorpio in Wednesday,later that day he said that he was dying to see me and me in person. He said that he's looking for a serious,long-term relationship.

He said: " if this is about to be what my optimistic passionate mind thinks it will, i will be looking for every possible excuse to come and spend time with you, here or some place else"

So i had a sex with a Scorpio on the first date on Thursday

The next ALL day(Friday)we spent together and we were just cuddled. All day.

He said that he's never had it before,me either.

I said: "i know that tomorrow you'll leave and everything will be end,like yeah,it was fun but don't text me anymore" And he was like: "why are you thinking about me like that? I won't do this.i want to know you better".

After all that,he didn't text me

WTF?
Because he owes you nothing...

You were prepared to be a one night stand and you made sure it happened.

You even wrote the ending by saying

i know that tomorrow you'll leave and everything will be end,like yeah,it was fun but don't text me anymore"

Don't pretend to be innocent dumb ass....

You got what you wanted and you saw the "future" before it happened....

You are too cheap... Scorps don't like cheap. They except sex on a first date but don't expect to be a gf.
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I agree with this. Sometimes women can be our own worst enemy when we talk to damn much.

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