A Scorpio guy acts like he hates me. Should I move on?

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Melody527
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Sorry for the long Topic

I met a Scorpio guy while going out with friends. After seeing each other twice in person, he added me on Facebook and I got happy that he wanted to keep in touch and as soon as he added me he tried talking to me every now and then. He was REALLY nice and I thought he was into me. He was the one who pursued me all the time so there was definitely something going on. Anyway, I started to have feelings for him so I decided to give him a hint that I like him too. I decided to start a conversation with him instead of waiting for him to talk to me as he usually does, that way he knew I was interested. Everything went well, but after that day he became distant, cold and stopped talking to me for months!!!! I thought our friendship was going to get stronger but instead he started acting mean with me. The first thing that came into my mind was that he didn't like me back so he was trying to avoid me. And I felt so upset and hurt because he stopped all communication. He didn't even wish me a Merry Christmas while all my friends did. A few weeks ago, I posted something on Facebook that impressed him and he started talking to me again after months of silence!!! I was surprised because I thought he would never speak to me again. He's been nice with me for the past 2 weeks but sometimes he still acts distant and cold. For Valentine's he didn't said a word. That's mean because he should care if he's really my friend. I can't figure this man out anymore!!! Sometimes he gives me the impression that he can't stand me and other times he acts like he cares. So this behavior is driving me crazy because now I'm always having doubts that he even likes me even as a friend. I don't think I've done anything wrong to him to treat me this way. So why did he added me on Facebook and started talking to me but sometimes acts like he can't stand me? It doesn't make sense to me and I don't get him. Now I will NEVER know if he ever liked me because he's good at hidding his emotions and making me doubt all the time. I heard that Scorpios play mind games to know if you care about them. But didn't I show him I care when I made the first move in talking to him?? And he pulled away so I doubt that he might be testing me. Should I just move on? Believe me, we have a good connection and many common interests but he's the one who is making everything complicated. I have even thought about deleting him from Facebook because I can't stand being ignored by him. Even if he only likes me as a friend or doesn't like me at all, he should just be honest and not play games of being nice and cold. I don't want to confront him regarding his behavior because he might not talk to me again for months. He's so weird that I don't know what to expect from him. Is there a way I can figure out what his true feelings are? What should I do?
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TiredPerson
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I don't think that he's necessarily being mean to you. All he's done is neglected to wish you a happy whatever...I don't wish anyone a happy anything unless I'm actually with them. Being straightforward is best. Try asking if he wants to catch up over a coffee or something sometime and then you'll know. If he totally blows you off then he's not interested. If he makes plans with you, well...
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Posted by TiredPerson
I don't think that he's necessarily being mean to you. All he's done is neglected to wish you a happy whatever...I don't wish anyone a happy anything unless I'm actually with them. Being straightforward is best. Try asking if he wants to catch up over a coffee or something sometime and then you'll know. If he totally blows you off then he's not interested. If he makes plans with you, well...




go wit this OP