StarHeart
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Advice+help needed! What best to do to+for a scorp in times like this?
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Posted by dolluxeI never begged in the past... Idk why I just turned into a softie with him... /_\"
Scorpio or not don't ever beg.
I'm curious though, what did you do to piss him off?
And it really got me when my intention or meaning being misunderstood or interpreted in a negative way wrongly...
I happened to see that he posted a "emotional" (thunderstruck/ hurt) sticker/ emoticon and the brief sticker correspondences on his female friend's public story post about seeing handsome men, I just JOKINGLY posted the same sticker as his in the comment thread (like , "hey there" ) .
He thought I stalked him and called me crazy (and like all the scorps I know, his anger escalated from 100 to 1000000 in 1 minute !)
which I totally am not~~~! He knows I'm a hermit and don't use social media much, I just stumbled upon the post.
Besides I NEVER ask him those "where/ with whom/ when" questions, I just let him do what he wants.
Whoa celebrate and maybe it's just not meant to be. Space and loyalty, and communication skills will go along with alot people. Doesn't seem you guys had it.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428We give each other space...
Whoa celebrate and maybe it's just not meant to be. Space and loyalty, and communication skills will go along with alot people. Doesn't seem you guys had it.
We are both loyal persons...
Communication... it's just this time...
Do you people just let go so easily...? /_\
No hurdles to jump and no hiccups, challenges and tests to work thru?
What about the quit his job thing...?
Posted by GetMistedHe still cared about how late I stayed up the day before 😢
He's done. 100% done.
Are you a scorpio tho...?
If you pissed a Scorpio off he will most likely remember that forever and not only that it will most likely won't be the same anymore depending on what you did.
Posted by StarHeartI don't think you trust him. Without trust there is no relationship.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428We give each other space...
Whoa celebrate and maybe it's just not meant to be. Space and loyalty, and communication skills will go along with alot people. Doesn't seem you guys had it.
We are both loyal persons...
Communication... it's just this time...
Do you people just let go so easily...? /_\
No hurdles to jump and no hiccups, challenges and tests to work thru?
What about the quit his job thing...?click to expand
His chart is oh so watery and cardinalish. Meaning constant fixed changes to either work it out or let it go. It does depend why on earth did you do. Cause people just don't drop off for no one reason.
And trust is huge.
And trust is huge.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I trust him. I don't look at his stuff , don't track / check him. I never ask about his friends, I don't even ask about any other social media that he uses (snapchat, etc.) ~!Posted by StarHeartI don't think you trust him. Without trust there is no relationship.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428We give each other space...
Whoa celebrate and maybe it's just not meant to be. Space and loyalty, and communication skills will go along with alot people. Doesn't seem you guys had it.
We are both loyal persons...
Communication... it's just this time...
Do you people just let go so easily...? /_\
No hurdles to jump and no hiccups, challenges and tests to work thru?
What about the quit his job thing...?click to expand
Is this not trusting enough...?
Hm nahyup. Idk maybe it's a lack of physical or intellectual connection then.
Posted by Stinger408scorpAs ridiculous as it may sound,this can be true of Scorpio people. I am one, but luckily have a Taurus moon so am more easy going. I have a few Scorpio friends and a friend who is with a Scorpio man........he is actually totally unreasonable, so try not to beat yourself up too much ... due to an oversensitivity, it can be almost impossible at times to have a relationship with a Scorpio
If you pissed a Scorpio off he will most likely remember that forever and not only that it will most likely won't be the same anymore depending on what you did.
Of course, not many Scorpios will admit this....but i will 😛
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428He expressed understood my joking behavior and said forget it ( although I know scorps never really forget) on side messenger. He unblocked me on our main messenger afterwards.
His chart is oh so watery and cardinalish. Meaning constant fixed changes to either work it out or let it go. It does depend why on earth did you do. Cause people just don't drop off for no one reason.
And trust is huge.
But he's pissed bcoz he thought I stalked, now that it's clarified, what is there to be pissed still...?
The way it looks like he shut down his phone or phone internet connection, he is shutting everyone out now...? I'm worried about the relationship, AND also worried about him...
This sounds way too familiar (and not in a good way familiar).
If it were me i would give him space but still stay close enough to support hin as a friend. It's not safe for your heart to go all in right now.
If it were me i would give him space but still stay close enough to support hin as a friend. It's not safe for your heart to go all in right now.
Posted by MyStarsShinelol I will say this I will forgive but I never forget ? And you bet that I'll always have a space inside my brain to file those things away ?Posted by Stinger408scorpAs ridiculous as it may sound,this can be true of Scorpio people. I am one, but luckily have a Taurus moon so am more easy going. I have a few Scorpio friends and a friend who is with a Scorpio man........he is actually totally unreasonable, so try not to beat yourself up too much ... due to an oversensitivity, it can be almost impossible at times to have a relationship with a Scorpio
If you pissed a Scorpio off he will most likely remember that forever and not only that it will most likely won't be the same anymore depending on what you did.
Of course, not many Scorpios will admit this....but i will 😛click to expand
Posted by Stinger408scorpMy astrologer friend said to me that it takes Scorpios a very long time to forget......several lifetimesPosted by MyStarsShinelol I will say this I will forgive but I never forget ? And you bet that I'll always have a space inside my brain to file those things away ?Posted by Stinger408scorpAs ridiculous as it may sound,this can be true of Scorpio people. I am one, but luckily have a Taurus moon so am more easy going. I have a few Scorpio friends and a friend who is with a Scorpio man........he is actually totally unreasonable, so try not to beat yourself up too much ... due to an oversensitivity, it can be almost impossible at times to have a relationship with a Scorpio
If you pissed a Scorpio off he will most likely remember that forever and not only that it will most likely won't be the same anymore depending on what you did.
Of course, not many Scorpios will admit this....but i will 😛click to expand
😛
Posted by MyStarsShineLol or never at all. ?Posted by Stinger408scorpMy astrologer friend said to me that it takes Scorpios a very long time to forget......several lifetimesPosted by MyStarsShinelol I will say this I will forgive but I never forget ? And you bet that I'll always have a space inside my brain to file those things away ?Posted by Stinger408scorpAs ridiculous as it may sound,this can be true of Scorpio people. I am one, but luckily have a Taurus moon so am more easy going. I have a few Scorpio friends and a friend who is with a Scorpio man........he is actually totally unreasonable, so try not to beat yourself up too much ... due to an oversensitivity, it can be almost impossible at times to have a relationship with a Scorpio
If you pissed a Scorpio off he will most likely remember that forever and not only that it will most likely won't be the same anymore depending on what you did.
Of course, not many Scorpios will admit this....but i will 😛
😛
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One thing is, he likes hearing me say how important and special he is to me. Sometimes he 'd use silence or "say bye" tactic when he got sensitive (perhaps jelly) when heard something he doesn't like, and I'd tell him I only have one heart for him...
Then everything was ok~
sighs...
Then everything was ok~
sighs...
Posted by MyStarsShineI don't hold grudges but I will cut you off like butter if done wrong doesn't matter how long I've known you I'll dissapear like boogeyman and it's over.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy astrologer friend said to me that it takes Scorpios a very long time to forget......several lifetimesPosted by MyStarsShinelol I will say this I will forgive but I never forget ? And you bet that I'll always have a space inside my brain to file those things away ?Posted by Stinger408scorpAs ridiculous as it may sound,this can be true of Scorpio people. I am one, but luckily have a Taurus moon so am more easy going. I have a few Scorpio friends and a friend who is with a Scorpio man........he is actually totally unreasonable, so try not to beat yourself up too much ... due to an oversensitivity, it can be almost impossible at times to have a relationship with a Scorpio
If you pissed a Scorpio off he will most likely remember that forever and not only that it will most likely won't be the same anymore depending on what you did.
Of course, not many Scorpios will admit this....but i will 😛
😛
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Posted by Stinger408scorpI am trying to teach our Scorpio son the gift of forgiveness. The problem with disappearing is, it will come back to face you again in the future, so it is good to deal with it in the present. He is learning and has worked through things with a couple of friends that let him down. He is 18.Posted by MyStarsShineI don't hold grudges but I will cut you off like butter if done wrong doesn't matter how long I've known you I'll dissapear like boogeyman and it's over.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy astrologer friend said to me that it takes Scorpios a very long time to forget......several lifetimesPosted by MyStarsShinelol I will say this I will forgive but I never forget ? And you bet that I'll always have a space inside my brain to file those things away ?Posted by Stinger408scorpAs ridiculous as it may sound,this can be true of Scorpio people. I am one, but luckily have a Taurus moon so am more easy going. I have a few Scorpio friends and a friend who is with a Scorpio man........he is actually totally unreasonable, so try not to beat yourself up too much ... due to an oversensitivity, it can be almost impossible at times to have a relationship with a Scorpio
If you pissed a Scorpio off he will most likely remember that forever and not only that it will most likely won't be the same anymore depending on what you did.
Of course, not many Scorpios will admit this....but i will 😛
😛
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When i was younger i used to cut people off too.......i have actually regretted it with a couple but now give people a bit more slack
I've been surrounded by (different kinds of) scorps all my life, yes they most likely never forget, but things can go back to ok, and people patched up.
heavy scorp + heavy cap, even the Gem moon is in 8th house... I know it take work...\
And the scorpS can be very easy going when people are just friends, once the people became close the scorps tolerance level drop prominently and the standards towards the close ones is raised o_o
heavy scorp + heavy cap, even the Gem moon is in 8th house... I know it take work...\
And the scorpS can be very easy going when people are just friends, once the people became close the scorps tolerance level drop prominently and the standards towards the close ones is raised o_o
Posted by leowww
You begged? Please stop.
So he's dumping you .. Cause you replied to a post he left for his female friend?
o.o
Your.. well.. now ex sounds manipulative af.
He's probably enjoying you jumping through hoops for him too.
Stop doing that, you've apologized.. for being intrusive I guess.. ( still don't understand why)
You do that once... If he's not over it...& wants to sulk... well you've done all you could and you should stop contacting him.
Wise words
Posted by MyStarsShinelol I'm not worried about it at all and trust me I see your point ? I do forgive but I will move fast cause life is short to spend it with stupid people and I don't do things just cause ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI am trying to teach our Scorpio son the gift of forgiveness. The problem with disappearing is, it will come back to face you again in the future, so it is good to deal with it in the present. He is learning and has worked through things with a couple of friends that let him down. He is 18.Posted by MyStarsShineI don't hold grudges but I will cut you off like butter if done wrong doesn't matter how long I've known you I'll dissapear like boogeyman and it's over.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy astrologer friend said to me that it takes Scorpios a very long time to forget......several lifetimesPosted by MyStarsShinelol I will say this I will forgive but I never forget ? And you bet that I'll always have a space inside my brain to file those things away ?Posted by Stinger408scorpAs ridiculous as it may sound,this can be true of Scorpio people. I am one, but luckily have a Taurus moon so am more easy going. I have a few Scorpio friends and a friend who is with a Scorpio man........he is actually totally unreasonable, so try not to beat yourself up too much ... due to an oversensitivity, it can be almost impossible at times to have a relationship with a Scorpio
If you pissed a Scorpio off he will most likely remember that forever and not only that it will most likely won't be the same anymore depending on what you did.
Of course, not many Scorpios will admit this....but i will 😛
😛
When i was younger i used to cut people off too.......i have actually regretted it with a couple but now give people a bit more slackclick to expand
Posted by StarHeartI am a dream as a friend (I am told by my female friends). With the romance thing, i am not such a dream lol......tolerance, yes, for sure, is not my greatest asset and i become unreasonable. I have stayed away from relationships for a while whilst i ground myself.
I've been surrounded by (different kinds of) scorps all my life, yes they most likely never forget, but things can go back to ok, and people patched up.
heavy scorp + heavy cap, even the Gem moon is in 8th house... I know it take work...\
And the scorpS can be very easy going when people are just friends, once the people became close the scorps tolerance level drop prominently and the standards towards the close ones is raised o_o
The first step to healing this is admitting it....
Posted by MyStarsShineIt's alright to give people second chances cause no ones perfect but It all depends on the situation.Posted by Stinger408scorpI am trying to teach our Scorpio son the gift of forgiveness. The problem with disappearing is, it will come back to face you again in the future, so it is good to deal with it in the present. He is learning and has worked through things with a couple of friends that let him down. He is 18.Posted by MyStarsShineI don't hold grudges but I will cut you off like butter if done wrong doesn't matter how long I've known you I'll dissapear like boogeyman and it's over.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy astrologer friend said to me that it takes Scorpios a very long time to forget......several lifetimesPosted by MyStarsShinelol I will say this I will forgive but I never forget ? And you bet that I'll always have a space inside my brain to file those things away ?Posted by Stinger408scorpAs ridiculous as it may sound,this can be true of Scorpio people. I am one, but luckily have a Taurus moon so am more easy going. I have a few Scorpio friends and a friend who is with a Scorpio man........he is actually totally unreasonable, so try not to beat yourself up too much ... due to an oversensitivity, it can be almost impossible at times to have a relationship with a Scorpio
If you pissed a Scorpio off he will most likely remember that forever and not only that it will most likely won't be the same anymore depending on what you did.
Of course, not many Scorpios will admit this....but i will 😛
😛
When i was younger i used to cut people off too.......i have actually regretted it with a couple but now give people a bit more slackclick to expand
Posted by Stinger408scorpSure, but there is a difference between being stupid and being human 😛. Sometimes the line can be somewhat thin. I have, in the past, expected perfection from peoplePosted by MyStarsShinelol I'm not worried about it at all and trust me I see your point ? I do forgive but I will move fast cause life is short to spend it with stupid people and I don't do things just cause ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI am trying to teach our Scorpio son the gift of forgiveness. The problem with disappearing is, it will come back to face you again in the future, so it is good to deal with it in the present. He is learning and has worked through things with a couple of friends that let him down. He is 18.Posted by MyStarsShineI don't hold grudges but I will cut you off like butter if done wrong doesn't matter how long I've known you I'll dissapear like boogeyman and it's over.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy astrologer friend said to me that it takes Scorpios a very long time to forget......several lifetimesPosted by MyStarsShinelol I will say this I will forgive but I never forget ? And you bet that I'll always have a space inside my brain to file those things away ?Posted by Stinger408scorpAs ridiculous as it may sound,this can be true of Scorpio people. I am one, but luckily have a Taurus moon so am more easy going. I have a few Scorpio friends and a friend who is with a Scorpio man........he is actually totally unreasonable, so try not to beat yourself up too much ... due to an oversensitivity, it can be almost impossible at times to have a relationship with a Scorpio
If you pissed a Scorpio off he will most likely remember that forever and not only that it will most likely won't be the same anymore depending on what you did.
Of course, not many Scorpios will admit this....but i will 😛
😛
When i was younger i used to cut people off too.......i have actually regretted it with a couple but now give people a bit more slackclick to expand
I read somewhere (i think it may have been Linda Goodman) that *nothing is never enough for a Scorpio*
*Cringe*
Lol
Posted by MyStarsShineI don't expect perfection cause I sure damn know I'm not perfect ? But loyalty is on top if you break that I'll break your face ? I mean that's it for you buddy lolPosted by Stinger408scorpSure, but there is a difference between being stupid and being human 😛. Sometimes the line can be somewhat thin. I have, in the past, expected perfection from peoplePosted by MyStarsShinelol I'm not worried about it at all and trust me I see your point ? I do forgive but I will move fast cause life is short to spend it with stupid people and I don't do things just cause ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI am trying to teach our Scorpio son the gift of forgiveness. The problem with disappearing is, it will come back to face you again in the future, so it is good to deal with it in the present. He is learning and has worked through things with a couple of friends that let him down. He is 18.Posted by MyStarsShineI don't hold grudges but I will cut you off like butter if done wrong doesn't matter how long I've known you I'll dissapear like boogeyman and it's over.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy astrologer friend said to me that it takes Scorpios a very long time to forget......several lifetimesPosted by MyStarsShinelol I will say this I will forgive but I never forget ? And you bet that I'll always have a space inside my brain to file those things away ?Posted by Stinger408scorpAs ridiculous as it may sound,this can be true of Scorpio people. I am one, but luckily have a Taurus moon so am more easy going. I have a few Scorpio friends and a friend who is with a Scorpio man........he is actually totally unreasonable, so try not to beat yourself up too much ... due to an oversensitivity, it can be almost impossible at times to have a relationship with a Scorpio
If you pissed a Scorpio off he will most likely remember that forever and not only that it will most likely won't be the same anymore depending on what you did.
Of course, not many Scorpios will admit this....but i will 😛
😛
When i was younger i used to cut people off too.......i have actually regretted it with a couple but now give people a bit more slack
I read somewhere (i think it may have been Linda Goodman) that *nothing is never enough for a Scorpio*
*Cringe*
Lol
click to expand
Posted by Stinger408scorpYes, i am the same...(except for the breaking the face 😛), if someone is disloyal to me i will challenge them on it though and see what they have to say before cutting them off.....Posted by MyStarsShineI don't expect perfection cause I sure damn know I'm not perfect ? But loyalty is on top if you break that I'll break your face ? I mean that's it for you buddy lolPosted by Stinger408scorpSure, but there is a difference between being stupid and being human 😛. Sometimes the line can be somewhat thin. I have, in the past, expected perfection from peoplePosted by MyStarsShinelol I'm not worried about it at all and trust me I see your point ? I do forgive but I will move fast cause life is short to spend it with stupid people and I don't do things just cause ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI am trying to teach our Scorpio son the gift of forgiveness. The problem with disappearing is, it will come back to face you again in the future, so it is good to deal with it in the present. He is learning and has worked through things with a couple of friends that let him down. He is 18.Posted by MyStarsShineI don't hold grudges but I will cut you off like butter if done wrong doesn't matter how long I've known you I'll dissapear like boogeyman and it's over.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy astrologer friend said to me that it takes Scorpios a very long time to forget......several lifetimesPosted by MyStarsShinelol I will say this I will forgive but I never forget ? And you bet that I'll always have a space inside my brain to file those things away ?Posted by Stinger408scorpAs ridiculous as it may sound,this can be true of Scorpio people. I am one, but luckily have a Taurus moon so am more easy going. I have a few Scorpio friends and a friend who is with a Scorpio man........he is actually totally unreasonable, so try not to beat yourself up too much ... due to an oversensitivity, it can be almost impossible at times to have a relationship with a Scorpio
If you pissed a Scorpio off he will most likely remember that forever and not only that it will most likely won't be the same anymore depending on what you did.
Of course, not many Scorpios will admit this....but i will 😛
😛
When i was younger i used to cut people off too.......i have actually regretted it with a couple but now give people a bit more slack
I read somewhere (i think it may have been Linda Goodman) that *nothing is never enough for a Scorpio*
*Cringe*
Lol
click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineSontimes id do the same and challenge but for me sometimes It's not necessary because I'm like the FBI I will just know ?Posted by Stinger408scorpYes, i am the same...(except for the breaking the face 😛), if someone is disloyal to me i will challenge them on it though and see what they have to say before cutting them off.....Posted by MyStarsShineI don't expect perfection cause I sure damn know I'm not perfect ? But loyalty is on top if you break that I'll break your face ? I mean that's it for you buddy lolPosted by Stinger408scorpSure, but there is a difference between being stupid and being human 😛. Sometimes the line can be somewhat thin. I have, in the past, expected perfection from peoplePosted by MyStarsShinelol I'm not worried about it at all and trust me I see your point ? I do forgive but I will move fast cause life is short to spend it with stupid people and I don't do things just cause ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI am trying to teach our Scorpio son the gift of forgiveness. The problem with disappearing is, it will come back to face you again in the future, so it is good to deal with it in the present. He is learning and has worked through things with a couple of friends that let him down. He is 18.Posted by MyStarsShineI don't hold grudges but I will cut you off like butter if done wrong doesn't matter how long I've known you I'll dissapear like boogeyman and it's over.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy astrologer friend said to me that it takes Scorpios a very long time to forget......several lifetimesPosted by MyStarsShinelol I will say this I will forgive but I never forget ? And you bet that I'll always have a space inside my brain to file those things away ?Posted by Stinger408scorpAs ridiculous as it may sound,this can be true of Scorpio people. I am one, but luckily have a Taurus moon so am more easy going. I have a few Scorpio friends and a friend who is with a Scorpio man........he is actually totally unreasonable, so try not to beat yourself up too much ... due to an oversensitivity, it can be almost impossible at times to have a relationship with a Scorpio
If you pissed a Scorpio off he will most likely remember that forever and not only that it will most likely won't be the same anymore depending on what you did.
Of course, not many Scorpios will admit this....but i will 😛
😛
When i was younger i used to cut people off too.......i have actually regretted it with a couple but now give people a bit more slack
I read somewhere (i think it may have been Linda Goodman) that *nothing is never enough for a Scorpio*
*Cringe*
Lol
click to expand
Posted by Stinger408scorpI like to challenge to see what i am dealing with......to see how decent the person really is.Posted by MyStarsShineSontimes id do the same and challenge but for me sometimes It's not necessary because I'm like the FBI I will just know ?Posted by Stinger408scorpYes, i am the same...(except for the breaking the face 😛), if someone is disloyal to me i will challenge them on it though and see what they have to say before cutting them off.....Posted by MyStarsShineI don't expect perfection cause I sure damn know I'm not perfect ? But loyalty is on top if you break that I'll break your face ? I mean that's it for you buddy lolPosted by Stinger408scorpSure, but there is a difference between being stupid and being human 😛. Sometimes the line can be somewhat thin. I have, in the past, expected perfection from peoplePosted by MyStarsShinelol I'm not worried about it at all and trust me I see your point ? I do forgive but I will move fast cause life is short to spend it with stupid people and I don't do things just cause ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI am trying to teach our Scorpio son the gift of forgiveness. The problem with disappearing is, it will come back to face you again in the future, so it is good to deal with it in the present. He is learning and has worked through things with a couple of friends that let him down. He is 18.Posted by MyStarsShineI don't hold grudges but I will cut you off like butter if done wrong doesn't matter how long I've known you I'll dissapear like boogeyman and it's over.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy astrologer friend said to me that it takes Scorpios a very long time to forget......several lifetimesPosted by MyStarsShinelol I will say this I will forgive but I never forget ? And you bet that I'll always have a space inside my brain to file those things away ?Posted by Stinger408scorpAs ridiculous as it may sound,this can be true of Scorpio people. I am one, but luckily have a Taurus moon so am more easy going. I have a few Scorpio friends and a friend who is with a Scorpio man........he is actually totally unreasonable, so try not to beat yourself up too much ... due to an oversensitivity, it can be almost impossible at times to have a relationship with a Scorpio
If you pissed a Scorpio off he will most likely remember that forever and not only that it will most likely won't be the same anymore depending on what you did.
Of course, not many Scorpios will admit this....but i will 😛
😛
When i was younger i used to cut people off too.......i have actually regretted it with a couple but now give people a bit more slack
I read somewhere (i think it may have been Linda Goodman) that *nothing is never enough for a Scorpio*
*Cringe*
Lol
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Would you date another Scorpio person?
Posted by MyStarsShineDo you like looking at yourself in the mirror everyday? ? Jk I don't discriminate I don't see a prop dating another me ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI like to challenge to see what i am dealing with......to see how decent the person really is.Posted by MyStarsShineSontimes id do the same and challenge but for me sometimes It's not necessary because I'm like the FBI I will just know ?Posted by Stinger408scorpYes, i am the same...(except for the breaking the face 😛), if someone is disloyal to me i will challenge them on it though and see what they have to say before cutting them off.....Posted by MyStarsShineI don't expect perfection cause I sure damn know I'm not perfect ? But loyalty is on top if you break that I'll break your face ? I mean that's it for you buddy lolPosted by Stinger408scorpSure, but there is a difference between being stupid and being human 😛. Sometimes the line can be somewhat thin. I have, in the past, expected perfection from peoplePosted by MyStarsShinelol I'm not worried about it at all and trust me I see your point ? I do forgive but I will move fast cause life is short to spend it with stupid people and I don't do things just cause ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI am trying to teach our Scorpio son the gift of forgiveness. The problem with disappearing is, it will come back to face you again in the future, so it is good to deal with it in the present. He is learning and has worked through things with a couple of friends that let him down. He is 18.Posted by MyStarsShineI don't hold grudges but I will cut you off like butter if done wrong doesn't matter how long I've known you I'll dissapear like boogeyman and it's over.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy astrologer friend said to me that it takes Scorpios a very long time to forget......several lifetimesPosted by MyStarsShinelol I will say this I will forgive but I never forget ? And you bet that I'll always have a space inside my brain to file those things away ?Posted by Stinger408scorpAs ridiculous as it may sound,this can be true of Scorpio people. I am one, but luckily have a Taurus moon so am more easy going. I have a few Scorpio friends and a friend who is with a Scorpio man........he is actually totally unreasonable, so try not to beat yourself up too much ... due to an oversensitivity, it can be almost impossible at times to have a relationship with a Scorpio
If you pissed a Scorpio off he will most likely remember that forever and not only that it will most likely won't be the same anymore depending on what you did.
Of course, not many Scorpios will admit this....but i will 😛
😛
When i was younger i used to cut people off too.......i have actually regretted it with a couple but now give people a bit more slack
I read somewhere (i think it may have been Linda Goodman) that *nothing is never enough for a Scorpio*
*Cringe*
Lol
Would you date another Scorpio person?
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Posted by leowwwA friend of mine who is living with a Scop guy accused her of sleeping with all her male friends 😐. He then denied her sex and moved into the spare roomPosted by StarHeartOh wow.
One thing is, he likes hearing me say how important and special he is to me. Sometimes he 'd use silence or "say bye" tactic when he got sensitive (perhaps jelly) when heard something he doesn't like, and I'd tell him I only have one heart for him...
Then everything was ok~
sighs...
So you know... It's a "tactic".. Using your word... and you still do it? Why?
This is so wrong.
You're letting him walk alllll over you.
Yea he's using silence to punish you... It clearly works since you're begging and stroking his ego.
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JFC
This is a tough one. My Scorp gets softened a bit with the Gem ascendant and Libra Venus BUT
Once I block it is over. I would never block someone that has a chance. I'm too obsessive. I would want to know how many times you tried to call. I may ignore you or I may reply just to tell you what shit you were but I wouldn't block.
It is a hard decision to block but it is a permanent one.
All that Scorp and Cap together sounds like a very stubborn man. If you end up together brace yourself.
Once I block it is over. I would never block someone that has a chance. I'm too obsessive. I would want to know how many times you tried to call. I may ignore you or I may reply just to tell you what shit you were but I wouldn't block.
It is a hard decision to block but it is a permanent one.
All that Scorp and Cap together sounds like a very stubborn man. If you end up together brace yourself.
Posted by Stinger408scorpI would date another Scorp if they had just my good points, in other words my Moon in Taurus traits. I would rather eat worms for the rest of my life than be with someone that had the darker side of ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShineDo you like looking at yourself in the mirror everyday? ? Jk I don't discriminate I don't see a prop dating another me ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI like to challenge to see what i am dealing with......to see how decent the person really is.Posted by MyStarsShineSontimes id do the same and challenge but for me sometimes It's not necessary because I'm like the FBI I will just know ?Posted by Stinger408scorpYes, i am the same...(except for the breaking the face 😛), if someone is disloyal to me i will challenge them on it though and see what they have to say before cutting them off.....Posted by MyStarsShineI don't expect perfection cause I sure damn know I'm not perfect ? But loyalty is on top if you break that I'll break your face ? I mean that's it for you buddy lolPosted by Stinger408scorpSure, but there is a difference between being stupid and being human 😛. Sometimes the line can be somewhat thin. I have, in the past, expected perfection from peoplePosted by MyStarsShinelol I'm not worried about it at all and trust me I see your point ? I do forgive but I will move fast cause life is short to spend it with stupid people and I don't do things just cause ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI am trying to teach our Scorpio son the gift of forgiveness. The problem with disappearing is, it will come back to face you again in the future, so it is good to deal with it in the present. He is learning and has worked through things with a couple of friends that let him down. He is 18.Posted by MyStarsShineI don't hold grudges but I will cut you off like butter if done wrong doesn't matter how long I've known you I'll dissapear like boogeyman and it's over.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy astrologer friend said to me that it takes Scorpios a very long time to forget......several lifetimesPosted by MyStarsShinelol I will say this I will forgive but I never forget ? And you bet that I'll always have a space inside my brain to file those things away ?Posted by Stinger408scorpAs ridiculous as it may sound,this can be true of Scorpio people. I am one, but luckily have a Taurus moon so am more easy going. I have a few Scorpio friends and a friend who is with a Scorpio man........he is actually totally unreasonable, so try not to beat yourself up too much ... due to an oversensitivity, it can be almost impossible at times to have a relationship with a Scorpio
If you pissed a Scorpio off he will most likely remember that forever and not only that it will most likely won't be the same anymore depending on what you did.
Of course, not many Scorpios will admit this....but i will 😛
😛
When i was younger i used to cut people off too.......i have actually regretted it with a couple but now give people a bit more slack
I read somewhere (i think it may have been Linda Goodman) that *nothing is never enough for a Scorpio*
*Cringe*
Lol
Would you date another Scorpio person?
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Posted by Deedee86*Lucky escape* comes to mind
This is a tough one. My Scorp gets softened a bit with the Gem ascendant and Libra Venus BUT
Once I block it is over. I would never block someone that has a chance. I'm too obsessive. I would want to know how many times you tried to call. I may ignore you or I may reply just to tell you what shit you were but I wouldn't block.
It is a hard decision to block but it is a permanent one.
All that Scorp and Cap together sounds like a very stubborn man. If you end up together brace yourself.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Stinger408scorpI would date another Scorp if they had just my good points, in other words my Moon in Taurus traits. I would rather eat worms for the rest of my life than be with someone that had the darker side of ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShineDo you like looking at yourself in the mirror everyday? ? Jk I don't discriminate I don't see a prop dating another me ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI like to challenge to see what i am dealing with......to see how decent the person really is.Posted by MyStarsShineSontimes id do the same and challenge but for me sometimes It's not necessary because I'm like the FBI I will just know ?Posted by Stinger408scorpYes, i am the same...(except for the breaking the face 😛), if someone is disloyal to me i will challenge them on it though and see what they have to say before cutting them off.....Posted by MyStarsShineI don't expect perfection cause I sure damn know I'm not perfect ? But loyalty is on top if you break that I'll break your face ? I mean that's it for you buddy lolPosted by Stinger408scorpSure, but there is a difference between being stupid and being human 😛. Sometimes the line can be somewhat thin. I have, in the past, expected perfection from peoplePosted by MyStarsShinelol I'm not worried about it at all and trust me I see your point ? I do forgive but I will move fast cause life is short to spend it with stupid people and I don't do things just cause ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI am trying to teach our Scorpio son the gift of forgiveness. The problem with disappearing is, it will come back to face you again in the future, so it is good to deal with it in the present. He is learning and has worked through things with a couple of friends that let him down. He is 18.Posted by MyStarsShineI don't hold grudges but I will cut you off like butter if done wrong doesn't matter how long I've known you I'll dissapear like boogeyman and it's over.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy astrologer friend said to me that it takes Scorpios a very long time to forget......several lifetimesPosted by MyStarsShinelol I will say this I will forgive but I never forget ? And you bet that I'll always have a space inside my brain to file those things away ?Posted by Stinger408scorpAs ridiculous as it may sound,this can be true of Scorpio people. I am one, but luckily have a Taurus moon so am more easy going. I have a few Scorpio friends and a friend who is with a Scorpio man........he is actually totally unreasonable, so try not to beat yourself up too much ... due to an oversensitivity, it can be almost impossible at times to have a relationship with a Scorpio
If you pissed a Scorpio off he will most likely remember that forever and not only that it will most likely won't be the same anymore depending on what you did.
Of course, not many Scorpios will admit this....but i will 😛
😛
When i was younger i used to cut people off too.......i have actually regretted it with a couple but now give people a bit more slack
I read somewhere (i think it may have been Linda Goodman) that *nothing is never enough for a Scorpio*
*Cringe*
Lol
Would you date another Scorpio person?
Lol
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lol I'd date another me cause I know that person will be loyal but I'm not gonna say all scorps are loyal ? But if it's another one exactly like myself yes I'd sure date it lol
Posted by leowwwI know it's not very right to do. But it seems all scorps use that..? ~_~Posted by StarHeartOh wow.
One thing is, he likes hearing me say how important and special he is to me. Sometimes he 'd use silence or "say bye" tactic when he got sensitive (perhaps jelly) when heard something he doesn't like, and I'd tell him I only have one heart for him...
Then everything was ok~
sighs...
So you know... It's a "tactic".. Using your word... and you still do it? Why?
This is so wrong.
You're letting him walk alllll over you.
Yea he's using silence to punish you... It clearly works since you're begging and stroking his ego.
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My dad (scorp) would ingore all of us and give the whole family silent treatment after he had a fight with mom (Virgo). My mom didn't ever yield, but after a few days things would go back to normal.
My sis bf of about 9 years (scorp) also did this after they argue, he would even shut the phone and took out the sim card to make sure he's unreachable. According to my sis (Leo), she'd apologize and stuff and also just let him be depending on the case. idk if its her leo ego she never appears lower handish to us. But we all know she cant live without him.
Maybe I think since they all do that why dont i just give him what he likes to speed up the patching up ?... ~_~" I begged when I was the offender ( well, I don't often feel offended anyways) but i didn't *keep* begging
I guess i should take a couple days off from him...
Posted by Astrology101It's my profile pic .. perhaps it;s too small?Posted by StarHeartWhat is your chart like?
A couple days ago I did something that pissed him off, he said he didnt want to talk to me anymore, blocked me and unfriended unfollowed on social media..
It was really a misunderstanding, luckily (?) he left one messenger unblocked and I begged and pleaded and clarified/ explained with all my life force. He understood and said "forget it" (but he'd never say forgive, ever ...) and made a little joke.
The following days he seemed preoccupied, was distant and only gave very brief replies, selectively. I was still anxious and worried I couldn't distinguish whether it's just how he's like during the usual "alone time on weekend" or he 's still holding grudges...
He told me he went to another state though. And said we'll "talk next week"
? Did I made a very wrong move that i still sent him stuff / thoughts/ declaration of my affection and appreciation, etc / and asked to be back to ok like we used to be?
Now that he's home, (he used to tell me when he's home, but this time not until i asked...T_T) he replied that he quit his job. This change actually added a load to my worry.
I just texted him just a bit to show care and support and it seems he shut down phone internet connection or the phone ...
He's never been cold for this long ...
what should i do to rebuild? rekindle? to reach his heart ?
Patience? Just don't contact him and give him time?
But I don't want to make him feel that I drop him because he doesn't have a job now 😢
His planets :
Asc , Sun, Mercury , Mars , Pluto : all in Scorpio !!!
Venus, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune : all in Capriocorn !
Moon : Gemini
Jupiter : Cancer
When it comes to matters of the heart I become very stupid...
Thank you for taking the time to read, and advices are appreciated~!
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I'm pretty new here , how do I post/ link pix?
Posted by MyStarsShineAs if the OP did something unforgivable..... she didnt cheat or?Posted by Stinger408scorpMy astrologer friend said to me that it takes Scorpios a very long time to forget......several lifetimesPosted by MyStarsShinelol I will say this I will forgive but I never forget ? And you bet that I'll always have a space inside my brain to file those things away ?Posted by Stinger408scorpAs ridiculous as it may sound,this can be true of Scorpio people. I am one, but luckily have a Taurus moon so am more easy going. I have a few Scorpio friends and a friend who is with a Scorpio man........he is actually totally unreasonable, so try not to beat yourself up too much ... due to an oversensitivity, it can be almost impossible at times to have a relationship with a Scorpio
If you pissed a Scorpio off he will most likely remember that forever and not only that it will most likely won't be the same anymore depending on what you did.
Of course, not many Scorpios will admit this....but i will 😛
😛
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Does the female friend of his on social media know you are together? why is it a problem, that you commented? You are a stalker, because you commented? unbelievable....
but, I have a Scorpio friend, he told me his ex girlfriend was a stalker.... I asked him, what she did? He said: She googled my name....... so, there are the paranoics of the zodiac 🙂 🙂
just leave him alone, he is just a big cry baby 🙂 wrapped up in his self-involved drama 🙂
Posted by dolluxeLOL! No he's name doesn't start with M~Posted by StarHeartWell that story sounds familiar. Your Scorp's name.. does it start with the letter M? Lol
One thing is, he likes hearing me say how important and special he is to me. Sometimes he 'd use silence or "say bye" tactic when he got sensitive (perhaps jelly) when heard something he doesn't like, and I'd tell him I only have one heart for him...
Then everything was ok~
sighs...
Only difference is, I never told him all those things. (Only have heart for him etc)
Seriously though, scorps are a handful. This thing sounds petty asf.click to expand
Funny thing, my friend just told me yesterday, she went out on a FIRST date, things were going good. Afterwards she jokingly (tease) said sth like "I bet you like flirting around" on text, she got the reply "you don't trust me" then got blocked and also unfriended.
I asked her if the person is a scorpio?
She was surprised, and said " how did you know?!!!"
oh well...... =_="
Posted by MyStarsShineHmm... the previous guy I was with (scorp) , also has stellium in scorp, AND a bunch of stars in Virgo (12th house) .Posted by Deedee86*Lucky escape* comes to mind
This is a tough one. My Scorp gets softened a bit with the Gem ascendant and Libra Venus BUT
Once I block it is over. I would never block someone that has a chance. I'm too obsessive. I would want to know how many times you tried to call. I may ignore you or I may reply just to tell you what shit you were but I wouldn't block.
It is a hard decision to block but it is a permanent one.
All that Scorp and Cap together sounds like a very stubborn man. If you end up together brace yourself.click to expand
Idk what happened to my karma......
Posted by StarHeartPosted by StarHeartPosted by Astrology101wut... -_-
LOL she never gave her placements or put her chart up..
I'd definitely lose it with you OP... Scorp Moon speaking
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1) I had errands to run and couldn't keep moping in front of the computer.
2) I'm not a social media person, had to find a free image hosting site.
3) Pls give my effort some credittt, whatever scorp planet ~! :/
My chart :
After several attempts of trying html, i figured i can just paste the image link...~_~;
Thank you~
Posted by HareWhat did i do that's so "wrong" tho, other than upsetting the guy i like ...?
If social media crap is causing stuff like this to happen between you two, then neither of you are ready for a relationship.
I didn't do anything immoral or malicious or rude or unloyal or harmful to him.
His friend's post and the comment section is "public" the whole damn world can see, but me ?
I think he thought I couldn't/ wouldn't see.
I, AM ready......v_v
Posted by HareUm, he knew his female friend for quite a long time, and he had a girlfriend before me all this time when he and that friend were friends.
He's posting things that could be considered inappropriate on a female friend's FB which is shady...
You post the same thing to get a reaction from him which is passive aggressive...
He over-reacts to your passive aggressiveness which probably is just a result of him getting caught and feeling guilty which again is shady...
And now you're practically begging him to pay attention to you which is weak...
Neither of you need to be in a relationship with each other. It's toxic. There's no trust and it seems problem resolution has been reduced to game playing.
So IF they had feelings for each other there wouldn't be his ex and now, me...
I fkn TRUST him !
Therefore I'm OK not asking anymore for his FB after he refused ~
(and as I mentioned, I never even asked for his snapchat id)
It's not FB ... (and not tinder, both of us don't use it)
I begged him to understand 1) I was really doing it jokingly ( bad humor to him?) 2) I did not stalk, and to forgive I did sth stupid recklessly.
I didn't do it out of passive aggressiveness~! (now I understand why the anger, becoz that's how/ what my action is perceived to be...)
It was just a stickerrr (I personally didn't think it was so big a deal, it's a 😛 like joke, if I was just being passive aggressive I'd know it would pissed him off, I WOULD NOT have done it ... /_\ )
I didn't beg after he understood and said "forget it" and unblocked me on our main messenger.
I didn't beg for his attention...
lol I'll answer the op question sad to say he's just not that into you cause if he is he wouldn't block you. There's no cheating involved here so there really is no good reason for him to do what he did end of story.
Posted by Astrology101Posted by StarHeartPosted by StarHeartSorry...! I just always do the easiest things first...Posted by StarHeartyeah well you were answering other queries....Posted by Astrology101wut... -_-
LOL she never gave her placements or put her chart up..
I'd definitely lose it with you OP... Scorp Moon speaking
da fuq
1) I had errands to run and couldn't keep moping in front of the computer.
2) I'm not a social media person, had to find a free image hosting site.
3) Pls give my effort some credittt, whatever scorp planet ~! :/
My chart :
After several attempts of trying html, i figured i can just paste the image link...~_~;
Thank you~
and trust me I'm not waiting on guard for myself.... I asked your placements for you...
If you don't want to give your placements I don't mind...click to expand
Just typing reponses is "quick" and "easy", looking for and signing up image hosting site plus learning + trying HTML codes ( you see I failed hotlinking a couple times...~_~") requires more...
Not to mention errands and assistance requested by my parents in between ......
I'm more than willing to put my placements up~
Asc : Capricorn 5°58
Sun : Aries 5°43 3rd House
Moon : Aries 22°38 4H
Mercury : Pisces 20°43 3H
Venus : Aquarius 19°26 2H
Mars : Libra 12°10 9H
Saturn : Libra 19°56 10H
Pluto : Libra 26°6 10H
Jupiter : Scorpio 8°55 10H
Uranus : Sagittarius 4°30 11H
Neptune :Sagittarius 27°02 12H
Thank you !
Aries and Scorpio?
Oh just....no
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Oh just....no
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Posted by Stinger408scorpYea THIS is really sad... 😭
lol I'll answer the op question sad to say he's just not that into you cause if he is he wouldn't block you. There's no cheating involved here so there really is no good reason for him to do what he did end of story.
Honestly This is the saddest to hear......
I originally thought he was just trying to punish me or something coz he did tell me he was going to block and said things like I earned it and hope what i did was worth it ,etc.
Am I rationalizing or just fooling myself...? If he didn't give a sh*t he wouldn't have said those before blocking, and block is just him being angry and vengeful and using my fear to punish?
My dad (scorp) used to say / is capable of saying the most mean and hurtful (picking your most vulnerable button to push) things to us when he's upset.
It's like he had to sting to feel better or do some justice (for himself)
Idk if this is about what the blocking did...
He really cares a lot about me and treated me like a blessing to his life...it's hard to swallow now how he can turn things 540 deg......
Posted by StarHeartI've done this in the past the attraction I see going on is 70/30 you 70 him 30.Posted by Stinger408scorpYea THIS is really sad... 😭
lol I'll answer the op question sad to say he's just not that into you cause if he is he wouldn't block you. There's no cheating involved here so there really is no good reason for him to do what he did end of story.
Honestly This is the saddest to hear......
I originally thought he was just trying to punish me or something coz he did tell me he was going to block and said things like I earned it and hope what i did was worth it ,etc.
Am I rationalizing or just fooling myself...? If he didn't give a sh*t he wouldn't have said those before blocking, and block is just him being angry and vengeful and using my fear to punish?
My dad (scorp) used to say / is capable of saying the most mean and hurtful (picking your most vulnerable button to push) things to us when he's upset.
It's like he had to sting to feel better or do some justice (for himself)
Idk if this is about what the blocking did...
He really cares a lot about me and treated me like a blessing to his life...it's hard to swallow now how he can turn things 540 deg......
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Posted by StarHeartYes we do a complete turn around when we either get upset or if we don't care much about that person. But if I do care I'd still linger but I will never apologize btw this is in the past I'm speaking off not anymore.Posted by Stinger408scorpYea THIS is really sad... 😭
lol I'll answer the op question sad to say he's just not that into you cause if he is he wouldn't block you. There's no cheating involved here so there really is no good reason for him to do what he did end of story.
Honestly This is the saddest to hear......
I originally thought he was just trying to punish me or something coz he did tell me he was going to block and said things like I earned it and hope what i did was worth it ,etc.
Am I rationalizing or just fooling myself...? If he didn't give a sh*t he wouldn't have said those before blocking, and block is just him being angry and vengeful and using my fear to punish?
My dad (scorp) used to say / is capable of saying the most mean and hurtful (picking your most vulnerable button to push) things to us when he's upset.
It's like he had to sting to feel better or do some justice (for himself)
Idk if this is about what the blocking did...
He really cares a lot about me and treated me like a blessing to his life...it's hard to swallow now how he can turn things 540 deg......
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Posted by Gem_from_VenusI'm speaking of his actions overall.Posted by Stinger408scorpAre you talking about him threatening to block her?Posted by StarHeartI've done this in the past the attraction I see going on is 70/30 you 70 him 30.Posted by Stinger408scorpYea THIS is really sad... 😭
lol I'll answer the op question sad to say he's just not that into you cause if he is he wouldn't block you. There's no cheating involved here so there really is no good reason for him to do what he did end of story.
Honestly This is the saddest to hear......
I originally thought he was just trying to punish me or something coz he did tell me he was going to block and said things like I earned it and hope what i did was worth it ,etc.
Am I rationalizing or just fooling myself...? If he didn't give a sh*t he wouldn't have said those before blocking, and block is just him being angry and vengeful and using my fear to punish?
My dad (scorp) used to say / is capable of saying the most mean and hurtful (picking your most vulnerable button to push) things to us when he's upset.
It's like he had to sting to feel better or do some justice (for himself)
Idk if this is about what the blocking did...
He really cares a lot about me and treated me like a blessing to his life...it's hard to swallow now how he can turn things 540 deg......
OP, *hug*click to expand
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It was really a misunderstanding, luckily (?) he left one messenger unblocked and I begged and pleaded and clarified/ explained with all my life force. He understood and said "forget it" (but he'd never say forgive, ever ...) and made a little joke.
The following days he seemed preoccupied, was distant and only gave very brief replies, selectively. I was still anxious and worried I couldn't distinguish whether it's just how he's like during the usual "alone time on weekend" or he 's still holding grudges...
He told me he went to another state though. And said we'll "talk next week"
? Did I made a very wrong move that i still sent him stuff / thoughts/ declaration of my affection and appreciation, etc / and asked to be back to ok like we used to be?
Now that he's home, (he used to tell me when he's home, but this time not until i asked...T_T) he replied that he quit his job. This change actually added a load to my worry.
I just texted him just a bit to show care and support and it seems he shut down phone internet connection or the phone ...
He's never been cold for this long ...
what should i do to rebuild? rekindle? to reach his heart ?
Patience? Just don't contact him and give him time?
But I don't want to make him feel that I drop him because he doesn't have a job now 😢
His planets :
Asc , Sun, Mercury , Mars , Pluto : all in Scorpio !!!
Venus, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune : all in Capriocorn !
Moon : Gemini
Jupiter : Cancer
When it comes to matters of the heart I become very stupid...
Thank you for taking the time to read, and advices are appreciated~!