I'm not saying for myself but I honestly don't believe in compatibility just by the horoscope / sun sign...
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Posted by StarHeartPosted by Stinger408scorpYea THIS is really sad... 😭
lol I'll answer the op question sad to say he's just not that into you cause if he is he wouldn't block you. There's no cheating involved here so there really is no good reason for him to do what he did end of story.
Honestly This is the saddest to hear......
I originally thought he was just trying to punish me or something coz he did tell me he was going to block and said things like I earned it and hope what i did was worth it ,etc.
Am I rationalizing or just fooling myself...? If he didn't give a sh*t he wouldn't have said those before blocking, and block is just him being angry and vengeful and using my fear to punish?
My dad (scorp) used to say / is capable of saying the most mean and hurtful (picking your most vulnerable button to push) things to us when he's upset.
It's like he had to sting to feel better or do some justice (for himself)
Idk if this is about what the blocking did...
He really cares a lot about me and treated me like a blessing to his life...it's hard to swallow now how he can turn things 540 deg......
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And I do understand how much it hurts that's why I knew I needed to adjust but a lot of scorps stays the same and will never change.
Posted by StarHeartI am not talking just about the sun sign......do you think you have good and harmonious synastry with this guy?Posted by MyStarsShineI'm not saying for myself but I honestly don't believe in compatibility just by the horoscope / sun sign...
Aries and Scorpio?
Oh just....no
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I also explained to him if I did stalk how could I be so stupid ( in a stalk sense) to show myself ...Posted by StarHeartU should not have done that....Posted by dolluxeI never begged in the past... Idk why I just turned into a softie with him... /_\"
Scorpio or not don't ever beg.
I'm curious though, what did you do to piss him off?
And it really got me when my intention or meaning being misunderstood or interpreted in a negative way wrongly...
I happened to see that he posted a "emotional" (thunderstruck/ hurt) sticker/ emoticon and the brief sticker correspondences on his female friend's public story post about seeing handsome men, I just JOKINGLY posted the same sticker as his in the comment thread (like , "hey there" ) .
He thought I stalked him and called me crazy (and like all the scorps I know, his anger escalated from 100 to 1000000 in 1 minute !)
which I totally am not~~~! He knows I'm a hermit and don't use social media much, I just stumbled upon the post.
Besides I NEVER ask him those "where/ with whom/ when" questions, I just let him do what he wants.
He probably does see you as a stalker. You should have watched his actions but not made it known to him by leaving a comment.
It's done now. Nothing you can do. Just learn from this lesson.
Don't contact him any more... Scorps hate desperation.click to expand
Yes... keeping bothering him won't help anything...
Posted by MyStarsShine☝️Is rightPosted by StarHeartI am not talking just about the sun sign......do you think you have good and harmonious synastry with this guy?Posted by MyStarsShineI'm not saying for myself but I honestly don't believe in compatibility just by the horoscope / sun sign...
Aries and Scorpio?
Oh just....no
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100That's not true...!Posted by StarHeartU made a "mark" on him so others could see it... Like a possession. You got a response, obviously not the reaction you were looking for.Posted by HareUm, he knew his female friend for quite a long time, and he had a girlfriend before me all this time when he and that friend were friends.
He's posting things that could be considered inappropriate on a female friend's FB which is shady...
You post the same thing to get a reaction from him which is passive aggressive...
He over-reacts to your passive aggressiveness which probably is just a result of him getting caught and feeling guilty which again is shady...
And now you're practically begging him to pay attention to you which is weak...
Neither of you need to be in a relationship with each other. It's toxic. There's no trust and it seems problem resolution has been reduced to game playing.
So IF they had feelings for each other there wouldn't be his ex and now, me...
I fkn TRUST him !
Therefore I'm OK not asking anymore for his FB after he refused ~
(and as I mentioned, I never even asked for his snapchat id)
It's not FB ... (and not tinder, both of us don't use it)
I begged him to understand 1) I was really doing it jokingly ( bad humor to him?) 2) I did not stalk, and to forgive I did sth stupid recklessly.
I didn't do it out of passive aggressiveness~! (now I understand why the anger, becoz that's how/ what my action is perceived to be...)
It was just a stickerrr (I personally didn't think it was so big a deal, it's a 😛 like joke, if I was just being passive aggressive I'd know it would pissed him off, I WOULD NOT have done it ... /_\ )
I didn't beg after he understood and said "forget it" and unblocked me on our main messenger.
I didn't beg for his attention...
You don't trust him and that's why you did what you did and you have just admitted you don't trust him.. Move on.. He has.click to expand
The friend and whoever other friends of him on the app have already "saw" me and me since months ago...
I didn't have to make a "mark". It has been there all along ,as how you put it..
Really... is this "passive aggressiveness", or " possessiveness" what you guys (scorps?) interpret it as ...? o_o /_\ T_T
Lol he has not evolved even if he were to comeback the question you should ask yourself is are you able to deal with all these bullshit.
Posted by Astrology101I'm really feeling very vulnerable and aching now...
Ok it seems anyone can just walk all over you... You need to pull yourself together...
I don't think you even realize you have done nothing wrong.
Please leave this guy... He seems to have some demons which you probably can't fix.
You need to save yourself first.
Maybe a Libra would suit you... I hope that helps....
In this thread, some said I was wrong, some said I wasn't, or perhaps he was.
At this point, only the universe can understand my true intention...
If you all / any of you can read my chart, i hope you can find trace(s) of openess, honesty, loyalty, lack of sly strategy and plot, love of freedom in it.
Idk why... he has so huge an impact on me...
I do trust him, and maybe currently i'm even 100 while he only 30.
I guessed someone who has so much scorp and cap might have "something", I thought that even if it's demon ( the way you put it) I would embrace him with his demon......
Our synastry may not be really good, every pair has both easy and hard aspects... I've been trying to keep optimistic by focusing on our great conjunctions between venus/ nodes/ asc/vertex, etc. I even read that pairs who don't have enough challenging aspects can only get along as nice friends...
idk... Me and my scorp ex has a yod, yet it still failed...
We both feel that we have some kind of psychic connection between us...
I thought we could work out and I believe(d) we can be together, because
----hello you guys can laugh----
I dreamed about a guy that looks like him and things that are related to him, in my dream it hinted that this person will be very significant to me. Only a very short time after, I met him...
I sometimes had premonition dreams or dreams that showed me signs (no I'm not crazy or trying to make things associated with my dreams~!)
I really really really hope that the significance is not just to screw me up.
The previous scorp guy i dated for years did break me, but I didn't have any of this kinda dreams about him ...
Libra... I have never met one, not to mention one that I like.
One Leo and it was short...
I always HAPPENED TO fall for November guys...
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by StarHeartDid he ever give you his permission to do that?Posted by JohnTheBaptist100That's not true...!Posted by StarHeartU made a "mark" on him so others could see it... Like a possession. You got a response, obviously not the reaction you were looking for.Posted by HareUm, he knew his female friend for quite a long time, and he had a girlfriend before me all this time when he and that friend were friends.
He's posting things that could be considered inappropriate on a female friend's FB which is shady...
You post the same thing to get a reaction from him which is passive aggressive...
He over-reacts to your passive aggressiveness which probably is just a result of him getting caught and feeling guilty which again is shady...
And now you're practically begging him to pay attention to you which is weak...
Neither of you need to be in a relationship with each other. It's toxic. There's no trust and it seems problem resolution has been reduced to game playing.
So IF they had feelings for each other there wouldn't be his ex and now, me...
I fkn TRUST him !
Therefore I'm OK not asking anymore for his FB after he refused ~
(and as I mentioned, I never even asked for his snapchat id)
It's not FB ... (and not tinder, both of us don't use it)
I begged him to understand 1) I was really doing it jokingly ( bad humor to him?) 2) I did not stalk, and to forgive I did sth stupid recklessly.
I didn't do it out of passive aggressiveness~! (now I understand why the anger, becoz that's how/ what my action is perceived to be...)
It was just a stickerrr (I personally didn't think it was so big a deal, it's a 😛 like joke, if I was just being passive aggressive I'd know it would pissed him off, I WOULD NOT have done it ... /_\ )
I didn't beg after he understood and said "forget it" and unblocked me on our main messenger.
I didn't beg for his attention...
You don't trust him and that's why you did what you did and you have just admitted you don't trust him.. Move on.. He has.
The friend and whoever other friends of him on the app have already "saw" me and me since months ago...
I didn't have to make a "mark". It has been there all along ,as how you put it..
Really... is this "passive aggressiveness", or " possessiveness" what you guys (scorps?) interpret it as ...? o_o /_\ T_T
U were wrong and now he is wrong by doing what he is doing. . U make a bad match.. Move on.click to expand
It's not fb. The whole wide world, guys and girls, can see, is free to like and comment on stories/ posts.
Why did i need his permission ...?
I didn't really think that much when I put that goddorn sticker. And NO i didn't aim that other females can see.
I NEVER even think about what females he would encounter, interact, meet IN REAL LIFE, why t f would I care to make a "mark" on a post (not him) on a social media. To me that serves NO frggn purpose.
I guess you think it to be more complicated than it really was and too negatively, it sounds almost insulting.
Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
If you cause a ripple in water it doesn't settle straight away.
I'm just curious, are you a Scorpio?
Posted by Astrology101Maybe it's because in the beginning I was 10 he was 300...Posted by Astrology101I guess you are really.. infatuated by him.... and that takes time to get out of your system....Posted by StarHeartWell sometimes things are simple.Posted by Astrology101I'm really feeling very vulnerable and aching now...
Ok it seems anyone can just walk all over you... You need to pull yourself together...
I don't think you even realize you have done nothing wrong.
Please leave this guy... He seems to have some demons which you probably can't fix.
You need to save yourself first.
Maybe a Libra would suit you... I hope that helps....
In this thread, some said I was wrong, some said I wasn't, or perhaps he was.
At this point, only the universe can understand my true intention...
If you all / any of you can read my chart, i hope you can find trace(s) of openess, honesty, loyalty, lack of sly strategy and plot, love of freedom in it.
Idk why... he has so huge an impact on me...
I do trust him, and maybe currently i'm even 100 while he only 30.
I guessed someone who has so much scorp and cap might have "something", I thought that even if it's demon ( the way you put it) I would embrace him with his demon......
Our synastry may not be really good, every pair has both easy and hard aspects... I've been trying to keep optimistic by focusing on our great conjunctions between venus/ nodes/ asc/vertex, etc. I even read that pairs who don't have enough challenging aspects can only get along as nice friends...
idk... Me and my scorp ex has a yod, yet it still failed...
We both feel that we have some kind of psychic connection between us...
I thought we could work out and I believe(d) we can be together, because
----hello you guys can laugh----
I dreamed about a guy that looks like him and things that are related to him, in my dream it hinted that this person will be very significant to me. Only a very short time after, I met him...
I sometimes had premonition dreams or dreams that showed me signs (no I'm not crazy or trying to make things associated with my dreams~!)
I really really really hope that the significance is not just to screw me up.
The previous scorp guy i dated for years did break me, but I didn't have any of this kinda dreams about him ...
Libra... I have never met one, not to mention one that I like.
One Leo and it was short...
I always HAPPENED TO fall for November guys...
If you are not having fun... it's not fun.
If you are not happy... it's not making you happy.
If you sensed he was talking to that other girl cos he liked her.... he prolly did.
Your instincts are never wrong...
We don't know this guy we are judging him based on what you are saying...
And as far as I can see.. all of us do not approve of the way he is treating you because it is not right.
but atleast try to do that... Atleast try to think of something other than him... Go out for a walk.. bake a cake.. I don't know just give yourself some time and space from this guy.
What you did may or may not be right... I can't tell.
We can only judge by that one situation you have told us of... And based on that.. what he did was way out of proportion.
I would talk to him only after he apologizes... And even after he apologizes I wouldn't go back to dating him.. cos he seems to be waiting to explode on his near/dear ones.
Just take a break from him....
I don't even want to think about your chart synastries.. because chart synastry doesn't matter when you have zero compatibility, understanding, emotional support from a loved one.
You just need time to get this dude and this whole love sick bug.. out of your system.
Just spend time doing things you love... go out with friends...
You can figure this out later after you have calmed yourself down.
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I rarely fall for a guy, and I'm always cautious. After I finally decide to go for it it's gonna be a nosedive.
Also, I thought his previous silent treatments were just power play, they didn't happen often, and were resolved within no more than 1 day...
He said he'll talk to me next week just 2-3 days ago. And he still gave a reply less than 1 day ago... I've been holding onto hope, that he's not totally callous with me...
But you and other posters are right, I have to pull myself together first.
Even I myself feel pathetic these days.
I gotta take my mind off him for now.
I picked up drawing again this week to make myself concentrate on something else...
( As my 2nd house venus is the only planet that makes no bad aspects? idk if it's relevant)
Funny you mentioned baking, I've been thinking about joining a yule log baking workshop, I thought I wasn't going to make it coz I might feel too depressed ... Xmas is approaching ...all these happy festive atmosphere around is making it even harder to deal with.
No matter what... I'll see what I can do, for myself...
Posted by Gem_from_VenusThank you ! :'DPosted by Stinger408scorpAre you talking about him threatening to block her?Posted by StarHeartI've done this in the past the attraction I see going on is 70/30 you 70 him 30.Posted by Stinger408scorpYea THIS is really sad... 😭
lol I'll answer the op question sad to say he's just not that into you cause if he is he wouldn't block you. There's no cheating involved here so there really is no good reason for him to do what he did end of story.
Honestly This is the saddest to hear......
I originally thought he was just trying to punish me or something coz he did tell me he was going to block and said things like I earned it and hope what i did was worth it ,etc.
Am I rationalizing or just fooling myself...? If he didn't give a sh*t he wouldn't have said those before blocking, and block is just him being angry and vengeful and using my fear to punish?
My dad (scorp) used to say / is capable of saying the most mean and hurtful (picking your most vulnerable button to push) things to us when he's upset.
It's like he had to sting to feel better or do some justice (for himself)
Idk if this is about what the blocking did...
He really cares a lot about me and treated me like a blessing to his life...it's hard to swallow now how he can turn things 540 deg......
OP, *hug*click to expand
Thank you all for your comments and advices! They give me insights and offer me a broader view of ...things ( I ran out of words...lol)
I still welcome and appreciate further comments, even if it's not about my case, or just discuss how scorps interpret and see things like intrusion/ stalking/ blocking/ unblocking/ power/ manipulation, etc.
I hope someone(s) could also see what he or she need and benefit from this thread.
I still welcome and appreciate further comments, even if it's not about my case, or just discuss how scorps interpret and see things like intrusion/ stalking/ blocking/ unblocking/ power/ manipulation, etc.
I hope someone(s) could also see what he or she need and benefit from this thread.
Posted by GetMistedAbout 5 months now...
How long have you been together?
Posted by MagicMonaidk ... or I don't think so... and i don't think he likes her *that* way.
he probably likes her, thought you were snooping, therefore blew up at you. no one blows up over a small post if it was JUST a small post. meaning, there is something underlying in him that is not right.
He has known this girl way before he met his ex, and me, if they had feelings for each other they woulda been together already.
(I am ok with guys wanting to be charming.)
i can think logically and I always give people benefit of the doubt.
Someone just can't do the same :/
If he liked or wanted to be with another chick, I would totally go away...
I don't compete over a person (guy) despite my Aries sun + moon.
Posted by Astrology101I LOVE watching movies and some TV shows too~Posted by StarHeartGood for you.Posted by Astrology101Maybe it's because in the beginning I was 10 he was 300...Posted by Astrology101I guess you are really.. infatuated by him.... and that takes time to get out of your system....Posted by StarHeartWell sometimes things are simple.Posted by Astrology101I'm really feeling very vulnerable and aching now...
Ok it seems anyone can just walk all over you... You need to pull yourself together...
I don't think you even realize you have done nothing wrong.
Please leave this guy... He seems to have some demons which you probably can't fix.
You need to save yourself first.
Maybe a Libra would suit you... I hope that helps....
In this thread, some said I was wrong, some said I wasn't, or perhaps he was.
At this point, only the universe can understand my true intention...
If you all / any of you can read my chart, i hope you can find trace(s) of openess, honesty, loyalty, lack of sly strategy and plot, love of freedom in it.
Idk why... he has so huge an impact on me...
I do trust him, and maybe currently i'm even 100 while he only 30.
I guessed someone who has so much scorp and cap might have "something", I thought that even if it's demon ( the way you put it) I would embrace him with his demon......
Our synastry may not be really good, every pair has both easy and hard aspects... I've been trying to keep optimistic by focusing on our great conjunctions between venus/ nodes/ asc/vertex, etc. I even read that pairs who don't have enough challenging aspects can only get along as nice friends...
idk... Me and my scorp ex has a yod, yet it still failed...
We both feel that we have some kind of psychic connection between us...
I thought we could work out and I believe(d) we can be together, because
----hello you guys can laugh----
I dreamed about a guy that looks like him and things that are related to him, in my dream it hinted that this person will be very significant to me. Only a very short time after, I met him...
I sometimes had premonition dreams or dreams that showed me signs (no I'm not crazy or trying to make things associated with my dreams~!)
I really really really hope that the significance is not just to screw me up.
The previous scorp guy i dated for years did break me, but I didn't have any of this kinda dreams about him ...
Libra... I have never met one, not to mention one that I like.
One Leo and it was short...
I always HAPPENED TO fall for November guys...
If you are not having fun... it's not fun.
If you are not happy... it's not making you happy.
If you sensed he was talking to that other girl cos he liked her.... he prolly did.
Your instincts are never wrong...
We don't know this guy we are judging him based on what you are saying...
And as far as I can see.. all of us do not approve of the way he is treating you because it is not right.
but atleast try to do that... Atleast try to think of something other than him... Go out for a walk.. bake a cake.. I don't know just give yourself some time and space from this guy.
What you did may or may not be right... I can't tell.
We can only judge by that one situation you have told us of... And based on that.. what he did was way out of proportion.
I would talk to him only after he apologizes... And even after he apologizes I wouldn't go back to dating him.. cos he seems to be waiting to explode on his near/dear ones.
Just take a break from him....
I don't even want to think about your chart synastries.. because chart synastry doesn't matter when you have zero compatibility, understanding, emotional support from a loved one.
You just need time to get this dude and this whole love sick bug.. out of your system.
Just spend time doing things you love... go out with friends...
You can figure this out later after you have calmed yourself down.
I rarely fall for a guy, and I'm always cautious. After I finally decide to go for it it's gonna be a nosedive.
Also, I thought his previous silent treatments were just power play, they didn't happen often, and were resolved within no more than 1 day...
He said he'll talk to me next week just 2-3 days ago. And he still gave a reply less than 1 day ago... I've been holding onto hope, that he's not totally callous with me...
But you and other posters are right, I have to pull myself together first.
Even I myself feel pathetic these days.
I gotta take my mind off him for now.
I picked up drawing again this week to make myself concentrate on something else...
( As my 2nd house venus is the only planet that makes no bad aspects? idk if it's relevant)
Funny you mentioned baking, I've been thinking about joining a yule log baking workshop, I thought I wasn't going to make it coz I might feel too depressed ... Xmas is approaching ...all these happy festive atmosphere around is making it even harder to deal with.
No matter what... I'll see what I can do, for myself...
Yes it is always tough.. festive season or not.
Hopefully.. you can go back to meeting your family.. and friends.... doing some christmas decorations etc...
i love watching movies.. or tv shows wen i'm alone.. helps me to get my mind of things...
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Especially horror movies! oh uh horror is our common interest...
Have you ever watched Salem (TV show) ? I'm currently on it
this Aries has crossed some sort of boundary with this scorp. It seems petty but alot of petty things have set me off big time..Sometimes its just the 'principle' of the matter
Posted by GetMistedI think i'm 3 on the scale, 10 being most insecure.
On a scale of 1 - 10.. how insecure would you say you are?
As I mentioned, I let him do his own things, I don't ask, it's up to him to tell me where he's or what he's done. I don't need to get a hold of his online accounts and stuff !
Do/ did your gf / exes requires/d even less than that..? @_@
He got caught flirting and is now embarrassed and flipping it on you. You're being played
Posted by 13thI still think it's all about the interpretation of my intention.
this Aries has crossed some sort of boundary with this scorp. It seems petty but alot of petty things have set me off big time..Sometimes its just the 'principle' of the matter
I guess the Aries didn't pay so much mind on something that the Scorp could think as so purposeful and functional...~_~
All it needs is a little bit of understanding, trying to see in other's shoes.
I'm not saying i was totally right.
Posted by GetMistedi feel it's kinda personal and private, but ... not very much...Posted by GetMistedAnswer this one first please..Posted by StarHeartHow often do you see one another? Have you been intimate with each other?Posted by GetMistedAbout 5 months now...
How long have you been together?
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Posted by GetMistedWha...?
I just don't expect this behavior from someone at 34 years of age.
He turns my brain into cotton candy...
Only him...
Posted by Gem_from_VenusYep! How shady she seems nice and innocent and he knows that too. He's prb disappearing because he's cheatingPosted by Stensco21And turning it around on her. That's what it looks like to me too.
He got caught flirting and is now embarrassed and flipping it on you. You're being playedclick to expand
Posted by Stensco21Honestly when I saw it I couldn't be 100% certain if it's "flirting" or not...
He got caught flirting and is now embarrassed and flipping it on you. You're being played
Because basically it's just a sticker/ emoticon...
We 're serious ...from the start... (omg... cognitive dissonance taking place...)...I don't think he would need *me* to play with...
Posted by GetMistedPosted by StarHeartIt's relevant do your issue.Posted by GetMistedi feel it's kinda personal and private, but ... not very much...Posted by GetMistedAnswer this one first please..Posted by StarHeartHow often do you see one another? Have you been intimate with each other?Posted by GetMistedAbout 5 months now...
How long have you been together?
You've "been together" for 5 months yet you rarely see each other or have sex?
Something isn't right about this.
Did you ever have the talk about commitment? Or was this a one night stand that you thought was more and he didn't?
Posted by Stensco21He worked crazy shift hours, and we don't live close to each other...Posted by Gem_from_VenusYep! How shady she seems nice and innocent and he knows that too. He's prb disappearing because he's cheatingPosted by Stensco21And turning it around on her. That's what it looks like to me too.
He got caught flirting and is now embarrassed and flipping it on you. You're being playedclick to expand
we try to .... tho and it's all great~
Both of us don't do one night stands...
He *always* takes the initiative to tell/ show me where he was, which I have never expected so i (reiterate) trust him 300% ...and given how much time he has been spending on me each day all these months I really don't think he cheated or something...
And what I think is : of course I hope he won't fall for another girl but if he did i couldn't help it. I will go away and not stand between/ in the way.
You may call me dumb but I guess his not responding is due to what I did (altho he said forget it) and he just quit his job... he must have reached a point of having enough/ fed up that he quit... So I'm worried about him...
Posted by Gem_from_VenusPosted by Stensco21Or maybe he's sensitive about being accused of cheating and thought that's what her post was subtly hinting at.Posted by Gem_from_VenusYep! How shady she seems nice and innocent and he knows that too. He's prb disappearing because he's cheatingPosted by Stensco21And turning it around on her. That's what it looks like to me too.
He got caught flirting and is now embarrassed and flipping it on you. You're being played
I just note that he blocked her on all but one form of communication, and when she reached out, through that one avenue, that was exactly what he hoped for. He hasn't cut her off completely, but he's controlling their interactions completely. So, regardless of why, it's not very fair.click to expand
I think he was flirting especially since he's Scorpio if we reach out at all it means something.
Posted by Gem_from_VenusYes~ /_\ And he read my loser stuff on that messenger pretty quickly...Posted by Stensco21Or maybe he's sensitive about being accused of cheating and thought that's what her post was subtly hinting at.Posted by Gem_from_VenusYep! How shady she seems nice and innocent and he knows that too. He's prb disappearing because he's cheatingPosted by Stensco21And turning it around on her. That's what it looks like to me too.
He got caught flirting and is now embarrassed and flipping it on you. You're being played
I just note that he blocked her on all but one form of communication, and when she reached out, through that one avenue, that was exactly what he hoped for. He hasn't cut her off completely, but he's controlling their interactions completely. So, regardless of why, it's not very fair.click to expand
I know it's not very fair...
I guess I already gave up fighting for fairness with him... and think things will go smoothly if i don't set his scorp+cap siren off.
He is usually a gentle person but he has a very strong personality.
Jeez sometimes i wonder if i'm masochistic...~_~"
Posted by Gem_from_VenusAww crap...-_-'Posted by Stensco21EekPosted by Gem_from_VenusPosted by Stensco21Or maybe he's sensitive about being accused of cheating and thought that's what her post was subtly hinting at.Posted by Gem_from_VenusYep! How shady she seems nice and innocent and he knows that too. He's prb disappearing because he's cheatingPosted by Stensco21And turning it around on her. That's what it looks like to me too.
He got caught flirting and is now embarrassed and flipping it on you. You're being played
I just note that he blocked her on all but one form of communication, and when she reached out, through that one avenue, that was exactly what he hoped for. He hasn't cut her off completely, but he's controlling their interactions completely. So, regardless of why, it's not very fair.
I think he was flirting especially since he's Scorpio if we reach out at all it means something.
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Honestly If I were that female friend I would feel "played" !
*IMAGINARY scenario* of her: Having know him for years, have been flirting since I don't know when, but saw him getting a gf then breakup and then got interested in another girl(me), but nothing ever happened with her besides flirting... ?
idk if she could really settle for this little... and got strung along for this long...
unless she likes flirting very much...
Besides, they cant have sex (lol) coz she lives too far away, farther than i am, and she's not his type ( i suppose...?)
To make this not sounding too chick talk-ish, may I ask: would a scorp "flirt" ( still not judged...) out of kindness for a friend? or the want to feel charming? Or to get attention or even gifts ( just sayin, hah~!) ?
Posted by dolluxeI don't really think it's about Scorpio issue.
All this drama over a social media post? Smh
I'll let the scorps give you advice on this one.
So we all can chime in even Geminis! Lol
Posted by GemitatiI never liked social media...Posted by dolluxeI don't really think it's about Scorpio issue.
All this drama over a social media post? Smh
I'll let the scorps give you advice on this one.
So we all can chime in even Geminis! Lolclick to expand
I avoid it like plague x_x
I shoulda kept avoiding it...
Posted by GetMistedUm... why? What for...?
I flirt with everyone. Single or not.
i'm super selective about flirting...
I know it's just me~
Posted by StarHeartSame here. Don't have any.Posted by GemitatiI never liked social media...Posted by dolluxeI don't really think it's about Scorpio issue.
All this drama over a social media post? Smh
I'll let the scorps give you advice on this one.
So we all can chime in even Geminis! Lol
I avoid it like plague x_x
I shoulda kept avoiding it...click to expand
However if you guys not sure about something social media helps you to catch and drop before years of your life wasted!
I don't know if it's right thing to do but if I saw my man flirting anywhere - I would assessed it like how threatening it to our relashionships.
I am OLD so I saw different guys doing different things.
Going on FB flirting with other woman for a Scorpio is an indication of him being not invested in you. IMO only!
Love him. Beg him. Suffer.
But if you can just dump his ass!
Scorpios in love don't do this!
I had never met flirty Scorpio man or woman who are seriously attached.
They can drive you up-a-wall with other crap but not that! Not flirting on the side even innocently.
Because they are never innocent.
Lol
They are only if they are invested in YOU!
It's seems impossible but good luck to you with forgetting this one. Hugs
OP, I still dont understand how involved you two are.....
you sound confusing on this topic 🙂
so, you have been together for 5 months, you know, it was serious
now, how many times u met in person so far?
Was it once a week? Or once in a month?
what about the distance thing? 1 hour? 5 hours?
I dont think these questions are too personal, unless you have an online "relationship" with him and dont want to reveal this to us...
so? 🙂
you sound confusing on this topic 🙂
so, you have been together for 5 months, you know, it was serious
now, how many times u met in person so far?
Was it once a week? Or once in a month?
what about the distance thing? 1 hour? 5 hours?
I dont think these questions are too personal, unless you have an online "relationship" with him and dont want to reveal this to us...
so? 🙂
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by PhoenixRisingNope I'm a cancer. ?Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
If you cause a ripple in water it doesn't settle straight away.
I'm just curious, are you a Scorpio?
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Okay. I asked because I like your post and wanted to post it on my Scorp Quote of the Day thread.
🍹 fellow water sign.
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