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Answering Questions
TG, are you sure you're ready to move in with this guy?
You seem to have a lot of differences with him that bug you...
You seem to have a lot of differences with him that bug you...
To know us is to understand us TG.
TG I would have to go with what HP said. Are you sure you're ready? How long have you guys been dating?
"Scorpbaby said he was moving party to refresh his life "
(Refresh his life) seems to be the operative word here.
Sounds like he knows that he is about to start something new (you and him living together) and he wants to get ready for it so he is having a last hooray and he wants you to be there to meet everyone.
I was just reading between the lines. We are not going to spell it out to you all the way.
(Refresh his life) seems to be the operative word here.
Sounds like he knows that he is about to start something new (you and him living together) and he wants to get ready for it so he is having a last hooray and he wants you to be there to meet everyone.
I was just reading between the lines. We are not going to spell it out to you all the way.
Everyone carries a little baggage, me too. I try to figure out why I carry it, break it, and move on. I just with he would too. My scorp sis was VERY bad at carrying burdens, and only now at 33 she is letting go of some past pains.
I love my scorp, I can't wait to be with him, am I ready? When will I ever be? But I am ready to face that fact that life shouldn't be some comfortable zone that gets stale with no passion or work.
SL, "We are not going to spell it out to you all the way." ---F off!!! lol 😉
I love my scorp, I can't wait to be with him, am I ready? When will I ever be? But I am ready to face that fact that life shouldn't be some comfortable zone that gets stale with no passion or work.
SL, "We are not going to spell it out to you all the way." ---F off!!! lol 😉
LOL @ TG, it is ok you will get used to it. LOL
We all want the best for you taurusgoddess, but let me share with you why I see this as a HUGE red flag:
The main thing that jumps out at ME that he is going through with this IN ORDER TO "refresh". To me that sounds like you are about to be either a rebound girl OR someone whose love he consciously plans to feed off of to heal. It is dangerous to enter such a level of commitment with someone who has a specific use for going through with something. He needs to find out how to "refresh" on his own....then come to you with open arms, expecting nothing, and being with you because he wants to be with you. If you want to be with this man,then be with him...but personally I think you should hold out a bit longer before agreeing to a move in. Maybe have him keep his place and just be at yours all the time. If I were you I wouldn't put myself into a situation where both people did not have a place of their own to go to in case something happened. Not at this point. I just don't feel secure for you and your heart based on what I've read....
The main thing that jumps out at ME that he is going through with this IN ORDER TO "refresh". To me that sounds like you are about to be either a rebound girl OR someone whose love he consciously plans to feed off of to heal. It is dangerous to enter such a level of commitment with someone who has a specific use for going through with something. He needs to find out how to "refresh" on his own....then come to you with open arms, expecting nothing, and being with you because he wants to be with you. If you want to be with this man,then be with him...but personally I think you should hold out a bit longer before agreeing to a move in. Maybe have him keep his place and just be at yours all the time. If I were you I wouldn't put myself into a situation where both people did not have a place of their own to go to in case something happened. Not at this point. I just don't feel secure for you and your heart based on what I've read....
"am I ready? When will I ever be?"
You have more balls than me to do this if you're not sure if you're ready. Moving in with someone, to me, is a big deal and ranks up there with marriage and children (maybe in the top 5 of life changing events), so when I make a decision such as that, I want to make sure I am ready.
How long have you been dating him?
You have more balls than me to do this if you're not sure if you're ready. Moving in with someone, to me, is a big deal and ranks up there with marriage and children (maybe in the top 5 of life changing events), so when I make a decision such as that, I want to make sure I am ready.
How long have you been dating him?
And his comment about "refreshing" doesn't sit well with me either. Isn't part of you moving to be with him and live with him a part of refreshing? I would hope so, but the way you say it makes me think he is using this last party as something he is doing before he gets tied down. I don't know...my opinion.
best of luck TG i give you credit for putting yourself out there like that. Whatever is meant to be ..will be.
Maybe he's celebrating his new life..geez..let the bloke have a refreshing party if he wants to.
8 months.
...and he's lonely, the guys calling me at work missing me, i should lay off the guy, moving isn't just stress 4 me.
taurus selfish? haha, ummmmmmmmmmmm scorpio, who's worse?!! lol
...and he's lonely, the guys calling me at work missing me, i should lay off the guy, moving isn't just stress 4 me.
taurus selfish? haha, ummmmmmmmmmmm scorpio, who's worse?!! lol
lol, yes another one. so it's me and TG. who else?
too many! lol
Hows it working for you HP? How long has it been going on?
Hows it working for you HP? How long has it been going on?
Oh mine is still just merely a seedling!
What I'm afraid of is all this talk about the intense attraction between Taurys and Scorps...is it willed to happen or do I need to prepare to come down from Cloud 9 soon?
What I'm afraid of is all this talk about the intense attraction between Taurys and Scorps...is it willed to happen or do I need to prepare to come down from Cloud 9 soon?
No, noooooooooo, you'll always get back to cloud 9 hunny! 🙂 As long as you endure the roller coaster down. eeeeeeeeeeeeek 😉
up & down, hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I LOVE it! 😛
hahahaha gonna turn into a psycho, hehe
hahahaha gonna turn into a psycho, hehe
"Scorpbaby said he was moving party to refresh his life "
am confused - do you think maybe he was saying he was moving "partLy" to refresh his life, not having a moving party? if that is the case then maybe he just means that this move is like a fresh start to him, and that he wants you in it.
then the whole "i thought you were being sarcastic" comment seems to make sense.
you know, if men would just be straight out for cryin out loud, then we wouldn't feel the need to overanalyze things, lol
TG, what you're doing does take a lotta guts! but i admire you for it, coz at the very least you'll never have those what-if moments when you're old & gray, wondering what would have happened if you'd given it a chance. and if it works out then you could be walking on cloud 9 for the rest of your life.
HP, i'm one of those scorp/taurus combos also 😉
am confused - do you think maybe he was saying he was moving "partLy" to refresh his life, not having a moving party? if that is the case then maybe he just means that this move is like a fresh start to him, and that he wants you in it.
then the whole "i thought you were being sarcastic" comment seems to make sense.
you know, if men would just be straight out for cryin out loud, then we wouldn't feel the need to overanalyze things, lol
TG, what you're doing does take a lotta guts! but i admire you for it, coz at the very least you'll never have those what-if moments when you're old & gray, wondering what would have happened if you'd given it a chance. and if it works out then you could be walking on cloud 9 for the rest of your life.
HP, i'm one of those scorp/taurus combos also 😉
"if that is the case then maybe he just means that this move is like a fresh start to him, and that he wants you in it."
I agree with you scopr5. TG, maybe he meant it in the nicest way and you took it to mean that you're just a little sparkle to lighten up his days. Well, he probably meant you're the sun back into his life, and from then on everything will seem new and fresh to him. Try not to take the things he says in a bad way, he love you and doesn't what to hurt you, trust that and good luck on your move. Take it easy on him and it'll be beautiful 🙂
I agree with you scopr5. TG, maybe he meant it in the nicest way and you took it to mean that you're just a little sparkle to lighten up his days. Well, he probably meant you're the sun back into his life, and from then on everything will seem new and fresh to him. Try not to take the things he says in a bad way, he love you and doesn't what to hurt you, trust that and good luck on your move. Take it easy on him and it'll be beautiful 🙂
"partly", yes! opps.
Thanks scorp5pt0 & ninainthesky! I do overanalyze things too much, but I think it is natural to at this point in my life. I can't wait till we're driving across the country in a few days, I'll forget all my little worries.
So, scorp5pt0, how does the combo work for you, does this sound familiar? How long u guys been together?
Thanks scorp5pt0 & ninainthesky! I do overanalyze things too much, but I think it is natural to at this point in my life. I can't wait till we're driving across the country in a few days, I'll forget all my little worries.
So, scorp5pt0, how does the combo work for you, does this sound familiar? How long u guys been together?
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"I thot u were being sarcastic"
"No, I was being real. Now I know how you think."
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