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Any Scorpio men out there who cheated? (Page 2)
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Posted by DMV
@scorpmack,your a sag rising, i totally pegged you for a sag mercury, geez u come off as a sag. thats where your straightforwadness comes from. i genuinely believe that you are this straightforward in real life. i also believe that maybe you dont always use the most tact lol. very blunt.
yeah, id def call you an honorary sag.
Yeah, being tactful isn't my strong suit. I honestly believe if you have something to say, even if you know its going to piss you and the other person off, you should say it because by the end of that convo..You gain Truth and Understanding and everyone knows their role.
shyt, your speaking my language. sag rising people talk my talk. straight talk = straight understanding.
i think the women in your life chose not to believe what you told them. it was TOO straight forward. so in essence, it was unbelieavble to them because they probably are used to hearing the truth presented in a certain way. when in fact, you give them the truth in a way thats unfamiliar and therefore not believeable.
for example, like you know how a girl can ask a guy if hes cheating on her and he says yes and she doesnt believe him.
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Omg! I think you understand me more than any EX I've ever had...lmao
Posted by Sagittarius89
My sag/scorp cusper cheated on me with his cap ex all the time.Cause I was a virgin and wouldn't fuck him.
He'd fuck her every sunday.
So you know what? You just realize your boundaries don't match up and move on.
thats unfortunate or fortunate, looking back at it all ?
Well I think it was naive of me to think guys care about more then sex 😉
Honey,it's ok.We all been there.You are young and you will learn even more.That's just life.
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True true. Little 15 year old sag 89 lol
Posted by Sagittarius89
My sag/scorp cusper cheated on me with his cap ex all the time.Cause I was a virgin and wouldn't fuck him.
He'd fuck her every sunday.
So you know what? You just realize your boundaries don't match up and move on.
thats unfortunate or fortunate, looking back at it all ?
Well I think it was naive of me to think guys care about more then sex 😉
well i like you. id punch him in the face for you if u want me 2.
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Haha I welcome it!
I guess he got fat
Posted by scorchedearth
@scorpiomackinadmitting to cheating and blaming someone else? you're a really shitty example of your sign.
i love female scorpios a lot. so far, dazed is the only male scorp i've met that i didn't want to immediately douse in gasoline and throw a match at.
hopefully your balls will drop soon and you'll stop being such a little girl and man up. the only persons fault it is is the person that couldn't keep it in their pants. if you can't do that? you're not a man. anyone can go get their dicks sucked. not everyone can accept responsibility for their unhappiness, talk to their partners, and fix it.
it makes me happy that idiots like you have a pic up for your avatar. every girl that comes to this site and sees one of your posts will know how gross and delusional you are. they'll also know to keep on walking if they somehow random come across you in the real life.
I agree 100%
I don't think everyone should blast this guy. I mean at least he's honest. Yeah he did some snarky butter but still. This post wasn't about flaming cheaters. It was asking for people to step forward. JFC people calm down you know?
Posted by scorchedearth
@scorpiomackinadmitting to cheating and blaming someone else? you're a really shitty example of your sign. I never blamed anyone for me cheating (that was Sarcasm that didn't translate obviously..You get a Pass
i love female scorpios a lot. so far, dazed is the only male scorp i've met that i didn't want to immediately douse in gasoline and throw a match at. Dazed is a cool dude..i can see why you'd feel like that.
hopefully your balls will drop soon and you'll stop being such a little girl and man up. the only persons fault it is is the person that couldn't keep it in their pants. if you can't do that? you're not a man. anyone can go get their dicks sucked. not everyone can accept responsibility for their unhappiness, talk to their partners, and fix it. How bout I drop these balls in yo mouth since you worried about them droppin somewhere. I'm more man that you've probably ever had, you don't know me well enough to compare me to anything..especially a lil girl..No one said I couldn't keep it in my pants..the lack of you not fixing what I asked made me not WANT to keep it in there..Get it yet?
it makes me happy that idiots like you have a pic up for your avatar. every girl that comes to this site and sees one of your posts will know how gross and delusional you are. they'll also know to keep on walking if they somehow random come across you in the real life. Skank..I wouldnt date someone from the internet no way so ask me if I give a fuck about running across any of yall in real life..And assuming I cheated before talkin to them further proves you didn't read what I wrote..so whatever suck it easy chump
Posted by Xin
@scorpmackHonestly I applaud your honesty even if it is morally wrong for most people to agree with. Most guys wouldn't step foot into this lion's den. I mean there could be so many guys on this thread who cheated yet act like they didn't do anything whistling in the corner. I think you knew you were going to get some butter for saying what you did. But high five for coming forward.
Now im not saying what you did was right but at least you were honest. Did you even tell that person you ended up cheating on them?
Thank you for the compliment. And to answer your question No, I did not. My thought process for that was "Ok I feel bad..probably won't do that to her again...But I'm definitely not telling on myself. Now if she asks a question to make me think she suspects something, I'll come clean but until then..I ain't say shit!" And yes, talking on this board has made me realize I may be a lil off upstairs but in all honesty, I'm a genuine good guy who avoids hurting people when possible. I'm too empathetic, I can put myself in their shoes too easy to do anything seriously hurtful on purpose...
lolol for someone trying to be real youre quite the bullshitter. You didnt tell her because you didnt want to be seen as the bad guy and you didnt want to own up to your actions not because you didnt want to hurt her. You were saving your own ass. But whatevs.
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No shit captain obvious, the point was..I decided not to do it again but I wasn't gonna tell on myself and lose something I wanted to hang onto because I fucked up...smh.
I think more people are blasting him because he admitted to cheating and put the blame on the woman he was with.
That is stupid.
I've cheated too and been cheated on and like I said it was to do with you not being a match.
It's that simple.
I don't get why people try to complicate it.
Posted by scorchedearth
if he wasn't being such a bragging douche about it and trying to finger point i'm sure most of the comments he got blasted with wouldn't have existed.this is a public forum. you brag about things most people think are disgusting most people are going to call you out.
such is life.
Where did I brag about it at? You're delusional as well Miss...smh
Posted by Sagittarius89
I think more people are blasting him because he admitted to cheating and put the blame on the woman he was with.That is stupid.
I've cheated too and been cheated on and like I said it was to do with you not being a match.
It's that simple.
I don't get why people try to complicate it.
Again..I'm bragging? Lmao
Yeah I mean Ive done some treetrunked up butter too. But still I mean to have everyone on this post to gang up on someone is not going to change what happened, change his personality, or his thoughts about it. There are some people that are like that out there. What's done is done. It's a feeding frenzy on this post. I'm not saying what he did was right but at least he's brutally honest, and didn't sit there and play nice guy. Sometimes there are just ass***** out there. Got to accept that.
Posted by Sagittarius89
I think more people are blasting him because he admitted to cheating and put the blame on the woman he was with.That is stupid.
I've cheated too and been cheated on and like I said it was to do with you not being a match.
It's that simple.
I don't get why people try to complicate it.
Again..I'm bragging? Lmao
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What?
I am also starting to think a lot of these flame posts are because some people have been cheated on and are directing the misplaced anger on this guy. Again this is in no way shape or form saying that what he did was right.
Posted by scorchedearth
i've had twice the man you'll ever be. Yea, of course you did..Strap ons don't count FYI.then i switched teams and now i date women exclusively. Want a cookie? I date women exclusively too...so?
my point still stands. Wasn't a good one from the beginning but whatever...
then again... your dumb ass says you didn't blame anyone but wtf do you think "the lack of you not fixing what I asked made me not WANT to keep it in there..Get it yet?" means you pea brained idiot? For finding someone to handle what she wouldn't? Ok, lets agree to disagree...
at that point... a real man would bounce. instead, you, being the little girl you are, decided to try to have your cake and eat it too. that's why i openly mocked you. So what....Maybe I didn't want to bounce..maybe I wanted her to fix it?
you're a sorry excuse for a "man" and i hope eventually karma catches up with you and you end up with STDs or something. By the looks of things, you're not that great of a woman if u had to switch teams..Kick rocks...
Posted by Xin
I am also starting to think a lot of these flame posts are because some people have been cheated on and are directing the misplaced anger on this guy. Again this is in no way shape or form saying that what he did was right.obvs can't speak for anyone else but i haven't been cheated on since i was in high school. he's a toolbox. a puzzlingly cocky wannabe player that isn't even cute enough to even remotely explain him acting like that.
some people are just gross. can't change him but can mention it in the hopes he'll realize it and become not-gross.
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I'm ugly but you're not even cute enough to put up a pic other than what appears to be a Flaming Bull...Ok..Fat Chick
Oh yeah, and the fact that you used the word "Enough" You want me 😉 Lmao
I get what he's saying. I guess to some Scorpios if they present an issue or give hints on what they like, and you ignore it, then that translates to you not caring. That's no right to cheat, but it's no reason to cut someone off either, so he stays in the relationship, but does what he wants while in it.
But my thing is how do you react, ScorpioMackin, when your girlfriends bring up the things they like or issues they have? Are you as quick to fix them?
Posted by lnana04
I get what he's saying. I guess to some Scorpios if they present an issue or give hints on what they like, and you ignore it, then that translates to you not caring. That's no right to cheat, but it's no reason to cut someone off either, so he stays in the relationship, but does what he wants while in it.But my thing is how do you react, ScorpioMackin, when your girlfriends bring up the things they like or issues they have? Are you as quick to fix them?
I'll go above and beyond wants I know for sure you're in it to win it..
Posted by Nights22
Well they could just end the relationship and not cheat but thats too logical for cheaters and people who enable cheaters.I've broken up with chicks just because I wanted to F someone else..And some chicks, I just do what I do. It depends on how much respect you earned from me and how much I care about you and your feelings...And how much effort you put into fixing what I asked for also plays apart..If you don't give a fuck..neither will I. And honestly..anyone I cheated on deserved it because I didn't exactly hide it...they accepted it. Again..my fault or theirs?
Wow, what a tool.
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So I was wrong to break up with her because I wanted to cheat but cared about her feelings?
Geeze..maybe I am the asshole everyone sees Lmao Whatever
Posted by lnana04
I get what he's saying. I guess to some Scorpios if they present an issue or give hints on what they like, and you ignore it, then that translates to you not caring. That's no right to cheat, but it's no reason to cut someone off either, so he stays in the relationship, but does what he wants while in it.But my thing is how do you react, ScorpioMackin, when your girlfriends bring up the things they like or issues they have? Are you as quick to fix them?
I'll go above and beyond ONCE I know for sure you're in it to win it..
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Posted by scorchedearth
strap on comment? really? could you be more of a idiot straight man with no idea of homosexual sex?i did date one man and as i said... he's a hell of a lot better than you, and is still my close friend.
"maybe i didn't want to bounce... maybe i wanted her to fix it" then "for finding someone to handle what she wouldn't?"
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you admitted to exactly what i accused you of. are you really that stupid? probably...
You're too stuck in your own thought process you won't get what i'm tellin you. I never once said I was right or that I was a saint...I'm just being honest. For the record, I cheated back in my teens...geeze. -__-
Nah, I'm over all that now. Its gets old kind of fast.
Posted by lnana04
I get what he's saying. I guess to some Scorpios if they present an issue or give hints on what they like, and you ignore it, then that translates to you not caring. That's no right to cheat, but it's no reason to cut someone off either, so he stays in the relationship, but does what he wants while in it.But my thing is how do you react, ScorpioMackin, when your girlfriends bring up the things they like or issues they have? Are you as quick to fix them?
I'll go above and beyond ONCE I know for sure you're in it to win it..
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So I'll assume there's a bit of a time gap between them presenting the issue, and you knowing for sure if they are really in it for the long-haul. But when you present something you expect them to act on it immediately?
Not immediately but within a month or two Ya know? I don't tell them and then go on the hunt thirty minutes later..No not at all.
Posted by ScorpioMackin
Not immediately but within a month or two Ya know? I don't tell them and then go on the hunt thirty minutes later..No not at all.
LoL@ thirty minutes later. I got ya. I get it, and if I ever date a Scorpio in the future I've learned, from this thread, to make sure I listen to them.
Posted by ScorpioMackin
Not immediately but within a month or two Ya know? I don't tell them and then go on the hunt thirty minutes later..No not at all.LoL@ thirty minutes later. I got ya. I get it, and if I ever date a Scorpio in the future I've learned, from this thread, to make sure I listen to them.
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That's It! We'll listen back..trust me. We're not the tool everyone seems to think I am..I promise..lmao
Yea but it isn't just about you and your needs.
Posted by Sagittarius89
Yea but it isn't just about you and your needs.
I know, and that's my favorite part of a relationship..taking care of my girl. But she has to be worth it because i'll do too much for someone not worth it...Gotta avoid the traps out there ya know..
Posted by ScorpioMackin
Not immediately but within a month or two Ya know? I don't tell them and then go on the hunt thirty minutes later..No not at all.LoL@ thirty minutes later. I got ya. I get it, and if I ever date a Scorpio in the future I've learned, from this thread, to make sure I listen to them.
That's It! We'll listen back..trust me. We're not the tool everyone seems to think I am..I promise..lmao
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I believe you.
Posted by Sagittarius89
Yea but it isn't just about you and your needs.I know, and that's my favorite part of a relationship..taking care of my girl. But she has to be worth it because i'll do too much for someone not worth it...Gotta avoid the traps out there ya know..
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Hmm I'm not sure if people should have to prove their worth to you? If you are with them shouldn't you already think they are worthy?
Idk
Posted by Sagittarius89
Yea but it isn't just about you and your needs.I know, and that's my favorite part of a relationship..taking care of my girl. But she has to be worth it because i'll do too much for someone not worth it...Gotta avoid the traps out there ya know..
Hmm I'm not sure if people should have to prove their worth to you? If you are with them shouldn't you already think they are worthy?
Idk
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I use to believe that until I got cheated on now I require some sort of proof of loyalty. I chalked that one up the the game..there will not be another.
Posted by Sagittarius89
Yea but it isn't just about you and your needs.I know, and that's my favorite part of a relationship..taking care of my girl. But she has to be worth it because i'll do too much for someone not worth it...Gotta avoid the traps out there ya know..
Hmm I'm not sure if people should have to prove their worth to you? If you are with them shouldn't you already think they are worthy?
Idk
I use to believe that until I got cheated on now I require some sort of proof of loyalty. I chalked that one up the the game..there will not be another.
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Hm
Why Hm?
Posted by ScorpioMackin
Why Hm?
I'm sorry you were cheated on
We all get got...I ain't tripping.
i didnt think he was bragging at all.
Posted by DMV
i didnt think he was bragging at all.
I told you girl...You "Understand" me lmao
Im actually all into reading all this cause it's not stuff ppl will admit in real life.
I've never cheated myself, but 🙂 : men are NOT monogamous. They've always had more women; they can get to a time in their lives where they either channel their energy in other passions so sex becomes secondary or they put this thing to sleep. How? They get fat, hide behind/get under the family responsibilities. So they supress it.
Men will not give up their needs, women are expected to do so. There is a huge trap if you are not widely awake into listening what the other party is saying or doing. The risk is not only deluding yourself, hurting yourself, but by doing this ppl are asking, begging to be lied to, ans most importanly for their own biological time to be taken away from them. While you are obsessed to remain with someone, life passes by. For all of us there comes a time when you just look in the mirror realizing there is no procedure left that will leave people thinking you are young. Oh and karma, although not manifesting itself on the cheater as we'd wish it would, is in store for everybody..
I use to believe that until I got cheated on now I require some sort of proof of loyalty. I chalked that one up the the game..there will not be another.
^^^^^^there you go.
i'm only believing about 15% of his story now. 😄
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Me getting got makes me damn near lying now? You got my interest...lets hear it.
Have you ever cheated accidentally. Like, you were drunk and a woman seduced you?
So, a guy fucking a woman if he has the excuse of being drunk is an accidental fuck?
I'll bet guys are standing in line with thier wallets out ready to pay for your cooking and laundry classes, to prepare you for being the perfect wife.
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LMAO!! Hell no, that's no excuse. But you know...like they weren't looking to cheating..but just did.
Have you ever cheated accidentally. Like, you were drunk and a woman seduced you?
So, a guy fucking a woman if he has the excuse of being drunk is an accidental fuck?
I'll bet guys are standing in line with thier wallets out ready to pay for your cooking and laundry classes, to prepare you for being the perfect wife.
i feel like thats the excuse he gave her and she almost ate it up.
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No one gave me any excuse... I'm just asking a question. Stop trying to find dirty.
Posted by GemFiregirl33
I am currently probing my Scorpio ex bf about still talking to me,and still dating this other girl.I think sadly,Scorpios are prone to "cheat" with their ex!
I am trying to give him guilt,trying to ask his motives,etc...but I am not getting very far.He always says that it's none of my business what happends with other girls.Fine.
I just don't think that the girl he is currently dating,has a clue!She is a Taurus,btw.He doesn't seem too concerned about it though.I think Scorpio who decides to cheat is definitely not getting his needs met in the current relationships and doesn't care about being discovered.Like my Scorp said we can only talk at certain times (while she is at school,work) and that evenings and nights are not good for him.But it seems like he misses me more,and now he has been coming around at evenings and nights.
Basically,he does what he wants.Period.You Nailed it! He doesn't care about getting caught..Its obvious that if the shit hits the fan..he'll still have one of you GUARANTEED..whats he got to lose? But I will say it seems you're moving into first place which means the Taurus is about to get hurt. And personally, Taurus suck in the bed so I can see why he's messing with you.
Yep,I read him like a book.I know this Scorpio for 7-8 years.I just keep hoping that this girl didn't develop any feelings for him,or substantial feelings.I think sexual side of their relationship sucks for some reason:/
I think the relationship is over,but no one has broken up yet officially.I bet when she discovers something,he will blame her and do the ice treatment on her.click to expand
I just don't understand that. Don't you want a normal healthy relationship?? Just f*ck all the drama. I can't stand drama.
Posted by Nights22
Well they could just end the relationship and not cheat but thats too logical for cheaters and people who enable cheaters.
EXACTLY!! Why the hell cheat? Only losers cheat. Sorry.
Posted by Nights22
Well they could just end the relationship and not cheat but thats too logical for cheaters and people who enable cheaters.I've broken up with chicks just because I wanted to F someone else..And some chicks, I just do what I do. It depends on how much respect you earned from me and how much I care about you and your feelings...And how much effort you put into fixing what I asked for also plays apart..If you don't give a fuck..neither will I. And honestly..anyone I cheated on deserved it because I didn't exactly hide it...they accepted it. Again..my fault or theirs?
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I wouldn't be in a relationship that I felt I wanted to cheat in. What's the point? It's going to end eventually anyways. You're just prolonging the inevitable. But I agree with you though. Everyone should compromise in a relationship. and everyone has the right to be happy in a relationship. But cheating is never the answer.
Posted by MrFirebird
WEAK Scorpions cheat.
STRONG Scorpions do not.Of course, that can be said of any sign.
Why? Because it is more about self-discipline and self-control than a astrological sign.
Self-discipline and self-control are signs of maturity and the lack thereof are the signs
of immaturity.
A man worth having and worth keeping, is a man who has the wisdom to discern the folly of
the foolish and exercise discretion when confronted with the carnal lusts and temptations
presented to him. He will not be vain in the worthless materialisms of a passing fancy.
Some men learn these codes of conduct early in life, others later in life and yet others
never learn them at all.
You're awesome, just sayin'... are you single? lol
Posted by Nights22
Well they could just end the relationship and not cheat but thats too logical for cheaters and people who enable cheaters.I've broken up with chicks just because I wanted to F someone else..And some chicks, I just do what I do. It depends on how much respect you earned from me and how much I care about you and your feelings...And how much effort you put into fixing what I asked for also plays apart..If you don't give a fuck..neither will I. And honestly..anyone I cheated on deserved it because I didn't exactly hide it...they accepted it. Again..my fault or theirs?
Youre still at fault but whatever helps u sleep at night!
I won't lose sleep regardless...So, if you're sitting on a couch and I keep throwing shit at you and you sit there although you don't like being hit with objects..Thats my fault to? Ok...I get it now, I think O_o
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JUST STOP THROWING SHYT!!! Why is this so hard for you to understand? Where's the morals and values. Don't be a bully.
Posted by Nights22
Well they could just end the relationship and not cheat but thats too logical for cheaters and people who enable cheaters.I've broken up with chicks just because I wanted to F someone else..And some chicks, I just do what I do. It depends on how much respect you earned from me and how much I care about you and your feelings...And how much effort you put into fixing what I asked for also plays apart..If you don't give a fuck..neither will I. And honestly..anyone I cheated on deserved it because I didn't exactly hide it...they accepted it. Again..my fault or theirs?
Youre still at fault but whatever helps u sleep at night!
I won't lose sleep regardless...So, if you're sitting on a couch and I keep throwing shit at you and you sit there although you don't like being hit with objects..Thats my fault to? Ok...I get it now, I think O_o
You win points because you sound like my Scorpio.Me being an air sign,I need a lot of convincing and good argument and he always gives it to me.
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LMAO!!! A "tad" selfish.... omigod. It's all about them girl.
Posted by tryandguess
Oh yeah P-Devil, this went right over my head- DIRECT QUOTE FROM YOU" Three weeks ago at poker, a drunk male friend of ours leaned over and kissed my husband on the head .. he was fucked up and didn't even know he was doing it until he did it, and then laughed his ass off. why the fuck would you attempt to place such a heavy guilty verdict on him as if he's some kind of unfaithful cheater ... when alls he did was get drunk and kiss someone —?? that's crazy .. you sound crazy for taking to heart .. nothing"
Well, it sounds like a guy kissing a guy... lmao..is that what happened? there's nothing to be jealous of there.
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shyt, your speaking my language. sag rising people talk my talk. straight talk = straight understanding.
i think the women in your life chose not to believe what you told them. it was TOO straight forward. so in essence, it was unbelieavble to them because they probably are used to hearing the truth presented in a certain way. when in fact, you give them the truth in a way thats unfamiliar and therefore not believeable.
for example, like you know how a girl can ask a guy if hes cheating on her and he says yes and she doesnt believe him.