Are all Scorpio guys this tough to understand— (Page 2)

Cancer... I'm glad you are taking the steps to moving on but just to let you know YOU are the one that has the power to make this all stop.

The control is in your hands. Use it wisely. No more blaming him for emailing, texting, checking in. Stand strong, don't fall for it and he will get the message loud and clear.

I wouldn't care if he came to you saying he had terminal cancer and had a day left to live. Never give in to him again. 🙂

well, I know my opinion might be unpopular, but you see? this is proof they react mechaically. and she's obviously not out of it (how could she, in three days?).
no, I would play YOUR game, now.
I would answer, just changing the subject.
mesmerize him eiht not being predictable. I do insist, and more so becuase you cancergirl say you got that feeling of being 18 again, why put evrything on serious .. nothing? just go and seduce him your own way.
to seduce a seductor, I dont' see why not...
good luck

And with all that game playing ^^^^ she'll get tangled right back into it again.
It's obvious her feelings are more engaged then his. He'll out "play" her and she'll be in over her emotional head again.
Back at square one.

He's doing all this because he doesn't want to lose his toy. He still wants control. Why? *shrug* Because he *was* having his cake and eating it too. Who doesn't want that type of power. Put a Scorpio in that position and they'll take it every single time.

She needs to take control and walk away. ... for good.

Don't fall for this typical behavior. It's all part of his little game. Remember the link I sent you? It's all connected and he's making the generalization true. Don't fall for it. Don't play his games. Rise above and conquer his ass by not responding or telling him to leave you alone.

13 messages? He's getting desperate. This is what happens.
You may fall down and have a few more bumps in the road. That's o.k. Don't beat yourself up about it. Just know that it's a process and it's all something to learn by. You can do this!

Posted by LibertarianVirgo

Posted by ramfishtwins
Cancergirlinlove...
I've been trying to send you a message, but it keeps erroring out...go to this link and read the whole thing. I'm not sure if you've seen this before, but it's so spot on. Write me back and let me know what you think 😉

http://scorpiosingles.tribe.net/thread/7b9a3da0-ca18-49b4-baa7-5d9f2c8d10bf

RFT

What a great article! I am curious to buy the book now. Thanks for the link RFT!

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You are very welcome. There's one for every sign and they seem to be very right on. I want the book too.
The scorpio and virgo ones are extra scary!

Hi everybody. I just wanted to give you all a quick update because your advise was much better than the advice from my girl friends lol (we think the same).

I changed my email so now he emails my work email (cant change it my boss said no)and he acts as if nothing is wrong. He will email me and say things like "what's your problem?" and "if your not careful I'll dump you, your lucky I'm giving you a second chance" I find this odd considering we have not spoken since the 5th of August. I have not responded to anything.

I am begining to think Scorpio men are a nuts or at least this one is. (no offense to all Scorpio men).

PS
Weight Watchers works! slow but steady.

Thanks Everyone!

Really, I was interpreting it differently, like if I'm not careful he will break up with me, but you do make a VERY good STRONG point. It's not normal behavior. He keeps warning me that he will dump me if I don't stop with my "stupidity" which I find odd because I thought we broke up when I stopped talking to him. And yes I agree with you with crossing the line with the work email.

How did things turn out with your ex?

I think your right. The best medicine is to ignore him I think.


Thanks all!

Cancer, what they're saying is true. stay away from him. do not respond to any of his attempts to contact you. do not make any contact, forget about him and move on, seriously.