Are Virgoes unable to understand Scorpios (Page 2)

E_K: I can guess that the first way you felt about her was..to be protective

Yes. She still brings out that Father / Protector thing - even though she can damn sure take care of herself...

GB: you have a scorp chick as a virg, and you want everry virgo to have a scorp.
come on man.

No way, man! I recommended an Aries for Shaka. I've talked about the Cancer & Virgo often - the Ultra-Sweet married couple.

I will admit to some cheer-leading for S+V, but that's to encourage my fellow Virgs to not be scared-off by these crazily intense / intensely crazy emotional types...

f_s: Do virgo and scorp bring out the FATHER/MOTHER figure out in each other??

I don't think so. I think a VirGuy might feel that more with a Cancer woman, or maybe another Virgo. I do know my Scorp loves my big bear hugs, and sometimes I call her my Little Girl (she doesn't mind the "little" when it's serious!).

I do believe what some astrologers say about the S+V and Love/Hate relationship. Scorps provoke an emotional response from us, and we sometimes resent that ability of theirs!

Shaka,

Just to fuel your fantasy: I haven't known that many Aries gals, but every damn one of them was HOT as Georgia asphalt! Not always the most beautiful woman in the crowd, but they got all kinds if attitude, and they always draw attention!

all kinds if attitude = all kinds of attitude

Check out -- http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/messages.asp?id=1358936 -- on the Aries Board.

S-I-L,

Thank you!! What a concise, yet lyrical, poetic vision of S + V!

It's interesting for me to hear how SF views this relationship with VM, and to receive confirmation for the things I've experienced since March 2006...

Cool!

AC, virgo girls can definitely understand a scorpio man, and even Elena herself will agree with me here *wink wink* hehe 🙂

My ex scorp actually told a recent gf of his that I know him inside-out, I know him best out of anyone that has ever known him. I must say that made me feel pretty good 🙂 Do alot of quiet observing, but always follow what you feel with a scorp at the end of the day - trust your gut instincts with them (scorpios) because often, a scorpio man has a knack of making a virgo woman feel a little nervous (when we're in territory we're not used to), and you'll be tempted to choose the logical route coz you think it's safer and it's kind of programmed into us. But Ii's not safer, and you'll end up falling flat on your face and thinking to yourself "If only i'd listened to that gut feeling..." Hehe.

Just keep your head hun, if you start getting treated poorly etc, then get out of there (just like you should regardless of what sign a man is). Don't taint this fresh start with the issues from your past - and yes I agree, a scorpio man can help you get past previous hurts. Be open and enjoy the ride, good luck with it 🙂

Yall were right. I should have listened. Yesterday we had a huge fight and he said that if I can't trust and understand him better than I do then he doesn't see the point in being with me.

I think probably Virgoes and Scorpios can get along, obviously a lot have on this board but my own insecurities and past issues just aren't going to be a good fit. I accused him of something and he was very hurt by it. As soon as I said it, I could see his eyes and they just looked like I kneed him in his balls and I just knew I'd said the wrong thing, but ... life lessons. I just wanted to thank everyone for the conversation and the advice. Maybe next time I won't be so dumb and will take more of it. 🙂

Thanks, Elena. Sorry, but I sent you a msg before I saw you posted here. I will be patient and just wait. Is there something happening with the planets in Virgo, I wonder? I have not felt too good since August started!

Thanks, ArianLatay! Wow, it's going to be a hell of a month for a lot of people!

Perhaps.....It really makes me wonder if it had not been for my moon in cancer would I be able to understand you water dwellers....good question, but I can say on the whole that I have 'merged' with my emotional side, and I can say that my awareness has spread a great deal outward, so I'm not just experiencing the world through my mind, but I'm taking it in subjectively, and it makes a great deal of sense to me emotionally.....

Now, in terms of Scorpios, I feel that if I screw one that we 'get' each other, I don't lay down with just anyone, there must be an 'affinity' of some sort before I do, when there is it gets rough....I DESPISE sensitivity/restraint in any form, I need to be able to express myself from the inside out, a massive 'upheaval' if you will and I need for you to understand me as I do it....but really, are you able (Scorpios) to understand Virgos? We're the same sign, yet people really trip over the particulars, and swear up and down, that we're worlds apart and we're not.