Can this relationship work?
Aries Girl + Scorpio Guy
Let me tell you my story:
I am an Aries female, and I know a Scorpio guy. We used to be ARCHENEMIES. I emphasize that because I used to yell at him for being such a moron, while he had to defend himself from my verbal attacks. I can get quite emotional and energetic too, given the Aries in me.
As months passed, everything calmed down. I took the initiative (the first step) to talk to him like a friend. It's pretty amazing since we had so many negative things to say about each other.
Well, a friendship was created between us. We have SO MUCH IN COMMON! Interests, ?you name it! It was creepy at first. As the days progressed, we talked to each other longer and longer to the point I talked to him from 9PM to the eve of the morning!
While I don't want a love relationship, I can sense that he has feelings for me ? as a friend and possibly as someone to love. He called me one day just to see if I was home.
This is my question: is this really love (a potential relationship) or a journey to failure?
I am an Aries female, and I know a Scorpio guy. We used to be ARCHENEMIES. I emphasize that because I used to yell at him for being such a moron, while he had to defend himself from my verbal attacks. I can get quite emotional and energetic too, given the Aries in me.
As months passed, everything calmed down. I took the initiative (the first step) to talk to him like a friend. It's pretty amazing since we had so many negative things to say about each other.
Well, a friendship was created between us. We have SO MUCH IN COMMON! Interests, ?you name it! It was creepy at first. As the days progressed, we talked to each other longer and longer to the point I talked to him from 9PM to the eve of the morning!
While I don't want a love relationship, I can sense that he has feelings for me ? as a friend and possibly as someone to love. He called me one day just to see if I was home.
This is my question: is this really love (a potential relationship) or a journey to failure?
The correct anwswer is "since we have so much in common, he's not that bad after all." Like I said, I'm not looking for a sexual relationship. As of right now, I am totally happy that we are friends. No more at this point.
It would be very awkward to force a romance so quickly. I rather see how things turn out maybe in the next few weeks to make a better judgment.
It would be very awkward to force a romance so quickly. I rather see how things turn out maybe in the next few weeks to make a better judgment.
TO APRILBABY:
I was hostile to him because we had different political beliefs. Now, he has realized how na?ve and selfish he was. I have known him for almost a year now. We can talk for hours if we want on the phone, given our almost similar interests.
As I stated earlier, I do not want a sexual relationship.
However, I do wonder if this friendship could possibly turn into something more.
That is all I'm asking.
I was hostile to him because we had different political beliefs. Now, he has realized how na?ve and selfish he was. I have known him for almost a year now. We can talk for hours if we want on the phone, given our almost similar interests.
As I stated earlier, I do not want a sexual relationship.
However, I do wonder if this friendship could possibly turn into something more.
That is all I'm asking.
I just want to update people......
My Scorpio friend and I are legally just friends.
He happens to have a GF who is a Pisces.
Love is definitelely in bloom here between the two.
I wish him the best.
Pisces + Scorpio go well together.
My Scorpio friend and I are legally just friends.
He happens to have a GF who is a Pisces.
Love is definitelely in bloom here between the two.
I wish him the best.
Pisces + Scorpio go well together.
This topic has actually split into 2 separate threads. I'm not sure this will work, but here's the other forum:
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message.asp?id=6&oid=1&no=46076#46992
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message.asp?id=6&oid=1&no=46076#46992
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