CrabAngel
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Can a young Scorpio man love so deeply and so quickly, esp an older woman?
One major question? Where does he live? Where do you live—
This sounds likes 90 day fiancé show well people get scammed to bring others in another country.
This sounds likes 90 day fiancé show well people get scammed to bring others in another country.
Scorpio here.
No, I do not think it is possible to really love someone you have never met before and spent quality time with them. You or they may think its love but it is not. It is just words at this stage. I'm not saying he doesn't feel strongly for you but I think it's good to get things into perspective.
He has a Virgo moon. I doubt he's able to form such a deep attachment so soon. Virgo moon tends to be exceptionally picky and often take a long time to date. My sister is one, she's 40, until recently she'd been single forever! A few others I know are all similar.
I don't know much about Venus in Libra. Mine is in Scorpio. I don't think I connect with Venus Gemini placements. They feel like aliens to me, from another planet, speaking another language! That might be different for Libra Venus.
What countries are you from?
No, I do not think it is possible to really love someone you have never met before and spent quality time with them. You or they may think its love but it is not. It is just words at this stage. I'm not saying he doesn't feel strongly for you but I think it's good to get things into perspective.
He has a Virgo moon. I doubt he's able to form such a deep attachment so soon. Virgo moon tends to be exceptionally picky and often take a long time to date. My sister is one, she's 40, until recently she'd been single forever! A few others I know are all similar.
I don't know much about Venus in Libra. Mine is in Scorpio. I don't think I connect with Venus Gemini placements. They feel like aliens to me, from another planet, speaking another language! That might be different for Libra Venus.
What countries are you from?
Posted by oxygenthiefExactly what I was thinking. Let us know when he asks you to wire him some money.
One major question? Where does he live? Where do you live—
This sounds likes 90 day fiancé show well people get scammed to bring others in another country.
She never answered so I assume they are from different countries LOL
Kinda gross that he proposed over chat messages. This truly is the age of no effort.
Posted by oxygenthiefApparently! She had said 'green card' and he could be from anywhere...
She never answered so I assume they are from different countries LOL
Posted by LadyNeptuneAre you kidding me? Half of her age IS an effort!
Kinda gross that he proposed over chat messages. This truly is the age of no effort.
Posted by bittercupcakeIn perfect world maybe.
@Scorpio123 but it's the truth though... reality is she's old enough to be his mom. This is in no way sincere. He's 29, no way he'd chose a 50 year old over a woman who is his age...
It's harsh but it's the truth..women love men for their personality and financial security... men love women for their personality and looks
However have you never met a woman who is with insecure man with personality that lost at birth?
Or a man who is with a non-descript woman with personality of a bagel?
You need to take your peachy glasses to a thrift store hon.
Posted by bittercupcakeThat's 99.9% !Posted by GemitatiHaving a false pretense influenced by dillusional emotional sentiments is not gonna get anyone anywhere... it's a sad reality, but it's truth.Posted by bittercupcakeIn perfect world maybe.
@Scorpio123 but it's the truth though... reality is she's old enough to be his mom. This is in no way sincere. He's 29, no way he'd chose a 50 year old over a woman who is his age...
It's harsh but it's the truth..women love men for their personality and financial security... men love women for their personality and looks
However have you never met a woman who is with insecure man with personality that lost at birth?
Or a man who is with a non-descript woman with personality of a bagel?
You need to take your peachy glasses to a thrift store hon.
Men fall in love with aesthetics as much as personality traits... but they're also logical, much more than a woman. To marry a woman who can be his mother, not bare him children, whilst he can find a much more attractive, younger, woman who he can find sexually attracted to and potent for mating... is much more realistic and practical .. than a woman who is 50, never met, and is in different countries.
He only wants her for materialistic gain.click to expand
However your statement was too pure for real world 'unions'...
Some weird shit happens you know.
Posted by bittercupcakeHypotetjically he could be a man who had never gotten that far with a woman of any age that hadntalkes to him for more than 20 min.Posted by GemitatiYeah but that's really rare though... I highly doubt the OP is one of those especially based on the story she saidPosted by bittercupcakeThat's 99.9% !Posted by GemitatiHaving a false pretense influenced by dillusional emotional sentiments is not gonna get anyone anywhere... it's a sad reality, but it's truth.Posted by bittercupcakeIn perfect world maybe.
@Scorpio123 but it's the truth though... reality is she's old enough to be his mom. This is in no way sincere. He's 29, no way he'd chose a 50 year old over a woman who is his age...
It's harsh but it's the truth..women love men for their personality and financial security... men love women for their personality and looks
However have you never met a woman who is with insecure man with personality that lost at birth?
Or a man who is with a non-descript woman with personality of a bagel?
You need to take your peachy glasses to a thrift store hon.
Men fall in love with aesthetics as much as personality traits... but they're also logical, much more than a woman. To marry a woman who can be his mother, not bare him children, whilst he can find a much more attractive, younger, woman who he can find sexually attracted to and potent for mating... is much more realistic and practical .. than a woman who is 50, never met, and is in different countries.
He only wants her for materialistic gain.
However your statement was too pure for real world 'unions'...
Some weird shit happens you know.click to expand
So he had excited! Came watching porn for the first time in his life! Got excited second time!
Got drunk from excitement and proposed!
Well...she is so far...he is safe!
But from now on he can tell his pers about it! —
Posted by LuckyLibra979i would agree but some scorpio men become kind of jaded it seems if they never find love after 40.
A young scorpion will love far quicker than an older one. Scorpios often get stuck in their ways. The younger the more flexible.
Flattering that you think 29 is young cuz I feel old af
i dont know...
there's so many out there that are single and want to stay like that.
like no woman is ever going to be good enough.
but there are scorpio men that fall and get out of relationships in and out....
i mean look at Anthony Kiedis and p.diddy,
and forever single leonardo di caprio, and there's a loonnnngg list.
it all depends.
Posted by bittercupcakei dont think i've heard of young women falling for a poor old man in a retirement home.Posted by Scorpio123Yeah... 😢Posted by bittercupcakeAnd I'm in 100% agreement with you with all respect to 50 year olds. Why would he? What can you offer that someone his age and much closer can't? A green card probably is the only thing, maybe money too.
@Scorpio123 but it's the truth though... reality is she's old enough to be his mom. This is in no way sincere. He's 29, no way he'd chose a 50 year old over a woman who is his age...
It's harsh but it's the truth..women love men for their personality and financial security... men love women for their personality and looks
We put so much emphasis on "our sweet soul" and forget that many gorgeous and young people have that too, it's not really that rare or that irreplaceable.
OP, definitely put all your feelings on hold now and think of this logically, it seems like you already have doubts about his intentions, it's so hard not to, and we all agree with that.
It's like when Nicole married that right billionare 90 year old and claimed it was 'love'.... nah, you was a gold-digger
Posted by Scorpio123Posted by lisabethur8Posted by LuckyLibra979i would agree but some scorpio men become kind of jaded it seems if they never find love after 40.
A young scorpion will love far quicker than an older one. Scorpios often get stuck in their ways. The younger the more flexible.
Flattering that you think 29 is young cuz I feel old af
i dont know...
there's so many out there that are single and want to stay like that.
like no woman is ever going to be good enough.
but there are scorpio men that fall and get out of relationships in and out....
i mean look at Anthony Kiedis and p.diddy,
and forever single leonardo di caprio, and there's a loonnnngg list.
it all depends.
Leonardo is only single cause he still hasn't met me yet. ?
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lol
if only he comes to dxp.
What do you hope to gain with this much younger man ?
20+ years is a huge gap....you are old enough to be his mum
20+ years is a huge gap....you are old enough to be his mum
Posted by bittercupcakePosted by Scorpio123He's still 'single' cuz he's gay...he only 'dates' models for about a few weeks because agencies call him up to ask him for a favor. To help boost these girls into popularity, while he does it to feed into the public perception that he's this unattainable single heterosexual male.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by LuckyLibra979i would agree but some scorpio men become kind of jaded it seems if they never find love after 40.
A young scorpion will love far quicker than an older one. Scorpios often get stuck in their ways. The younger the more flexible.
Flattering that you think 29 is young cuz I feel old af
i dont know...
there's so many out there that are single and want to stay like that.
like no woman is ever going to be good enough.
but there are scorpio men that fall and get out of relationships in and out....
i mean look at Anthony Kiedis and p.diddy,
and forever single leonardo di caprio, and there's a loonnnngg list.
it all depends.
Leonardo is only single cause he still hasn't met me yet. ?
click to expand
i'm beginning to believe it. but we won't know...until some ex- girlfriend of his tells ALL.
Posted by CrabAngel
He (age 29): Sun Scorpio; Moon Virgo or Libra; Mercury Libra; Venus Libra; Mars Aries; Jupiter Gemini
I (age 50): Sun Cancer; Moon Aries; Mercury Leo; Venus Gemini; Mars Gemini; Jupiter Cancer
I know I would love him once I've confirmed that he's sincere but I have to meet him to read him. I don't trust easily. I'm quite aware of games that people play online, especially overseas men who marry for a visa.
Would anyone know whether my Venus and Mars in Gemini could be a compatibility issue with a Scorpio?
So there's a huge age gap, you haven't met in person and you can not give him children (have you even asked if he wants children?) and you're only question is if your Venus and Mars will be compatible?
My first thought before even reading the part about him being overseas and not meeting was this man is using you for citizenship. Funny how that is where my mind went and I didn't even have that piece of the puzzle.
Don't let your feelings cloud your judgement. If you two meet, enjoy the sex for as long as it last, but don't agree to anything.
Make him wait, don't jump into something you might regret.
Take longer to get to know him and don't take shit off of this guy.
Take longer to get to know him and don't take shit off of this guy.
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