Cancer and Scorpio

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I am curious to know why this is a strong connection? Just because they are both water signs?

I don't actually see any similarity between the two but yet I know a ton of Cancer/Scorpio couples. Someone explain this to me.

Disclaimer - I have never had a relationship of any sort with a Scorpio woman nor have I sought them. I don't even know many Scorpios.
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Scorpio likes to be nurtured.

When cancer does it, they let their guard down.

Plus cancer only has eyes for them which makes them less suspicious.
Sounds like co-dependency. A relationship that works only because one party feels less paranoid and the other gets an unhealthy obsession.
Don't ruin a good thing with psychobabble.

It's a close relationship that many won't get.
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I don't know if it's a good thing or not, never been in any relationship with Scorpio.

My first impression from what you said made it sound unhealthy. It doesn't sound like other watery relationships such as Cancer/Pisces.
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Well cancer is a natural nurturer. It only comes out when they trust the other person. Scorpio is over protective and paternalistic. They give cancer a reason not to feel insecure because cancer is big on being protective of themselves and those they love.

Scorpio is also insecure even though they don't show it. It's a different kind of insecure though. They don't want to be abandoned after letting their guard down. To them that's betrayal. They want support and someone to idealise them like they put their love object on a pedestal. It's like an intricate cycle.

So when scorpio is nurtured, they won't feel abandonment anxiety because cancer is acting selfless and honouring them. In turn, scorpio sees this as love and becomes protective towards them because they don't want to lose the thing that makes them feel at home.

Things go bad when cancer rebels, which is what I do every couple of months which makes scorpio get worried and over protective like a father and a teenage daughter. Haha
Sounds better this time around. Are scorps good in bed?
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It depends on other factors, not just the suns being in scorpio and cancer. other elements in the charts, the maturity level. emotions by themselves tend to ruin the possibilities of a well established connection. some bonds can be toxic. i myself do not know any cancers, so i cannot agree with this strong connection observation you have. but that's just me.
I agree with your observations, my comment was purely based on a ton off Cancer/Scorp couples I know. It's probably a bit myopic since I obviously do not know every cancer and scorpio.

I know 2-3 scorpios utmost and we are very distant from eachother.
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Well cancer is a natural nurturer. It only comes out when they trust the other person. Scorpio is over protective and paternalistic. They give cancer a reason not to feel insecure because cancer is big on being protective of themselves and those they love.

Scorpio is also insecure even though they don't show it. It's a different kind of insecure though. They don't want to be abandoned after letting their guard down. To them that's betrayal. They want support and someone to idealise them like they put their love object on a pedestal. It's like an intricate cycle.

So when scorpio is nurtured, they won't feel abandonment anxiety because cancer is acting selfless and honouring them. In turn, scorpio sees this as love and becomes protective towards them because they don't want to lose the thing that makes them feel at home.

Things go bad when cancer rebels, which is what I do every couple of months which makes scorpio get worried and over protective like a father and a teenage daughter. Haha
Sounds better this time around. Are scorps good in bed?
If you like staying home on Friday night with a movie, and shagging all night - a Scorp may be for you.

We like doing this.
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That sounds fairly attractive but you're a guy and most guys including me like the idea of an all night screw. This needs to come from a girl for me to believe in.
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Scorpio is also insecure even though they don't show it. It's a different kind of insecure though. They don't want to be abandoned after letting their guard down. To them that's betrayal. So when scorpio is nurtured, they won't feel abandonment anxiety
I agree with this.
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This is where I screwed up with the first Scorpio she let her guard down and I abandoned her she already had some abandonment issues with her mom and father not being there for her when she was growing up. When she felt abandoned her anxiety/anxiousness was through the roof she has anxiety problems I made it worse.
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If the woman is the Cancer it may work better. Scorpio women may be too strong for the sensitive Crab man...
I was also going to say this haha

Been down that road and it did not work for me
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my Sagittarius sister was with a Crab man, born early july. And my Aries sister also was with a Crab man. So weird!!!

the only women that wished badly they stay with their crab men was my mother, aunts, and their mothers. Mothers love crab men!
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Well cancer is a natural nurturer. It only comes out when they trust the other person. Scorpio is over protective and paternalistic. They give cancer a reason not to feel insecure because cancer is big on being protective of themselves and those they love.

Scorpio is also insecure even though they don't show it. It's a different kind of insecure though. They don't want to be abandoned after letting their guard down. To them that's betrayal. They want support and someone to idealise them like they put their love object on a pedestal. It's like an intricate cycle.

So when scorpio is nurtured, they won't feel abandonment anxiety because cancer is acting selfless and honouring them. In turn, scorpio sees this as love and becomes protective towards them because they don't want to lose the thing that makes them feel at home.

Things go bad when cancer rebels, which is what I do every couple of months which makes scorpio get worried and over protective like a father and a teenage daughter. Haha
Sounds better this time around. Are scorps good in bed?
If you like staying home on Friday night with a movie, and shagging all night - a Scorp may be for you.

We like doing this.
That sounds fairly attractive but you're a guy and most guys including me like the idea of an all night screw. This needs to come from a girl for me to believe in.
You can keep it up all night??
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With breaks, sure. Btw, it also depends on the woman, it doesn't help if she is as exciting as a wet fish.

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If the woman is the Cancer it may work better. Scorpio women may be too strong for the sensitive Crab man...
I don't know that as a blanket rule all Cancer men are sensitive. I have moon in Capricorn which isn't a particularly sensitive placement.

Can we be kind, sure. But trying to dominate us will only result in a rubber meets the road moment.
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All night long...especially in the beginning and can last indefinetly. It may not necessarily be actual penetration or even oral sex. It's the act of wanting to "consuming" the object of their affection...on a physical, mental, spiritual level. It's amazing and exhausting...damn near impossible to keep up. Nothing quite like it...and I think watersigns when it's right, together mirror each other and it just leads to just phenomenal mental & physical connections.
You're a Pisces sun I think, so it makes sense when you say that. Hands down, the best sex I have had is with Pisces women.
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If the woman is the Cancer it may work better. Scorpio women may be too strong for the sensitive Crab man...
I was also going to say this haha

Been down that road and it did not work for me
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Brings us back to my original question. Everything I hear, seems to make me think that this is an unpleasant combination. That said, there are all these couples for whom it seems to work. Perhaps, these are flawed individuals seeking an obsessive, subservient relationship.
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Would you date another cancer?

I think cancer/ cancer is the best when they are both goofy and less moody.

I love a funny cancer man.
I have dated another cancer for almost 3 years, it was good. I probably may not doing it again unless it's a fiery cancer. I am an earthy cancer.
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Hello, and welcome back Incan. 😉
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Would you date another cancer?

I think cancer/ cancer is the best when they are both goofy and less moody.

I love a funny cancer man.
I have dated another cancer for almost 3 years, it was good. I probably may not doing it again unless it's a fiery cancer. I am an earthy cancer.
I'm fire and air dominant.


Was she more moody and emotional?

I only seem to encounter those types of cancer chicks on dxp.
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She was very stubborn and inflexible.
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Would you date another cancer?

I think cancer/ cancer is the best when they are both goofy and less moody.

I love a funny cancer man.
I have dated another cancer for almost 3 years, it was good. I probably may not doing it again unless it's a fiery cancer. I am an earthy cancer.
Hello, and welcome back Incan. 😉
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Youre back!
You've me at a disadvantage. Who are you??!
No worries, I've changed my name 200 times. Im not sure which name you know me as :p ...you helped me with my Cancer ex. I was basically a nutcase but you tried your best 🙂

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I know who you're now.
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Well cancer is a natural nurturer. It only comes out when they trust the other person. Scorpio is over protective and paternalistic. They give cancer a reason not to feel insecure because cancer is big on being protective of themselves and those they love.

Scorpio is also insecure even though they don't show it. It's a different kind of insecure though. They don't want to be abandoned after letting their guard down. To them that's betrayal. They want support and someone to idealise them like they put their love object on a pedestal. It's like an intricate cycle.

So when scorpio is nurtured, they won't feel abandonment anxiety because cancer is acting selfless and honouring them. In turn, scorpio sees this as love and becomes protective towards them because they don't want to lose the thing that makes them feel at home.

Things go bad when cancer rebels, which is what I do every couple of months which makes scorpio get worried and over protective like a father and a teenage daughter. Haha
Good description, but not sure about the idealized pedestal thing.

I actually want to give more love, affection, and resources than I receive love and affection. That's my way of showing devotion, and I prefer it that way.
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Arielle nailed it. If both people are mature and balanced, this is a very reciprocatory type of relationship, plus the fact that both innately understand the depth of emotions the other is dealing with.

Rein, the scorpio need to protect in all aspects fits well with the cancer need to to have security, and cancer has a need to spoil/pamper their loved ones, with food, sex( applied to a partner, obviously), home life. Basically it's the protector meets the nurturer. I already know you're going to do that manly face scrunching thing over being pampered, but you guys secretly love it.
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Well cancer is a natural nurturer. It only comes out when they trust the other person. Scorpio is over protective and paternalistic. They give cancer a reason not to feel insecure because cancer is big on being protective of themselves and those they love.

Scorpio is also insecure even though they don't show it. It's a different kind of insecure though. They don't want to be abandoned after letting their guard down. To them that's betrayal. They want support and someone to idealise them like they put their love object on a pedestal. It's like an intricate cycle.

So when scorpio is nurtured, they won't feel abandonment anxiety because cancer is acting selfless and honouring them. In turn, scorpio sees this as love and becomes protective towards them because they don't want to lose the thing that makes them feel at home.

Things go bad when cancer rebels, which is what I do every couple of months which makes scorpio get worried and over protective like a father and a teenage daughter. Haha
Sounds better this time around. Are scorps good in bed?
If you like staying home on Friday night with a movie, and shagging all night - a Scorp may be for you.

We like doing this.
That sounds fairly attractive but you're a guy and most guys including me like the idea of an all night screw. This needs to come from a girl for me to believe in.
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If it's the right partner, and the chemistry is great, an all night bed romp is divine! Food gets forgotten, sleep gets forgotten.....
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Well cancer is a natural nurturer. It only comes out when they trust the other person. Scorpio is over protective and paternalistic. They give cancer a reason not to feel insecure because cancer is big on being protective of themselves and those they love.

Scorpio is also insecure even though they don't show it. It's a different kind of insecure though. They don't want to be abandoned after letting their guard down. To them that's betrayal. They want support and someone to idealise them like they put their love object on a pedestal. It's like an intricate cycle.

So when scorpio is nurtured, they won't feel abandonment anxiety because cancer is acting selfless and honouring them. In turn, scorpio sees this as love and becomes protective towards them because they don't want to lose the thing that makes them feel at home.

Things go bad when cancer rebels, which is what I do every couple of months which makes scorpio get worried and over protective like a father and a teenage daughter. Haha
Good description, but not sure about the idealized pedestal thing.

I actually want to give more love, affection, and resources than I receive love and affection. That's my way of showing devotion, and I prefer it that way.
Arielle nailed it. If both people are mature and balanced, this is a very reciprocatory type of relationship, plus the fact that both innately understand the depth of emotions the other is dealing with.

Rein, the scorpio need to protect in all aspects fits well with the cancer need to to have security, and cancer has a need to spoil/pamper their loved ones, with food, sex( applied to a partner, obviously), home life. Basically it's the protector meets the nurturer. I already know you're going to do that manly face scrunching thing over being pampered, but you guys secretly love it.
Lol - we do like being nurtured.

Much more so than compliments or material gifts or respect, which men of other signs may need more of.
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Yes, but you scorpios have a hard time expressing it, especially the men, but that's probably a man thing in general.
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Well cancer is a natural nurturer. It only comes out when they trust the other person. Scorpio is over protective and paternalistic. They give cancer a reason not to feel insecure because cancer is big on being protective of themselves and those they love.

Scorpio is also insecure even though they don't show it. It's a different kind of insecure though. They don't want to be abandoned after letting their guard down. To them that's betrayal. They want support and someone to idealise them like they put their love object on a pedestal. It's like an intricate cycle.

So when scorpio is nurtured, they won't feel abandonment anxiety because cancer is acting selfless and honouring them. In turn, scorpio sees this as love and becomes protective towards them because they don't want to lose the thing that makes them feel at home.

Things go bad when cancer rebels, which is what I do every couple of months which makes scorpio get worried and over protective like a father and a teenage daughter. Haha
Sounds better this time around. Are scorps good in bed?
If you like staying home on Friday night with a movie, and shagging all night - a Scorp may be for you.

We like doing this.
That sounds fairly attractive but you're a guy and most guys including me like the idea of an all night screw. This needs to come from a girl for me to believe in.
If it's the right partner, and the chemistry is great, an all night bed romp is divine! Food gets forgotten, sleep gets forgotten.....
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Spoken like a true Cancer....ha!
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When I first came here, I read a lot of topics about cancer and scorpio. They always mentioned: battle of power or control.

In my experience this is true. Although there was never any real battle, it was more like:
cancer: I got this. Sit back, I know what I want, but I´m gonna take my time and do it the way I see fitt.
Scorpio: But I want this and for it to be done this way.
Cancer: ...gone....

And repeat repeat repeat repeat... Never even a rinse, just repeat.
Not sure if it´s a mans thing or a cancer thing, but from my experience, the relationship, having one, creating one, is very much about the cancer itself: the cancer wants to be the one to *create* the we.

Well, this was very hard to put down. I´m sure it doesn´t make sense... Carry on 🙂
Cancers can't be dominated, we are a cardinal sign and a powerful one at that. Don't let the suit fool you, we will fight. We like to lead....
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One reason that Cancers love Scorpios in a relationship is because they can be dominating, not because Cancer is weak by any means, but Cancer does not like to be in control even though they can be. They like that Scorpio can dominate but in a subtle, non-flashy way, and that Scorpio can also be sensitive. Cancer also loves a mystery and they like someone who they can spend a lifetime getting to know, which is Scorpio. Both Cancer and Scorpio are highly intuitive and can almost know what the other is thinking and feeling without either saying a word, which both love. Those are just a few of my experiences anyway. It can be a temultuous relationship, though.

I'm a cancer sun/ cancer moon and I've dated a couple of Scorpios. I'm currently seeing a guy that is sun in Scorpio, moon in Pisces. These relationships are not always "pretty" and most people on the outside don't "get" it because they don't see what's going on beneath the surface between Cancer and Scorpio. But I'll also say as a Cancer I'm a great match with Leo, and I wish I could find a Scorpio with some Leo influences :p
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When I first came here, I read a lot of topics about cancer and scorpio. They always mentioned: battle of power or control.

In my experience this is true. Although there was never any real battle, it was more like:
cancer: I got this. Sit back, I know what I want, but I´m gonna take my time and do it the way I see fitt.
Scorpio: But I want this and for it to be done this way.
Cancer: ...gone....

And repeat repeat repeat repeat... Never even a rinse, just repeat.
Not sure if it´s a mans thing or a cancer thing, but from my experience, the relationship, having one, creating one, is very much about the cancer itself: the cancer wants to be the one to *create* the we.

Well, this was very hard to put down. I´m sure it doesn´t make sense... Carry on 🙂
Cancers can't be dominated, we are a cardinal sign and a powerful one at that. Don't let the suit fool you, we will fight. We like to lead....
Totally agree with you here. ALso based on the female cancers I know. They are way more in the lead than I have ever been or wanted to be relationship wise.
But as far as my own experience... I mean... He was a very very sweet guy when he wanted to be (and when he didn´t want to be, I kinda like him regardless what he does, and that´s not good), and he listens and takes care of others, but his own needs come first. I have been waiting around for him for almost 4 years in different ways, I had absolutely no power in our relations - I couldn´t even figure out, when being nice "worked" and when it didn´t. Only thing I could do to express myself was being a crazy bitch, to have some sort of influence on our relation. VERY strange for me. I think it´s difficult for a scorpio or maybe a scorpio/sag cusper like myself in particular to try and fit into someones elses life just like that. Felt like being an appendix. BUT in defense of all succesful cancer-scorpio relationships: my experience is based on two people, where the one wasn´t as interested as the other, it was a constant struggle, so not sure my experience really counts.
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Cancers want to mold you into whatever they want, that's the secret most people don't know about.

Once a cancer owns you emotionally, you have no power. It's like being a crack addict. I have seen people get into a ton of trouble with cancers. There are cancers who are going to be dicks and use their influence negatively, can't deny that. But not all of us are like that.
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^^ Seriously? But then cancer could just go after the a person with the weakest mind and then turn them into what they wants and desire. —

If you want to mold anyone, I think scorpios is a bad choice😄
Scorpio and cancer is very similar in our inner lives I believe though. We all walk around and think, that we got the 411 on everybody. Even each other. Not always the case though, and that can lead to serious trouble.
Where is the challenge in molding the weak?
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If the molding is unsuccesful, cancer back off? Won´t the cancer be bored, if they have someone, they have molded themselves?! Where is the surprise then? ´Cause cancer will never be plan themselves and will keep surprising and do, what they want, and that is how it should be, but it should go both ways.
As a cardinal sign, we have a tendency to move on. We are not going to dedicate the rest of our lives to one project, that's just not how we think.

There's a lot about cancer that people don't know anything about. I said before, don't let the suit fool you, we are pretty hardnosed screwers.
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^^ Seriously? But then cancer could just go after the a person with the weakest mind and then turn them into what they wants and desire. —

If you want to mold anyone, I think scorpios is a bad choice😄
Scorpio and cancer is very similar in our inner lives I believe though. We all walk around and think, that we got the 411 on everybody. Even each other. Not always the case though, and that can lead to serious trouble.
Where is the challenge in molding the weak?
Touché. Maybe this is the real attraction between scorpio and cancer then?!.. Exept for the sexual one, in my case that was through the roof! And despite everything that´s happened and that he will never be able to love me, I still think of the cancer as a great guy for the right woman, but also: he´s hot!!! Not in the conventional way. Just something about him.
And that´s also something, I believe scorpio is VERY attracted to and wish, we had ourselves (and some do) - the unconventional but yet extremely attractive vibe.

But damn... Cancer chose the strongest one and then try to bend them how they see fitt? These two signs are way more alike than I thought 😄
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We are just subtle about it, we come across as warm and cuddly so that helps.
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Posted by thinktoomuch
When I first came here, I read a lot of topics about cancer and scorpio. They always mentioned: battle of power or control.

In my experience this is true. Although there was never any real battle, it was more like:
cancer: I got this. Sit back, I know what I want, but I´m gonna take my time and do it the way I see fitt.
Scorpio: But I want this and for it to be done this way.
Cancer: ...gone....

And repeat repeat repeat repeat... Never even a rinse, just repeat.
Not sure if it´s a mans thing or a cancer thing, but from my experience, the relationship, having one, creating one, is very much about the cancer itself: the cancer wants to be the one to *create* the we.

Well, this was very hard to put down. I´m sure it doesn´t make sense... Carry on 🙂
It's not so much a battle for control it's two independent people coming together and realizing they both have positions to play.
You both can't be men. One of you has to be the woman.
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Scorpio likes to be nurtured.

When cancer does it, they let their guard down.

Plus cancer only has eyes for them which makes them less suspicious.
Sounds like co-dependency. A relationship that works only because one party feels less paranoid and the other gets an unhealthy obsession.
Don't ruin a good thing with psychobabble.

It's a close relationship that many won't get.
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Omg my aunt a cancer is dating a younger scorpio guy and he wont even let her have her own cell phone to use but he has one. He also doesnt work because she is jealous he could meet someone! I dont see it as a healthy relationship at all because he has totally taken advantage and she stupidly lets him!