Cancer man - Scorpio woman

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All of my relationships have been with Cancer men, most of the men eventually revealing later on that they were scared of how fast they fell for me & that's why they so quickly did the disappearing & delaying act... Any crabs/scorps that can relate?

Scorps - how'd u get those boys to behave?

Crabs - are we your fav connection like the astrologers say? Why run from what's so good? What's going on in your/their brain during that fear/falling?


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Scorps - how'd u get those boys to behave?


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Well... When I was single, I did attract a lot of cancer men but I wasn't a big fan of 95% of them. Too clingy and needy for me. But, I wasn't the type to put all in the same basket; I'm so glad of that because I ended up marrying one and it was the BEST decision I've ever made in my life.

We started as friends but he always felt some attraction of me (unknown to me at the time until my Cap friend made it clear to me).

He would always stand up when he would see me walking near the lunch tables in college so that I would stop and say hello or have lunch with them. He would always have me sit next to him and share his lunch with me.
I invited him to some of my dance performances and he would run to the front of the stage to take pictures (that's when my cap friend alerted me of his intentions but I just thought he was a really nice friend).
He'd call every week to hang out in group- related events and I would always decline bc I never went out during the week (only study). But I found it admirable how he was always consistent and it made me like hime even more.

Anyway after a couple of months of "friendship" I felt it was clear that he really liked me because his behavior confirmed it so one night after a party we fooled around.

A couple days after that he expressed to me that he was "confused". So when he said that, I told him "don't worry. No need to be confused because I don't want to be with anyone who is confused. You either know or you don't know. Let's not worry about this and let's just stay friends because we have a beautiful friendship". Not even a couple days later, we were at a party and I was with another guy (I don't waste my time). He was there and it made him boil.

A couple days after that, I was always kind to him but clear "just as friends". He took me aside. We left the group of friends and he took me to this dock at night (we claimed the fence) and we were there alone. There he told me that he was 100% he wanted to be with me and only me. (The wishy-washy only lasted max 5-7 days) never had this type of episode with him again.

We've been together ever since. 11yrs later we are married and still act like we are in our honeymoon stage. He adores me
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@infinite

yeah I've definitely learned its SUCHHHHH a waste of time & energy worrying about pulling away will he wont he drama with these men. They are psycho emo unlike most men but also unlike most men they HATE being alone & crave that relationship experience so just use their natural hardwired kryptonitre to my advantage lol....

Good for u i too hope to have happily ever after w/ my Cancer guy
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Scorpio women are too moody, never happy, you put on this act to hide your un-happiness but when you are with somebody you are close too it is all they see is you un-happiness. What you see is what you get doesn't work with Scorpio what you see isn't what you get when you first meet her.

Sorry Scorpio's are not really worth getting involved with they will drag you down into their misery they suffer from if you guys say you don't suffer from misery you are lying. I can do without that bull**** in my life.

I'm a Cancer with Taurus moon with Leo and Taurus in my chart I'm not a moody cancer I can have my periods but they don't last long. I march to the beat of my own drum I don't like clingy people I don't need people hanging around me, needy clingy people turn me off I need my solitude.

I find Scorpio woman grossly insecure its why they are such control freaks they may act tough but they are weak. They turn bitchy and miserable when their insecurities kick up. Insecure control freak women are such a turn off, a guy that is close to a Scorpio woman is walking on eggshells life is too short for that.

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Scorpio women are too moody, never happy, you put on this act to hide your un-happiness but when you are with somebody you are close too it is all they see is you un-happiness. What you see is what you get doesn't work with Scorpio what you see isn't what you get when you first meet her.

Sorry Scorpio's are not really worth getting involved with they will drag you down into their misery they suffer from if you guys say you don't suffer from misery you are lying. I can do without that bull**** in my life.

I'm a Cancer with Taurus moon with Leo and Taurus in my chart I'm not a moody cancer I can have my periods but they don't last long. I march to the beat of my own drum I don't like clingy people I don't need people hanging around me, needy clingy people turn me off I need my solitude.

I find Scorpio woman grossly insecure its why they are such control freaks they may act tough but they are weak. They turn bitchy and miserable when their insecurities kick up. Insecure control freak women are such a turn off, a guy that is close to a Scorpio woman is walking on eggshells life is too short for that.



LOL....For someone who is SO "happy" u sure do ALWAYS find time to type paragraphs upon paragraphs ranting ur misery on how awful Scorpio women are.

We're never happy? We hide our misery? lol....Maybe she wasn't happy only when with a hypocritical condescending for no reason bitch like u

Maybe what u perceive as "hiding their misery" is them doing what any strong GREAT considerate partner would do, occasionally putting their feelings to the side respecting the other person different way & speed of processing, even if it's UNDESERVED as ridiculous as u Cancer men are being emotionally retarded & tempure tantrum throwing like toddlers....But what would u "woe is me" ass niggas know about "consideration" as its all about u u u & victimizing yourself like a spoiled litte brat.

Scorpios aren't miserable...we have standards, self respect , self esteem and not about to be some grown ass man's second momma...you're so used to being babied by everyone else that you cowards don't possess self-awareness nor can handle criticism...and hearing u have MANY faults makes YOU miserable.

Miss us with the elementary transparent attempts of reverse psychology , guilt trips & PROJECTION...scorps RULE the psych, by trying to play us you're only
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I got some news yesterday that made me laugh and its making me rub my hands together I love it when a plan comes together she is going to realize never f*** with a Cancer man. I never want to hurt her she will always be a part of my life I doubt that will ever end. She will have a very very outspoken Taurus woman to contend with this Taurus woman I've known for years she doesn't take s*** from anybody. Her and I are friends she knows about the dirty pool the Scorpio played on me the Taurus girl will finish the revenge for me. I'm going to look like a sweet heart compared to the Taurus girl, ah too bad so sad for the Scorpio she had it pretty easy with me being friends and work along side each other.

The Scorpio girl is young she needs some life lessons she needs to learn you don't f*** with people especially ones that have supported and cared for her. She's got the nickname princess because she thinks she is one its time for a bit of an eye opener lol. My friends can't wait till she gets the eye opener they know the Taurus woman too she's tough as nails the superiors know about her too I think its why they want to put her in my old position. The superiors are most likely hoping the Scorpio will get forced out and leave.

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leos have egos, yes.
but they are more
flamboyant and regal
with theirs. cancers
try to tear others
down but in reality
make themselves look
miserable. it knows
its fragile in the
first place. and the
harder it tries to be
the more fragile it
appears. bad actors.
even worse liars.
smh


i've never known a really nasty cancer sun male or female in my entire life and i've known quite a handful in real life. I guess dxp has all kinds.
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Infinite, I absolutely love a good love story! Yours is beautiful, and I'm happy you found that.

Awww, thank you MA 🙂 that's the thing... What we have is very beautiful, and it makes me happy when others find the same.

You are hilarious with the cement and finding a lake!! Hahahahahaa 😄 I love creative women 😈
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It's how things should be in a healthy and loving relationship. The world needs more of that!

hehehe, well, if the lake doesn't work there's always a rocket to the sun.
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I have totalled it up what the Scorpio cost me for causing trouble at my ex employer it f***ing hurts to lose 5300 dollars yes that's how much her bull*** cost me in wages and time lost. I regained half of that back in severance pay so it doesn't hurt so f***ing bad. Even better I get my investments back from the company getting 40 grand back that makes me happy.

Where is the Scorpio? in the same place she started she thought getting rid of me would land her a higher position well that back fired on her. The managers seen what she is like they don't want her in my old job.

The sweetest revenge the people that work with her have turned against her I don't know the exact count but I would say its 30 employees or more. Every one of those employee's I had contact with they liked me and I liked them. My ex bosses put the Taurus woman in my position it will be the last piece of the revenge to drive the Scorpio out.

It will teach the Scorpio you don't f*** people over she has to learn that lesson never f*** with a Cancer man. She hates losing right now she has loser in neon lights across her forehead. Funny when a Scorpio stings itself it does a good job at it. She isn't a loser in my eyes her anger got in the way she lost control she started going stinger crazy. Out of the people she worked with I'm the only one she used her stinger on because of the feelings between us she brought me into her life. The others could have cared less about. Nobody really knew about her till what was happening between her and I went public at work.

What will really sting more for her is the new job that I will eventually be moving too I will be making more money than I made at my last job.

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Posted by TachiMichi
leos have egos, yes.
but they are more
flamboyant and regal
with theirs. cancers
try to tear others
down but in reality
make themselves look
miserable. it knows
its fragile in the
first place. and the
harder it tries to be
the more fragile it
appears. bad actors.
even worse liars.
smh


i've never known a really nasty cancer sun male or female in my entire life and i've known quite a handful in real life. I guess dxp has all kinds.


In real life I have of both sexes. The women were interestingly both cusp with Leo.

One cancer guy in particular was very verbally abusive to my libra best friend (they were going out). I nipped it in the bud and got aggressive with him and he liked it and turned into a puppy when he would be near me. Ridiculous! He likes abuse both giving and reveiving. He was disturbed...

Anyhoo... They exist and can do REAL damage.
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to be honest, i haven't really met many people in every sun sign that are "nasty". there have been in the past, but i wasn't ever close to them or knew them. I usually stay away from them.
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Posted by Stihl46
Scorpio women are too moody, never happy, you put on this act to hide your un-happiness but when you are with somebody you are close too it is all they see is you un-happiness. What you see is what you get doesn't work with Scorpio what you see isn't what you get when you first meet her.

Sorry Scorpio's are not really worth getting involved with they will drag you down into their misery they suffer from if you guys say you don't suffer from misery you are lying. I can do without that bull**** in my life.

I'm a Cancer with Taurus moon with Leo and Taurus in my chart I'm not a moody cancer I can have my periods but they don't last long. I march to the beat of my own drum I don't like clingy people I don't need people hanging around me, needy clingy people turn me off I need my solitude.

I find Scorpio woman grossly insecure its why they are such control freaks they may act tough but they are weak. They turn bitchy and miserable when their insecurities kick up. Insecure control freak women are such a turn off, a guy that is close to a Scorpio woman is walking on eggshells life is too short for that.