Female scorpio Male Taurus.. WTH!

Older scorpio female... was seeing younger taurus Male. I never wanted to involve myself with him... for one he was the friend of someone I used to date but the relationship ended bad because he disrespected me so BAD in public. For two he was married but i always sensed it wasnt a "traditional marriage" if you get my point. And for three i just was never attracted to him. It all began when he first contacted me to make sure i was okay after seeing his friend verbally abuse me in public. I kept it very platonic but i could tell he had other interests. He kept trying to get me to hang out with him explaining he was going threw a divorce and he just wanted to get out and about. I continued to turn him down for months. About 6 months Iater.. after not speaking to him for a few months i ended up moving away... out of nowhere he contacts on social media, and its ironic because o swear i dreamed of him not even 2 days prior. Anyway he DMs me asks how im doing and begins to confide in me about his failed marriage and how she cheated with the guy i used to date... blah blah blah... me feeling sympathetic i converse with him back and forth and before you know it were talking everyday... which quickly turns out to him visiting... i could feel things becoming a lil intense so i ask him his status of his divorce he reassures me hes separated and have filed for divorce moved out but i still felt like things shouldnt go further until its finale. I told him this he said he understood... but he did everything to whoa me! Very persistent! Charming, cooked, attentive, gentleman etc. The chemistry was off the charts! Eventually one thing lead to the other and we slept together. I felt like i needed to cut things off not because i didnt want to be with him it was just the timing was bad... so i told him we couldnt go there anymore. 

About a week later he ends up in the same club im in and we ended up being physical again... now im starting to catch feelings so i tell him again why we had to end things. He wasnt happy, said he would show me that he would do right by me... but i still felt like the situation was messy.. so i stopped talking to him for about 3 weeks... he kept commenting on posts on social media finally he texts and says basically i pissed him off by cutting him off and i threw a monkey wrench in the situation but i felt he wasnt fully available to me it was inconsistencies that started to come out. He would not be able to talk on the phone at certain times, could never stay the night, gave excuses about why he couldnt do these things.. these were all Red Flags that he wasnt being truthful. 

Like a dumby i saw him again.. but now his persistence had died off a lot, he wouldnt be as attentive, he wasnt really talking to me everyday.. when i asked why he said because i keep cutting things off.. but i told him i keep cuttings off because you dont seem 100 percent available. RED FLAGS. So this passed holiday he wanted to see me before i left for a trip. He came by and things got physical smh.. i knew better... he ended up leaving for his holiday trip the day i got back ... he was driving home (16hr) for the holidays... i was shocked and asked if he was driving alone he reassured me that he was and that hed be fine... i told him to call me if he needed... he said ok.. never heard from him... 

Couple days pass and i felt like he was being distant so i confronted him... he said he was just enjoying family and said he missed me... about two days later i got two new requests on my snap chat... i added them just out of curiosity. One ended up being his so called estranged "wife" soon to be divorced... her snapped revealed she was pregnant and on vacation with him! I text him cussed him out and told him never to contact me again. Taurus Men SMH he knew where i stood about not dating him in that situation. I feel used! Never again