@FUM
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How to get rid of a guy in 3 easy steps
Posted by geminicandle
Why are Scorpio guys kinda psycho?Answer honestly. Not only are you guys psycho but you make women into psychos too!
And BTW how do we turn women into psychos? Maybe we only hook up with women who were ALREADY psycho.
Have you considered that?
Ohhh!!! Is that what it is?
No, I was perfectly fine and sweet but scorpio brought the crazy out>.>
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For something to be "brought out" of you would mean it was already present inside. Just sayin'.
Posted by FUM
1) Tell him you ~ LOVE ~ him.2) Ask him to tell you EVERYDAY that he LOVES you.
3) Throw a jealousy tantrum by giving an ultimatum he cannot TALK to other women.
Please add to the list if you have any more ideas.
How about being a grown up and tell him you're not interested?
Posted by geminicandle
I mean isn't he engaged to another girl?Not to be all in your business but...😢
He has been telling me he may get married since last Nov, but he has never bought her a ring. He told me she wanted and needed to get married (she needs a green card and he knows it), and he is still considering it. Currently, it's 50% chance he will get married (according to what he told me). Anyways, it's a mess. Maybe she will try to get pregnant, so he will finally do it, we will see. She gave him a ultimatum and the deadline is this Dec. I kinda just want to see what will happen :p
Maybe she will extend the deadline? Maybe she will get pregnant (my Sag ex's gf got pregnant a few months ago and Sag is getting married in Aug, even though he told me he still doesn't think she's the one)? Maybe Leo will give in and marry her? Idk. sometimes I just hope he makes the final decision like now, so I can break free.
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If the 'OTHER' woman gets pregnant and manages to give birth in the USA'. she won't need Leo anymore. That's a green card without needing a guy.
Secondly, she IS the 'other' woman who interfered into your relation with him.
However, some would argue, if he didn't want to be taken, he would have stayed with you.
People make mistakes. He can correct it but he doesn't.
Kalin, you say so many things that I feel I'm just saying. It's as if we have parallel minds.
Posted by kalin
Not to be mean, but I think she is trying to get pregnant. Leo told me she always counted his condoms, so he threw them all away, and thus he is not using any protection anymore. But on the other hand, he told me he's not gonna be stupid enough to knock anyone up.--I think that was the dumbest thing I have ever heard. How could you know you won't get someone pregnant without any protection?? But I know I couldn't say anything, so I didn't.BTW, Sag's gf needs a green card too. Sag was the ex right before Leo.
I guess they can both get married this summer so I can get them off of my mind all together.
Interesting. I had a Sag before Leo. That's how I came to DXP for the first time in 2007. Over the years he maintained in touch with me until recently, when I not only turned him down but also left his email unanswered, which I never did before.
He just wants sex anyway. He kept saying he knows me for so long and therefore feels comfortable with me.
Just saying... another parallel.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Since when?:-?It is so easy for a capricorn to beat you. my god. it always made me feel a bit sad =/
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So you wanna go for a Capricorn?
She'll turn you vegan. Perhaps you are aware of that, Grey, and that is what makes you sad.
Posted by kalin
All of the above!! Fucking confused, dumb, And a dick!!I don't know what to tell you, I guess opposite attracts? And yes, it's a ego thing.
Just wanted to say the same, it's the ego thing.
Aries has that ego thing to, but he is not consistent. That's were Leo wins.
Posted by kalin
Yea, there's benefits. If he gives me enough hugs and kisses and makes me happy enough, he gets a head.It doesn't happen very often cause we spend most of the time fighting/being mad at each other/ignoring each other.
Ahhh Kalin, I was suspecting this much😢
So basically you have someone who is manipulating your emotions in order to get sexual benefits. He trades cheap words and sleazy hugs in order for you to perform nasty acts!Come on Kalin, can't you add 2+2 here. You are old enough. You are a Scorpio.
I kind want her to find out actually. An eye for an eye, so she'd know how I felt when she got in between us. Again, my ego talking. Yea, immature of me. Well, got to go. Made plans w my friends to go to a park. Thanks you though 🙂 nice to have someone pointing out everything that's not making sense 🙂
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Yeah... In this case, kalin, I'd create my own karma for her.
Also, I'd find a way she finds out.
Careful thereafter, not to have him make a decision between you and her.
It will rock the boat, but he won't get the opportunity to show off ego on two girls fighting for him.
Posted by geminicandle
I'd rather get pregnant by some Swiss guy than for USA green card.It'd be worth more! Hahahaha, j/k!!
LOL
Posted by geminicandle
Why not enjoy sex for sex sake? Are you looking to get married, FUM?
It's just sex. We don't communicate in between. He's a bit of a dickhead. He eventually wants to get married to someone. That was a plan for his 30th b-day. Today he is 35. So these guys who try to keep me secret, regardless how good the sex, it's like missing one of your limbs.
Posted by geminicandle
Lolll, trust me if he is into you, this might turn him on!!!What FUM is suggesting would probably make me want to marry the woman.
Just sayin...
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Coming back to original post, #3 is exaggerated on my behalf, but I compared my notes with other 2 guys who've been actively interested in their women. They both said they were seriously considering a relationship with the woman they were with. But the above 3 statements turned them cold to a point, they said -- it is not possible ever going back again.
Posted by starlover
1.. Tell him he is to never mention work, football or going down the pub with his mates ever again2.. He has to join a new age *share your feelings* group and attend once a week 😄
3.. He has to do all his own washing, cooking and housework and yours too
That should do it!
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All three points cracked me up.
I bet he wouldn't take these seriously and when time is due, say "I told you so day one!"
Posted by geminicandle
Lolll, trust me if he is into you, this might turn him on!!!What FUM is suggesting would probably make me want to marry the woman.
Just sayin...
Coming back to original post, #3 is exaggerated on my behalf, but I compared my notes with other 2 guys who've been actively interested in their women. They both said they were seriously considering a relationship with the woman they were with. But the above 3 statements turned them cold to a point, they said -- it is not possible ever going back again.
There are certainly some immature men out there.
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How would one know someone's maturity level when they are so intelligent and sound appearing?
2.. He has to join a new age *share your feelings* group and attend once a week 😄
This one!
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I swear, the Leo guy I know would do it. He is very in tune to girl power.
Posted by kalin
Extra point: hate all his friends and tell him he has to choose between you and the guys!! (That worked in the past w a sag)
Wow!
I think my daughter did this part to her sag bf. They divide his friends into 3 categories:
- the children
- the boys
- and one friend she approves of who also has a nice gf.
But I think my girl and sag bf are a bit on rocky terms lately. He is either working or with his friends.
Posted by starlover
I tell my son when he misbehaves that i will call the *mans' group* and put his name down to be a memberHe said he would rather die
lol
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lol
2.. He has to join a new age *share your feelings* group and attend once a week 😄
This one!
I swear, the Leo guy I know would do it. He is very in tune to girl power.
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He has 5 daughters. All Virgos except last daughter. Plus wife. Surrounded by 6 females.
I said, wait until they all get their periods. You will go for deal hunting on women's apparel.
He seemed amused.
Posted by Nemesis
why not just a simple -"i don't love you (anymore). i want a break up"
"i'm leaving you"
"this is not what i want/expected - i wish you all the best, goodbye"
"i need to return some videotapes"..............
I think I like the last one. Going to return some video tapes but never coming back.
If you tell him you are ending, usually ends up with too much drama.
I already tried the being brutally honest. It turns out his ego gets hurt. Then the repeated "Have a happy life" episodes start. You said this, I said that. You end up talking things out so each side is clear and no hard feelings. Then you get this phone call on how much he misses you and is ona verge of crying. You feel his pain. And right there you become prone in giving in.
Being honest extends intentions.
Too much to bear.
I prefer putting myself on a plate so he can't handle me. I give him the feel that he was the one leaving me.
Posted by starlover
Tell him you have arranged a threesome with an all in wrestler and you want to watch 😄
Do you mean guy on guy when he is heterosexual and for me to watch? Lol
Brilliant idea!
Posted by Neurotoxin
That's torture.
Would be even torture for me. I'm sure it would be wonderful being blessed with many children, not so much if you are considered step mom and reason for their dad leaving mom in their minds.
Ugh.. (I'm getting goosebumps)
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1) Tell him you ~ LOVE ~ him.
2) Ask him to tell you EVERYDAY that he LOVES you.
3) Throw a jealousy tantrum by giving an ultimatum he cannot TALK to other women.
Please add to the list if you have any more ideas.