I don’t get it (Page 2)

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Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?

Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂

Naahhhhh that's boring, Scorpios don't want that shit we want you to need all of us or none of us.

I have a Pisces telling me to move on

And I have a Scorpio telling me I should give him 100%

🤯

(My brain just exploded)

😩😭

Is this thread about a Pisces I didn't get that memo? 🤨

If you like a Scorpio and they sending you love songs then you bite down hard.

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There’s something that has stopped me from telling him I like him.

I have spoken to Neno about it and also posted a comment here too.

He requested to have an online chat, video call...3 times (it was never my idea). He never showed up. Third time , I was upset but I was polite and asked what happened and he said he had forgotten.

He sent me many texts apologizing. To make the long story short, we didn’t speak for a month...and now we are back in contact and he’s serenading me.

So this is pretty much the reason why I made this post. I am confused and afraid that he’s playing me.

Is this supposed to be a Scorpio test?

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Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?

Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂

So what have you got to lose if you make the first move? Like ask him to go for a walk while having an ice cream or a coffee or something.

If you put yourself out there, then he knows, even if he's not ready now, the ball is in his court.

If he declines, then you can say: "Well at least we can still be friends. That works for me."

True

Problem is that is coronavirus season.

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You can walk and talk while keeping a safe distance.

Invite him for an online date, while you each have drinks. I did this before Covid with a single mom I met online where it was difficult to see each other because she had limited time and we lived a couple of hours apart. She really appreciated the gesture. She was a Scorpio and in another timeline things would have worked out.

Yeah, I’ve tried that. In fact, he came up with the idea to hang out online. I waited ...He never showed up - 3 times .

Third time i asked him what was up and he apologized many times.

I left it at that. Now he sends me poems and he serenades me.

I still like him but I guess this is one of the reasons that stops me from moving forward.

What would you have done if he stood you up at a restaurant? Without a good excuse, he's out.

If you give him a break with the online dates, then that's 3 strikes...he's out! Repeat that. He left you waiting 3 times. For all you know he could have been talking to other women>

Find a guy who's going to value your time. Seriously. He hasn't earned anything and here you are thinking about him.

I won’t argue with you on that. I agree with you 100% and won’t make excuses for anyone.

There’s more to this story and I wish I had the time an energy to write about it - from the beginning (3 years).

Maybe one day.

well...you can make your own decisions.

but, regardless of what someone is going through, he/she needs to respect you at all times...doesn't sound like he's ready for a relationship...I know it's corona time, but...if you're waiting for someone who's not ready, then you're not spending time on yourself and/or finding someone who is ready.

I appreciate your comment 🙂and it’s something i have thought about for 3 years...

3 years is long time.

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Yeah, there’s a lot more ....

3 times is a lot.

I don't care what sign someone is.

If I liked a woman, and missed two dates, and she still gave me another chance, there's no way I'm forgetting/sleeping/etc.

I'm sorry but one of my biggest gifts is that I see the good in people. It is also one of my weaknesses. I won't change me.

But, when I've really liked a woman, I've given her too many chances, and looking back have seen the fault in it. People treat you how you let them treat you.

If I absolutely cannot miss a date I'm setting alarms, asking my buddy to remind me, etc... Sure he apologized but left you waiting 3 times. That's terrible.

I'm sorry but if I was telling this forum that a girl stood me up three times, they'd be saying: Poor Pisces, why are you giving her so many chances. That's one needy man.

Don't deny it people.

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Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?

Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂

Naahhhhh that's boring, Scorpios don't want that shit we want you to need all of us or none of us.

I have a Pisces telling me to move on

And I have a Scorpio telling me I should give him 100%

🤯

(My brain just exploded)

😩😭

Is this thread about a Pisces I didn't get that memo? 🤨

If you like a Scorpio and they sending you love songs then you bite down hard.

There’s something that has stopped me from telling him I like him.

I have spoken to Neno about it and also posted a comment here too.

He requested to have an online chat, video call...3 times (it was never my idea). He never showed up. Third time , I was upset but I was polite and asked what happened and he said he had forgotten.

He sent me many texts apologizing. To make the long story short, we didn’t speak for a month...and now we are back in contact and he’s serenading me.

So this is pretty much the reason why I made this post. I am confused and afraid that he’s playing me.

Is this supposed to be a Scorpio test?

Why don't you have an actual date? Are you long distance?

Meh, if you're all anxious about it then it ain't worth it. Lol ima eat humble pie, the Pisces might be right....life's to short for anything that gives you anxiety.

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We live in the same city. We used to see each other here and there and have conversations - no dates.

He asked me to have coffee (a date?) two years ago but we never really went out on a date - alone.

Anyhow, I think after 3 years, this might go nowhere.

I remember once I posted a link to a song on social media, “letter to Elise” by the cure.

A few days later , he posted the link as well ...Don’t know why.

I might just let it be.

thank you, btw.

You're not sure if he's dating anyone and he has all of these women on his FB.

Sounds like he's giving you breadcrumbs.

To me you have 4 choices:

1. Keep this cat and mouse game going. (Don't pick this one - but this is where you're headed without action, so you really have 3 choices)

2. Cut him loose. Don't ghost him but simply tell him you don't see this working.

3. Tell him you just want to be friends.

4. Put it all out on the table. Your butter. His butter. See what happens. Tell him you like him and you understand that you've been hesitant, inconsistent, etc. in the past.

I have a feeling that he knows you're interested in him and whatever he's done in the past you have maintained your interest. But if you're not sure, go with option 4 (which is really option 3 since we're not letting you go with option 1). If you put it all on the table then you'll at least get your answer. He'll either step up to "meet" you or he won't. But then you'll be able to move on. 3 years is way too long and you deserve answers and closure. The closure could be that you and him start dating ya know.

P.S. My gut tells me he's flaky and he's more interested in the fact that you're interested in him and like all the stuff he's into and all that. He might be interested in you but he's more interested in keeping your attention. You deserve better. The time for action is now.

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Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?

Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂

Naahhhhh that's boring, Scorpios don't want that shit we want you to need all of us or none of us.

I have a Pisces telling me to move on

And I have a Scorpio telling me I should give him 100%

🤯

(My brain just exploded)

😩😭

Is this thread about a Pisces I didn't get that memo? 🤨

If you like a Scorpio and they sending you love songs then you bite down hard.

There’s something that has stopped me from telling him I like him.

I have spoken to Neno about it and also posted a comment here too.

He requested to have an online chat, video call...3 times (it was never my idea). He never showed up. Third time , I was upset but I was polite and asked what happened and he said he had forgotten.

He sent me many texts apologizing. To make the long story short, we didn’t speak for a month...and now we are back in contact and he’s serenading me.

So this is pretty much the reason why I made this post. I am confused and afraid that he’s playing me.

Is this supposed to be a Scorpio test?

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He “forgot” you, three times...isn’t that enough to show where a person is coming from and three years of your life......really? 🥴

Posted by Piscis_Hominis

You're not sure if he's dating anyone and he has all of these women on his FB.

Sounds like he's giving you breadcrumbs.

To me you have 4 choices:

1. Keep this cat and mouse game going. (Don't pick this one - but this is where you're headed without action, so you really have 3 choices)

2. Cut him loose. Don't ghost him but simply tell him you don't see this working.

3. Tell him you just want to be friends.

4. Put it all out on the table. Your butter. His butter. See what happens. Tell him you like him and you understand that you've been hesitant, inconsistent, etc. in the past.

I have a feeling that he knows you're interested in him and whatever he's done in the past you have maintained your interest. But if you're not sure, go with option 4 (which is really option 3 since we're not letting you go with option 1). If you put it all on the table then you'll at least get your answer. He'll either step up to "meet" you or he won't. But then you'll be able to move on. 3 years is way too long and you deserve answers and closure. The closure could be that you and him start dating ya know.

P.S. My gut tells me he's flaky and he's more interested in the fact that you're interested in him and like all the stuff he's into and all that. He might be interested in you but he's more interested in keeping your attention. You deserve better. The time for action is now.

Thank you for your comment.

To be honest with you, I don’t even have the energy to speak to him about all of this.

I have thought about it many times...where would I start? I don’t like confrontation and I just rather let it be. I am always open if he ever wants to talk.

Deep inside though, I know he wants me to say something (Pisces intuition).

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Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?

Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂

Naahhhhh that's boring, Scorpios don't want that shit we want you to need all of us or none of us.

I have a Pisces telling me to move on

And I have a Scorpio telling me I should give him 100%

🤯

(My brain just exploded)

😩😭

Is this thread about a Pisces I didn't get that memo? 🤨

If you like a Scorpio and they sending you love songs then you bite down hard.

There’s something that has stopped me from telling him I like him.

I have spoken to Neno about it and also posted a comment here too.

He requested to have an online chat, video call...3 times (it was never my idea). He never showed up. Third time , I was upset but I was polite and asked what happened and he said he had forgotten.

He sent me many texts apologizing. To make the long story short, we didn’t speak for a month...and now we are back in contact and he’s serenading me.

So this is pretty much the reason why I made this post. I am confused and afraid that he’s playing me.

Is this supposed to be a Scorpio test?

He “forgot” you, three times...isn’t that enough to show where a person is coming from and three years of your life......really? 🥴

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I could write a book about this ordeal. There’s a lot more to this story. This is just recent stuff. And we are not even dating.

But it’s rather long.

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Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?

Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂

Naahhhhh that's boring, Scorpios don't want that shit we want you to need all of us or none of us.

I have a Pisces telling me to move on

And I have a Scorpio telling me I should give him 100%

🤯

(My brain just exploded)

😩😭

Is this thread about a Pisces I didn't get that memo? 🤨

If you like a Scorpio and they sending you love songs then you bite down hard.

There’s something that has stopped me from telling him I like him.

I have spoken to Neno about it and also posted a comment here too.

He requested to have an online chat, video call...3 times (it was never my idea). He never showed up. Third time , I was upset but I was polite and asked what happened and he said he had forgotten.

He sent me many texts apologizing. To make the long story short, we didn’t speak for a month...and now we are back in contact and he’s serenading me.

So this is pretty much the reason why I made this post. I am confused and afraid that he’s playing me.

Is this supposed to be a Scorpio test?

He “forgot” you, three times...isn’t that enough to show where a person is coming from and three years of your life......really? 🥴

I could write a book about this ordeal. There’s a lot more to this story. This is just recent stuff. And we are not even dating.

But it’s rather long.

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I really wouldn’t waste your precious time and attention on this guy.....

Why are you? 🥴

You need to end this. You are still waiting for him to come around. You just said if he talks to you then you'll listen to him. That's OK if you can terminate your feelings and just be friends.

You came to this forum for answers. The choice is yours most definitely.

But...you're using up all this energy just hanging around...it's exhausting for you.

If you had closure you could focus on yourself and finding another guy. You're missing out on other opportunities, pandemic or no pandemic. 3 YEARS OF YOUR LIFE!

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Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?

Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂

Naahhhhh that's boring, Scorpios don't want that shit we want you to need all of us or none of us.

I have a Pisces telling me to move on

And I have a Scorpio telling me I should give him 100%

🤯

(My brain just exploded)

😩😭

Is this thread about a Pisces I didn't get that memo? 🤨

If you like a Scorpio and they sending you love songs then you bite down hard.

There’s something that has stopped me from telling him I like him.

I have spoken to Neno about it and also posted a comment here too.

He requested to have an online chat, video call...3 times (it was never my idea). He never showed up. Third time , I was upset but I was polite and asked what happened and he said he had forgotten.

He sent me many texts apologizing. To make the long story short, we didn’t speak for a month...and now we are back in contact and he’s serenading me.

So this is pretty much the reason why I made this post. I am confused and afraid that he’s playing me.

Is this supposed to be a Scorpio test?

He “forgot” you, three times...isn’t that enough to show where a person is coming from and three years of your life......really? 🥴

I could write a book about this ordeal. There’s a lot more to this story. This is just recent stuff. And we are not even dating.

But it’s rather long.

I really wouldn’t waste your precious time and attention on this guy.....

Why are you? 🥴

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You are right.

I was moving on last year and then *boom*. He’s back again.

The good thing is that we are not dating, we never kissed and never slept together so it’s going to be a lot easier to forget him.

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You need to end this. You are still waiting for him to come around. You just said if he talks to you then you'll listen to him. That's OK if you can terminate your feelings and just be friends.

You came to this forum for answers. The choice is yours most definitely.

But...you're using up all this energy just hanging around...it's exhausting for you.

If you had closure you could focus on yourself and finding another guy. You're missing out on other opportunities, pandemic or no pandemic. 3 YEARS OF YOUR LIFE!

I started opening up the past few months about this whole situation.

rarely speak to friends about him until the end of last year / early this year when it got intense.

I came here to understand people, I guess. And to play Mafia 😆

But I am always willing to listen to his side if he ever wants to talk and it’s will be just out of politeness. Once I detach , it’s over.

I am glad I was able to speak to everyone who commented. Some times a good smack in the face is all we need to wake up . 🙂

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Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?

Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂

Naahhhhh that's boring, Scorpios don't want that shit we want you to need all of us or none of us.

I have a Pisces telling me to move on

And I have a Scorpio telling me I should give him 100%

🤯

(My brain just exploded)

😩😭

Is this thread about a Pisces I didn't get that memo? 🤨

If you like a Scorpio and they sending you love songs then you bite down hard.

There’s something that has stopped me from telling him I like him.

I have spoken to Neno about it and also posted a comment here too.

He requested to have an online chat, video call...3 times (it was never my idea). He never showed up. Third time , I was upset but I was polite and asked what happened and he said he had forgotten.

He sent me many texts apologizing. To make the long story short, we didn’t speak for a month...and now we are back in contact and he’s serenading me.

So this is pretty much the reason why I made this post. I am confused and afraid that he’s playing me.

Is this supposed to be a Scorpio test?

He “forgot” you, three times...isn’t that enough to show where a person is coming from and three years of your life......really? 🥴

I could write a book about this ordeal. There’s a lot more to this story. This is just recent stuff. And we are not even dating.

But it’s rather long.

I really wouldn’t waste your precious time and attention on this guy.....

Why are you? 🥴

You are right.

I was moving on last year and then *boom*. He’s back again.

The good thing is that we are not dating, we never kissed and never slept together so it’s going to be a lot easier to forget him.

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That's good to hear

New day and new start

Light a candle and let him out of your life

💚

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Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?

Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂

Naahhhhh that's boring, Scorpios don't want that shit we want you to need all of us or none of us.

I have a Pisces telling me to move on

And I have a Scorpio telling me I should give him 100%

🤯

(My brain just exploded)

😩😭

Is this thread about a Pisces I didn't get that memo? 🤨

If you like a Scorpio and they sending you love songs then you bite down hard.

There’s something that has stopped me from telling him I like him.

I have spoken to Neno about it and also posted a comment here too.

He requested to have an online chat, video call...3 times (it was never my idea). He never showed up. Third time , I was upset but I was polite and asked what happened and he said he had forgotten.

He sent me many texts apologizing. To make the long story short, we didn’t speak for a month...and now we are back in contact and he’s serenading me.

So this is pretty much the reason why I made this post. I am confused and afraid that he’s playing me.

Is this supposed to be a Scorpio test?

He “forgot” you, three times...isn’t that enough to show where a person is coming from and three years of your life......really? 🥴

I could write a book about this ordeal. There’s a lot more to this story. This is just recent stuff. And we are not even dating.

But it’s rather long.

I really wouldn’t waste your precious time and attention on this guy.....

Why are you? 🥴

You are right.

I was moving on last year and then *boom*. He’s back again.

The good thing is that we are not dating, we never kissed and never slept together so it’s going to be a lot easier to forget him.

That's good to hear

New day and new start

Light a candle and let him out of your life

💚

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🙂

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He likes you and wants you to make a move.

I’m this close to tell him I like him but the I start analyzing everything , I freak out and hide under a rock.

I try to wait for the right time but I can’t seem to find the right time.

If we didn’t have this coronavirus distancing issue, I’d advise you to just show him how you feel on a physical level.

Just body language and light touches can say so much without having to say the words. You also quickly see if he is responsive or not.

This is much harder to do from a distance, unfortunately 😒.

I’ve hugged him in the past and he once gave me a kiss on the cheek.

And then I froze.

the problem here is me. I recognize it. I’ve been hurt in the past and I’m afraid to get hurt again so I hide my feelings from him and I know he gets frustrated so he backs away but then he comes back with light touches...

I haven’t seen him since February so it makes it more difficult to reveal my feelings when it’s not face to face...:

Or trying to read between the lines (texts, poems and songs).

What is your sun sign?

Yeah... you will have to work on your fear and past hurts (that seem to be unrelated to him) because since you’ve now reveled that you are conflicted, I’m sure he has sensed/ picked up on that too. This is probably why he is not more clear with you. He doesn’t want to scare you off.

So, work on yourself... and that will improve your situation with him.

Aries

I am aware this combination (Scorpio / Aries)

might not work. This has been going on for 3 years , btw.

will try to move forward and be more confident about the situation.

I can’t really say much about Aries / Scorpio combo because I’ve never been in a committed relationship with one, before. But, I know we attract each other like moths to a flame on friendship and physical level. My longest and closest friendships have been with Aries males and females through my whole life.

I do know couples with this combo and one of them seem like absolute best friends that have sex, day in and day out... just very close and passionate couple - never seen them fight or disagree, seem to always be passionately opinionated BUT on same page. So it’s like it’s them against the world.

The other couple, I sense that the wife isn’t too happy - she tries hard to please her husband but he is more reactive and gets upset at her a lot.

There must be something huge blocking both of you and I still feel that you need to look into those “blocks” because both Aries and Scorpio are signs that don’t shy away from going for what they want. So... it’s a bit of a red flag to see it lagging for so long without a direct move or indication of interest coming from either party.

Maybe communication between you two is foggy and you aren’t giving each other the right signals to move forward?

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You are right. Looking back, I have noticed I’ve had several Scorpio friends (male and female) and we used to get a long so well but I’ve lost track of them through time. I moved to another country, etc etc.

this is the first time I’ve considered something romantic with the Scorpio sign.

I believe that there’s a language barrier between him and I (he’s not very fluent in English). Also, the cultural aspect when it comes to joking around, etc. he’s incredibly sarcastic and direct. I have a dark humor but I only bring it out with close friends.

If I try to be funny with him, he doesn’t understand my jokes and gets a bit serious.

I also believe he has other women on the side (since he flaked on me 3 times ) so I won’t compete with that. I move on when I notice people are not serious.

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He likes you and wants you to make a move.

I’m this close to tell him I like him but the I start analyzing everything , I freak out and hide under a rock.

I try to wait for the right time but I can’t seem to find the right time.

If we didn’t have this coronavirus distancing issue, I’d advise you to just show him how you feel on a physical level.

Just body language and light touches can say so much without having to say the words. You also quickly see if he is responsive or not.

This is much harder to do from a distance, unfortunately 😒.

I’ve hugged him in the past and he once gave me a kiss on the cheek.

And then I froze.

the problem here is me. I recognize it. I’ve been hurt in the past and I’m afraid to get hurt again so I hide my feelings from him and I know he gets frustrated so he backs away but then he comes back with light touches...

I haven’t seen him since February so it makes it more difficult to reveal my feelings when it’s not face to face...:

Or trying to read between the lines (texts, poems and songs).

What is your sun sign?

Yeah... you will have to work on your fear and past hurts (that seem to be unrelated to him) because since you’ve now reveled that you are conflicted, I’m sure he has sensed/ picked up on that too. This is probably why he is not more clear with you. He doesn’t want to scare you off.

So, work on yourself... and that will improve your situation with him.

Aries

I am aware this combination (Scorpio / Aries)

might not work. This has been going on for 3 years , btw.

will try to move forward and be more confident about the situation.

I can’t really say much about Aries / Scorpio combo because I’ve never been in a committed relationship with one, before. But, I know we attract each other like moths to a flame on friendship and physical level. My longest and closest friendships have been with Aries males and females through my whole life.

I do know couples with this combo and one of them seem like absolute best friends that have sex, day in and day out... just very close and passionate couple - never seen them fight or disagree, seem to always be passionately opinionated BUT on same page. So it’s like it’s them against the world.

The other couple, I sense that the wife isn’t too happy - she tries hard to please her husband but he is more reactive and gets upset at her a lot.

There must be something huge blocking both of you and I still feel that you need to look into those “blocks” because both Aries and Scorpio are signs that don’t shy away from going for what they want. So... it’s a bit of a red flag to see it lagging for so long without a direct move or indication of interest coming from either party.

Maybe communication between you two is foggy and you aren’t giving each other the right signals to move forward?

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Forgot to add that perhaps my mercury in Pisces might also make my communication a bit hard for him to understand.

I am quiet. I don’t express much and i don’t communicate my thoughts easily like other people.

Our texts are simple or I try to make it simple...if I say too much, I tend to regret it. So it’s polite, short and precise.

Same as in person. I listen but I don’t say much.

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He likes you and wants you to make a move.

I’m this close to tell him I like him but the I start analyzing everything , I freak out and hide under a rock.

I try to wait for the right time but I can’t seem to find the right time.

If we didn’t have this coronavirus distancing issue, I’d advise you to just show him how you feel on a physical level.

Just body language and light touches can say so much without having to say the words. You also quickly see if he is responsive or not.

This is much harder to do from a distance, unfortunately 😒.

I’ve hugged him in the past and he once gave me a kiss on the cheek.

And then I froze.

the problem here is me. I recognize it. I’ve been hurt in the past and I’m afraid to get hurt again so I hide my feelings from him and I know he gets frustrated so he backs away but then he comes back with light touches...

I haven’t seen him since February so it makes it more difficult to reveal my feelings when it’s not face to face...:

Or trying to read between the lines (texts, poems and songs).

What is your sun sign?

Yeah... you will have to work on your fear and past hurts (that seem to be unrelated to him) because since you’ve now reveled that you are conflicted, I’m sure he has sensed/ picked up on that too. This is probably why he is not more clear with you. He doesn’t want to scare you off.

So, work on yourself... and that will improve your situation with him.

Aries

I am aware this combination (Scorpio / Aries)

might not work. This has been going on for 3 years , btw.

will try to move forward and be more confident about the situation.

I can’t really say much about Aries / Scorpio combo because I’ve never been in a committed relationship with one, before. But, I know we attract each other like moths to a flame on friendship and physical level. My longest and closest friendships have been with Aries males and females through my whole life.

I do know couples with this combo and one of them seem like absolute best friends that have sex, day in and day out... just very close and passionate couple - never seen them fight or disagree, seem to always be passionately opinionated BUT on same page. So it’s like it’s them against the world.

The other couple, I sense that the wife isn’t too happy - she tries hard to please her husband but he is more reactive and gets upset at her a lot.

There must be something huge blocking both of you and I still feel that you need to look into those “blocks” because both Aries and Scorpio are signs that don’t shy away from going for what they want. So... it’s a bit of a red flag to see it lagging for so long without a direct move or indication of interest coming from either party.

Maybe communication between you two is foggy and you aren’t giving each other the right signals to move forward?

Forgot to add that perhaps my mercury in Pisces might also make my communication a bit hard for him to understand.

I am quiet. I don’t express much and i don’t communicate my thoughts easily like other people.

Our texts are simple or I try to make it simple...if I say too much, I tend to regret it. So it’s polite, short and precise.

Same as in person. I listen but I don’t say much.

Hmmm... I actually think the opposite. You having Pisces energy is a PLUS. We Scorpios like a little mystery... and we tend to like / be attracted to people that are serious, quiet and a bit of a mystery.... it becomes more enticing when we get close and we see that there is more to the person than the first face. Like a secret bond between the two of you.

Honestly, Scorpios like to dig and even the shy ones are active at pursuing. If you don’t feel comfortable opening up, don’t. Only do it when your heart honestly desires it... try not to over-think that.

I’m not sure why he flaked on you three times. I think it’s great that you are asking here and not making any moves with him. Allow him to continue sending you music and see if it becomes more clear in the future.

For now, don’t take him too seriously and enjoy his music on a distant level, if possible.

What is it that makes you like him? Do you think your attraction to him is getting stronger? Or just something that was lightly there?

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We live in the same state / city. The only problem is that he doesn’t know English very well. We tend to communicate a little better when we are in person since we can see each other’s reaction when we speak. We talk a lot and exchange ideas in different subject matters.

I still don’t know why he flaked 3 times. He’s not like that. I’ve known him for 3 years so all I can think is that maybe there’s someone else that has captured his attention. I won’t get in the middle but I also don’t like the fact he’s encouraging me to make a move/fall for him. I am not a side chick and recently I have distant myself a lot from him the past few weeks due to this behavior. Sometimes I wonder if he’s doing this intentionally in order to see a reaction from me? Maybe finally snap and tell him “I like you!”?

Our attraction began the same day we met but I didn’t pursue anything because I didn’t think more of it. It was just that moment we first met.

Then he slowly started to send me texts here and there, photos...he also made it known that he was checking out my social media by making small comments about my hobbies or photos.

He teased me a lot, in a good way and would be very attentive.

Maybe he got tired of waiting.

He knows I like him very much but I don’t know his intentions since his social media is full of beautiful women.

Sometimes I want to send him a message so we can talk but I stop myself after thinking about so many things and realizing that it might be a waste of time telling him how I feel ...and I will end up looking like a complete fool if he rejects me.



So, I act aloof.

😞

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He likes you and wants you to make a move.

I’m this close to tell him I like him but the I start analyzing everything , I freak out and hide under a rock.

I try to wait for the right time but I can’t seem to find the right time.

If we didn’t have this coronavirus distancing issue, I’d advise you to just show him how you feel on a physical level.

Just body language and light touches can say so much without having to say the words. You also quickly see if he is responsive or not.

This is much harder to do from a distance, unfortunately 😒.

I’ve hugged him in the past and he once gave me a kiss on the cheek.

And then I froze.

the problem here is me. I recognize it. I’ve been hurt in the past and I’m afraid to get hurt again so I hide my feelings from him and I know he gets frustrated so he backs away but then he comes back with light touches...

I haven’t seen him since February so it makes it more difficult to reveal my feelings when it’s not face to face...:

Or trying to read between the lines (texts, poems and songs).

What is your sun sign?

Yeah... you will have to work on your fear and past hurts (that seem to be unrelated to him) because since you’ve now reveled that you are conflicted, I’m sure he has sensed/ picked up on that too. This is probably why he is not more clear with you. He doesn’t want to scare you off.

So, work on yourself... and that will improve your situation with him.

Aries

I am aware this combination (Scorpio / Aries)

might not work. This has been going on for 3 years , btw.

will try to move forward and be more confident about the situation.

I can’t really say much about Aries / Scorpio combo because I’ve never been in a committed relationship with one, before. But, I know we attract each other like moths to a flame on friendship and physical level. My longest and closest friendships have been with Aries males and females through my whole life.

I do know couples with this combo and one of them seem like absolute best friends that have sex, day in and day out... just very close and passionate couple - never seen them fight or disagree, seem to always be passionately opinionated BUT on same page. So it’s like it’s them against the world.

The other couple, I sense that the wife isn’t too happy - she tries hard to please her husband but he is more reactive and gets upset at her a lot.

There must be something huge blocking both of you and I still feel that you need to look into those “blocks” because both Aries and Scorpio are signs that don’t shy away from going for what they want. So... it’s a bit of a red flag to see it lagging for so long without a direct move or indication of interest coming from either party.

Maybe communication between you two is foggy and you aren’t giving each other the right signals to move forward?

Forgot to add that perhaps my mercury in Pisces might also make my communication a bit hard for him to understand.

I am quiet. I don’t express much and i don’t communicate my thoughts easily like other people.

Our texts are simple or I try to make it simple...if I say too much, I tend to regret it. So it’s polite, short and precise.

Same as in person. I listen but I don’t say much.

Hmmm... I actually think the opposite. You having Pisces energy is a PLUS. We Scorpios like a little mystery... and we tend to like / be attracted to people that are serious, quiet and a bit of a mystery.... it becomes more enticing when we get close and we see that there is more to the person than the first face. Like a secret bond between the two of you.

Honestly, Scorpios like to dig and even the shy ones are active at pursuing. If you don’t feel comfortable opening up, don’t. Only do it when your heart honestly desires it... try not to over-think that.

I’m not sure why he flaked on you three times. I think it’s great that you are asking here and not making any moves with him. Allow him to continue sending you music and see if it becomes more clear in the future.

For now, don’t take him too seriously and enjoy his music on a distant level, if possible.

What is it that makes you like him? Do you think your attraction to him is getting stronger? Or just something that was lightly there?

We live in the same state / city. The only problem is that he doesn’t know English very well. We tend to communicate a little better when we are in person since we can see each other’s reaction when we speak. We talk a lot and exchange ideas in different subject matters.

I still don’t know why he flaked 3 times. He’s not like that. I’ve known him for 3 years so all I can think is that maybe there’s someone else that has captured his attention. I won’t get in the middle but I also don’t like the fact he’s encouraging me to make a move/fall for him. I am not a side chick and recently I have distant myself a lot from him the past few weeks due to this behavior. Sometimes I wonder if he’s doing this intentionally in order to see a reaction from me? Maybe finally snap and tell him “I like you!”?

Our attraction began the same day we met but I didn’t pursue anything because I didn’t think more of it. It was just that moment we first met.

Then he slowly started to send me texts here and there, photos...he also made it known that he was checking out my social media by making small comments about my hobbies or photos.

He teased me a lot, in a good way and would be very attentive.

Maybe he got tired of waiting.

He knows I like him very much but I don’t know his intentions since his social media is full of beautiful women.

Sometimes I want to send him a message so we can talk but I stop myself after thinking about so many things and realizing that it might be a waste of time telling him how I feel ...and I will end up looking like a complete fool if he rejects me.



So, I act aloof.

😞

How is it that he knows you like him a lot?

How did you guys meet? And how often would you two hang out?

Do you know him well enough to know about his character? Just wondering why you are coming to the conclusion that he is playing you or playing with your emotions. Is there something in him that makes you think he is a player?

The girls on social media... don’t let it get to you. Remember, if nothing is concrete with any of them, he might just be flirting with all... but, behavior might be completely different once he is committed (or not. Depends on his character).

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I might not say much and act distant but I believe that actions speak louder than words.

Scorpios are good at reading people, so I know he knows I like him very much(remembering birthdays, gifts , asking about his family, etc - I never do this with other people).

He asked me once how I remembered his birthday and I said that I’m good at remember numbers / dates (stupid thing to say). I think he knew then...

You are right about not worrying about other girls but my insecurities (as a human being) tend to take over. I analyze things too much.

The reason why I came with the conclusion why he might have someone else is the fact he flaked 3 times (he has never done that. He usually sends a message an hour before or a few days in advance letting me know he can’t hang out and i am cool with that) . I never suggested to chat or to meet up. It was his idea so I am baffled. PLUS a few days later he sends me a story (about a sad woman finding happiness with a man by coincidence ) and the song he serenaded me last week.

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He likes you and wants you to make a move.

I’m this close to tell him I like him but the I start analyzing everything , I freak out and hide under a rock.

I try to wait for the right time but I can’t seem to find the right time.

If we didn’t have this coronavirus distancing issue, I’d advise you to just show him how you feel on a physical level.

Just body language and light touches can say so much without having to say the words. You also quickly see if he is responsive or not.

This is much harder to do from a distance, unfortunately 😒.

I’ve hugged him in the past and he once gave me a kiss on the cheek.

And then I froze.

the problem here is me. I recognize it. I’ve been hurt in the past and I’m afraid to get hurt again so I hide my feelings from him and I know he gets frustrated so he backs away but then he comes back with light touches...

I haven’t seen him since February so it makes it more difficult to reveal my feelings when it’s not face to face...:

Or trying to read between the lines (texts, poems and songs).

What is your sun sign?

Yeah... you will have to work on your fear and past hurts (that seem to be unrelated to him) because since you’ve now reveled that you are conflicted, I’m sure he has sensed/ picked up on that too. This is probably why he is not more clear with you. He doesn’t want to scare you off.

So, work on yourself... and that will improve your situation with him.

Aries

I am aware this combination (Scorpio / Aries)

might not work. This has been going on for 3 years , btw.

will try to move forward and be more confident about the situation.

I can’t really say much about Aries / Scorpio combo because I’ve never been in a committed relationship with one, before. But, I know we attract each other like moths to a flame on friendship and physical level. My longest and closest friendships have been with Aries males and females through my whole life.

I do know couples with this combo and one of them seem like absolute best friends that have sex, day in and day out... just very close and passionate couple - never seen them fight or disagree, seem to always be passionately opinionated BUT on same page. So it’s like it’s them against the world.

The other couple, I sense that the wife isn’t too happy - she tries hard to please her husband but he is more reactive and gets upset at her a lot.

There must be something huge blocking both of you and I still feel that you need to look into those “blocks” because both Aries and Scorpio are signs that don’t shy away from going for what they want. So... it’s a bit of a red flag to see it lagging for so long without a direct move or indication of interest coming from either party.

Maybe communication between you two is foggy and you aren’t giving each other the right signals to move forward?

Forgot to add that perhaps my mercury in Pisces might also make my communication a bit hard for him to understand.

I am quiet. I don’t express much and i don’t communicate my thoughts easily like other people.

Our texts are simple or I try to make it simple...if I say too much, I tend to regret it. So it’s polite, short and precise.

Same as in person. I listen but I don’t say much.

Hmmm... I actually think the opposite. You having Pisces energy is a PLUS. We Scorpios like a little mystery... and we tend to like / be attracted to people that are serious, quiet and a bit of a mystery.... it becomes more enticing when we get close and we see that there is more to the person than the first face. Like a secret bond between the two of you.

Honestly, Scorpios like to dig and even the shy ones are active at pursuing. If you don’t feel comfortable opening up, don’t. Only do it when your heart honestly desires it... try not to over-think that.

I’m not sure why he flaked on you three times. I think it’s great that you are asking here and not making any moves with him. Allow him to continue sending you music and see if it becomes more clear in the future.

For now, don’t take him too seriously and enjoy his music on a distant level, if possible.

What is it that makes you like him? Do you think your attraction to him is getting stronger? Or just something that was lightly there?

We live in the same state / city. The only problem is that he doesn’t know English very well. We tend to communicate a little better when we are in person since we can see each other’s reaction when we speak. We talk a lot and exchange ideas in different subject matters.

I still don’t know why he flaked 3 times. He’s not like that. I’ve known him for 3 years so all I can think is that maybe there’s someone else that has captured his attention. I won’t get in the middle but I also don’t like the fact he’s encouraging me to make a move/fall for him. I am not a side chick and recently I have distant myself a lot from him the past few weeks due to this behavior. Sometimes I wonder if he’s doing this intentionally in order to see a reaction from me? Maybe finally snap and tell him “I like you!”?

Our attraction began the same day we met but I didn’t pursue anything because I didn’t think more of it. It was just that moment we first met.

Then he slowly started to send me texts here and there, photos...he also made it known that he was checking out my social media by making small comments about my hobbies or photos.

He teased me a lot, in a good way and would be very attentive.

Maybe he got tired of waiting.

He knows I like him very much but I don’t know his intentions since his social media is full of beautiful women.

Sometimes I want to send him a message so we can talk but I stop myself after thinking about so many things and realizing that it might be a waste of time telling him how I feel ...and I will end up looking like a complete fool if he rejects me.



So, I act aloof.

😞

How is it that he knows you like him a lot?

How did you guys meet? And how often would you two hang out?

Do you know him well enough to know about his character? Just wondering why you are coming to the conclusion that he is playing you or playing with your emotions. Is there something in him that makes you think he is a player?

The girls on social media... don’t let it get to you. Remember, if nothing is concrete with any of them, he might just be flirting with all... but, behavior might be completely different once he is committed (or not. Depends on his character).

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We met through a study group and would meet 3-4 times per month.

We love history and literature

I don't think you should confess your feelings but rather ask him to confess his to gauge where you stand.

You can approach him in a lighthearted joke-y way such as...

"Hey, are you trying to tell me something with these poems and songs you're sending me? lol Do you like me?" (or something along those lines)

If he says no/just being friendly/joking etc you can always play it off and save face...

"Ok cool. You had me wondering there for a sec lol" (or whatever)

If he responds favorably and confesses he likes you and is interested, well then... it's on.

@marlenfame

you are right.

I also have the "out of sigh out of mind" mentality. probably is a way to protect my heart.

we both have gone M.I.A. I haven't messaged him and he has disappeared.

I'll just let it be.

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Why are you baffled with it?

Its just the idiosyncrasies of his personality.

I am sure he thinks the same way I think about him.

He’s probably confused and baffled and maybe that’s the reason this hasn’t moved forward.