Is it that hard for you to say I want you?!?

I'm trying to get into his mind...

Posted by Impulsv
Ask him? Only he can answer
For me my lover is my best Freind.

Before I do anything, I want to make sure that him and I are on the same page!

Posted by Impulsv
Ask him? Only he can answer
For me my lover is my best Freind.

I want that one day. Friends make the best lovers.

Posted by Impulsv
I understand
That's why u need to ask what he meant by friends.
None of us can answer this for u.
It will all be speculation n ull go into it assuming.
N u know what happens when we assume.

Speculate away! I'm open to hearing everyone's thoughts 🙂

Thanks for the insight...

Probably one of the most important things for a Woman to learn is to take what a Man says, literally.
He called you Friend, that is what you are to him, his friend.

Trust me. It is hard.

Posted by Impulsv
Why would it scare anyone if u ask
" last time u mentioned Freinds is that how I see me only as a Freind?"
I think u might be more scared to getting the answer

noooo i wish that was the case. I can get over someone real fast. I just like him a lot and I don't want to walk away from a good thing, I can be patient if it's worth it. you know..

If he is not wanting a real relationship and is saying what he thinks he needs to say in order to hook you, you will wish to have tried to settle this matter now, rather than later.
Just my humble opinion since I have absolutely no experience in this area at all 😏

Posted by RainDancer88
Be UNAPPOLOGETIC about voicing it. 🙂 There is strength in speaking the truth.

I love this.

+1

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I'm kinda in the same boat. I haven't really said how I felt or what I want out of fear he doesn't feel the same way. But it's better to get it off your chest than to never ask and always wonder. So I'm telling him face to face this evening. If you ask, at least you'll have your answer either way. Good luck! 🙂

Posted by KVZZMIR11
Guys dont just call to "hang out" with a girl they aren't interested in.

Unless of course he's GAY, or he HAS a girlfriend.

He wants a REAL relationship.

I can't even believe you're asking this question.

Must be living a real sheltered life.

On the contrary, guys don't just call to "hang out" with a girl they are seriously interested in. They ask them out on a date. They are straightforward.

Real men are straight about things. Though it will take some men longer to reveal their feelings, they always do.

Just ask this guy flat out. The longer you wait the more your mind has time to run wild and possibly his as well. But do it in person to gage his reaction.

Posted by IrresistableScorp

Posted by mintberry

He texted me saying he wants to take me out again and to make things up with me, then went on saying that he can't change the past and that he had one question for me...if I was prepared for the future?

his last text said...I love you and care for you and if you allow me to make things right I will.

I guess I am honestly confused here because those two statements seem like he has good intentions on the relationship front.

My interpretation would be he's asking you if you are up for what the future might be. He's a scorp. He knows he can be a pain in the area sometimes and it might not be easy all the time. Do you have the fortitude to be there through the good and the bad. Loyalty is very important and you should seriously examine whether or not you have it in you to walk through the fire with him.

I highly doubt that any scorp would put an "I love you" out there like that if it was just a play. Unless, of course, you feel he might just be trying to get you into bed? Is this how you feel deep inside? Like you don't trust his words and that he has ulterior motives? Honest question.

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Sorry I've been MIA had a busy weekend! and to answer your question. he tells me I love you all the time but we never really move on to other things, it's always the same scenario with us. We meet, we talk, we flirt, he says I love you, and then nothing really happens after wards. He might have good intentions but I guess something is stopping him and i don't know what. And I am 100% prepared to be with him thick or thin but before I do this i need to know where i stand. To answer your second question, he is extremely picky about being with someone, I know he is sexually attracted to me and we have talked about it but he won't sleep with me until were in a serious relationship, which we are not. I trust his he does love me deep inside but I just don't trust the other thing he is hiding from me and I do feel like he is hiding something. He is extremely secretive about it, I don't know why.