Please give me any insight on this coupling! TY!
I'm an Aries in love with a Scorpio
Thank you Aprilbaaaby! I am holding my own with this crusation. The problem is....there are days I feel empowered and want to leave him behind...but something is making me hold on. I set a little bait so he chums...then I pull back. I do not smother him but let him know I miss him while we are apart. I think he has a committment problem which scares me. Something happened to his family life when he was 16 and he left home never to return. He is 38, and I am 41. He has not spoken to his mom and dad since. His mom had a baby girl when he left home. I don't know if he was used to being the only child and this blew him out of the water or what, but, something major happened. He has also been married 3x with one daughter who is now 18 and he just had a baby boy in May from this other girl whom he claims he isn't committed to. He is Canadian and I am American. This sounds like a Jerry Springer episode now that I read it. I like him and am hoping that he figures out what he wants out of life. In the mean time, I am not jumping through hoops and am living my life...I just wish he could evolve and be a part of it.
Tinkerbell, that sounds like a major commitment problem. Hopefully he can over come his insecurity or arrogance to realise his time is getting shorter and he should commit. Good luck.
God, if i wasn't ready to commit by 38, heck! I love that word, "heck"! Don't people realise that time keeps getting shorter and shorter and the stunts we used to pull in our twenties just don't work anymore? It's like 'cute' people always have this thing where they think they will be 'cute' for ever, but it wears off. Billions of dollars worth of sales in wrinkle cream can't be wrong.
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