@fallendarkangel
10 Years
Intimidating
Understanding the Intimidating Persona in Astrology
People with certain astrological signs or placements may appear intimidating initially but are often friendly once understood. Traits like assertiveness or seriousness can be misinterpreted, but they often hide kindness and warmth. Recognizing these signs helps improve interactions and reduces misunderstandings.
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Posted by Ajna
feels like curse yesCap ASC ~ Scorp MC
True. I've also experienced this. People avoid me like a plague lol 😄 Whenever I ride a bus going to school, the seats beside me are the last to fill up. 😢 Frustrating.
True story
....even without nosebleed
Thank God for my 1st house Jupiter, I get friendly once the conversation starts because I realize I'm engaging with human beings just like me, but from afar, before them having approached/talked to me or vice versa I can't help but be like:
though, partly because I'm half blind lol
Oh, it's on the Scorpio board... excuse me
Posted by fallendarkangel
Do people get intimidated by you? Like when they first met you, they thought you are unapproachable and scary so they avoid you at all cost, but when they got to know you, you are really a nice and friendly person.
Maaaan us Scorpio ppl get that ish everyday of our lives. Story of my damn life.
Posted by fallendarkangel
Do people get intimidated by you? Like when they first met you, they thought you are unapproachable and scary so they avoid you at all cost, but when they got to know you, you are really a nice and friendly person.
well if the man is looking like that in the photo, it is scary. like you're thinking..." what the hell? did I just cut you off on the freeway?"
Yes. I just smile more
Posted by Fragrance
Oh, it's on the Scorpio board... excuse me
Oh no! You can post your experience here 😄
Posted by Fragrance
True story
....even without nosebleed
Thank God for my 1st house Jupiter, I get friendly once the conversation starts because I realize I'm engaging with human beings just like me, but from afar, before them having approached/talked to me or vice versa I can't help but be like:
though, partly because I'm half blind lol
I love that gif! Hahaha. We have the same personality. I'm friendly when people talk to me, but if I'm just sitting in the corner, I look like a bitch. Lol 😄 I have Jupiter on the ASC but sadly it's in the 12th House.
Posted by Koniuchaa
Yes, I have been told that.
Do people also avoid you?
Posted by Kissme
Story of my life...
Posted by Ajna
feels like curse yesCap ASC ~ Scorp MC
True. I've also experienced this. People avoid me like a plague lol 😄 Whenever I ride a bus going to school, the seats beside me are the last to fill up. 😢 Frustrating.
I don't look around anymore. Into eyes. I know answer.
Now and even as a child though sitting next to window
alone it helps fuel the imagination
For my art ☆ stories
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Me too. I just sit next to window thinking about how sad my life is. 😭
Posted by fallendarkangel
Do people get intimidated by you? Like when they first met you, they thought you are unapproachable and scary so they avoid you at all cost, but when they got to know you, you are really a nice and friendly person.
Maaaan us Scorpio ppl get that ish everyday of our lives. Story of my damn life.
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Very true. It's so frustrating. They think we're like serial killers. Hahaha. It's so hard to initiate a conversation. People would just stare and watch you, but they won't approach.
Posted by fallendarkangel
Do people get intimidated by you? Like when they first met you, they thought you are unapproachable and scary so they avoid you at all cost, but when they got to know you, you are really a nice and friendly person.
well if the man is looking like that in the photo, it is scary. like you're thinking..." what the hell? did I just cut you off on the freeway?"
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Hahaha. He looks like he's going to kill you any moment. Lol 😄
Posted by DMV
Yes. I just smile more
That's good!. 😄 Whenever I smile, I look scary or planning something evil, so it doesn't work for me. Lol!
The other way around. They scratch the Gemini ASC surface and take a step back, wondering what the hell happened. People are quite used to other people opening up and getting friendly when they get to know them better, and I go the opposite. Ooo! That's a cute gremlin...
*Edit: Oh. Scorpio thread. Sorry.
Posted by HappyCapper
The other way around. They scratch the Gemini ASC surface and take a step back, wondering what the hell happened. People are quite used to other people opening up and getting friendly when they get to know them better, and I go the opposite. Ooo! That's a cute gremlin...*Edit: Oh. Scorpio thread. Sorry.
Oh it's ok HappyCapper. Any sign can post in here. I just posted this thread in Scorpio. My bad.
Hahaha. That's what also happens when my friends enter past my Aqua Rising. They become confused when I show the true side of me. 😄
Posted by Foreverloveme
Not a scorp. People think I'm always mad. I've been told I'm unapproachable because I look stuck up. Both couldn't be further from the truth.
Oh yes. Some signs can be like that too. I know two Cancer guys who looks unapproachable and mad. Even my Arian brother is like that. May I know what sign you have?
Posted by Ajna
feels like curse yesCap ASC ~ Scorp MC
True. I've also experienced this. People avoid me like a plague lol 😄 Whenever I ride a bus going to school, the seats beside me are the last to fill up. 😢 Frustrating.
I don't look around anymore. Into eyes. I know answer.
Now and even as a child though sitting next to window
alone it helps fuel the imagination
For my art ☆ stories
Me too. I just sit next to window thinking about how sad my life is. 😭
I feel this sometime but deep down I know
its no saad ~ your life ~mine
Outer shell never stops
those who are meant
to be in our life
🙂
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I love your advice Ajna. You truly embody your Piscean nature. 🙂 You have a positive outlook in life. That's good! 😄
Posted by Koniuchaa
Yes, I have been told that.Do people also avoid you?
I suppose some Do, yes. But I also avoid people, so hard to say.
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Yes. I could relate to that. People think that because we avoid people, we are condescending and intimidating. It's just that we have our time to be friendly, although being moody is more usual. 🙂
Posted by HappyCapper
The other way around. They scratch the Gemini ASC surface and take a step back, wondering what the hell happened. People are quite used to other people opening up and getting friendly when they get to know them better, and I go the opposite. Ooo! That's a cute gremlin...*Edit: Oh. Scorpio thread. Sorry.
Oh it's ok HappyCapper. Any sign can post in here. I just posted this thread in Scorpio. My bad.
Hahaha. That's what also happens when my friends enter past my Aqua Rising. They become confused when I show the true side of me. 😄
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Aww. A fellow gremlin!😄
Posted by fallendarkangel
Do people get intimidated by you? Like when they first met you, they thought you are unapproachable and scary so they avoid you at all cost, but when they got to know you, you are really a nice and friendly person.
Yeah but tried to take advantage when they got too comfortable & thought I was naive
Posted by TrueFantasy
My Scorpio friend thinks I intimidate people 😐I wish I was more approachable. Darn this resting bitch face. I really am nice once people give me a chance 🙂 they tell me all these weird misconceptions once they're comfy around me.
Hahaha. Same here. My friends thought that I'm snobbish and scary, but when they got to know me better, they see my friendly side and once they get to know me even better, that's when my Scorp and Virgo side show.
I think it's better to be a intimidating then when people know you better, you are a nice person instead of looking friendly, but once you get to know them, they are a bitch.
Here's a picture for us with RBF:
Lol 😄
Posted by Foreverloveme
Not a scorp. People think I'm always mad. I've been told I'm unapproachable because I look stuck up. Both couldn't be further from the truth.Oh yes. Some signs can be like that too. I know two Cancer guys who looks unapproachable and mad. Even my Arian brother is like that. May I know what sign you have?
Cap sun & rising
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Wow. Scorps and Caps really have this RBF and intimidating vibe, no wonder.
Posted by TrueFantasy
My Scorpio friend thinks I intimidate people 😐I wish I was more approachable. Darn this resting bitch face. I really am nice once people give me a chance 🙂 they tell me all these weird misconceptions once they're comfy around me.
Hahaha. Same here. My friends thought that I'm snobbish and scary, but when they got to know me better, they see my friendly side and once they get to know me even better, that's when my Scorp and Virgo side show.
I think it's better to be a intimidating then when people know you better, you are a nice person instead of looking friendly, but once you get to know them, they are a bitch.
Here's a picture for us with RBF:
Lol 😄
OMG you get me! Lol
I also have a Virgo moon 🙂
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That's great! At least someone in here understands how I feel. I'm really shy with other people, so I send "Stay away from me!" vibe.
Posted by HappyCapper
The other way around. They scratch the Gemini ASC surface and take a step back, wondering what the hell happened. People are quite used to other people opening up and getting friendly when they get to know them better, and I go the opposite. Ooo! That's a cute gremlin...*Edit: Oh. Scorpio thread. Sorry.
Oh it's ok HappyCapper. Any sign can post in here. I just posted this thread in Scorpio. My bad.
Hahaha. That's what also happens when my friends enter past my Aqua Rising. They become confused when I show the true side of me. 😄
Aww. A fellow gremlin!😄
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Hello my friend! 😄
Posted by TrueFantasy
lol just realised this is in the Scorpio board...leaves
Don't leave! 😄 Any sign is welcome here. 🙂
Posted by fallendarkangel
Do people get intimidated by you? Like when they first met you, they thought you are unapproachable and scary so they avoid you at all cost, but when they got to know you, you are really a nice and friendly person.
Yeah but tried to take advantage when they got too comfortable & thought I was naive
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That's really the problem. People take advantage of us if we show our weaker side. Being intimidating is actually good. It makes the people feel that they should not ruffle our feathers.
Posted by Ellycakes
People normally find me intimidating after getting to know me. I tend to be lollipops and laughter at first.Though I don't know. I feel like it's more uncomfortable than intimidated. Maybe I should start asking folks lol.
Hahaha. It's a reverse for you. You should ask many people what they think about you 😄 I've also encountered many people like you that they are such a sweetheart, but when I become close to them, they start acting like bitches, but I still like them.
I don't know. Don't pay enough attention really.
Just doing me.
What's ur rising sign?
Posted by Ellycakes
People normally find me intimidating after getting to know me. I tend to be lollipops and laughter at first.Though I don't know. I feel like it's more uncomfortable than intimidated. Maybe I should start asking folks lol.
Hahaha. It's a reverse for you. You should ask many people what they think about you 😄 I've also encountered many people like you that they are such a sweetheart, but when I become close to them, they start acting like bitches, but I still like them.
Yeah appearance wise there's nothing intimidating about me at all. And I know that.
Then again, when I worked in a position of authority over others, I did have some say I was intimidating. Especially if they asked a stupid question or talked to me disrespectfully. The job I have now though I have to be a sweet customer service driven panderer. Intimidating would be bad for my paycheck lol.
A lot of times I'll be perfectly warm and sweet until/unless someone touches on one of my boundaries. Used to be I'd just blame myself but the last year or two I'm growing to become more vocal and cutthroat about my boundaries.
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Hmm interesting. Maybe people see your MC when you are at work and when you're off work, they see either your Sun or ASC. 😄
Posted by Faiyaz
I don't know. Don't pay enough attention really.Just doing me.
That's good! But you should try asking your friends about their impression on you 😄
Posted by P3n3lop3
What's ur rising sign?
I have Aquarius Rising. How about you? 🙂
I don't find any sign intimidating. Maybe it's the Aqua? I open my mouth and words...they just keep rolling.
/shrug
Posted by Fragrance
True story
....even without nosebleed
Thank God for my 1st house Jupiter, I get friendly once the conversation starts because I realize I'm engaging with human beings just like me, but from afar, before them having approached/talked to me or vice versa I can't help but be like:
though, partly because I'm half blind lol
I love that gif! Hahaha. We have the same personality. I'm friendly when people talk to me, but if I'm just sitting in the corner, I look like a bitch. Lol 😄 I have Jupiter on the ASC but sadly it's in the 12th House.
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Haha, exactly. Yep, same :p
Jupiter conjunct Ascendant is considered a very nice aspect 🙂 I'm extremely grateful... Have you read about it?
Posted by DMV
Yes. I just smile more
I don't think you're half as scary as you think you are
Story of my life Scorpio ASC
No... I'm pretty approachable, irl 🙂
My Scorp friend (who has also been gifted with the same moon and rising)
is not-- and she told me a few weeks back that she identifies with the
whole 'resting bitch face' phenom.
A coworker told her, or rather exclaimed, after talking with her
'I used to be afraid to talk to you, but omg you're a sweetheart!' end quote.
And she really is... you just wouldn't know that at first glance.
Posted by fallendarkangel
Do people get intimidated by you? Like when they first met you, they thought you are unapproachable and scary so they avoid you at all cost, but when they got to know you, you are really a nice and friendly person.(Any sign is welcome to post here 🙂 )
exactly my scorp with scorp mars lol so manly shexxxy 😈 😘
just the other day, a neighbor of ours commented that my scorpio is someone when you first met, you'd be like "oh look at this big and scary dude" but then he turns out to be the nicest guy lol
Posted by Ellycakes
People normally find me intimidating after getting to know me. I tend to be lollipops and laughter at first.Though I don't know. I feel like it's more uncomfortable than intimidated. Maybe I should start asking folks lol.
Hahaha. It's a reverse for you. You should ask many people what they think about you 😄 I've also encountered many people like you that they are such a sweetheart, but when I become close to them, they start acting like bitches, but I still like them.
Yeah appearance wise there's nothing intimidating about me at all. And I know that.
Then again, when I worked in a position of authority over others, I did have some say I was intimidating. Especially if they asked a stupid question or talked to me disrespectfully. The job I have now though I have to be a sweet customer service driven panderer. Intimidating would be bad for my paycheck lol.
A lot of times I'll be perfectly warm and sweet until/unless someone touches on one of my boundaries. Used to be I'd just blame myself but the last year or two I'm growing to become more vocal and cutthroat about my boundaries.
Hmm interesting. Maybe people see your MC when you are at work and when you're off work, they see either your Sun or ASC. 😄
Idk. My MC is libra. Not intimidating. At all lol.
I think most people see a blending of my Ascendant and my moon honestly. I can be moody as fuck so the moon is obvious after a while. My ascendant just want to be temporary best friends with everyone. I feel like my sun is just the mediator between the two most of its life lol.
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Hahaha. That is very possible. People see your inside and they feel the intensity. Lol 🙂
Posted by Admiral
How I am most times.
Saturn trine asc
Pluto trine asc
Hahaha. That gif was really funny. People see you as guarded person especially with those aspects.
Posted by ScorpioStarGazer
I guess maybe that's why as a child I'd sit alone on the playground. No one wanted to play with me. I'd see a kid walking towards me and for a moment I'd get a little excited thinking they were coming to play with me, but they'd always walk on by. So I would just sit there with a stick writing in the dirt. I got pretty good writing in the dirt. Lol
That's kinda sad. I tried to write in the dirt, but it's always an epic fail. Haha. Have you changed your social skills nowadays? 🙂
Posted by Oneirataxia
Capricorn Ascendant and Scorpio Midheaven.https://az616578.vo.msecnd.net/files/2016/05/20/635993708350836362391912700_Pam% 20Gif.gif
The queen/king of RBF and Icy cold stare haha.
Lol
Posted by Reincarnation
I think I avoid others more.I get enough invitations, but I usually say that I'm busy. Socializing drains me.
I agree with you. I prefer to relax alone. No need to stress ourselves what to say and to talk about with others.
Posted by Fragrance
True story
....even without nosebleed
Thank God for my 1st house Jupiter, I get friendly once the conversation starts because I realize I'm engaging with human beings just like me, but from afar, before them having approached/talked to me or vice versa I can't help but be like:
though, partly because I'm half blind lol
I love that gif! Hahaha. We have the same personality. I'm friendly when people talk to me, but if I'm just sitting in the corner, I look like a bitch. Lol 😄 I have Jupiter on the ASC but sadly it's in the 12th House.
Haha, exactly. Yep, same :p
Jupiter conjunct Ascendant is considered a very nice aspect 🙂 I'm extremely grateful... Have you read about it?
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Yes I love that aspect. It balances my stiff and cold nature. Plus I feel I have a guardian angel protecting me. 🙂
Posted by jessbtwin
Story of my life Scorpio ASC
True. People who have lots of Scorpio/Pluto in chart radiate this dark and intense aura. I feel you. 😢
Posted by Pisco
Yes. I'm told that very often. My sister even made a comment recently where she said "why do people look at you like that or make you seem like a bitch?", its a bummer really. I'm not mean and I'm incredibly friendly once people talk to me, but I guess my look is just intimidating for some reason. It's just my face!
It's in your aura and people with Hades moon tend to conceal their emotions so I think people feel and see that. Any sign can comment here. So no problem. 🙂 I also have Hades Moon and Pluto-MC-Sun conjunction. 😄
Posted by Montgomery
No... I'm pretty approachable, irl 🙂My Scorp friend (who has also been gifted with the same moon and rising)
is not-- and she told me a few weeks back that she identifies with the
whole 'resting bitch face' phenom.
A coworker told her, or rather exclaimed, after talking with her
'I used to be afraid to talk to you, but omg you're a sweetheart!' end quote.
And she really is... you just wouldn't know that at first glance.
That's good for you Montgomery 🙂
I also have a similar experience. A friend told me I look like a bitch but when they get to know me, I'm kinda friendly. 🙂
Posted by fallendarkangel
Do people get intimidated by you? Like when they first met you, they thought you are unapproachable and scary so they avoid you at all cost, but when they got to know you, you are really a nice and friendly person.(Any sign is welcome to post here 🙂 )
exactly my scorp with scorp mars lol so manly shexxxy 😈 😘
just the other day, a neighbor of ours commented that my scorpio is someone when you first met, you'd be like "oh look at this big and scary dude" but then he turns out to be the nicest guy lol
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Wow! He has a very sexy Mars placement. That's great. People who are scary at first tend to have the softest hearts. Lol 🙂
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Do people get intimidated by you? Like when they first met you, they thought you are unapproachable and scary so they avoid you at all cost, but when they got to know you, you are really a nice and friendly person.
(Any sign is welcome to post here 🙂 )