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Posted by badgalbee
i have never been told I look intimidating.Someone recently told me I look like I can't be bothered.
I'm thinking of dominant Aries/Cap in chart. Do you tend to avoid people?
Posted by fallendarkangel
Do people get intimidated by you? Like when they first met you, they thought you are unapproachable and scary so they avoid you at all cost, but when they got to know you, you are really a nice and friendly person.(Any sign is welcome to post here 🙂 )
The guy in the gif, Tyler Hoechlin, is hot. To answer your question, no, people don't find me unapproachable.
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Hahaha. 😄 You're lucky that people see you as a sweetheart 🙂
Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Yes.I'm really fuhqing weird
Moon square Uranus and Neptune
Especially towards people who my neptune/uranus makes a hard aspect to their sun
They are like fascinated by me and also a little confused by me at the same time. Supposedly I shock people often. And I guess my erratic mood swings have to do
with that
My body, I have a nice butt and thighs, don't think that intimidates men.. I know they appreciate it and all
I've been told several times i have mysterious eyes and I stare alot and it's a deep stare especially when I'm close to someone or having a intimate moment or conversation . Idk. It makes guys attracted and a little nervous
I think guys see you as attractive, so they just stare at you since they might be afraid of rejection. 🙂
Yes.
Posted by P3n3lop3
What's ur rising sign?I have Aquarius Rising. How about you? 🙂
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Posted by badgalbee
i have never been told I look intimidating.Someone recently told me I look like I can't be bothered.
I'm thinking of dominant Aries/Cap in chart. Do you tend to avoid people?
I don't avoid people.
This was a guy who tried to pursue a year before seeing him. Then he sees me and we small talk and I wish him well. We exchange numbers and go out and he tells me when he saw me at the event I looked like I can't be bothered. (he is absolutely right as it pertains to him and me entertaining him. I will not be bothered by his energy.)
I have no aries in my chart or capricorn.
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Well we have our times wherein we don't want to be bothered. Maybe he sensed that energy from you during that time.
Posted by OceanBoy88
People take a while to approach me. Once they find out im sooo nice and friendly they immediately talk to me. People say i seem stuck up and not wanting to talk for my first impression. Air dominant. I have Scorpio in Pluto but i doubt that even matters.
That's the energy we send out in new situations. It's perfectly understandable. People are scared of being rejected that's why they don't approach you/us for the first time.
Posted by everlynn
Well quite actually I've never been told I look intimidating. But there's always those vibes you get from people. I guess I'm wording it right.And even tho I never been told anything really because im so quiet and lonesome, people gets intimidating by me right off the bat and don't know what to expect. And being the incredible size that I am only makes it a hundred time worse.
So I have moon square Pluto and Pluto rising to blame for my intimidations.
Exactly. Even extroverted people may seem aloof and standoffish because we tend to be shy in different people or situation. Having those placements really make you an intense person and most people are afraid of intensity, so they see you as intimidating.
Posted by fallendarkangel
Do people get intimidated by you? Like when they first met you, they thought you are unapproachable and scary so they avoid you at all cost, but when they got to know you, you are really a nice and friendly person.(Any sign is welcome to post here 🙂 )
The guy in the gif, Tyler Hoechlin, is hot. To answer your question, no, people don't find me unapproachable.
Hahaha. 😄 You're lucky that people see you as a sweetheart 🙂
Yes and no. LOL. I've also been told that I walk with a certain authority that tells people I am "not to be messed with". And I have told this by more than one person, so it makes me wonder lol. But on the positive aide I hope ut deters muggers.
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Hahaha. Do you have a Scorpio or Pluto (even Cap or Saturn/Mars) on the MC or ASC? I suspect that these placements make you send this energy to other people? 😄
Would you share your experience? 🙂
Posted by P3n3lop3
What's ur rising sign?I have Aquarius Rising. How about you? 🙂
Lmbo!!!! Me 2!!!!! —
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Oh great! (gives you a hug) 😄
Would you share your experience? 🙂
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I'm told I'm aloof a lot...or like I'll be at a show and be told i look like I could care less about anyone there, etc. Or that people had crushes on me but never told me cuz of those reasons. But I really am a kind caring person and that's what I'm told when people get to know me.
I don't find Scorpios intimidating I know others find Scorps intimidating when I was with the first Scorpio I noticed people found her intimidating I think she liked that. I would think to myself what are you people scared of? she wasn't intimidating with me I would get the resting bitch face if I didn't do something she asked me to do.
The Scorpio I'm working with now she tried the intimidating thing giving me the stare I gave the stare back she's not so intimidating with me now lol.
Not really... I'm okay.. Kind of approachable I guess :p
Cancer rising benefits
But I'm not social! 😢 .. I'm also shy. But people do approach me.. It's strange.
Posted by RumiL
Not really... I'm okay.. Kind of approachable I guess :pCancer rising benefits
But I'm not social! 😢 .. I'm also shy. But people do approach me.. It's strange.
You seem social here. Sometimes I wish I have internet social skills. I feel like sometimes people on the Internet's be afraid to talk to me so I just say fuck it.
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Hmm..beyond the casual talk, I really am not social...here or else where 😢 like.. I cannot talk actively in social groups and such. On one to one..okay...yes.. But still...my overall persona is silent and shy.. 😕
Anyway, why do you feel they are afraid to talk to you, everlynn??
Posted by RumiL
Not really... I'm okay.. Kind of approachable I guess :pCancer rising benefits
But I'm not social! 😢 .. I'm also shy. But people do approach me.. It's strange.
You seem social here. Sometimes I wish I have internet social skills. I feel like sometimes people on the Internet's be afraid to talk to me so I just say fuck it.
Hmm..beyond the casual talk, I really am not social...here or else where 😢 like.. I cannot talk actively in social groups and such. On one to one..okay...yes.. But still...my overall persona is silent and shy.. 😕
Anyway, why do you feel they are afraid to talk to you, everlynn??
😆 I dunno. I be getting all sorts of crazy feelings. Too many cancer placements. I just feel if people in real life afraid of me, you guys are too.
And I'm the exact same way. I can talk one on one but not in massive groups. I CAN however hold meetings with all my employees that works for me cuz of course I the one hire them.
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What's your rising, everlynn? 🙂
Many of you just could try to smile more instead of having the facial expression of a cop who tries to get
a confession out of a suspect. Everybody is put off by grim looking people
Yes. Even though i try not to look like that. People will still say that i am.
I do realize some people become intimidating when they're flirting with someone. On purpose
Posted by P3n3lop3
What's ur rising sign?I have Aquarius Rising. How about you? 🙂
Lmbo!!!! Me 2!!!!! —
Oh great! (gives you a hug) 😄
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Downside it ruins guys from asking me out on a date or to be there gf smh my whole life smh...on the bright side it weeded out the cowards lol
Posted by P3n3lop3
What's ur rising sign?I have Aquarius Rising. How about you? 🙂
Lmbo!!!! Me 2!!!!! —
Oh great! (gives you a hug) 😄
Downside it ruins guys from asking me out on a date or to be there gf smh my whole life smh...on the bright side it weeded out the cowards lol
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Hahaha. But I'm curious, why do guys don't ask you? :O
Posted by everlynn
Well quite actually I've never been told I look intimidating. But there's always those vibes you get from people. I guess I'm wording it right.And even tho I never been told anything really because im so quiet and lonesome, people gets intimidating by me right off the bat and don't know what to expect. And being the incredible size that I am only makes it a hundred time worse.
So I have moon square Pluto and Pluto rising to blame for my intimidations.
Exactly. Even extroverted people may seem aloof and standoffish because we tend to be shy in different people or situation. Having those placements really make you an intense person and most people are afraid of intensity, so they see you as intimidating.
Very true about the shy part. There was this one time a lady did asked me why I walk like I'm ready to fight. My only answer I could come up with was because I can't help the way I walk. It would be stupid to tell her because I have moon square Pluto and Pluto in conjunction. Only wish people can understand that tho.
I don't intend to come off intimidating. Its just naturally who I am. You either love me or hate me.
But once you take the time to get to know me. The real me, I can be as sweet as cherry pie.
And some people believe it or not are actually afraid of me. And ain't hard to tell by the fear in their eyes especially if I'm staring at them. Tho I only do that if they stare at me first.
That's proof enough that I'm unapproachable.
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Totally. If people just know Astrology then you could just respond that you have this aspect that aspect. Hahaha 😄
Hades Mooners like us can have a Scorpio Mooners eyes. No wonder they feel scared when you stare at them. 🙂
Posted by OceanBoy88
People take a while to approach me. Once they find out im sooo nice and friendly they immediately talk to me. People say i seem stuck up and not wanting to talk for my first impression. Air dominant. I have Scorpio in Pluto but i doubt that even matters.That's the energy we send out in new situations. It's perfectly understandable. People are scared of being rejected that's why they don't approach you/us for the first time.
Which part? My air dom or scorp pluto?
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Your Air dominant. People might see you as aloof or detach.
Would you share your experience? 🙂
I'm told I'm aloof a lot...or like I'll be at a show and be told i look like I could care less about anyone there, etc. Or that people had crushes on me but never told me cuz of those reasons. But I really am a kind caring person and that's what I'm told when people get to know me.
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Well I've read a response here before that people see Scorpios or Pluto dominant people like an open door with high fences that makes it hard for them to enter in our lives. Even though that door has nice ornaments, but people see the high fences. Maybe people are afraid to tell that to you because they're afraid and they don't see the ornaments or the lighter side of you.
Posted by Stihl46
I don't find Scorpios intimidating I know others find Scorps intimidating when I was with the first Scorpio I noticed people found her intimidating I think she liked that. I would think to myself what are you people scared of? she wasn't intimidating with me I would get the resting bitch face if I didn't do something she asked me to do.The Scorpio I'm working with now she tried the intimidating thing giving me the stare I gave the stare back she's not so intimidating with me now lol.
Yeah. Not all Scorpios are intimidating. Some of the Scorpios I know are sweet and some are boring. I guess having Pluto/ Saturn/ Mars dominating the chart can give intimidating qualities to a person.
Posted by RumiL
Not really... I'm okay.. Kind of approachable I guess :pCancer rising benefits
But I'm not social! 😢 .. I'm also shy. But people do approach me.. It's strange.
You're like my friend. Very sweet and caring people 🙂
Posted by whatthecrab
People arent intimidated by Scorpios, they'rr just thrown off by their constant need to proof themselves and trying to overrule others.
Yes not all are intimidated. I think it's already in our nature to be like that. Even though I try to change but to no avail. 🙂
Posted by ParisianCappy
je sais pas,ça dépend,
je sais pas, Libra rising and that much Sag in your chart should make you very approachable..
Posted by Instantkarma
I don't look intimidating but I have heard my attitude looks unapproachable, something life taught me to develop to survive.When I was younger, I was far more friendlier. Especially with the artsy types, when they stop me on the road to talk because they want to know me, I was happy and easy going. But now, after many horrible experiences I have changed my attitude. Looks wise I don't look intimidating at all. Intense or passionate yes, intimidating? No. Lol
Well we have the same experience. I was also a friendly person when I was a child and was constantly bullied. Then I experienced some traumatic events 4- 5 years ago. It really changed my personality as in everything. It's like a rebirth for me.
Posted by RumiL
Not really... I'm okay.. Kind of approachable I guess :pCancer rising benefits
But I'm not social! 😢 .. I'm also shy. But people do approach me.. It's strange.
You're like my friend. Very sweet and caring people 🙂
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Thankyouuu! (:
Posted by ImTheRam
Yep.I had women saying this to me 🙂
Some thought i was intimidating...others loved it...so go figure..lol
Love and hate relationship I guess. Hahaha. Lol 😄
Many of you just could try to smile more instead of having the facial expression of a cop who tries to get
a confession out of a suspect. Everybody is put off by grim looking people
Should we smile like this? 😄
Posted by wil
Yes. Even though i try not to look like that. People will still say that i am.I do realize some people become intimidating when they're flirting with someone. On purpose
Maybe because of your demeanor or you act like you need a mission to accomplish. Lol 😄 People would be really intimidated by that. 🙂
Posted by RumiL
Not really... I'm okay.. Kind of approachable I guess :pCancer rising benefits
But I'm not social! 😢 .. I'm also shy. But people do approach me.. It's strange.
You're like my friend. Very sweet and caring people 🙂
Thankyouuu! (:
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You're welcome! Continue to be a sweet person, but you should put limits also. People might take advantage of you. 🙂
Posted by RumiL
Not really... I'm okay.. Kind of approachable I guess :pCancer rising benefits
But I'm not social! 😢 .. I'm also shy. But people do approach me.. It's strange.
You're like my friend. Very sweet and caring people 🙂
Thankyouuu! (:
You're welcome! Continue to be a sweet person, but you should put limits also. People might take advantage of you. 🙂
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Thankyou very much!! *blush*
I'm not that sweet :p
Ohh..nothing to worry! I have Scorpio moon to take care of everything.. and some a close Asc-Saturn trine aspect 😄
Edit -- its true though...people think I'm too innocent and have tried to cheat me ...everywhere 😄 .. I do get cheated but I can see when something is off 😕
Fallendarkangel.. Do you have any saturn/Pluto aspects to your personal planets? 🙂
Posted by ImTheRam
Yep.I had women saying this to me 🙂
Some thought i was intimidating...others loved it...so go figure..lol
Love and hate relationship I guess. Hahaha. Lol 😄
haha true
I think that a Love / Hate rship are the more fiery ones...
Because after all...we love so much that other person..that we hate it...and we hate it..that we love so much...lol
Passion is a crazy thing ! xD
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Hahaha. It may be rather confusing. But one thing's for sure, people who have love-hate relationship are the ones who may be charismatic, sexiest, and magnetic. Lol. 🙂
Posted by RumiL
Not really... I'm okay.. Kind of approachable I guess :pCancer rising benefits
But I'm not social! 😢 .. I'm also shy. But people do approach me.. It's strange.
You're like my friend. Very sweet and caring people 🙂
Thankyouuu! (:
You're welcome! Continue to be a sweet person, but you should put limits also. People might take advantage of you. 🙂
Thankyou very much!! *blush*
I'm not that sweet :p
Ohh..nothing to worry! I have Scorpio moon to take care of everything.. and some a close Asc-Saturn trine aspect 😄
Edit -- its true though...people think I'm too innocent and have tried to cheat me ...everywhere 😄 .. I do get cheated but I can see when something is off 😕
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Wow! You've got some filter on. Hahaha. 😄 That's good for you. 🙂
Just a vent out, I really can't accept how a fellow Scorp lied and cheated on me. I hate her. >😢
Posted by RumiL
Not really... I'm okay.. Kind of approachable I guess :pCancer rising benefits
But I'm not social! 😢 .. I'm also shy. But people do approach me.. It's strange.
You're like my friend. Very sweet and caring people 🙂
Thankyouuu! (:
You're welcome! Continue to be a sweet person, but you should put limits also. People might take advantage of you. 🙂
Thankyou very much!! *blush*
I'm not that sweet :p
Ohh..nothing to worry! I have Scorpio moon to take care of everything.. and some a close Asc-Saturn trine aspect 😄
Edit -- its true though...people think I'm too innocent and have tried to cheat me ...everywhere 😄 .. I do get cheated but I can see when something is off 😕
Wow! You've got some filter on. Hahaha. 😄 That's good for you. 🙂
Just a vent out, I really can't accept how a fellow Scorp lied and cheated on me. I hate her. >😢
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Yes yes 😄 not sure how much those placements are guarding me...but... ?
Aww 😢 I'm sorry. It's part of life though.. We cannot forsee anything 😢 people too change, its natural... And it's really beyond our power to fore see or to guard ourselves against such things from happening.. Just as long as we are fair and just to everything and everyone ..because only that is in our control..only what we can do.. 🙂
Dont be hurt or feel cheated okay.. It happens 🙂
Sorry I couldn't stop myself from giving this sermon :p
Posted by ImTheRam
Yep.I had women saying this to me 🙂
Some thought i was intimidating...others loved it...so go figure..lol
Love and hate relationship I guess. Hahaha. Lol 😄
haha true
I think that a Love / Hate rship are the more fiery ones...
Because after all...we love so much that other person..that we hate it...and we hate it..that we love so much...lol
Passion is a crazy thing ! xD
Hahaha. It may be rather confusing. But one thing's for sure, people who have love-hate relationship are the ones who may be charismatic, sexiest, and magnetic. Lol. 🙂
Touché !!
*fallendarkangel drops mic*
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Hahaha.
Posted by RumiL
Not really... I'm okay.. Kind of approachable I guess :pCancer rising benefits
But I'm not social! 😢 .. I'm also shy. But people do approach me.. It's strange.
You're like my friend. Very sweet and caring people 🙂
Thankyouuu! (:
You're welcome! Continue to be a sweet person, but you should put limits also. People might take advantage of you. 🙂
Thankyou very much!! *blush*
I'm not that sweet :p
Ohh..nothing to worry! I have Scorpio moon to take care of everything.. and some a close Asc-Saturn trine aspect 😄
Edit -- its true though...people think I'm too innocent and have tried to cheat me ...everywhere 😄 .. I do get cheated but I can see when something is off 😕
Wow! You've got some filter on. Hahaha. 😄 That's good for you. 🙂
Just a vent out, I really can't accept how a fellow Scorp lied and cheated on me. I hate her. >😢
Yes yes 😄 not sure how much those placements are guarding me...but... ?
Aww 😢 I'm sorry. It's part of life though.. We cannot forsee anything 😢 people too change, its natural... And it's really beyond our power to fore see or to guard ourselves against such things from happening.. Just as long as we are fair and just to everything and everyone ..because only that is in our control..only what we can do.. 🙂
Dont be hurt or feel cheated okay.. It happens 🙂
Sorry I couldn't stop myself from giving this sermon :p
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That's actually true. I've been cheated by a lot of people, so I become distrustful to others. I build walls and it gets higher and higher. It just hurts. I've been wounded all my life. 😭 Thanks for that advice. I really appreciate it RumiL. 🙂
Hmm..you're welcome 🙂
I will not say much because you are young and you will figure everything out on your own eventually 🙂 But remember one thing - that, never feel bogged down by stuff happening in life..okay 🙂 .. Just remember that whatever is happening in your life, bad or good is very much natural..normal.. As long as you learn from everything, whatever happens in life is enriching to the soul :-) its easier said but ..point is...dont ever feel too bad about stuff : D
"Wound is the place where light enters you" - Jalaluddin Rumi
Posted by ParisianCappy
je sais pas,ça dépend,
je sais pas, Libra rising and that much Sag in your chart should make you very approachable..
i whish that i wasnt
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Whhy?
Posted by P3n3lop3
What's ur rising sign?I have Aquarius Rising. How about you? 🙂
Lmbo!!!! Me 2!!!!! —
Oh great! (gives you a hug) 😄
Downside it ruins guys from asking me out on a date or to be there gf smh my whole life smh...on the bright side it weeded out the cowards lol
Hahaha. But I'm curious, why do guys don't ask you? :O
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Well in high school they would b scared to ask me to be there gf and as an adult they are very intimadated unless they have courage and find out I'm cool but then try to take my kindness for weakness
In high school I may have told a few I was dating a college guy so that too could have been a reason and at that moment to think about it I was into being friends first and after while being friends was cooler bcuz I knew college had a wide variety and the boys were immature....wow I could be the reason I'm single ?
#circlejerk # scorpiostrokethread
Many of you just could try to smile more instead of having the facial expression of a cop who tries to get
a confession out of a suspect. Everybody is put off by grim looking people
Should we smile like this? 😄
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Only Jack Nicholson can pull off a really devilish smile.
From one Scorpio to the rest of you:
None of you are intimidating.
You're all laughable.
And just 1 bad dye-job and Hot Topic shopping trip away from being a clownish mall goth.
Posted by RumiL
@FallendarkangelHmm..you're welcome 🙂
I will not say much because you are young and you will figure everything out on your own eventually 🙂 But remember one thing - that, never feel bogged down by stuff happening in life..okay 🙂 .. Just remember that whatever is happening in your life, bad or good is very much natural..normal.. As long as you learn from everything, whatever happens in life is enriching to the soul :-) its easier said but ..point is...dont ever feel too bad about stuff : D
"Wound is the place where light enters you" - Jalaluddin Rumi
Thank you for the encouraging words and advice RumiL. I try to be stronger and a better person after the hardships in life. I hope I would be able to be strong till the end. 🙂
Posted by starlover
I have five planets in Scorpio and i can come across as intimidating..fiercely independent, go anywhere alone, no fear in me sociallyMy exes two gay friends said i would made a great Dominatrix 😛
The other side of me (Moon in Taurus is stubborn but soft as a pink marshmallow)
🙂
Wow. A powerhouse in Scorpio. :O I wish I had more Scorpio planets. 🙂
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Yes.
I'm really fuhqing weird
Moon square Uranus and Neptune
Especially towards people who my neptune/uranus makes a hard aspect to their sun
They are like fascinated by me and also a little confused by me at the same time. Supposedly I shock people often. And I guess my erratic mood swings have to do
with that
My body, I have a nice butt and thighs, don't think that intimidates men.. I know they appreciate it and all
I've been told several times i have mysterious eyes and I stare alot and it's a deep stare especially when I'm close to someone or having a intimate moment or conversation . Idk. It makes guys attracted and a little nervous