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darkangel
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What's ur rising sign?
I have Aquarius Rising. How about you? ๐Ÿ™‚
Lmbo!!!! Me 2!!!!! โ€”


Oh great! (gives you a hug) ๐Ÿ˜„

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Downside it ruins guys from asking me out on a date or to be there gf smh my whole life smh...on the bright side it weeded out the cowards lol



Hahaha. But I'm curious, why do guys don't ask you? :O


Well in high school they would b scared to ask me to be there gf and as an adult they are very intimadated unless they have courage and find out I'm cool but then try to take my kindness for weakness

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Oh you should loosen up sometimes. You're missing some opportunity. ๐Ÿ™‚



(I give advices to other people but I also don't follow it hahaha. ?)

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darkangel
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In high school I may have told a few I was dating a college guy so that too could have been a reason and at that moment to think about it I was into being friends first and after while being friends was cooler bcuz I knew college had a wide variety and the boys were immature....wow I could be the reason I'm single ?
I totally agree. I haven't been attracted to anyone now in college. Most of the people of my age group are whiny and immatures. I prefer to have older people to date. ๐Ÿ™‚
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darkangel
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Many of you just could try to smile more instead of having the facial expression of a cop who tries to get

a confession out of a suspect. Everybody is put off by grim looking people
Should we smile like this? ๐Ÿ˜„

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Only Jack Nicholson can pull off a really devilish smile.

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I know. I'm not even trying to do it. Lol ๐Ÿ˜„

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darkangel
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People arent intimidated by Scorpios, they'rr just thrown off by their constant need to proof themselves and trying to overrule others.
Yes not all are intimidated. I think it's already in our nature to be like that. Even though I try to change but to no avail. ๐Ÿ™‚
It's hard to change things that are hardwired either to the brain or subconcious.

At least youre trying. It says a lot about your willingness to change ๐Ÿ™‚
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Absolutely. When I try to change, I just fail. My nature would still be visible to other people. ๐Ÿ™‚
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Many of you just could try to smile more instead of having the facial expression of a cop who tries to get

a confession out of a suspect. Everybody is put off by grim looking people
Should we smile like this? ๐Ÿ˜„

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Only Jack Nicholson can pull off a really devilish smile.




I know. I'm not even trying to do it. Lol ๐Ÿ˜„

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who is that guy?
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Hmm..you're welcome ๐Ÿ™‚

I will not say much because you are young and you will figure everything out on your own eventually ๐Ÿ™‚ But remember one thing - that, never feel bogged down by stuff happening in life..okay ๐Ÿ™‚ .. Just remember that whatever is happening in your life, bad or good is very much natural..normal.. As long as you learn from everything, whatever happens in life is enriching to the soul :-) its easier said but ..point is...dont ever feel too bad about stuff : D

"Wound is the place where light enters you" - Jalaluddin Rumi
Thank you for the encouraging words and advice RumiL. I try to be stronger and a better person after the hardships in life. I hope I would be able to be strong till the end. ๐Ÿ™‚
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Youre welcome ๐Ÿ™‚ and thankyouuu.

You will be strong and much more too! You already are, aren't you? :-) Best wishes ๐Ÿ™‚
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What's ur rising sign?
I have Aquarius Rising. How about you? ๐Ÿ™‚
Lmbo!!!! Me 2!!!!! โ€”


Oh great! (gives you a hug) ๐Ÿ˜„

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Downside it ruins guys from asking me out on a date or to be there gf smh my whole life smh...on the bright side it weeded out the cowards lol



Hahaha. But I'm curious, why do guys don't ask you? :O


Well in high school they would b scared to ask me to be there gf and as an adult they are very intimadated unless they have courage and find out I'm cool but then try to take my kindness for weakness


Oh you should loosen up sometimes. You're missing some opportunity. ๐Ÿ™‚



(I give advices to other people but I also don't follow it hahaha. ?)

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D^mn us aqua risings lol me 2 really good advice but don't follow it myself โ€”?

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darkangel
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Hmm..you're welcome ๐Ÿ™‚

I will not say much because you are young and you will figure everything out on your own eventually ๐Ÿ™‚ But remember one thing - that, never feel bogged down by stuff happening in life..okay ๐Ÿ™‚ .. Just remember that whatever is happening in your life, bad or good is very much natural..normal.. As long as you learn from everything, whatever happens in life is enriching to the soul :-) its easier said but ..point is...dont ever feel too bad about stuff : D

"Wound is the place where light enters you" - Jalaluddin Rumi
Thank you for the encouraging words and advice RumiL. I try to be stronger and a better person after the hardships in life. I hope I would be able to be strong till the end. ๐Ÿ™‚
Youre welcome ๐Ÿ™‚ and thankyouuu.

You will be strong and much more too! You already are, aren't you? :-) Best wishes ๐Ÿ™‚

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Yes. ๐Ÿ˜„ Best wishes to you too RumiL
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darkangel
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What's ur rising sign?
I have Aquarius Rising. How about you? ๐Ÿ™‚
Lmbo!!!! Me 2!!!!! โ€”


Oh great! (gives you a hug) ๐Ÿ˜„

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Downside it ruins guys from asking me out on a date or to be there gf smh my whole life smh...on the bright side it weeded out the cowards lol



Hahaha. But I'm curious, why do guys don't ask you? :O


Well in high school they would b scared to ask me to be there gf and as an adult they are very intimadated unless they have courage and find out I'm cool but then try to take my kindness for weakness


Oh you should loosen up sometimes. You're missing some opportunity. ๐Ÿ™‚



(I give advices to other people but I also don't follow it hahaha. ?)


D^mn us aqua risings lol me 2 really good advice but don't follow it myself โ€”?

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Hahaha. The life of an Aqua Rising. Lol ๐Ÿ˜„
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darkangel
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Do people get intimidated by you? Like when they first met you, they thought you are unapproachable and scary so they avoid you at all cost, but when they got to know you, you are really a nice and friendly person.

(Any sign is welcome to post here ๐Ÿ™‚ )

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Lol this is all subjective of course. I once had a Scorpio friend who was waaaaay more approachable and friendly than me. Him Scorpio Sun Capricorn Rising. Me Libra Sun Scorpio Rising. He had lots of friends. He nicknamed me The Rebel because I was always opposing something. I eventually got tired of him though because he was kind of "everybody's friend". There have been Scorpios I didn't talk to but it wasn't because I found them intimidating.. It was because I saw them as lazy and manipulative.
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Yes. It really depends on the aspects and dominants of the person. Maybe there is something in your friend's chart that makes him/her that way or maybe people are attracted to his energy. ๐Ÿ™‚ I agree that Scorpios are manipulative. A friend of mine tried to manipulate me. I hate that. As much as I love my fellow Scorps, I tend to avoid too much contact with them. I prefer Virgo, Pisces or Aries to be my friend.
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darkangel
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People arent intimidated by Scorpios, they'rr just thrown off by their constant need to proof themselves and trying to overrule others.
Yes not all are intimidated. I think it's already in our nature to be like that. Even though I try to change but to no avail. ๐Ÿ™‚
It's hard to change things that are hardwired either to the brain or subconcious.

At least youre trying. It says a lot about your willingness to change ๐Ÿ™‚
Absolutely. When I try to change, I just fail. My nature would still be visible to other people. ๐Ÿ™‚
Maybe try not to change it then, but turn it into positive traits instead.
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I'll try to do that. My negative traits tend to prevail than the positive ones. But I'll try not to hurt or harm others. ๐Ÿ™‚
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darkangel
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Story of my life Scorpio ASC
True. People who have lots of Scorpio/Pluto in chart radiate this dark and intense aura. I feel you. ๐Ÿ˜ข




Now I get why I can feel everyone looking at me when I walk into a room lol

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Haha. That's an advantage. Since you're a magnet then expect some people to admire or folllow you. ๐Ÿ˜„
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darkangel
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Yes, People have often told me that and I can sense it.
Exactly. You could really sense the stares and that they are intrigued by you.
Yes, I can always tell when there are eyes on me.
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Totally. It makes us conscious of ourselves if there's something wrong with us.

In my experience, I instantly become paranoid when people stare.
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darkangel
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I don't think people avoid me but they are not eager to talk to me either haha! But then I am totally fine with that because I am not much of a people person.

I had an old friend of best friend of mine walk up to me said I thought you were a total bitch but you are actually not. I do prefer directness like that.
Well people can sense your Scorpio Asc so they are afraid of your intensity. It's good to know that you are an introvert as well. ๐Ÿ˜„
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darkangel
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Do people get intimidated by you? Like when they first met you, they thought you are unapproachable and scary so they avoid you at all cost, but when they got to know you, you are really a nice and friendly person.

(Any sign is welcome to post here ๐Ÿ™‚ )

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Lol this is all subjective of course. I once had a Scorpio friend who was waaaaay more approachable and friendly than me. Him Scorpio Sun Capricorn Rising. Me Libra Sun Scorpio Rising. He had lots of friends. He nicknamed me The Rebel because I was always opposing something. I eventually got tired of him though because he was kind of "everybody's friend". There have been Scorpios I didn't talk to but it wasn't because I found them intimidating.. It was because I saw them as lazy and manipulative.
Yes. It really depends on the aspects and dominants of the person. Maybe there is something in your friend's chart that makes him/her that way or maybe people are attracted to his energy. ๐Ÿ™‚ I agree that Scorpios are manipulative. A friend of mine tried to manipulate me. I hate that. As much as I love my fellow Scorps, I tend to avoid too much contact with them. I prefer Virgo, Pisces or Aries to be my friend.
When I see "straightforward" associated with Scorpio I LOL. They usually want something and I'm the type who likes to ferret the truth out of folks. That's why we're no longer friends.
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Hahaha. Well they do not want to expose themselves or secrets so no wonder. Lol hahaha. If I was your friend, I would be extremely paranoid and might cut ties with you. Hahaha. Just kidding. ๐Ÿ˜„
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Do people get intimidated by you? Like when they first met you, they thought you are unapproachable and scary so they avoid you at all cost, but when they got to know you, you are really a nice and friendly person.

(Any sign is welcome to post here ๐Ÿ™‚ )

yes

Can you share your experience? ๐Ÿ™‚

When I was a child, my mother would stare at me and tell me that she could see the evil inside of me - in my eyes - it was hard to look into her eyes because I could see that she had a mental problem and I somehow understood that at a very early age. She got worse as us kids got older and the abuse just escalated especially toward me as I was the black sheep for what reason I don't know other than the fact that I fought against her trying to manipulate me like my siblings let her. I always sensed that she knew I didn't like the person that she was and she didn't like that I knew. For years I would stare at the ground when I walked and had trouble looking people in the eyes. A woman asked me for direction in the grocery store and when I looked up and at her she gasped and stepped back. WTF, then I answered her and she smiled. I do have a focused look. I'm a Taurus and Capricorn and I am usually thinking about serious stuff.- but I am a freaking barrel of laughs and all my friends love me and we always have a great time. As I got older I changed and now I smile and look people in the eye. They smile back. I started doing that as a personal experiment - I wanted to see if I could somehow mask the anger inside of me cause I did have a lot of anger but guess what - after a while just by doing a good job of it - that actually helped me to somehow overcome a lot of the anger inside me and I don't seem to get that much anymore. Not sure what that is but I believe it is anger which I experienced. At the time things were changing for me I realized I was always ready to defend myself - always defensive and I said to myself - "self" "there is no reason to be on the defensive anymore" - if someone is being mean to me, I can walk and/or just tell them to f u c k o f f ...
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Do people get intimidated by you? Like when they first met you, they thought you are unapproachable and scary so they avoid you at all cost, but when they got to know you, you are really a nice and friendly person.

(Any sign is welcome to post here ๐Ÿ™‚ )

yes

Can you share your experience? ๐Ÿ™‚

When I was a child, my mother would stare at me and tell me that she could see the evil inside of me - in my eyes - it was hard to look into her eyes because I could see that she had a mental problem and I somehow understood that at a very early age. She got worse as us kids got older and the abuse just escalated especially toward me as I was the black sheep for what reason I don't know other than the fact that I fought against her trying to manipulate me like my siblings let her. I always sensed that she knew I didn't like the person that she was and she didn't like that I knew. For years I would stare at the ground when I walked and had trouble looking people in the eyes. A woman asked me for direction in the grocery store and when I looked up and at her she gasped and stepped back. WTF, then I answered her and she smiled. I do have a focused look. I'm a Taurus and Capricorn and I am usually thinking about serious stuff.- but I am a freaking barrel of laughs and all my friends love me and we always have a great time. As I got older I changed and now I smile and look people in the eye. They smile back. I started doing that as a personal experiment - I wanted to see if I could somehow mask the anger inside of me cause I did have a lot of anger but guess what - after a while just by doing a good job of it - that actually helped me to somehow overcome a lot of the anger inside me and I don't seem to get that much anymore. Not sure what that is but I believe it is anger which I experienced. At the time things were changing for me I realized I was always ready to defend myself - always defensive and I said to myself - "self" "there is no reason to be on the defensive anymore" - if someone is being mean to me, I can walk and/or just tell them to f u c k o f f ...
why does this program change my words ... "I can walk and/or just tell them to FO ... "
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darkangel
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Yes, People have often told me that and I can sense it.
Exactly. You could really sense the stares and that they are intrigued by you.
Yes, I can always tell when there are eyes on me.
Totally. It makes us conscious of ourselves if there's something wrong with us.

In my experience, I instantly become paranoid when people stare.
Same. I tend to walk around with my head down so that I don't catch others glances.
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Same here! ๐Ÿ˜„
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darkangel
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Do people get intimidated by you? Like when they first met you, they thought you are unapproachable and scary so they avoid you at all cost, but when they got to know you, you are really a nice and friendly person.

(Any sign is welcome to post here ๐Ÿ™‚ )

yes

Can you share your experience? ๐Ÿ™‚

When I was a child, my mother would stare at me and tell me that she could see the evil inside of me - in my eyes - it was hard to look into her eyes because I could see that she had a mental problem and I somehow understood that at a very early age. She got worse as us kids got older and the abuse just escalated especially toward me as I was the black sheep for what reason I don't know other than the fact that I fought against her trying to manipulate me like my siblings let her. I always sensed that she knew I didn't like the person that she was and she didn't like that I knew. For years I would stare at the ground when I walked and had trouble looking people in the eyes. A woman asked me for direction in the grocery store and when I looked up and at her she gasped and stepped back. WTF, then I answered her and she smiled. I do have a focused look. I'm a Taurus and Capricorn and I am usually thinking about serious stuff.- but I am a freaking barrel of laughs and all my friends love me and we always have a great time. As I got older I changed and now I smile and look people in the eye. They smile back. I started doing that as a personal experiment - I wanted to see if I could somehow mask the anger inside of me cause I did have a lot of anger but guess what - after a while just by doing a good job of it - that actually helped me to somehow overcome a lot of the anger inside me and I don't seem to get that much anymore. Not sure what that is but I believe it is anger which I experienced. At the time things were changing for me I realized I was always ready to defend myself - always defensive and I said to myself - "self" "there is no reason to be on the defensive anymore" - if someone is being mean to me, I can walk and/or just tell them to f u c k o f f ...
That was a very sad and shocking experience. I'm very happy that you were able to overcome anger inside you. At least you were able to move on with your life, but still the scars are in your heart. I'm hoping that you would be able to maintain a positive disposition in life. ๐Ÿ™‚
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That was a very sad and shocking experience. I'm very happy that you were able to overcome anger inside you. At least you were able to move on with your life, but still the scars are in your heart. I'm hoping that you would be able to maintain a positive disposition in life. ๐Ÿ™‚



nice - thank you - well it sounds shocking I suppose but it was overall sad as you say - it was the norm - that scenario was minor comparatively but another chapter ... what affects children is carried into adulthood - it is just life and the way it is until you get older and then it is how you are able to deal at that point. I am no longer angry and I learn a little more every day - with age sometimes if we are lucky comes some wisdom - I am grateful for how far I've come - now my siblings are envious of me - I was the one made it - I focus on that part of life which is good and walk away from the rest because I don't need any more drama and stress ...
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YES they can be intimidating!

But I don't care I know they're actually softies deep down ๐Ÿ˜› Also I know they can act childish and wild once they feel comfortable with you. The poker face can fade away.

It's just the guard that makes them not so open and happy-go-lucky with everybody.

I like them like that! It is easy to make friends with someone who is super friendly, chatty, open.. To everybody.

But once you win a Scorpio, it's a meaningful, personal and strong bond.

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Posted by fallendarkangel
Do people get intimidated by you? Like when they first met you, they thought you are unapproachable and scary so they avoid you at all cost, but when they got to know you, you are really a nice and friendly person.

(Any sign is welcome to post here ๐Ÿ™‚ )

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This happens to me all--the--time.

I have strong Aqua placements, though, so I go back and forth between being okay with it (because that way I have plenty of space) and sometimes feeling ridiculous/lonely. People always tell me they're intimidated y me or are worried they're bothering me by talking to me.

I'm like... what?!

It's a definite vibe. I've come up with no rationalization for it. Blame it on a resting bitch face, perhaps.
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That was a very sad and shocking experience. I'm very happy that you were able to overcome anger inside you. At least you were able to move on with your life, but still the scars are in your heart. I'm hoping that you would be able to maintain a positive disposition in life. ๐Ÿ™‚
nice - thank you - well it sounds shocking I suppose but it was overall sad as you say - it was the norm - that scenario was minor comparatively but another chapter ... what affects children is carried into adulthood - it is just life and the way it is until you get older and then it is how you are able to deal at that point. I am no longer angry and I learn a little more every day - with age sometimes if we are lucky comes some wisdom - I am grateful for how far I've come - now my siblings are envious of me - I was the one made it - I focus on that part of life which is good and walk away from the rest because I don't need any more drama and stress ...



I'm very happy for you. At least you found happiness in your life. ๐Ÿ™‚ I had a trauma when I was younger and till now it still affects me that it made me a distrusting person. I hope I would be able to follow your example. ๐Ÿ™‚

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darkangel
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Posted by kaseke9
YES they can be intimidating!

But I don't care I know they're actually softies deep down ๐Ÿ˜› Also I know they can act childish and wild once they feel comfortable with you. The poker face can fade away.

It's just the guard that makes them not so open and happy-go-lucky with everybody.

I like them like that! It is easy to make friends with someone who is super friendly, chatty, open.. To everybody.

But once you win a Scorpio, it's a meaningful, personal and strong bond.

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Aww. Thank you. Well we conceal our real nature, so only the deserving people can see our softer side. ๐Ÿ™‚ We long for a lasting relationship, so superficial kinds of relationship don't usually go well with us. ๐Ÿ˜„
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as soon as we moved here, the elderly lady next door asked whether he would be kind enough to take out her trash every week (and he said yes ๐Ÿ™‚). i'm sure he didn't appear intimidating to her at all from day 1 for her to ask that lol


Maybe the elderly lady saw something. Maybe a radiating or positive aura. Every person see our energy differently. ๐Ÿ™‚ I'm also intimidating, but some people see me as a very positive and nice person. (Jupiter in 12th conj ASC I think) ๐Ÿ˜„
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Do people get intimidated by you? Like when they first met you, they thought you are unapproachable and scary so they avoid you at all cost, but when they got to know you, you are really a nice and friendly person.

(Any sign is welcome to post here ๐Ÿ™‚ )

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This happens to me all--the--time.

I have strong Aqua placements, though, so I go back and forth between being okay with it (because that way I have plenty of space) and sometimes feeling ridiculous/lonely. People always tell me they're intimidated y me or are worried they're bothering me by talking to me.

I'm like... what?!

It's a definite vibe. I've come up with no rationalization for it. Blame it on a resting bitch face, perhaps.
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Yes and since you have a strong Aqua then people sense your aloofness and detachment. They can also sense that in me, so no one approaches me. ๐Ÿ™‚
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I'm very happy for you. At least you found happiness in your life. ๐Ÿ™‚ I had a trauma when I was younger and till now it still affects me that it made me a distrusting person. I hope I would be able to follow your example. ๐Ÿ™‚





thanks, sorry about your trauma - I understand distrust - that was part of the defensiveness in me - I was ready to fight if anyone overstepped my boundaries and yet I was fearful that that would happen in itself - it's a double edge sword - I hope you can also find a way to learn and grow out of some of that so that you are more whole and enjoy the life you are entitled too - just keep searching for some answers is what I did - read, therapy, talk to others that you do trust, etc. it takes time but things started to really gel once I got older - all of a sudden the clouds parted and the sun started shining more often - I feel more free for the most part ...