Just dont do it....

Tried. Libra's. Love ya. But we are so damn different. And granted....we can learn from each other. And I have. But it doesn't make it any different. We are just so different. Scorpio's are for keeps. Once we care...we care. For better or for worse. I dont Libra's ever truly care. I have tried. And tried again. Thinking maybe its me. Something I did. Something I didnt do. Even made me feel bad about it. But no. We are just too different. Fun...hell yeah. We have fun together. And flirt so well together. Idealistically....we even get along there.
Sex....amazing...soooo amazing.....

We just love differently. Libra doesnt have it in them. They just dont. Not the deep down passionate die for you...have your back....loyalty...we will work it out ....king of love a Scorpio can give. Call it an experiment on my part if you will...

But after my long term relationship with my first libra....I tried again...thinking this time I knew better...knew how to handle the differences and the communication problems...but it was mostly me...mostly me trying to change how I am and what I want. I just know too much for a Libra. And it doesnt make me crazy. It makes me wiser. Yeah.. alittle crazy...cuz I would do it again. But this time...I really know its limited. I thought I knew that this time. But my passionate loyal nature got the better of me again.

I dont expect anyone to answer to this. You dont have to. There are no questions I have. Its more of a confession if anything. Hey...my bad...but damn it...I would do it again. Cuz when its soooo good...its sooo good.

Self inflicted Scorpio pain. I love it...I hate it...I cant help it....

I cant live without passion. It comes in so many forms. So many odd people.

Are you tipsy?

Libras wouldn't know depth or emotions if it slapped them in the face. I don't think I could ever get involved with them. Just their exaggerating screeching and smiling irritates the hell out of me, and generally their fake personalities..Its bad enough being friends but to take it to the next level..Hell no...They are too indecisive for my liking..

Well, I keep doing it over and over with the same person for 21 years! I'm realizing now that I was thinking with his amount of intelligence and the sensitive demeanor that there was something or could be something of depth beneath it. He seemed to do fine with the lonnnnnnnnnng distance relationship with his ex. She lives in Norway and occasionally visits the states. Now it appears that the distance made it safe for him and he found security in the past, stuck in a fantasy of sorts which isn't deep at all, just rehashing the same old images.

He's allergic to my need for emotional depth though. When I want/need to spelunk the cave of emotions he's more comfortable with sea room and the wind in his sails. Too bad they don't make some of those allergy shots to make libras more receptive to feelings! I'm afraid he's going to have an analphalactic reaction soon.

We went on a date last night. I kept the conversation light, kept commenting on the weather, until the end of dinner, when seemed receptive to my one and only comment on the last few weeks tumultuousness.

I don't know how much this means but our charts have a lot of similarities in major aspects. Once or twice a year we have a big conflict. I think it can work. The thread on Libras and sleep has given me extra insight into why he can't stand talking about our problems in bed! That's useful information!!!

gosh,
don't know what are you talking about guys, my bro is Libra and a very sensitive man full of emotions. Libras are kind of crazy though and they don't like too much clinging. But they DO feel.

Maybe its just the ones we've crossed nina..my pisces friend was with a Libra guy..it failed. Another Leo friend with a Libra guy, failed...all due to no emotions..I like their sense of humour its great and they are intelligent folk most of the time but as for relationships..Nah..

My husband also has definate emotions and feelings but they have a limit and there are definate boundaries. Perhaps it's the intimate nature of a relationship and it's binding qualities that appear to turn some off. "Libra" doesn't want to know about my darker thoughts. He likes happiness and light. I like that too, but both exist.

I'm in a position now where I am accepting these differences. There's even hope that through communication, he will understand his aversion as part of his nature and not my fault because I don't do these things to upset him. It's part of my nature. He feels helpless and frustrated that he can't "help" me. That's a male thing maybe more than sun sign quality. I don't want help. This is who I am and what I'm going through. Accept it or leave. We've both made the choice after all these years to keep working on it.

I realize there's something there or I'd have left long ago. We're on the verge of gently confronting his escapist fantasy. That's more important for me to understand than him. I now know better than to push him towards realizing things he doesn't want to see.

Well, thinking about it, my bro rising is scorpio. That may make a difference. I do know other libras taht are very egocentric.

I know two Libra males, and they are over-the-top egocentric and egotistical! Geez!!!