Lost - what the *#@% happened?!!!

Madly inlove, growing closer everyday, he wants to get married, I move to him, he becomes lazy, grows temper, I get annoyed, feel used, disrespected,

then, ohhhhhhhhh baby i love u wanna be with you forever

next day...nightmare all over again, i cry falling asleep, feel alone

What the f happened, how do i save this before it's too late. I KNOW we love each other, we used to be together non-stop and now the only way we can both be happy is apart, but apart we miss each other. He thinks it's me, i think it's him. It's us, but how the ffffffffffffffff to u get a taurus & a scorpio to make that realization and work on it. It just happens.

WITH OR WITHOUT YOU. 🙂 😢

TG I wish I could help you but.....hell I stop dating a Taurus....because I was not dealing with his crap. I really wish you luck and hope you and him can make it.

See I don't agree with moving in too quickly, things change..I like the distance, I like the missing part and the mystery..when its all there in front of you, you kind of get confused and start thinking.."is this it now"..I don't like that feeling..I like the feeling when you haven't seen each other for months and then when you do meet all you wanna do is rip each others clothes off in a millisecond!

Maintain distance..start doing your own thing..don't be stuck at the hip...He's not coping well with it all..you can tell...invasion of privacy and space and all that...

"when you haven't seen each other for months and then when you do meet all you wanna do is rip each others clothes off in a millisecond!"

lol.. hmmm.. what a delicious thought! 😉

LOL...Don't go getting any ideas SS!

Sorry to say this, Scorpios and Taurus simply are not good together.
The physical attraction is there, and it is very strong, but long(er) term, I have never met Scorp-Taurus succesfull couple. I really have to strain my memory to think of any where they didn't want to kill one another after a while. Two stubborn creatures, butt heads. Taurus doesn't understand Scorpio emotionally, and Scorpio gets moody and frustrated because of that. This is where Scorpio is emotioanally complex and more into nuances of feelings, and Taurus, being way more practical doesn't know how to deal with it. Leave Scorpios to Cancers and Pisces, they go together the best.
For Taurus, find yourself less complicated sign, a Virgo, or a Cap, I even saw lots of Taurus and Aries working well together. But not Scorpios.

Oh, and living together, and being together all the time are two different things.

To live together with someone, you really have to be extra compatible and comfortable with each other, it is not easy.

Have no advice how to save it. Perhaps to move out and start dating again?

Yes, moving together too soon is not good thing to do, because you do it in the first blush of passion, but then you realize, hey, we can't live together.
Why hurry? If you love each other madly, whole life is in front of you, why be in such a hurry to move in together until you really get to know each other very well?

Lubenica - what sign are you?

Please save us from Pisces & Cancer...

I am Gemini-Cancer cusp, but I consider myself a Cancer.

All I know is what I see in real life, and astro books just seem to comfirm it.

It doesn't meand that every Scorpio will end up with these two, of course not, it is statistically impossible. However, most happy couples I know or have heard of (say: celebrities) are, guess who : Cancer+Scorpio. Also Aries-Saggittarius. And believe it or not, Aries-Taurus.

There is very few successful Tarus - Scorpio couples out there. Surely there are some, as there are billions of people in this world, but not many. Two fixed (stubborn) signs don't go well together. Sorry to say something that someone doesn't want to hear, but these are the facts...

If you don't believe it, do your own research.

Hahaha,

Thanks Shaka!

Yes, I was born right on the cusp, but I look like a Cancer, behave like a Cancer and have moon in Cancer. So, very much a Cancer!

Just to add

Scorpios should also stick to other mutable and cardinal compatible signs : Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer, Pisces.

The most difficult relationships are between any combinations of fixed (stubborn) signs : Aquarius, Scorpio, Leo and Taurus.

Not to say that they cannot work, but two people within the fixed group need huge amounts of humility, understanding, tolearance and patience to maintain the two fixed sign relationship.

Very big call for many of these signs.

This is not just the astrology, it is common sense. Two stubborn, inflexible people are very hard work, who is going to compromise?

Probably the most succesful relationships between the two fixed signs are Leo - Taurus. But it still needs lots and lots of compromise.

Um...let's keep the private love chats to just that...private 🙂 Love whomever you would like...just not on our Scorp board.

Now with that being said. TG I am so sorry you and your Scorp are not working out. You just have to keep in mind that you as a Taurus are our polar opposite so of course nothign is going to be easy. Has he ever lived with anyone before? People that have been single for a long time become selfish when it comes to their space and privacy. When he wants space. Give it to him. I mean he honestly can't expect too much because you guys live together. But take some time on your own and let him do his own thing. Scorps love privacy we feel crowded if you are around all the time.

He'll come around. If not...dump his ass!

Hey, Shaka, LOL,

But I am married, just go for this other Cancerian full speed.

Sorry guys to disrupt your discussion, I've said my bit, Goodbye.

Shaka..why would I hide?..its just my opinion...I don't like them..as in Male..Cancer females are fine..I have two cancer friends..I just wouldn't want to date a cancerian/piscean man..theres just something about them that makes me wanna poke their flippin eyes out. My friend in Canada (scorp) has just met her cancer boyfriend..after being single for a loooooong time..and they are getting married next year..it can work..but each to their own I guess..

Two fixed signs might not work but what about other planetary alignments in your chart?..You can balance it out if the need arises...Must admit, haven't seen too many Taurus & Scorp couples...

Pffh...puleeze! No green eyed monster here baby 🙂

Cancers can be annoying no doubt. I am experiencing it first hand. BUT I can still deal with it. The loving afterwards make my heart go a-flutter 🙂

I fully agree that other planetary configurations will help two fixed signs get along better, but the Sun is our core identity, our temperament and personality, and it is very difficult when the two of these are not compatible. They generally (fixed signs) are very hard to fit in. That's why fixed-mutable (say Scorpio-Virgo, or Leo-Saggittarius etc) often works so well, because the mutable one is prepared to bend, while the fixed one has to change his/her core personality to do it, and this is very difficult. The problem with Taurus-Scorpio also is that the initial attracition is so magnetic, so both people get attached very quickly, but the problems arise when they need to do some other things except ones that need a bed to be done in.

But I do hope that our Taurus here and her Scorpio will find the way, I just wanted to point out that both of them need to be more compromising and flexible and aware of each other's natures to make it work. Maybe she should just give him a bit more space, not be too on top of him all the time (Scorpios need their space), perhaps that would do the trick.
I wish them all the best in any case.

P.S.

Oh, sorry, there is one fixed combo that usually works great, and this is Scorpio-Scorpio. I know loads of these.
But this is not surprising, because they are two water signs and they understand each other's emotions superbly. They feel one another and know how to deal with one another.
That's why water signs generally are good together, they feel each other vibes and know when to withdraw and when to be all over each other. So yeah, Scorp-Scorp, two fixed, usually excellent.

Yes I think Scorpio Scorpio work really well..god knows why but they do...A fellow Scorpio understands us...

As for Cancer males..I have one really good cancer male friend..he doesn't act like a cancer at all..anybody would think he was a Leo or something..He couldn't hold down a relationship if his life depended on it..he loves his women and lots of them..He's very handsome actually..

Shaka..Yeah humour radar was a bit bleeped...lost its infrared..

I must admit, I had thought the same as EG: "One minute you seem to thrive on the drama and the next you are crushed by it"

i also have to admit TG that am a little confused too.

in one thread you had it seemed like just normal adjustment problems that people have when they first live together. so i say, hang in there, it's all part of the discovery process. it's natural to be out of whack when you're not used to being in each other's space all the time.

but then, in another thread you very rationally and logically listed all the problems you were encountering. i admired the clarity and courage you had in listing them all out. most people would be in denial.

and after reading the list these problems didn't seem casual at all, and in fact some stuff seemed kinda scary... have you addressed any of the things on your list with him yet?

true JD, now pass me a fukkkkking shot of JD! lol

scorp5pt0, I have tried in small doses, and it's ok right now, but the truth is, long term - I'm worth more than this. I know I won't stay, but I'll take it one day at a time. I can't bolt right now, but my commitment steps and planning will change. He can do what he wants to prove my choices otherwise, but for real, I wish him good luck. Still love the guy, but I've never been weak enough to stay where I don't belong.

I have too many dreams, and too many options. I hope the same for all of you. 🙂

I can't help but get the feeling you are trying to change him in some way. If that is the case, really it isn't going to happen...Hell has more chance of freezing over..trust me I know!!!!

You have to just let them get on with it..don't be a pushover but don't fight with them either..

Its hard work..

"I've never been weak enough to stay where I don't belong"

good for you, TG! don't lose sight of this....since you love him i hope you can work it out but you are absolutely right - first and foremost, you need to be fair to yourself.

TG,

Yours is a real tough situation to be in. But 'if' you love him truly, then would it not be better to have a straight talk with him, keeping your temper under strong check, even when he hits the roof-top ??

Becoz he would be wanting to possess you body and soul and that would include 'anything' connected with you ..your personal possessions etc.( NOT money, but the usual little things which are real personal) It may be his idea of love.

All the same it would be better that you be on your guard, as he seems a bit to the darker side of scorpio - the Grey lizard type. If that is so, then it would be better that you review the whole situation, as it is you who has to bear it all and not anyone of us.