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@PhoenixRising... what is the *hypocrisy* which you speak?
Posted by shellshockerPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by shellshocker
you can get defensive all you want... I'm not saying this is ALL Scorpio women. It is ONE man's opinion. Just like a FEW other men have given theirs.. (have you noticed the mens opinions are similar)
R1g has the same drama stories, just different men..
And R24 if you don't give a shit if the man you are "sleeping with" respects you or not... well...
Hmmm, I don't know if having a different opinion and stating it makes one "defensive". I just found the contradiction interesting and pointed it out. Nothing more. Have I felt the feelings you outlined? Most definitely at various stages of my life. HOWEVER this isn't about me and I didn't see how the various feelings you listed applied to the OP or R1g, so *I* saw it as yet, just another way to bash a few Scorpio ladies. That was my only point.
I do agree, if you want to know how to understand someone of the opposite sex you should probably ask the opposite sex. However, I didn't read anything here that implied these women were looking for a deeper understanding of the opposite sex. Simply venting their frustrations.
The 1st couple of pages are all hyper Scorpio Ego defense.. How can 1 Man's opinion be turned into "gospel" as you said. I think that is just your perception
I don't hate Scorpios... I have a lot of Pluto in my chart. There are things I had to recognize about MYSELF.. to get to a better place and make changes. Just saying...
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"Gospel", one man's "truth", you got the point. My perception? Actually, it was this anonymous man's perception that you quoted that had a single experience and applied it to ALL Scorpio women. And rather than seeing it for what it was (one man's bitter experience that he clearly can't let go), it was then quoted here. For what purpose other than to make a blanket statement about ALL Scorpio women. The way in which you posted it before making your point to R1g (or all Scorpio women?) suggest that this is how *we* Scorpio women are. It didn't address the OP, anything she actually post in *this* particular thread.
I don't think you hate Scorpios at all, but I do think the beginning of your post had something else there--I
.....*sigh* continued...
"Gospel", one man's "truth", you got the point. My perception? Actually, it was this anonymous man's perception that you quoted that had a single experience and applied it to ALL Scorpio women. And rather than seeing it for what it was (one man's bitter experience that he clearly can't let go), it was then quoted here. For what purpose other than to make a blanket statement about ALL Scorpio women. The way in which you posted it before making your point to R1g (or all Scorpio women?) suggest that this is how *we* Scorpio women are. It didn't address the OP, anything she actually post in *this* particular thread.
I don't think you hate Scorpios at all, but I do think the beginning of your post had something else there--It didn't feel like "love" . But hey
^^^ last bit,...teasing SS.
"Gospel", one man's "truth", you got the point. My perception? Actually, it was this anonymous man's perception that you quoted that had a single experience and applied it to ALL Scorpio women. And rather than seeing it for what it was (one man's bitter experience that he clearly can't let go), it was then quoted here. For what purpose other than to make a blanket statement about ALL Scorpio women. The way in which you posted it before making your point to R1g (or all Scorpio women?) suggest that this is how *we* Scorpio women are. It didn't address the OP, anything she actually post in *this* particular thread.
I don't think you hate Scorpios at all, but I do think the beginning of your post had something else there--It didn't feel like "love" . But hey
^^^ last bit,...teasing SS.
Posted by shellshocker
@PhoenixRising... what is the *hypocrisy* which you speak?
The fact that the man was speaking of Scorpio women projecting while he was projecting a single experience onto others. That wasn't directed towards you.
Posted by R24Posted by shellshocker but these are all your choices. If you don't need a man like you preaching now.. then don't be with one. Jesus, I'm like 20 years younger than you... it's painful.
sorry dear... you are just teen age drama. You say Scorps grow out of it but you haven't yet. why is that?
Sorry if you don't like that we dont become an old woman in a house dress crocheting something while waiting for the cookies to get doneclick to expand
I take it that last line was for me... being a Cancer?
I'm not single, i have plenty of sex and it is often inappropriate. I wouldn't be caught dead in a house dress and I don't crochet or bake, lol! I am a fabulous cook tho 🙂
Posted by shellshockerPosted by R24Posted by shellshocker but these are all your choices. If you don't need a man like you preaching now.. then don't be with one. Jesus, I'm like 20 years younger than you... it's painful.
sorry dear... you are just teen age drama. You say Scorps grow out of it but you haven't yet. why is that?
Sorry if you don't like that we dont become an old woman in a house dress crocheting something while waiting for the cookies to get done
I take it that last line was for me... being a Cancer?
I'm not single, i have plenty of sex and it is often inappropriate. I wouldn't be caught dead in a house dress and I don't crochet or bake, lol! I am a fabulous cook tho 🙂
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inappropriate sex? should you be bragging about your penchant for children here?
Posted by PhoenixRising
.....*sigh* continued...
"Gospel", one man's "truth", you got the point.
And rather than seeing it for what it was (one man's bitter experience that he clearly can't let go), it was then quoted here. For what purpose other than to make a blanket statement about ALL Scorpio women. The way in which you posted it before making your point to R1g (or all Scorpio women?) suggest that this is how *we* Scorpio women are. It didn't address the OP, anything she actually post in *this* particular thread.
How do you know that this man's experience was once? Or that he is bitter about it and can't let it go? If you don't agree with his opinion.. fine.
BUT... you did say that you have done all the things I listed in my initial post. hmmmmm...
I ride R1g's ass all the time. If she wants me to stop.. i'm sure she can tell me herself...
Posted by R1g0rM0rT1sPosted by shellshockerPosted by R24Posted by shellshocker but these are all your choices. If you don't need a man like you preaching now.. then don't be with one. Jesus, I'm like 20 years younger than you... it's painful.
sorry dear... you are just teen age drama. You say Scorps grow out of it but you haven't yet. why is that?
Sorry if you don't like that we dont become an old woman in a house dress crocheting something while waiting for the cookies to get done
I take it that last line was for me... being a Cancer?
I'm not single, i have plenty of sex and it is often inappropriate. I wouldn't be caught dead in a house dress and I don't crochet or bake, lol! I am a fabulous cook tho 🙂
inappropriate sex? should you be bragging about your penchant for children here?click to expand
haha! I was reading Tubby's thread on what/where/ how nasty has your sex been and I made a mental list.. *facepalm*
^^^ don't look now, Ellybean... your moon is showing. *sexy✨
Posted by shellshockerPosted by PhoenixRising
How do you know that this man's experience was once? Or that he is bitter about it and can't let it go?
Because you wrote:
Posted by shellshocker
This is something that was talked about from a MAN about a SCORPIO WOMEN...
Just so you can see how you all ladies CAN come off..
" I was attracted to this Scorpio Woman once, but her weakness of character was what turned me off. And the constant displays of weakness of character. Her desire to control others was a direct reflection of her lack of control over herself.
Projection, projection, projection. Nagging, criticizing, envious and jealous of those with power and position because she lacked it in herself and would try to over compensate.
Scorpios will fight, fight, fight with that fixed nature they have and rarely admit when they are wrong. If they ever do, they briefly admit it in a very defensive way and then go into hyper ego mode to make themselves feel better or will wallow in self pity."
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^^^ That sounds a little bitter to me... "attracted to a Scorpio woman once" sort of implies one experience, but then again this is my perception. Noted. And you're right, I stated I "felt" these feelings before--I didn't say I did anything you are referring to. Who hasn't felt envy, jealousy, projected feelings, criticized others--come on really? Again, *this* isn't about me. Not sure why you are now making it so ("BUT... you did say that you have done all the things I listed in my initial post. hmmmmm...")
You're very right, R1g can tell you herself to stop--but my initial post wasn't written in her defense. As I stated, it was to simply point out the issue I had with the QUOTE you posted. That's why I stated at the end "as you were...". I had no plans to contribute to the thread, hijack it, or come to any of these very capable womens defense. You have ridden my ass a few times too--I appreciated it. Nothing more implied (e.g. that you hate Scorpios, etc...)
i am oblivious to anyone riding my ass 😄
you ladies make me laugh 😄 *carry on*
Getty Up Girl: 😉
there seems to be a sub-thread going on here 😛
i now have two men coming to check on my plumbing tomorrow. one is the crab and the other is the landlord's agent who i suspect is a leo as he is totally full of shit. i bet what will happen is that the crab will have been, fixed it and gone by the time the suspected leo makes his first call to say he's delayed or can't make it or whatever other lion-like bullshit excuse he'll have.
and if he's not a leo....he is now!
and if he's not a leo....he is now!
hey R24...seraph's MY morsel!!!
but i guess you're closer.........😛
but i guess you're closer.........😛
There you go, 2 for the price of 1. LOL.
A leo. Good Luck with both of them.
A leo. Good Luck with both of them.
hey Rig
fish out of water
fish out of water
i don't get where fapping in the shower came into this. sex is sex. masturbation is not sex. why on earth would i DIY when i can have someone come do it for me?
making love is a whoooooooole different thing and i'm not talking about that on this thread. at all.
men are so judgmental of women who hold what they perceive as 'masculine' views towards sex. why can't we like the act and involve another person in just that act. guys do it all the time...who do you think we're doing it with—??
making love is a whoooooooole different thing and i'm not talking about that on this thread. at all.
men are so judgmental of women who hold what they perceive as 'masculine' views towards sex. why can't we like the act and involve another person in just that act. guys do it all the time...who do you think we're doing it with—??
Good. Me too. 1 on 1. Rock the world baby!
Posted by R24Posted by cbseawind
There you go, 2 for the price of 1. LOL.
A leo. Good Luck with both of them.
One on one baby! I could never have a 3some. I'm waaayyy too jealous and possessive for that.click to expand
lol....well i didn't even get the menage a troi reference but it's not my cup of tea either.
trois!!! oooooh la la!
I agree Rig1.
Women have that abiility to get any man they want just by opening that front door.
Oh by the way, nice new pic of view. NICE!
Women have that abiility to get any man they want just by opening that front door.
Oh by the way, nice new pic of view. NICE!
I'm in. Who else?
If another guy, all I have to say is no crossing swords.
If another guy, all I have to say is no crossing swords.
Posted by Ellybean
My moon is always showing. Lol. It's the Scorpio that tends to be jailed more often.
😛 😛 😛 r24
This calls for a new thread.
Posted by R24Posted by domzPosted by R24Posted by domz
Fapin' the shower are for those hard times, when my sexual economy is depressed. Like now. But I can hold out til bed time 😛click to expand
LOL @ "when Sexual economy is depressed"!
Oops "*my" don't want to misquote you.
Women have that abiility to get any man they want just by opening that front door.
Posted by scorchedearthPosted by cbseawind
I agree Rig1.
Women have that abiility to get any man they want just by opening that front door.
Oh by the way, nice new pic of view. NICE!
'
lolwut? women get rejected all the time too. have you ever read ANY of the threads on ANY of the boards? it's always "how can i get my X man back" "why doesn't he like me" "did i do the right thing by sleeping with him right away".
i'll never understand why some men think women have it so much easier as far as sex or relationships.click to expand
i've got to say that i think both men and women have it easy as far as sex is concerned...women maybe have the edge but they choose not to use it and so prick tease instead. relationships are hard across the board.
Women have that abiility to get any man they want just by opening that front door.
Oh by the way, nice new pic of view. NICE!
'
lolwut? women get rejected all the time too. have you ever read ANY of the threads on ANY of the boards? it's always "how can i get my X man back" "why doesn't he like me" "did i do the right thing by sleeping with him right away".
i'll never understand why some men think women have it so much easier as far as sex or relationships.
Scorchedearth - in this instance I was not referring to relationships. Just sex. Women can get sex at most of the time. Men have to find that right, ah female, ( a lot of words come to mind be will not use them) if he wants sex. Rig1 wrote that it is just as easy for men. That is not so. Only a few small percentage of men get sex when they want. Most do not.
I am talking about that type of sex that makes one's eyes roll back in their head. Hot, sweaty, completely out of breath for a long period sex.
Oh by the way, nice new pic of view. NICE!
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lolwut? women get rejected all the time too. have you ever read ANY of the threads on ANY of the boards? it's always "how can i get my X man back" "why doesn't he like me" "did i do the right thing by sleeping with him right away".
i'll never understand why some men think women have it so much easier as far as sex or relationships.
Scorchedearth - in this instance I was not referring to relationships. Just sex. Women can get sex at most of the time. Men have to find that right, ah female, ( a lot of words come to mind be will not use them) if he wants sex. Rig1 wrote that it is just as easy for men. That is not so. Only a few small percentage of men get sex when they want. Most do not.
I am talking about that type of sex that makes one's eyes roll back in their head. Hot, sweaty, completely out of breath for a long period sex.
lolwut? women get rejected all the time too. have you ever read ANY of the threads on ANY of the boards? it's always "how can i get my X man back" "why doesn't he like me" "did i do the right thing by sleeping with him right away".
i'll never understand why some men think women have it so much easier as far as sex or relationships.
i've got to say that i think both men and women have it easy as far as sex is concerned...women maybe have the edge but they choose not to use it and so prick tease instead. relationships are hard across the board.
Rig12 I have to completely disagree about men getting sex as easy as women. Only some men have the ability to get it whenever they want. Not talking married guys. Women can get sex pretty much whenver they want just by being friendly and open.
Posted by cbseawind
Women have that abiility to get any man they want just by opening that front door.
Oh by the way, nice new pic of view. NICE!
'
lolwut? women get rejected all the time too. have you ever read ANY of the threads on ANY of the boards? it's always "how can i get my X man back" "why doesn't he like me" "did i do the right thing by sleeping with him right away".
i'll never understand why some men think women have it so much easier as far as sex or relationships.
Scorchedearth - in this instance I was not referring to relationships. Just sex. Women can get sex at most of the time. Men have to find that right, ah female, ( a lot of words come to mind be will not use them) if he wants sex. Rig1 wrote that it is just as easy for men. That is not so. Only a few small percentage of men get sex when they want. Most do not.
I am talking about that type of sex that makes one's eyes roll back in their head. Hot, sweaty, completely out of breath for a long period sex.
you can have that kind of sex without being emotionally involved. well i can at least. actually i INSIST on it, lol...not in a dominating way but i'm certainly not a blink and you miss it kinda girl, lol.
Posted by cbseawind
lolwut? women get rejected all the time too. have you ever read ANY of the threads on ANY of the boards? it's always "how can i get my X man back" "why doesn't he like me" "did i do the right thing by sleeping with him right away".
i'll never understand why some men think women have it so much easier as far as sex or relationships.
i've got to say that i think both men and women have it easy as far as sex is concerned...women maybe have the edge but they choose not to use it and so prick tease instead. relationships are hard across the board.
Rig12 I have to completely disagree about men getting sex as easy as women. Only some men have the ability to get it whenever they want. Not talking married guys. Women can get sex pretty much whenver they want just by being friendly and open.
maybe that IS the case but i don't spose you've noticed that women don't behave like that on the whole?? men can get sex by paying for it...how easy is that, lol!
and actually, it pissed me off that you said about being 'friendly and open' cos the problem from a woman's perspective is that when she is being genuinely 'friendly and open' it gets misconstrued by men like yourself!
you're not exactly being a champion for your gender either, lol. everyone knows the dick rules the man.
Well Rig1, that what I was referring to. YOu even admit that you prefer this type of sex and can get it whenver you want. Most men can not.
More passionate sex with feelings, well that is completely different. YOu have to find someone who you can trust and wanting to please you in everyway. That is hard to find.
More passionate sex with feelings, well that is completely different. YOu have to find someone who you can trust and wanting to please you in everyway. That is hard to find.
the quoting on this page makes baby jesus cry!
I didn't know that baby Jesus can read?
Hey I ending up in hell anyway, might as well have a lot of fun while I am alive. RIGHT?
I didn't know that baby Jesus can read?
Hey I ending up in hell anyway, might as well have a lot of fun while I am alive. RIGHT?
Posted by cbseawind
Well Rig1, that what I was referring to. YOu even admit that you prefer this type of sex and can get it whenver you want. Most men can not.
More passionate sex with feelings, well that is completely different. YOu have to find someone who you can trust and wanting to please you in everyway. That is hard to find.
oh no i didn't say i could get that kind of sex when i wanted it at all. you make me sound like a floozy sir!!! i'm just saying that it is possible without emotional attachment. for me, even really loving sensual sex can have absolutely zero emotional attachment. could be my virgo rising although i suspect it's more to do with my mars in leo combined with the fact that i grew up with 4 brothers in a male dominated environment.
Yes Rig1, men can pay for sex. Not talking about that.
Do not want to piss you off but my reference is that if a woman just wants sex, she just has to friendly and open to a man she wants. Being midscontruced is again a different item.
Believe or not I am always a gentleman. If a woman is friendly and open I accept as it is. Getting to know me and I to know her. Where this goes is where it goes. Sex or relationship depends on us.
Am I a champion for my gender, no. Just being up front and honest as to what most men think. And yes, the dick rules most men. Unfortunately most of the time it does not rule me. At times it did but not always.
Shit. Miss out on a lot of you know what. LOL. Damm morales,honesty and being a gentleman.
Do not want to piss you off but my reference is that if a woman just wants sex, she just has to friendly and open to a man she wants. Being midscontruced is again a different item.
Believe or not I am always a gentleman. If a woman is friendly and open I accept as it is. Getting to know me and I to know her. Where this goes is where it goes. Sex or relationship depends on us.
Am I a champion for my gender, no. Just being up front and honest as to what most men think. And yes, the dick rules most men. Unfortunately most of the time it does not rule me. At times it did but not always.
Shit. Miss out on a lot of you know what. LOL. Damm morales,honesty and being a gentleman.
Yes R24, make a loud thunder. Shake your world, over and over.
tell me , do you have to announce it. really...
lol
Posted by cbseawind
Rig1, not calling you a floozy at all. Are you??
Just writing that if a female wants she can.
Well growing up with 4 men you can see and hear their views.
a fuh-looooooo-zeh—? MOI—? 😛
i didn't grow up with four men...they started out as babies just like me, lol. add to that the fact that our dad was a senior officer in the israeli army and living on army bases as a kid....yeah, well boys were just boys really. it was GIRLS i had no knowledge or understanding of, lol.
in england they would call me a ladette. i look like a lady but i'm absolutely not lol.
Posted by cbseawind
the quoting on this page makes baby jesus cry!
I didn't know that baby Jesus can read?
Hey I ending up in hell anyway, might as well have a lot of fun while I am alive. RIGHT?
Sheesh.... Ricky Bobby....
Posted by dimitri
tell me , do you have to announce it. really...
do i have to announce my man ban do you mean?
well i'm stopping short of issuing a press release and just sticking up some posters in local bars for now.
Rig1 - I do not think that at all of view. Just expressing that if a female wants she can. Yes men to mis-interpret her intent.
Being with 4 brothers has probably showed what men think and can do. I grew up with nothing but brothers.
Hopefully your brothers weren't too difficult on you.
Being with 4 brothers has probably showed what men think and can do. I grew up with nothing but brothers.
Hopefully your brothers weren't too difficult on you.
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by cbseawind
the quoting on this page makes baby jesus cry!
I didn't know that baby Jesus can read?
Hey I ending up in hell anyway, might as well have a lot of fun while I am alive. RIGHT?
Sheesh.... Ricky Bobby....
that is BRILLIANT!!!!!
Oh you poor kid. A military kid. My heart goes to you.
No I do not think ill or anything bad of you at all.
A tomboy is OK. They are alot of fun to be with. Straight up and no BS. I prefer that.
No I do not think ill or anything bad of you at all.
A tomboy is OK. They are alot of fun to be with. Straight up and no BS. I prefer that.
Posted by cbseawind
Rig1 - I do not think that at all of view. Just expressing that if a female wants she can. Yes men to mis-interpret her intent.
Being with 4 brothers has probably showed what men think and can do. I grew up with nothing but brothers.
Hopefully your brothers weren't too difficult on you.
they were fine but ridiculously protective...aqua, virgo, cancer, pisces. it was good to hang out with boys growing up but the fact that i relate to men on their own level as a woman is almost always seen as me flirting with them and to be honest...i don't really flirt.
Scorcheearth - not talking about lesbians. Only the heterosexual women. Do not change the topic.
Well Rig1, men will be men. Protect their women, even it is their sister. Especially their sister.
You are alright. I know you don't really flirt, much. But women are women. LOL. Do it instinctly.
You are alright. I know you don't really flirt, much. But women are women. LOL. Do it instinctly.
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