@PhoenixRising
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Posted by IrresistableScorp
Who is that nutjob Evan and Jack? What a head case... 😕
I was wondering the same thing. I can never keep up with people deleting and creating a new accounts just to display another side of their personality.
Do not waste my time, life goes on. One have better things to do with ones efforts and energy; efficiency.
One minute you lot are in and the next minute you lot are out, yes...unfortunately/fortunately boredom sets in rather quickly for one, despite one attempting to curb this behaviour (if it could even be but stated as thus). Otherwise, you lot may simply have a less than stellar personality, lacking in charisma and intelligence to keep one occupied, thereby interested, in establishing or reaffirming the already set and laid out friendships etc. (whatever the rest of them categories may be).
After all, 'tis but yet another Season of Change. Where the unnecessary, the unworthy, the useless are cast aside, bare necessities, only quality stands to last.
[sweep, bin, politely guide their way to the door, 'The Exit']
This trait; considered as cold and cruel or simple and sane?
Intrigued - Oh, do tell one about it.
You know, quite a fair amount of individuals take upon our kinder, sweeter, and gentler sides as the one that may but consists wholly of who we are. However, they are clueless to our other truer self underneath, we may be pleasing and loyal, putting our entire being into those and for those we truly care about but do anything to question it, take us for granted or abuse whatever investments one have placed into it and we are as blunt as can be, cut and disappear.
[shrugs]
It is a wonder, why. on. earth. we are taken for nothing but 'soft' creatures, which we could be, though hardly naive, a push over, or a doormat...
/non-sensicalrant(?)
/commonstingertheme(?)
#Commonstingertheme LadyScorp. Unfortunately.
Posted by IrresistableScorp
I hate cheesy lines men give. Oh please. Really? That works for you? haha
Oh dear you pulled a cheesy line on a scorpio woman and look what you got. lol True story.Guy: Cheesy line--can't remember it because it was ridiculous. But something along the lines of "We should get to know eachother because I feel lust for you."
Me: No thank you.
Guy: Why not? More cheesy talk about how beautiful I am, blah blah blah
Me: You're not my type.
Guy: What?!? How can you say that? (translation: but I'm hot)
Me: I like the intelligent types.
Guy: Are you calling me stupid?
Me: No its just that I don't think we'll be able to have an interesting conversations, that's all.
Guy: How do you know that?!!?!! We just met.
Me: Trust me. I know.I'm pretty sure he was a Leo. lol
[laughs]
A classic sentiment, indeed.
Gut feelings, intuition and knowledge reaped from prior experiences, that lethal combination proves to be rather reliable, in most cases...to say the least.
We split up and I hope it doesn't go like my first boyfriend where I was crying for a whole year and acting retarded. It felt like I was.
^^^^ LOL!!! I had to click the Fish board and I didn't even have to read the thread to know it's full of drama....maybe I'll look at it later. Probably not.
I can tolerate many things, but when I put the kettle on to make a cup of tea and you take most of the water to make yourself a cup, little Crab legs need to be broken. I don't care how cute you are!
*crack knuckles*
Posted by Nemesis
but i do confess, we like to prod and beat them a little, makes the meat nice and tender! 🙂
Posted by Neurotoxin
Day...I dunno...6?...without ADHD meds:Meh...
You might have mentioned it already (sue me I'm too lazy to look), but why are you going off these meds Rabbit?
I am curious (or nosy--you pick).
Posted by everevolvingepithet
PR, is it a nice, lovely one? :-?
I don't follow E....what do you mean?
Posted by everevolvingepithet
PR, is it a nice, lovely one? :-?I don't follow E....what do you mean?
The nose you like picking!🙂
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LOL. I've been told it's quite cute. Nostrils flare a little when I'm pissed though.
I seem to be putting my foot in my mouth.....again. *shrug*
Scorp: we should get a panini maker.
Cap: we have one.
Scorp: (incredulous) then why are you not making me paninis?!!
Lol
Lol^^^^
ugh...you make my shoes hurt!
cant stand that perv at work. coming on to all the females like he's a god or something. he gets this wild look on his face and i swear i see him drool. i always make sure to keep something sharp in my hand when he looks at me.
it's like yo, dont be so gross! etchi na koto suruna! omae!
why is the cat EXTRA pleased with itself because it let one loose? lol
Intrigued:
Would it be terribly mad, for one to say the 'moment' you shared, but brought a tear to fall?
Thank you for writing, it was touchingly so.
Posted by IrresistableScorp
The more profound the truth, the more emotional the response I have found in life, LS. The heart always knows the truth when it hears it. xxx
May I quote that as a status?
Even the fallen lost souls, find their way, some day, perhaps not here in this plane or realm but eventually in another. If only life would but allow purer souls to but touch them all, before they are lost forever, alas that will never always be. Reality.
xoxox
i equate you to 'the thinker/ poet.'
After all the pain you have left me in, all that while ago.
You return, come walking back into my life as if I would but take you back in open arms.
No, you were never there when my soul was torn apart, leave me, be gone.
Cry out as you might, rotting in your creation, this hell which you have dug with your very own hands.
Now you apologize, I forgive you but the moment have passed and I cannot forget.
You are too late, now go.
[le sigh]
Life; when it rains, it pours.
Infecting this thread as well.
*sip tea and watch the destruction*
Wow. The Wizard just cleaned all of that off the board. I blinked (aka refreshed my page) and it was all gone.
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
After all the pain you have left me in, all that while ago.
You return, come walking back into my life as if I would but take you back in open arms.
No, you were never there when my soul was torn apart, leave me, be gone.
Cry out as you might, rotting in your creation, this hell which you have dug with your very own hands.
Now you apologize, I forgive you but the moment have passed and I cannot forget.
You are too late, now go.[le sigh]
Life; when it rains, it pours.
I always found it interesting that two people can have very different experiences, but when the emotional experience is expressed by one it speaks to the other as though it was one shared experience.
I've only seen this occur this with other water signs.
**hug**
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
After all the pain you have left me in, all that while ago.
You return, come walking back into my life as if I would but take you back in open arms.
No, you were never there when my soul was torn apart, leave me, be gone.
Cry out as you might, rotting in your creation, this hell which you have dug with your very own hands.
Now you apologize, I forgive you but the moment have passed and I cannot forget.
You are too late, now go.[le sigh]
Life; when it rains, it pours.
I always found it interesting that two people can have very different experiences, but when the emotional experience is expressed by one it speaks to the other as though it was one shared experience.
I've only seen this occur this with other water signs.
**hug**
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[smile on reception of (hug), appreciate it and thank you, (hug) in return]
Oh, one is fine. Simply another one of those moments in life where one must purge oneself of emotions as required, bask in it, bath in it, sink into it and one will only emerge whole again, once the utter exhaustion have but passed. After all emotions still exists as our primary home, it is innate to our being and soul. One always accept experiences like this, as merely but the beauty in which exists within human consciousness, nothing particularly melancholic or dramatic about it, it just is. Life 🙂
In regards to your sentiments; emotions, when true, know no bounds, it is a language that can be expressed to all, universal, across all of humanity, even the lost souls of them lot will but understand, touched even though unwillingly to be saved. Perhaps, this is the one saving grace, where everyone can and will be but a shining beacon of light to at least one other soul within a lifetime, despite the heavy prices we pay, passing along, that is but one glorious reward.
"The more profound the truth, the more emotional the response. The heart always knows the truth when it hears it." - Intrigued
/stingeremotionalpluggotcloggednowcleansed(?)
It is truly a lighter version of hell outside----D*MN IT it's hot!!!!
I walk by the neighbourhood kids, I'm sure they are outside because either their homes are hotter inside than out or their parents said "go play outside!" Interesting, I see no play. No double dutch, no hop scotch, no water fights or tag. All I see are cell phones.
*sigh* I am so glad I had a electronic-free childhood.
Posted by PhoenixRising
It is truly a lighter version of hell outside----D*MN IT it's hot!!!!I walk by the neighbourhood kids, I'm sure they are outside because either their homes are hotter inside than out or their parents said "go play outside!" Interesting, I see no play. No double dutch, no hop scotch, no water fights or tag. All I see are cell phones.
*sigh* I am so glad I had a electronic-free childhood.
Ah but there's probably app versions of those games!🙂
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LOL! It's not the same. Did you ever play tag and "accidentally" hit a boob? Soak that girl you had a crush on (or hated) with a water balloon? Not the same at all......
When two Scorps have beef there is this very clear "don't get in my space or I will make yours very unpleasant" understanding between the two and nothing needs to be said.
*chew an olive*
Posted by PhoenixRising
When two Scorps have beef there is this very clear "don't get in my space or I will make yours very unpleasant" understanding between the two and nothing needs to be said.*chew an olive*
-_- olives?
Did you bring enough of those olives for everyone's glass?!
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Actually I did. I bought a whole case. I'm off dairy for a bit and needed something salty and chewy. Everyone is free to use them how they see fit. Cheers!
It's a great substitute for cheese 😄
Ooh, I love olives!!
My (libra)son decided to try and skip school today. 😢
Funny, the past few days he's been good as gold, he and his friend (pisces) have been doing their homework right away without being told and such.
The other day, Scorp says, "they are up to something."
Today I got a call he didn't make it to school.
I was freaking out and I sent mr. Scorp to check the house. He left work without a question.
Mr. Scorp somehow knew he didn't really "miss" the bus, so when he got there he played dumb til the libra spilled his guts. Then he played it up all the way to school making the libra sweat it out, saying he didn't know what the school would do to him, that he's gonna lose privileges at home, etc.
What would I do without this man?
of course he blames the Pisces saying it was the Pisces idea.
Lol.
"Your real job in the world is to be you" ~ India Arie
The scorp is in the doghouse. 😢
Yesterday was our anniversary, not only did he come home empty handed, he actually said that it was not a day, not a big deal, that it was made up, because we are not married. It made me feel really dumb.
I was absolutely un-consolable all night and it carried into this morning. Like I started crying on my break at work. I just feel very under valued, unappreciated, and like I'm always the person who does everything, who loves the other person more.
I just don't even feel like talking to him right now, and it really sucks. I don't know how I am going to break out of this funk.
I never make a big deal out of things and he said that is why he thought it just wouldn't matter.
Posted by capgirl69
The scorp is in the doghouse. 😢Yesterday was our anniversary, not only did he come home empty handed, he actually said that it was not a day, not a big deal, that it was made up, because we are not married. It made me feel really dumb.
I was absolutely un-consolable all night and it carried into this morning. Like I started crying on my break at work. I just feel very under valued, unappreciated, and like I'm always the person who does everything, who loves the other person more.
I just don't even feel like talking to him right now, and it really sucks. I don't know how I am going to break out of this funk.
I never make a big deal out of things and he said that is why he thought it just wouldn't matter.
I'm really sorry to hear that. We can be absent minded when it comes to certain things when we simply don't follow. I don't celebrate anniversaries (that aren't "real" in my mind) either, but this does not mean it is any less important to the other person and we need to be told that. Two of ex(s) were into that stuff and I unintentionally hurt their feelings because I just "forgot". I'm sure that sounds weird coming from a Scorp. It did not mean I cared for them any less or did not appreciate them. Can I suggest that when you feel ready to, that you tell him what you posted (e.g. that you feel unappreciated, undervalued) so you can talk about it. Don't let him get into defensive mode either. Just state this is how you're feeling and you don't want it to continue to be an issue.
Thanks Phoenix!
By the way, he didn't forget, he just refused to acknowledge it.
What really upset me is he said it was made up, not real.
It was real to me and it made me feel dumb.
He said that he can't keep track of what's real and made up because I didn't care when I got nothing for valentines day because valentines day is made up.
Well, valentines day is made up but an anniversary is real because something actually happened on that day.
But he said nothing happened on that day because we are not married.
So apparently meeting me was very insignificant,
Go figure.
But thanks for listening ! 🙂
But he said nothing happened on that day because we are not married.
So apparently meeting me was very insignificant,Go figure.
Ouch.
I don't think that is what he meant, but I can see why you're upset. I also don't think you should feel dumb because he does not see things the way you do. It just looks like you're on different pages when it comes to meaningful events. As well, it sounds like he's a little black and white in his thinking..."you didn't care about this, so therefore you shouldn't care about that".
I kind of understand where he is coming from though. This is not to say that meeting someone that I am committed to is not significant, but (for me) this is not the same as making the ultimate commitment to someone. I'll try to explain (my brain is mushy right now...)
I never liked the term "wifey" and would object to being called that whenever my ex or his friends called me that. I was very clear "no, I am his girlfriend". I take certain titles very seriously and I'm not interested in playing a role or pretending we are something we are not. If someone is declaring to the world and making that type of commitment to me that is a BIG deal. I say this because this is not to imply that anyone that is not my husband (or in your case, not his wife) is insignificant or that the moment you decided to be together is insignificant (what type of anniversary is this exactly?), it just means I respect certain levels of commitment differently. For all I know, we may break up. How many times have I felt like this one could be the one? How foolish would I be to celebrate every single time I am in a relationship? Do you know how many "anniversaries" I would have by now? To me, the idea of celebrating an anniversary would no longer hold any value to me. What separates my husband from Joe Blow when I was 16?
I hope this makes sense.
(I don't know if I have typos. If I do, let's pretend I don't.)
^^^I'm having issues posting....again.
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Way out of hand. He was spreading Rabbit poop every where!!!!!! Made me want to hurl.
I kid, I kid.....it didn't make me want to hurl.