FixedWater
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My Scorpio Daughter see's her dad dead (Page 2)
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Posted by IrresistableScorp
The woman is trying to do the best by her child. Everyone else can see this. Why can't you?
Let's take a look at this irresisitable shall we? You are endorsing and think it's ok that a parent who thinks it's ok to only address a fear from words verses the other parent leaving the child with a total stranger while he goes out to drink and gamble?
STFU
Posted by FixedWater
Thanks IS, I have no intentions of taking it to social services.
The man he left her with was in fact a complete stranger. Not a babysitter that was new. He told her not to tell me (teaching her to lie) and she managed to keep it a secret from me for 3 weeks. It really took a toll on her though.
Noooooo, I am not deleting this thread. Why would I? 😄
...and you claim you love your child and this^^^^^ is ok? 😱Makes you a NEGLECTFUL parent, and I hope someone turns your ass in too. Wow..
Posted by LetltBPosted by FixedWater
I am going to discuss this with him now, but to say simply that he needs to keep the horror stories to himself as they are creating fear and anxiety in her. I realized a long time ago that he needs to fix himself and that nothing I say will change his actions. It is his path...
No my ex-husband is Capricorn.
^^^^^^^^^Yet the "horror" of him leaving your daughter with a stranger will get swept under the rug, because the bottom line is, this about YOU and the need to control as an ex-wife. This has nothing to do with your child. Perhaps when he leaves her again with a stranger and something backfires with that and family services asks you why you did not report this prior, don't use the fear and candle story. My guess is you'll simply say.."I didn't know"click to expand
LIB... I do actually quite like your character and think that although you can be pretty harsh your guidance and advice is normally quite fair. I am a pretty strong character and do not take how you are handling this personally. It has little to do with me when you have gotten to such an abrasive point. The matter has been handled, and this thread will stand. It is a good thread with a great deal of valuable information. That is the point of it all, isn't it? This is passion on a Scorpio board and even though you may be riding my ass, I still think your cute. 🙂
Posted by IrresistableScorpPosted by FixedWaterPosted by IrresistableScorp
Don't delete this--its a good thread. 🙂
Again, to reiterate--going to Social Services should be the last ditch effort. Once you get into that maze you might actually find your child being taken away during evaulations etc. Its HELL for the child to do so if you can figure it out amicably with the other parent--try that FIRST.
BTW, its not inconceivable to use a person you have never met as a babysitter--after all, you have to start somewhere. Maybe stranger was too strong a word?
Thanks IS, I have no intentions of taking it to social services.
The man he left her with was in fact a complete stranger. Not a babysitter that was new. He told her not to tell me (teaching her to lie) and she managed to keep it a secret from me for 3 weeks. It really took a toll on her though.
Noooooo, I am not deleting this thread. Why would I? 😄click to expand
Good. 😄
Although leaving her with a stranger may be a reason to revisit custody...
Again, because of my experiences with my sister's daughter...my sister tried for years to change custody. It was very costly. The father brought strange men around my niece and everything. It always comes down to he said/she said. Try to work this out amicably--you sound like a great mother. I am sure you can do that.
I came unglued when I heard about that, but it was 3 weeks later. The time had passed to report to the authorities of the city they were in when it happened. I have monitored him very closely since then and this situation is no different.
I have sole custody, and that man deserves nothing more than the electric chair.
Thankyou IS ! 🙂 I wish I knew how to make that little emoticon, I would send one back.
*That Man, being the father of your neice... maybe the electric chair is too nice though
Posted by IrresistableScorpPosted by FixedWater
*That Man, being the father of your neice... maybe the electric chair is too nice though
My Sister is a Scorp--he doesn't exist anymore. 😉click to expand
Lol! I love that we can do that. 🙂
own this bullshit shall we?
Posted by FixedWater
She obviously fears her dad will die. It is an issue that I need to deal with... but how?
What's he getting out of this "leeching" from my daughter?
Is there a specific name for it that I am missing so I can do some research?
Posted by FixedWater
.... and more specifically, We recently had quite the dilemma over the following concept.
She did not want to say she missed me when she was with her dad when We talked on the phone.
Posted by FixedWaterI will have to ask my card reader if her deck will show all the positive and negative, as I never knew the decks could have this "option", if you will...
Posted by FixedWater
P-Angel, My relationship with my daughter is quite beautiful and I thankyou for having concern for her.
I do think you missed the point and focused instead on some details that I contributed to help ferret out Why she see's her father dead. It is important that I do this for her welfare, and not mine.
Posted by FixedWater
That my daughter see's her dad dead is a pretty big issue in my eyes. That I am looking for guidance on the matter indicates that it's got me pretty baffled.
Posted by FixedWater
As her Mother, it is my job to get to the bottom of why she fears her dad dead. Why it came up in the cards, and why the card reader made a point of telling me that it was a 'big thing'.
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Posted by FixedWater
No LIB. She told me he left her with a stranger. He was the one that told me what he did. .
Posted by FixedWater
Thanks IS, I have no intentions of taking it to social services.
The man he left her with was in fact a complete stranger. Not a babysitter that was new.click to expand
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^Your words!! You suck at parenting. Going to social services will not throw this child into the system, or take her away from the mother THEY WILL SET UP SUPERVISED VISITATION to see to it that she is not in danger during visitation while at the same time putting the father IN CHECK. If that fails..HE LOSES ALL VISITATION RIGHTS. ..Yet all you care about is your daughter fearing her father may die?
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Well Jeebus. You have sole custody? Then hell. It's all figured out already.
WITHOUT SENDING THE CHILD INTO CHILD CUSTODY!!! lmao
Yes! I have sole custody, and to restrict visitation is my last resort and one he fears. I do not abuse my power but instead I gather information, and then deal. Another lovely Scorpio trait and it serves me well.
Posted by LetltB
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^Your words!! You suck at parenting. Going to social services will not throw this child into the system, or take her away from the mother THEY WILL SET UP SUPERVISED VISITATION to see to it that she is not in danger during visitation while at the same time putting the father IN CHECK. If that fails..HE LOSES ALL VISITATION RIGHTS. ..Yet all you care about is your daughter fearing her father may die?
The whole point of this thread was that the cards revealed that "She See's Her Dad Dead".
Not where it took off to within the thread.
I wanted only to pinpoint Why? and What to Do about the Why of it. I still am not entirely certain what's crossing in his brain, but have solved how to handle it with my daughter. Really quite genius on my part, if I do say so myself.
LIB.... LIB. Accept you went off on a tangent and call it a truce.
Posted by FixedWater
This is passion on a Scorpio board and even though you may be riding my ass, I still think your cute. 🙂
You misinterpret, I'm not riding your ass, I'm SPEAKING for a 10 year old child who is dependent on a parent to protect them but fails to. My abrasiveness & passion comes from that, your ignorance and your bullshit. If that's cute I'll own it. You can blow sunshine up my ass all day long. Bottom line is that little girl of yours is in danger and all you care about is getting a fucking tarot card reading and lighting candles. It's NEGLECT..and it's disgusting.
Posted by FixedWater
Yes! I have sole custody, and to restrict visitation is my last resort and one he fears. I do not abuse my power but instead I gather information, and then deal. Another lovely Scorpio trait and it serves me well.
Oh this just gets better. So with this knowledge and having FULL authority over your child you STILL opt to send her to the father who drinks, gambles and LEAVES a 10 year old girl with a man who is a complete STRANGER? You make me sick.
Posted by LetltBPosted by FixedWater
This is passion on a Scorpio board and even though you may be riding my ass, I still think your cute. 🙂
You misinterpret, I'm not riding your ass, I'm SPEAKING for a 10 year old child who is dependent on a parent to protect them but fails to. My abrasiveness & passion comes from that, your ignorance and your bullshit. If that's cute I'll own it. You can blow sunshine up my ass all day long. Bottom line is that little girl of yours is in danger and all you care about is getting a fucking tarot card reading and lighting candles. It's NEGLECT..and it's disgusting.click to expand
I am blowing sunshine up your ass because you need it...
Posted by FixedWater
The whole point of this thread was that the cards revealed that "She See's Her Dad Dead".
Not where it took off to within the thread.
I wanted only to pinpoint Why? and What to Do about the Why of it. I still am not entirely certain what's crossing in his brain, but have solved how to handle it with my daughter. Really quite genius on my part, if I do say so myself.
LIB.... LIB. Accept you went off on a tangent and call it a truce.
I accept 100% . I also accept that you are another fucking nut job who needs to be locked up.
Posted by FixedWaterPosted by LetltBPosted by FixedWater
This is passion on a Scorpio board and even though you may be riding my ass, I still think your cute. 🙂
You misinterpret, I'm not riding your ass, I'm SPEAKING for a 10 year old child who is dependent on a parent to protect them but fails to. My abrasiveness & passion comes from that, your ignorance and your bullshit. If that's cute I'll own it. You can blow sunshine up my ass all day long. Bottom line is that little girl of yours is in danger and all you care about is getting a fucking tarot card reading and lighting candles. It's NEGLECT..and it's disgusting.
I am blowing sunshine up your ass because you need it...click to expand
BTW...thanks for entertaining this long. I now know who you are. 😉
May you feel the sparks of karma as it rams up your ass.
I am sure that my patience with you, as well as my acknowledgement and encouragement of what's good about you will come back to me three fold. It is the Law of the Universe....
Posted by FixedWater
I am sure that my patience with you, as well as my acknowledgement and encouragement of what's good about you will come back to me three fold. It is the Law of the Universe....
Sorry hun..you don't get brownie points for child abuse. Go drink up a couple of bottles a wine and be your delusional self. Did that Scorpio figure you out and dump your ass yet?
Karma..it's a coming..
The reality is ... if all that you say is true, and you've done nothing ... then you are the parent she needs to be taken away from.
Which means, none of it is true.
Again .... you are full of shit.
Oh, and btw ... when IS said some bullshit as - everybody gets this except LIB - yeah, that's just her trying to blow smoke up LIB's ass ... because there's nobody here except for IS on your side.
IS attempts to use allies who don't exist to try and bully ... and the only reason she does that is because she's too weak to stand on her own, so she has to make up invisible allies.
The only thing your child is in danger of is .... being used by her mother who isn't mature enough to resolve her issues with her ex, so she can rise above the resentment.
BUMP
Next month is child abuse awareness month. I'm starting early.
Next month is child abuse awareness month. I'm starting early.
LOL, @ working in a uranium mine. I'd be Worried for dad too.
*skips reading the rest of thread*
*skips reading the rest of thread*
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Because LIB the truth sayer tricked me into not being able to post on her threads. I shall post this here for those of you who can't stand the hypocrisy.
Posted by TwirlingStrawberryPosted by IrresistableScorp
I honestly worry about your mental health LIB. And I'm not kidding.
You know as well as I do that the post hidden above brags about getting me to click a link that you linked to blocking you yet here you are in complete denial.
Also, in your reality thread you hid the link which is in the hidden post right above where I said truth my ass.
Now these are not unsubstantiated allegations. They are verifiable facts. Yet you go around here accusing people if the most heinous crimes and when asked for proof you tell them to shove it up their ass?
I'm here to tell you that you have real mental health issues you need to address. And this is not an attack. I promise. Please talk to someone.
woah.
She's a blatant liar which can be proven prima fascia yet she puts herself up as the model virtue of truth?
Jesus she's a delusional whack job and I ain't kidding. Smh
Proof or STFU LIB. lol you nutcase.click to expand
Lol... you are something. I just got back from shopping and this is what I see.
What I don't see, and am still waiting to hear is how you came to that conclusion.......
Why are you bullying me LIB?
What I don't see, and am still waiting to hear is how you came to that conclusion.......
Why are you bullying me LIB?
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Thanks IS, I have no intentions of taking it to social services.
The man he left her with was in fact a complete stranger. Not a babysitter that was new. He told her not to tell me (teaching her to lie) and she managed to keep it a secret from me for 3 weeks. It really took a toll on her though.
Noooooo, I am not deleting this thread. Why would I? 😄