Need Scorpio deciphering

ok, have another question. i have been hanging out with a scorpio guy for a few weeks, kinda casually. but Thursday afternoon, he told me he'd like to see if there is something more of a spark between us and like to take me out and hang out with me more exclusively. i played it cool and told him that we could see where it takes us.

Friday afternoon, he emailed me and said he'd call after he got back from picking up his new car. well he didn't call me that night. i don't really have a desire to call him but i guess by being a taurus, i expect people to follow through on what they say.

are scorpio men flighty and do they forget things? or do they not see the importance of following through? at this point, it doesn't really bother me, so this post is basically to try to understand what goes through the scorpio man's head.

Thanks! Like I said, it doesn't bother me...but before it might actually would, I wanted to ask about them to see if this who/what they were.

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He probably was tied up too late with the new car thing, and decided out of respect, not to call. Scorpio's are really big on being respectful of others, because of that, we have certain guidlines of how we treat others. No two scorps are the same with this, because it's based on our own values that we do it. Like for instance, if it's passed a 10pm, I will not call people unless I've known them for years and years, or if someone tells me that calling past that time is okay.

As far as everything else, I agree with JD- I'm the same way, I hate calling people. I'm not sure why, I just do. Reaching out to others has never been a strong suit of mine- be it calling, or approaching others with a problem. I guess I just have the philosophy of I don't like to be burdened with my problems, why should others? Eventhough I'm always willing to help a friend, I guess it's a me thing.

I just re-read the email and he asked in the form of a question: "Would you like me to call you when I'm done?"

My reply was "that would be nice"...

So that puts a twist on it...why offer up to call me but not do it? I'm chalking it up to him being occupied with car shopping...oh and plus he just bought a new house and is moving into it in 2 weeks, so that also could be taking top priority in his mind.

I don't understand your sarcasm, DB. Instead of typimg LMAO, how about explaining what you mean by "Welcome to the world of scorpio"?

Thanks.

u answered ur question urself...lol

I chalked it up to those options after reading what others had to type....but thanks.

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how long, pluto?

i wouldn't say i'm involved with him per se. he had this 'talk' with me last week stating he wanted to see me on a more exclusive basis, but then i don't hear from him when he offered up calling me....lol...i think it's funny, but also strange.

how? him having "the talk"?

is yours a romantic or just rather blunt? this guy that wants to date me is quite the romantic; at least in emails - now if only i can get him to actually call...lol

we speak on the phone, have met for dinner, but i work crazy hours that i'll get emails from him. if i don't respond to an email for an hour or so, i'll get a new email from him...etc.

"once we were together,i was laying my head on his lap n he was stroking my hair...he was so good at it...i fell asleep...lol"

Don't you just LOVE it when a guy does that?

The reason why i asked about the romantic side of your scorp is because i was being rather flirty in one of my emails to him friday and told him that i have had a busy week and just need to unwind...he replied back that he had the perfect cure. i naturally asked what his cure was and his reply was....let me find it and i'll post it. hold on....

I think you need to come over and bathe in my roman soaking tub because I can have the candles lit and some soft music playing with bubble bath in the tub getting to hold you close to me with our straying hands?

that was his reply...i my jaw dropped when i read that...

now can you see my confusion?? lol

well like i originally said, it's not bothering me........

yet

good advice...🙂

JD - but to actually pick up the phone myself and call ? I do sometimes but it's always been a struggle to me.

Welcome to my world. I will chat for hours if somebody calls me, be their audience, entertainer whatever they wish me to be..but for me to actually pick up the phone and call..don't bank on it cos its not going to happen. Unless I need to ask a serious question or require your opinion on an important matter..

JD and MM,

do you do that to your lover too ? i mean avoid phoning them ??

LOL - Yes Topazwoman..nobody is given any special treatment..I just don't feel the need or desire to call. I have no idea why that is. I get endless complaints from friends and even the Scorpio guy that is currently pursuing me. Mind you, he's not that much of a phone person either..lol..

But would you not feel like being with your lover 24/7 —

No, to be honest with you hun, I am not that affectionate..lol..I want to see them in small doses, keeps the flame alive..I don't like being with them 24/7. I like my freedom too much. I feel claustrophobic if I see them too often.

Oh is that so ?? That is so much different from what I thought you being a scorp (puzzled) Must be your virgo rising.

I get a lot of that from Scorpios 😢

If you hadn't read my chart, what sign would you associate me with?

I think its the Venus in Sag. The need for freedom. If I get freedom in a relationship, I actually love the person more. I don't like demand on my time.

hey guys. the reason for him not calling me was he was extremely tired from packing, signing papers for his new house, new car, etc. I got an email from him early this morning.

but i have gathered he definitely isn't the type who likes to initiate phone calls, so thanks for the info....

"Welcome to the world of the scorpio...please take a number and have a seat....

Would you like us to call your number?"

DB you are funny as shit. LMAO

The question is are you going to call when her number comes up or go to the next number cuz you got caught up. LOL

"I think its the Venus in Sag. The need for freedom. If I get freedom in a relationship, I actually love the person more. I don't like demand on my time."

My Scorp has Venus in Sag, too...he needs his freedom. I have no problems with given him his space, as I sure could use mine from time to time. We respect each other's need for space; it works for us.

How can I find out this Scorpio's chart? What does Venus and Moon and Sun say about a person?

We respect each other's need for space; it works for us.

Then hey bloody presto!..you have a solid relationship...Fantabulous!

You need his date of birth and time of birth and go to www.astrology.com or something like that and click on birth chart..

It will give you Sun, Moon, Venus, Mercury, Ascendant..etc..

so with a guy you've only been seeing for a short time, how do you work "so what is the exact time of your birth" into a conversation?

Ok, his venus is in Virgo and his moon is in Sagittarius? What does that say about him?

I have no idea to be honest with you. I think the astrology.com website is quite good with explanations. I am not fully conversed with that.
To be honest, the guy I am friends with (scorpio) I don't know that information about him. I don't really care. All I know is his sun is in Scorpio..lol..thats enough for me. You can't just casually slip that into the conversation without them thinking your slightly whacko..

LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

that was great.

Find out how old he is...you know, charm your way into it.... lol "You are deffinitly a stud! all the girls must have been chasing after you in highschool, what yr did you graduate?" ..you know...something like that lol

I say highschool bc it doesn't look that obvious, or maybe it does and i sound silly..lol

JD, so funny! I actually got that info today. I just asked him and he told me the info. His Venus is in Virgo and Moon is in Sagittarius - now I need help figuring out if our charts are compatible.

Here's the update on things with Scorpio Guy.

We spent two evening together this past week: one night we went out to a nice restaurant and then to an Astros game. Last night, he came over and cooked me dinner and we watched a movie. Both nights he was such a gentleman and funny, funny, funny!

In between the times we haven't seen each other, he and I email during the day and he has been good about calling me at night.

During one of our talks, he mentioned that he's ready to be married and ready to be a father, not something someone typically would talk about with someone new. I like the fact that he's upfront and honest about his feelings. I read all of these threads about how negative some Scorpio traits are, but I think I'm in unchartered waters with this guy.

We are actually getting close fast (nothing sexual although he likes to discuss sex) and he knows I'm wanting to go slow without jumping into something and don't want to regret it. He called me at 6 am from the airport because "he wanted to hear what I sounded like when I wake up" so he knew what I'd sound like waking up next to him....something like that, I was half asleep...

oh and he's a fabulous kisser! 🙂

Awwwwwww..bless him..

"he wanted to hear what I sounded like when I wake up" so he knew what I'd sound like waking up next to him"

**sigh**

isn't that so sweet, MM?

of course, I'm sure having to wait to go through the security checks with it being Code Red these days at the airports, he probably didn't have anything else to do. LOL

I doubt it..they do that kind of thing.

My first love was a scorpio guy. During our relationship, we had a massive row. I went home to cry into my pillow. My cousin phones me up about 20 minutes later and says "quick turn on the radio"..I turned it on and it was my scorpio guy leaving an apology for our little fight and that he loves me dearly...

If they love you, they do go all out there...

that's good to know. hopefully this scorpio guy is genuine.

Just got another call from the Scorpio. Said he just got to his sister's house in Baltimore and said he wanted to call and say hi. Said they're driving down to Cape Hatteras in North Carolina because I told him that he needed to go down there if he ever had a chance...never knew he'd be doing it without me!!!! LOL

i notice THE scorpio and not MY scorpio...i'm impressed hp! lol just messin around 😉

well I don't want to say MY Scorpio just yet...still testing the waters, you know?

This Scorpio also has Venus in Virgo....I'm not sure about his Moon - I think it's Sagattarius, too!

Thanks for the advice, JD. I am just leery about jumping in head first. I've been hurt in the past and don't want to end up hurt again. But you do make sense.

oh ok

I did a chart on him and he is

Sun = Scorpio
Moon = Sag
Venus = Virgo
Mars = Cancer

We share our Mars, Neptune, and Pluto in the same areas. Not sure if that matters or not. My belief on astrology is still undecided, although there is a lot you can't deny.

HP i was just jokin with you sweets...the taurus thing with MY hehe