Scorp did the weirdest thing today....lol

I was just wondering why you all think he did this "uncovering" thing. I DID ask him (before people tell that I should ask him) and he said that he didn't know. Then he laughed.

Short story - had a little thing last night after I confronted him directly about texting other women during late night/early morning hours with this one question. "How would you feel if I were texting other men during late night hours?" I didn't ask angrily...just got tired of it and asked him...calmly. Well, he was drunk and kind of blew up at me...I'm thick skinned so I basically ran from him and hopped in the bed fully dressed while he was trying to get me to "Face off with him for an argument". Lol I laid in the bed covered up until he ran out of fussing/cussing steam and finally laid in the bed. Mission accomplished. He was snoring about...5 minutes later.

Make up sex this morning and in a casual manner, before he left (I called off work for the morning so that I could get some rest)...IDK...I just did this thing where I told him everything that was on my mind. Like, how he doesn't really use the words sorry and thank you. How sometimes his face looks as if he's tired of hearing me talk about something that is important to me. I wasn't fussy. In fact, I was kind of musing while I was telling him what I think. Well, I finally realized that I was like...vomiting all of this "stuff" that was trapped inside of me. He sat on the edge of the bed and smiled at me while I was talking about all of this crap. Finally, I said, "Ok...let me just get this final thing off of my chest...do you mind?" He continued to smile, encouraging me. I told him that I had concerns that the depth of our intimacy (not sex, but REAL intimacy) had some serious limitations and that we could possibly go on for a very long time in a shallow level relationship. I added that I would NEVER open up to him if I don't feel like we have deep intimacy potential. Ok,...in the middle of me talking about this last thing he threw the blankets off of me to expose my naked body. I asked him why he did that...like...as I was bearing my soul...kind of...he decided that I should not be physically covered either. The hell!?!?! His final response was another smile and something along the lines of, "Thank you for telling me all of that and for becoming more intimate with me."

Then he proceeded to act like he was leaving and come back in my room a dozen times while I just laughed. Lol Certified.

Oh yeah...the other thing I told him about is how when he drinks he gets what I've dubbed the "She wants me(s)". I mean, true enough, he's not lying...I see it too. The area that we live in, women don't give two fucks about trying to get with your man in front of your face. Neither one of us are FROM here so we're both kind of amused by it. The people here are weird as hell. Entertaining though. Anyways, I just told him that his "she wants me" syndrome is an indicator to me that he's addicted to flirting or addicted to being wanted by/needing attention from women.

I wonder if I should take up drinking.

Posted by MrFirebird
I wonder if I should take up drinking.

Please don't. This is one of those, "cute/funny right now, annoying in the long run" type of behaviors. Most of the time I end up shaking my head laughing...because that's all you can do when somebody is being entertaining enough that it's funny to you and everyone wants to be a part of their spotlight, but at the same time it's like, "Oh Gawd, he we go...AGAIN."

I wonder if I should dress up like superman

Posted by MrFirebird
I wonder if I should dress up like superman

Ok...I'm curious...why are you thinking of dressing up like Superman?

us scorpions... what can i say? we're nuts. lol

Posted by MsTeeq1974

Posted by MrFirebird
I wonder if I should dress up like superman

Ok...I'm curious...why are you thinking of dressing up like Superman?

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Because I can fly.

Posted by LadyYin
us scorpions... what can i say? we're nuts. lol

Yeahhhh...I'm kinda getting more and more insight into this random acts of weirdness. Never a dull moment.

Posted by Reincarnation
Too much "Mr. Funny Man" for a Scorp man.

That's his Leo Moon.

Had no insights into Leo moon until going into the Leo forum and asking some very direct questions. However, the Leo moon people in that forum swear up and down that the boisterousness, humor, the way he socializes, has NOTHING to do with his Leo moon. lol ha ha ha ha ha They're all like, "We don't act THAT way, we're dignified". My Sagittarius sun, Leo moon bestie acts very similar to my guy, but I always chalked up the loud social part to her Sag sun.

Posted by Reincarnation
Too much "Mr. Funny Man" for a Scorp man.

That's his Leo Moon.

lol

get one with sag rising, sag venus, and leo moon.

Posted by FrostAndBite
Where is his rising and midheaven(10th house cusp)? Just out of curiosity.

Libra Rising / Cancer NN in the 10th house.

Posted by starlover
Some of the funniest men i know are Scorps

Hate to say this dear Pisces lady,but I don't think he takes you seriously at all

He also sounds like a teenager. 😛

Due to emotional hurts of the past, there's very little that he takes serious. Hard to explain, but I get it. Serious matters drive him to a dark dark scary place, because most serious matters in his life have yet to evolve into something productive/positive experience wise. He handles stress and other matters related to stress well though. He doesn't blame or complain.

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Posted by Reincarnation
Too much "Mr. Funny Man" for a Scorp man.

That's his Leo Moon.

Had no insights into Leo moon until going into the Leo forum and asking some very direct questions. However, the Leo moon people in that forum swear up and down that the boisterousness, humor, the way he socializes, has NOTHING to do with his Leo moon. lol ha ha ha ha ha They're all like, "We don't act THAT way, we're dignified". My Sagittarius sun, Leo moon bestie acts very similar to my guy, but I always chalked up the loud social part to her Sag sun.

No - trust me.

That's his Moon.

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Honestly, that's what I was thinking as well.

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Posted by MsTeeq1974
I confronted him directly about texting other women during late night/early morning hours

...so this wasn't even resolved, was it?

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LMBO!!! Yes and no. Let's just say...we're getting there. lol The last on this is that he popped off when I mentioned it and try to force me to read his text messages. I declined. He said that in the future if I EVER want to read his text messages, I need to do that so that I can stop accusing him of such.

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Posted by MsTeeq1974
I confronted him directly about texting other women during late night/early morning hours

...so this wasn't even resolved, was it?

LMBO!!! Yes and no. Let's just say...we're getting there. lol The last on this is that he popped off when I mentioned it and try to force me to read his text messages. I declined. He said that in the future if I EVER want to read his text messages, I need to do that so that I can stop accusing him of such.

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Psshh, any scorpio should know how easy it is to delete text messages. Haha

Anyway, he seems reluctant to answer you verbally which is a concern to me. That either tells me he's lying or immature (in the sense that he's running away from his problems). I would guess the latter in this case, but since you don't KNOW for certain and he doesn't seem to have told you he's NOT cheating, the former is also viable. Good luck and don't let him continuing ignoring what you view as issues.

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Posted by MsTeeq1974
I confronted him directly about texting other women during late night/early morning hours

...so this wasn't even resolved, was it?

LMBO!!! Yes and no. Let's just say...we're getting there. lol The last on this is that he popped off when I mentioned it and try to force me to read his text messages. I declined. He said that in the future if I EVER want to read his text messages, I need to do that so that I can stop accusing him of such.

Psshh, any scorpio should know how easy it is to delete text messages. Haha

Anyway, he seems reluctant to answer you verbally which is a concern to me. That either tells me he's lying or immature (in the sense that he's running away from his problems). I would guess the latter in this case, but since you don't KNOW for certain and he doesn't seem to have told you he's NOT cheating, the former is also viable. Good luck and don't let him continuing ignoring what you view as issues.

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Thank you for the well wishes and he has told me that he's not cheating. Not to say that I ultimately believe him, but he's expressed in every single convo where I questioned his faithfulness that he's not cheating. Yes, I'm aware of how quick it is to delete text messages.

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Posted by starlover
Some of the funniest men i know are Scorps

Hate to say this dear Pisces lady,but I don't think he takes you seriously at all

He also sounds like a teenager. 😛

Due to emotional hurts of the past, there's very little that he takes serious. Hard to explain, but I get it. Serious matters drive him to a dark dark scary place, because most serious matters in his life have yet to evolve into something productive/positive experience wise. He handles stress and other matters related to stress well though. He doesn't blame or complain.

I guess that is okay if you want a light rship with him.....🙂. Is he a lot younger than you Miss?

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Bingo...smart lady. lol I am 41 and he is 33. I do keep this in mind when dealing with him. Doesn't mean that I just give him a pass on every single behavioral/relationship faux pas, but I do keep in mind that I have more life experience than he does. The thing is, I LIKE my men young. I just cannot do a relationship with an older man or someone my age. They are too set in their ways and expect me to act like them or their exes. I'm a free spirited woman and older guys are afraid of that. Plus, I look like I'm in my mid 20's. I once had a guy quit seeing me, because he was so afraid of getting harassed by strangers, because I look way younger than I am. Younger guys LOVE this fact. They get an older/more experienced woman in a body/face that looks way younger. My whole life I've been accused of being at least 10 years younger than I really am. When I moved to our house 6 years ago, neighbors stopped me and my kids regularly to ask us where our parents were. All of my kids were teens back then. That was embarrassing. smh

Posted by GetMisted
1. It's definitely the moon.. Trust me on that one.

2. Do you regularly open up like that an just spill everything you're thinking?

1. Okay, I trust you.
2. Yes, I'm too old/mature to play the game of holding my tongue. I'm just not interested in hiding how I feel about things.

I just went to the store with co-workers and announced that I hate football season in this area that I live in. They go to the extreme with their team colors. Like, they had gummy bears in canisters in the local team colors. Come on now....get real. Just ridiculous. One of my co-workers stayed with me and laughed along with the people around me (Aqua Male), the other co-worker was mortified/embarrassed that I said something like that (Scorp Female). Damn them people. lol I don't care what they think. They don't pay my bills or make/break me. Fuck 'em.