Scorp woman/Virgo guy - for you DyarStrabe (Page 2)

you wouldnt be suggesting she play games would you?

Clearly not, since I advised QS to be "honest, open, and upfront from the start," with no mention of any game-playing by this Virgo. But you know that, don't you Roxi? I know of only one Virgo who plays mind games, and you encountered a real young jackass VG, but neither of those is typical of this Sign...

Any indecisive, here today, retreating tomorrow stuff we do is not intentional game-playing, it's being indecisive goofs. Yeah, it'll drive you to distraction, but believe me when I say it's not malicious, just retarded...

LMAO @ Scorpiolady!!!

Dyar and Roxi, LOL!!! I am always myself. I am a "take me as I am" person so that would never change. I mean, for some reason, I really don't know how to proceed, where I normally just go with however I feel. This is weird, even to me that I am wondering how to proceed to get to know this guy. Dating would be yet a little ways away. Just getting to know him better is what is at stake for me.

The texting mostly is a little awkward. We spoke on the phone before lunch and after, but not since, just texts. I called once no answer via phone, just text. Weird... It is kind of annoying to me though. I do know some people perfer text over calling. I just don't. We shall see.

Plus you don't have to bother yourself with all those annoying formalities like, "Goodbye" or "Hello"... Pfft!

LOL@Scorpius!

Yeah Roxi, I know, I am waaayyy too lazy to text all the time.

okay, so what support can you give -- puhlease! -- for while we wait for that yes-he's-the-one Virgo guy? those uncommunicative spells can be hard to take when my life just isn't as busy as I'd like, or I'm not completely engaged in whatever's going on. I'm working on it, believe me, but it still can be hard sometimes.

(btw, I'm a scorpio female with virgo rising. we connect unbelieveably. going on 2 years now, sex is great. he's mine, and i'm his, this we've affirmed. he declared it about a year ago, that is, asked for mine, and I gave willingly. we reaffirm often.)

I hope this makes sense!

Thanks.

Roxi (on texting vs calling): "...it's cheaper and more time efficient too..."

Ah! A woman after my own heart! I do believe you are blessed with Virgo Rising -- how marvelous!

Texting also keeps the dialoge going all day if you want. When the phone hangs up thats the end of it. It's also very discreet. I hate talking on the phone all day. Thats so high school!

I hate talking on the phone for a long period of time, unless the person on the other end has me intrigued. Texting, don't like to do it all day, too lazy... It is true that responses can go on throughout the day. This is very true.

Shaka2,

Ah! Young PadaVirg, you are wise beyond your years!

I concur. For the Virgo Male seeking an LTR: Best bet is with Taurus in the 20's to 30's, and Scorpio in the 40's (assuming each Sign is "typical") -- or with a VirGirl at just about any age...

well i like to thanks everyone for there advice, but this virgo/scropio relationship is over. i texted my scropio to say listen to something on your voice mail it was a song by tamia missing u, and he texted back that he didn't want to listen to anything now or later. so i texted back ok i finally get it i will leave you alone, and have a good life. i must have been a fool. he couldn;t have at least told me that it wasover he pklay games gave small statements , and just avoided me anyway he could. no phone calls no textes. so want i do know is try to heal, and get over the hurt. i still say he was the nicest guy i ever met, and i wish i knew what really happen, but i think i will never know. thanks

"Ive come to the conclusion that Scorpio women are worth a LTR only after their mid 20's early 30's, young scorpiettes deal with too many demons in their youth and push people away in the process (not always on purpose though)"

Do you think this also applies to Scorpio men?

Sorry to hear that pookie. Feel better..

***he pklay games gave small statements , and just avoided me anyway he could. no phone calls no textes. so want i do know is try to heal, and get over the hurt. ***

Pookie, although, I too am sorry to hear this but if what you stated above is true, what made you think the two of you were in a relationship in the first place?

It must be something in the air about scropio's these days. I have to tell my scropio friend that we can only be platonic friends I realize that by him being older than I am 12yrs my senior he does not want the same things that I want and need. I have not told him yet and have not seen him in about a month I lost all desire to see or be with him. I want to believe that he will be ok with it but then I am thinking hell he should know that something is up I have not called or asked to see him. I really need to find the right words to tell him face to face I don't believe in these conversatons over the phone.

I'm thinking about calling him on Friday to see if I can come and see him and then tell him.

queenscropio we were in a relationship he lived with me we spent endless time together he stated over , and over again i was his lady, and besides he asked me to be his lady.

pookie

So he moved out? When he moved out or left there was no conversation about him leaving I don't really understand?

Pookie at the point he never called or texted. Did you still think you were in a relationship? Did he say anything about ending it before hand? I don't get it? Or did he just stop all contact out of the blue?

Okay, guys there a few things around my house I have been procrastinating to get done, so I texted a couple of my male friends including the Virgo, asking for assistance. He was the first to respond. He will be over tonight to do some maintenance... LOL!!! On my home that is :-).

Funny my ex FWB Libra (who is now a good friend and will help me with anythign when I need it) responded shortly after. I told him I already had someone. 🙂

Ooohh Virgo guy came over to fix some things at my house and we had dinner. He wants us to hang out this weekend. He is such a good guy. I think we may really have a shot. Ther is definitely chemistry in a major way.

Anotherscorp. It seems earth signs are more grounded and I am attracting what I need in my life at this point it seems. We will see. It is all a waiting and see thing for me. I must admit I am anxious!!! Winter is very cold in Chicago. LOL!!!! 😉