Scorpio Girl

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Hi I have a question since I haven't been talking to the Gem who I was seeing I have this Scorpio girl non stop every day trying to meet up with me and then she asked where I live and I said the area and she said yeah thats nice their and I said yeah it's okay getting bored of it now lol. She text saying need some company 😅 ?

My question is are you guys persistent like this ? She won't leave me alone lol.

I don't mean to sound horrible but I am heart broken over the Gem I still love her so I can't bring myself to be around another woman for a long time like that.
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Posted by WarAngel
Posted by Centaur12
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If you're still hung up on the previous woman, stay away from this one. She's already up your butt crack, you will hurt her if you are not careful.

I wasn't planning on it thanks.

I haven't spoken to the Gem and we both haven't contacted eachother since she told me she wants to be friends and wants me to leave her alone right now.

Yes, strict radio silence with the Gemini. That's your only hope of getting her back anyway. Process whatever feelings you've got left, and throw the rest in the toilet. After some time, go sniff some new ass and cast your net as wide as you can so that you're not always hung up on one individual.

Good luck young man! ❤️
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Thank you I am trying to process them best I can and I am struggling but I must be strong like I wasn't before. I am not in control of the outcome the only thing I can do is live my life and hope she comes back to me accordingly.

There have been a few people tell me she will more than likely come back as she doesn't want anyone else to have me and that's if I leave her alone.
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I wouldn't want to hurt anyone.

So I told her there's no reason we cannot be friends and hang out etc I am not looking for a relationship at the moment as I am hurting to badly.

Because she was saying she always fancied me but was to shy to ask me. And was asking if I wanted company etc.

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Posted by PhoenixRising

Lol....I saw what you did there. Make another thread about the Gem since your true goal is to get feedback on her.

lol, saw that straight away too

But in all seriousness Centuar, you need to talk and hear from people because you’re hurting, that’s what these boards are about. Some of us might end up helping you become stronger so let out what you need to. A problem shared is a problem halved.
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Posted by PhoenixRising

Lol....I saw what you did there. Make another thread about the Gem since your true goal is to get feedback on her.

lol, saw that straight away too

But in all seriousness Centuar, you need to talk and hear from people because you’re hurting, that’s what these boards are about. Some of us might end up helping you become stronger so let out what you need to. A problem shared is a problem halved.
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There isn't much I can say that I haven't already told you guys before I am just heartbroken now.

Gem has told me she hasn't got a problem with hanging out with me and still wants to but then told me she sorry for everything on her part and sorry we never worked out and told me to leave her alone for now so that is exactly what I have done.

I'm gutted and having bad days and ok days today I have struggled really badly wanted to contact her but what is the point she will only say we are friends she needs to miss me if she will I have no idea maybe she'll come back like she did before but then look at all the bullshit she put me through if she comes back I won't settle for friends so I will continue to leave her alone until she either bucks up her ideas and stops fucking around or she just leaves because she can't play me anymore.
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Posted by sweethearts
Posted by PhoenixRising

Lol....I saw what you did there. Make another thread about the Gem since your true goal is to get feedback on her.

lol, saw that straight away too

But in all seriousness Centuar, you need to talk and hear from people because you’re hurting, that’s what these boards are about. Some of us might end up helping you become stronger so let out what you need to. A problem shared is a problem halved.
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For one I dont care where you live. It's none of my business. We are known to be nosy, but I usually let people spill it, because they usually do, once we are hanging out... And I may inquire while you're spilling it. But before I even hang out with you you have to express interest. Before you express interest we have to be on friendly terms. Before I get friendly with you I have to decide to lower my guard with you.
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I have been polite and told the Scorp girl that I am going through some stuff and my heads not right, right now.

I don't think she is getting the idea she's messaged me again this morning saying I haven't offended you have I ? By telling you I thought you was really hot a while back as I didn't want to scare you off lol.

I don't want to be rude or hurt her feelings but she's not getting the idea so I will have to leave her on read.
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Posted by Centaur12

I have been polite and told the Scorp girl that I am going through some stuff and my heads not right, right now.

I don't think she is getting the idea she's messaged me again this morning saying I haven't offended you have I ? By telling you I thought you was really hot a while back as I didn't want to scare you off lol.

I don't want to be rude or hurt her feelings but she's not getting the idea so I will have to leave her on read.


I'm a scorpio and we are the type that appreciates honesty. Yes, we can be very stubborn. Yes, ignore her or/and tell her what you just shared. "I don't want to hurt you by telling you this but I think it's more important to be honest with you... I would like you to stop showing interest in me like that". Be persistent. Show no interest in anyway. I'm not saying be rude at all but firm and honest. I'm that way. I have someone very obsessed with pursuing me atm. I am definitely not interested because of certain reasons, like yourself and ive explained this to the gentleman. He didn't get it. He was in denial and hurt and persisted. But with firm communication and patience, he is coming around.

Leaving her on read to me is avoidance. I am the type to express myself over and over again, enforcing boundaries until someone gets it. The trick is to be excellent at honestly expressing yourself.

It's more about you than regardless of how the other person will take it. Also, leaving them alone either than is a good idea or at least limiting your contact either than, at least for a while... Or a long while depending on the other party's maturity.

Sorry for the messy post
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Posted by Centaur12

I have been polite and told the Scorp girl that I am going through some stuff and my heads not right, right now.

I don't think she is getting the idea she's messaged me again this morning saying I haven't offended you have I ? By telling you I thought you was really hot a while back as I didn't want to scare you off lol.

I don't want to be rude or hurt her feelings but she's not getting the idea so I will have to leave her on read.

I'm a scorpio and we are the type that appreciates honesty. Yes, we can be very stubborn. Yes, ignore her or/and tell her what you just shared. "I don't want to hurt you by telling you this but I think it's more important to be honest with you... I would like you to stop showing interest in me like that". Be persistent. Show no interest in anyway. I'm not saying be rude at all but firm and honest. I'm that way. I have someone very obsessed with pursuing me atm. I am definitely not interested because of certain reasons, like yourself and ive explained this to the gentleman. He didn't get it. He was in denial and hurt and persisted. But with firm communication and patience, he is coming around.

Leaving her on read to me is avoidance. I am the type to express myself over and over again, enforcing boundaries until someone gets it. The trick is to be excellent at honestly expressing yourself.

It's more about you than regardless of how the other person will take it. Also, leaving them alone either than is a good idea or at least limiting your contact either than, at least for a while... Or a long while depending on the other party's maturity.

Sorry for the messy post
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I understand and appreciate it thank you.
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I have been polite and told the Scorp girl that I am going through some stuff and my heads not right, right now.

I don't think she is getting the idea she's messaged me again this morning saying I haven't offended you have I ? By telling you I thought you was really hot a while back as I didn't want to scare you off lol.

I don't want to be rude or hurt her feelings but she's not getting the idea so I will have to leave her on read.

I'm a scorpio and we are the type that appreciates honesty. Yes, we can be very stubborn. Yes, ignore her or/and tell her what you just shared. "I don't want to hurt you by telling you this but I think it's more important to be honest with you... I would like you to stop showing interest in me like that". Be persistent. Show no interest in anyway. I'm not saying be rude at all but firm and honest. I'm that way. I have someone very obsessed with pursuing me atm. I am definitely not interested because of certain reasons, like yourself and ive explained this to the gentleman. He didn't get it. He was in denial and hurt and persisted. But with firm communication and patience, he is coming around.

Leaving her on read to me is avoidance. I am the type to express myself over and over again, enforcing boundaries until someone gets it. The trick is to be excellent at honestly expressing yourself.

It's more about you than regardless of how the other person will take it. Also, leaving them alone either than is a good idea or at least limiting your contact either than, at least for a while... Or a long while depending on the other party's maturity.

Sorry for the messy post
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She kinda was pissed she said I really don't know what to reply to your message but OK 👍.
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Posted by ScorpArie
Posted by Centaur12

I have been polite and told the Scorp girl that I am going through some stuff and my heads not right, right now.

I don't think she is getting the idea she's messaged me again this morning saying I haven't offended you have I ? By telling you I thought you was really hot a while back as I didn't want to scare you off lol.

I don't want to be rude or hurt her feelings but she's not getting the idea so I will have to leave her on read.

I'm a scorpio and we are the type that appreciates honesty. Yes, we can be very stubborn. Yes, ignore her or/and tell her what you just shared. "I don't want to hurt you by telling you this but I think it's more important to be honest with you... I would like you to stop showing interest in me like that". Be persistent. Show no interest in anyway. I'm not saying be rude at all but firm and honest. I'm that way. I have someone very obsessed with pursuing me atm. I am definitely not interested because of certain reasons, like yourself and ive explained this to the gentleman. He didn't get it. He was in denial and hurt and persisted. But with firm communication and patience, he is coming around.

Leaving her on read to me is avoidance. I am the type to express myself over and over again, enforcing boundaries until someone gets it. The trick is to be excellent at honestly expressing yourself.

It's more about you than regardless of how the other person will take it. Also, leaving them alone either than is a good idea or at least limiting your contact either than, at least for a while... Or a long while depending on the other party's maturity.

Sorry for the messy post
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I guess the scorp women take honesty better than the men 😬😂

I tried honesty with this scorp guy, in telling him why I was no longer interested in getting to know him (btw, he asked), and he went full fledged defense mode. He then tried to argue with me to which I said what I thought 💭 then blocked him.

We talked for for like 2 days prior (we met online), and he went psycho when I said I was no longer interested in conversing 😂😂. He’s the reason I just ghost 👻 now. I’m not about to put energy into arguing with someone I don’t know, care about, our plan on talking to ever again 🙄😂.
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I have been polite and told the Scorp girl that I am going through some stuff and my heads not right, right now.

She doesnt have very good boundaries nor does she respect you. I'm not going to lie I did what she is doing once to someone.

You not bring over the Gemini is a blessing in disguise because if you were interested it wouldnt be a good idea. It would be a toxic relationship.

She doesnt know how to reply to your message? How about "I understand. I'm sorry you're going through such a rough deal with someone else. I respect it. See you around" —?? Then she should move on. Why would anyone want someone that doesn't want them?

And for you, do you understand how the Gemini feels? You have feelings for her when she has none for you yet you are still heartbroken? Yuck (so to judge) but move on.

You kind of have a similarity to this scorpio, no? Like attracts? Just going on a limb here. Is there a correlation or am I stretching?

I don't think she is getting the idea she's messaged me again this morning saying I haven't offended you have I ? By telling you I thought you was really hot a while back as I didn't want to scare you off lol.

I don't want to be rude or hurt her feelings but she's not getting the idea so I will have to leave her on read.

I'm a scorpio and we are the type that appreciates honesty. Yes, we can be very stubborn. Yes, ignore her or/and tell her what you just shared. "I don't want to hurt you by telling you this but I think it's more important to be honest with you... I would like you to stop showing interest in me like that". Be persistent. Show no interest in anyway. I'm not saying be rude at all but firm and honest. I'm that way. I have someone very obsessed with pursuing me atm. I am definitely not interested because of certain reasons, like yourself and ive explained this to the gentleman. He didn't get it. He was in denial and hurt and persisted. But with firm communication and patience, he is coming around.

Leaving her on read to me is avoidance. I am the type to express myself over and over again, enforcing boundaries until someone gets it. The trick is to be excellent at honestly expressing yourself.

It's more about you than regardless of how the other person will take it. Also, leaving them alone either than is a good idea or at least limiting your contact either than, at least for a while... Or a long while depending on the other party's maturity.

Sorry for the messy post

She kinda was pissed she said I really don't know what to reply to your message but OK 👍.
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Lol....I saw what you did there. Make another thread about the Gem since your true goal is to get feedback on her.

Perceptive as always Phoenix 🙂

Hey Stranger! Nice to "see" you poking around 🙂
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I’m good and you? I pop in every blue moon lol. I see some things have changed…and some things haven’t 😉

To the OP:

I take it by your username that you’re a Sag like myself. Phoenix has given you an aspect of yourself that you need to work on before going in to any relationship with anyone. I’d take her advice. Good luck!