scorpio ladies pls (Page 2)

Posted by virgintiger

Posted by FUM
You can be gentleman, don't touch her knee while she is driving.

You start up serious and then turn into cheap flirt?

If she wanted a one-night stand.. that's all another game.

hey there's no reciprocation, no indication on her part to make it work.
why didn't she say Jim :" we can have lunch and then you can join us in the evening, meet my people etc etc..."
all these things add up, and make a mess of my mental hygiene. i can't be objective about the matter. so i call a halt before things go horribly wrong. i'm not desperate to make it work.

i was driving
one night stands i had a very long time ago

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She must have a reason why she is holding back. Usually Virgos get me... not always, but end up intruiged. It's like LOVE & HATE in one package.

One example: there was one Virgo flirting with me and trying everything to get to me for 3 years. I used to think he is bad news for women. Well.. In the end he had me, but he hurt me most.

Second example: there is another Virgo I know ... the moment I walked into the room, ever since he is trying to get closer. oo oo ah ah no nigh nigh... not going to happen! He is a cheater!

I don't have to know his stories... it's the intuition.

Perhaps Dimitri's Scorp lady feels something about him that pulls her back?

Either her hard is not available at the moment, or there is something else. Virgo men always... ALWAYS intruige me one way or another.

oops.. typo hard --> meant heart!

Dimitri, do you have ANY clue what it might be? How long have you known her again?

"frankly my dear , i don't give a damn." Scarlett O'Hara [gone with the wind]














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just kidding......

her conscience draws her back

i feel very good
why?

Posted by FUM
oops.. typo hard --> meant heart!

Dimitri, do you have ANY clue what it might be? How long have you known her again?

i told her that she "wasn't a person", when she replied to my discontent:"thanks for everything. take care."
that was the last communication with her from me.
this bothers her.
and therein lies everything.

this is the first scorpio i've ever known to this extent.
it seems vir. are your speciality
i've known her for 4/5 years
she seeked me out otherwise i would never have made the connection

they are my threads aren't they?
but thats the system of the programm
why don't you ask the administrators to change that for you

nobody's perfect
that's what Friends are for.

Posted by dimitri
this is the first scorpio i've ever known to this extent.
it seems vir. are your speciality
i've known her for 4/5 years
she seeked me out otherwise i would never have made the connection

Virgos have become my specialty, because we seem to pull each other. I never meditated on it.

So what's going on, are you practicing Japanese torture on her?

she's very offended by my "non-person" remark. i mirrored her actions to her, and she will need to come to terms with that. i can image how angry she must be, and lonely, of coarse my feelings are not important to her. she still hasn't got the picture.
well it was worth finding out about her, now i know what to expect.
she's banished me of coarse, naturally. i couldn't be happier.

Posted by FUM

Posted by dimitri
this is the first scorpio i've ever known to this extent.
it seems vir. are your speciality
i've known her for 4/5 years
she seeked me out otherwise i would never have made the connection

Virgos have become my specialty, because we seem to pull each other. I never meditated on it.

So what's going on, are you practicing Japanese torture on her?

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restrictions, restrictions... what about just making love and to hell with it all! now we have a situation.
tell me do scorpio lasses do this on purpose?
well maybe i wouldn't have started this thread otherwise.
maybe we are your specialty.

Posted by FUM

Posted by dimitri
this is the first scorpio i've ever known to this extent.
it seems vir. are your speciality
i've known her for 4/5 years
she seeked me out otherwise i would never have made the connection

Virgos have become my specialty, because we seem to pull each other. I never meditated on it.

So what's going on, are you practicing Japanese torture on her?

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so what is it that attracts you to virgos?

sorry. I don't understand why you would call her 'none-person'. Obviously, you are not trying to get on to her good side. It rather feels like you are contributing to the conflict of orders.

In my very personal opinion, this is a not-so good start. Meaning, the very first chemistry is a foreshadowing of what your relationship may turn into later. I will suggest, forget about her, move on, don't respond, don't answer... and particularly, do not start up ANY kind of relationship with her.

It sounds like your relationship may turn into a never-ending stormy relationship when both parties will have difficulty staying away from each other. It's distructive.

Posted by dimitri

Posted by FUM

Posted by dimitri
this is the first scorpio i've ever known to this extent.
it seems vir. are your speciality
i've known her for 4/5 years
she seeked me out otherwise i would never have made the connection

Virgos have become my specialty, because we seem to pull each other. I never meditated on it.

So what's going on, are you practicing Japanese torture on her?

restrictions, restrictions... what about just making love and to hell with it all! now we have a situation.
tell me do scorpio lasses do this on purpose?
well maybe i wouldn't have started this thread otherwise.
maybe we are your specialty.

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Making love would be heavenly. Scorpios are not lightweight love makers. We have to love you or you don't mean anything to us. There is no in between. For that matter, YOU, possibly... are not a lightweight candidate. A lightweight candidate is hello/good-bye. There is NO criteria in terms of sex partner/friend/or whatever type of other connection. You are in. You are out!

We don't do this on purpose. Our intuition tells us there is something about you... we either get a signal of warning signs or 'warm' signs. This one doesn't look good to me. I think she is attracted to you, but she stays away due to that 'warning' signal.

What attracts me most to Virgo is his 'brain'.

They have an inborn talent to words. I love a Virgo man's low profile behaviour. He is modest. I love the tone of his voice. I like his control to keeping peace. He is not agressive, but when he turns agressive, he is not a push-over. I like his childish smile when he gets surprised, those three teeth at the front. I like his intelligent jokes. He is a thinker, but he will never show off.

It's a nice combination of traits.

Only in recent years have I learned that underneath that 'quiet' facade of a Virgo, is the mercury that constantly pokes them... makes them nervous. They have to be PERFECT! It's charming in a way... 😉

'Perfect' suits me. Scorpios are perfectionists as well.

Nothing ever is perfect to me. And I think that nothing ever is perfect for a Virgo either.

Posted by FUM
sorry. I don't understand why you would call her 'none-person'. Obviously, you are not trying to get on to her good side. It rather feels like you are contributing to the conflict of orders.

In my very personal opinion, this is a not-so good start. Meaning, the very first chemistry is a foreshadowing of what your relationship may turn into later. I will suggest, forget about her, move on, don't respond, don't answer... and particularly, do not start up ANY kind of relationship with her.

It sounds like your relationship may turn into a never-ending stormy relationship when both parties will have difficulty staying away from each other. It's distructive.

i didn't want to insult her
this is an observation
and i told her so

somehow i don't think its bad
i think its constructive criticism

i told her that:
"she was too concerned with herself
to care for others."
her actions verify it.
i'm not trying to make her feel bad on purpose
i'm just reading her.
isn't that what friends do?

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Posted by dimitri

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Posted by dimitri
this is the first scorpio i've ever known to this extent.
it seems vir. are your speciality
i've known her for 4/5 years
she seeked me out otherwise i would never have made the connection

Virgos have become my specialty, because we seem to pull each other. I never meditated on it.

So what's going on, are you practicing Japanese torture on her?

restrictions, restrictions... what about just making love and to hell with it all! now we have a situation.
tell me do scorpio lasses do this on purpose?
well maybe i wouldn't have started this thread otherwise.
maybe we are your specialty.

Making love would be heavenly. Scorpios are not lightweight love makers. We have to love you or you don't mean anything to us. There is no in between. For that matter, YOU, possibly... are not a lightweight candidate. A lightweight candidate is hello/good-bye. There is NO criteria in terms of sex partner/friend/or whatever type of other connection. You are in. You are out!

We don't do this on purpose. Our intuition tells us there is something about you... we either get a signal of warning signs or 'warm' signs. This one doesn't look good to me. I think she is attracted to you, but she stays away due to that 'warning' signal.

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somehow i know this about her
what attracts me is the passion in her
but this can also be the right response
the response she craves
never underestimate the passion my words
unleashed in her, the anger
just imagine the love making it would inspire

insert:.... MAY have unleashed.....in her

I couldn't bare the platitudes between us for very much longer
well now there is a new order
a new emphasis

time will tell
but i need to move on
your right
and I'm happy to do so

" I think she is attracted to you, but she stays away due to that 'warning' signal."

that can only go so far before it becomes an insult to me
and thats only one of the insults thrown my way.

i believe people can go on and on thinking their right
building walls around themselves
until no one can reach them

i think she's been alone for too long
and has lost the tools to reach people with
in my opinion she needs to reclaim that

I'm truly sorry, dimitri. I will not contribute further. I think you should not hurt her.

Let her be.

i'm truly sorry. I hope I wasn't too harsh in my judgement. But somewhere along the line there is integrity.

i wouldn't dream of hurting her and if i probably did it was the first and last time.
thanks for your feedback FUM. Much appreciated.
this thread is officially closed.