scorpio man playing mind game again so frustrating

i am currently dating scorpio man these past days was getting in my nerves he told me i don not know him very well and he only shows me what i want to know, after that he told me he have 2 other girlfriend i acted cool and he told me what?that doesn't affect you? actually it was but i was confused what would he want as an answer i told him no because i trust you and then he told me hhh well thanks.pfff i wasn't feeling well cuz his way he talked after that was so cold so i told him that he should not treat me this way and i didn't deserve his coldness and he just kept ignoring my msgs so at the end i gave up but i guess i seemed weak in his eys cuz he told me to be honest it shouldn't affect you we are just a couple we aren't married yet so i told him ur right and he sayed humm and then i went to sleep and the day after he talked normally like nothing happened and i did the same but he remain cold and very distant pff i fed up it's just getting worse would he ever give up his silly mind games one day ? what should i do to survive this 😢 am an aquarius girl by the way communication it's what keeps me interested :/

you dont have to play back. leave him in the playground.

thank you for your answers and i know that i should not play his game but what should i do —? i am afraid that ignoring him will make things even worse 😢

I think you said it best... what would keep you interested... I would not let a guy treat you like that... and would not think it is cool. He is obviously playing mind games and that is not healthy at all. Aqua's often will chase too hard when a guy is running away... feeling like something is wrong with them.

I really don't think you should allow mind games. Often guys will do this things and it be complete bs... It is to make girls compete over then... There are books on how to play mind games which are all about just wanting to get in so to speak girls cook jars... Most of them are get as many as you can...

I personally am not like this and have my eye on an aqua and am trying to get with her... I don't try to make her jealous. If you look at my Chasing an aqua post... Sorry the first part of the story is really badly written... It was really late when I wrote it. But the latest to updates are good. I am not the type of guy that really want's to have a lot of girls just one good one... I know it sounds a bout weird but I mean you all have the same parts... as long as it is not a gaping hole...

Find a man that will not try to play on your insecurities... A good man will not want you to feel that... I know I would not want a girl I am interested in to think I was on the make with every other girl in town...

Just being honest... I have a fair amount of scorpio... Pluto in my 8th house of scorpio... mars and saturn in scorpio 9th house... Astro tells me it is dominate... and although i can get like that... My Pisces Moon conj. Venus softens me up quite a bit.

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Posted by ninaa
thank you for your answers and i know that i should not play his game but what should i do —? i am afraid that ignoring him will make things even worse 😢

Tell him that if you will not consider dating just one girl... kick his ass to the curb... Don't put up with that shit... You derisive better...

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"Aqua's often will chase too hard when a guy is running away... "

Aquas you have counted? Or Aquas as described in the book?

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i am currently dating scorpio man these past days was getting in my nerves he told me i don not know him very well and he only shows me what i want to know, after that he told me he have 2 other girlfriend

what should i do to survive this 😢 am an aquarius girl by the way communication it's what keeps me interested :/

I think you and his two other girlfriends need to get together with a calendar and plan each of your time with him so there's no issues later on.

...also give a copy to the Scorp of the date/times you each have agreed on so he won't feel "ignored"

Posted by DwellingOnMove
"Aqua's often will chase too hard when a guy is running away... "

Aquas you have counted? Or Aquas as described in the book?

I have read it places as well as experienced it... you do have to beyond dating just a bit or a few times. They have to like just be falling for your. Once they start to fall if a guy runs a way a bit... it makes them ask I believe why are they running away now... Then they try to give them a taste of what they had or missing... if really care even more they will chase pretty hard... or if it is a major crush.

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Posted by Mscorp
I think Scorpios and air signs don't get each other humour.

Depends. I quite enjoy air sign humour and laugh at it quite often, especially if it's a little dark, sarcastic or blunt. My Asc and moon are both air signs, so I'm sure that influences my ability to "get" them.

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I think Scorpios and air signs don't get each other humour.

Depends. I quite enjoy air sign humour and laugh at it quite often, especially if it's a little dark, sarcastic or blunt. My Asc and moon are both air signs, so I'm sure that influences my ability to "get" them.

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Btw, I found her response quite funny. Hehe.

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@dwelling, its true.

I started chasing my scorp, opening my heart to him, even pouring my emotions and he stung me for it. He said the more I chased him the more he would push me away. So I backed off and became cold and emotionless towards him.

sorry, but this is fucked up.

The whole idea of relationships is being the OPPOSITE of cold and emotionless with someone. Even if they do stick around due to someone's frosty behavior, it shows that they don't even want love or affection.

So then, what is it they want?

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Scorpio is co-ruled by mars. They like to chase. If you chase them, you will scare them off. They have to like you to chase you, its not frosty behavior as they feel quite deeply about those they have feelings for. Just because you like someone doesn't always mean they like you back no matter how much they lead you on and some people will lead you on for the attention once they know you like them, this is regardless of sun sign, its best to be cool.

Posted by ninaa
what should i do to survive this 😢 am an aquarius girl by the way communication it's what keeps me interested :/

No.

Apparently, mystery, a little intrigue, and chase is what keeps you interested.
You have a natural interest in 'people' in general, human behavior, who they are, what makes them tick.
This is your fascination with this Scorpio.

Well, this may be his unique way of 'reading' you. Who you are, what makes you tick.

From what he gathered....

You're not who you say you are.

If you're unaffected by his girlfriends, own it, and keep it pushing. A lame ass attempt to get someone jealous is a feminine trait, and should never be in real man's vocabulary.

If you were affected by his girlfriends, then you should have simply stood up for yourself and given him a piece of your mind.

Tell him one lie, he will tell you two.

Tell him two lies, and he will tell you three.

Ask yourself how long do you plan to carry this charade.

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Posted by flowingwater
@dwelling, its true.

I started chasing my scorp, opening my heart to him, even pouring my emotions and he stung me for it. He said the more I chased him the more he would push me away. So I backed off and became cold and emotionless towards him.

sorry, but this is fucked up.

The whole idea of relationships is being the OPPOSITE of cold and emotionless with someone. Even if they do stick around due to someone's frosty behavior, it shows that they don't even want love or affection.

So then, what is it they want?

Scorpio is co-ruled by mars. They like to chase. If you chase them, you will scare them off. They have to like you to chase you, its not frosty behavior as they feel quite deeply about those they have feelings for. Just because you like someone doesn't always mean they like you back no matter how much they lead you on and some people will lead you on for the attention once they know you like them, this is regardless of sun sign, its best to be cool.

bs excuse. If you actually like the person, and not just the conquest, you'd WANT them to clearly like you back.

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Nope, You cant FORCE someone to like you by chasing them and especially not a male, setting yourself to be used and humiliated.